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2024.05.01 10:25 dumbestnetizen [11/PCB] anyone wanna be study buddies? šŸ“

hiii so i was searching for a study buddy, actually our school's gonna only reopen at june 1st, but im uh tired of rotting in my bed yay so im gonna cover basic concepts of 11th grade since in transitioned from state board to cbse this year :>
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2024.05.01 09:53 def-not-alt-acc One Sided

I am coming up on three weeks post-op for one-sided gyno. (It was grade 1 on my right side). Recovery is going great and Iā€™m very happy with results. As Iā€™ve been inspecting more and comparing my two sides that look more similar, I noticed discharge coming from my left (not operated, flat, no bump) nipple! I had the same type of discharge from my right nipple, but it also had an about 4 cm diameter clear gyno bump under it. My left one is flat and doesnā€™t feel unusually sensitive like the right one did (before surgery). Iā€™m 18, so maybe this is just pubertal? But given I donā€™t feel any gyno behind my left side, but my right had the same discharge but with a sizable lump, Iā€™m confused and concerned. Of course, google points straight to cancer, but Iā€™ve taken blood tests before and my prolactin and testosterone levels are all normal. I was always so focused on the big gyno on my right side, that I never even paid attention to my normal looking and feeling left side. But now that it has discharge Iā€™m questioning everything. And ideas/insight?
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2024.05.01 09:52 Chas-- The History Textbook of the Commonwealth Where I Was Born

The History Textbook of the Commonwealth Where I Was Born

Virginia: Land of my Birth and Identity, in the Early 1950s.

As we proceed merrily through a process of book burnings of modern textbooks [critical race theory!] ... and then bringing back the replacement histories presented in textbooks of the past ... it might be interesting to visit what was: from the Washington Post (unlocked article):
The lies our textbooks told my generation of Virginians about slavery - State leaders went to great lengths to instill their gauzy version of the Lost Cause in young minds
This was the Virginia state history textbook for decades:
Virginia: History, Government, Geography (1957), the state-sanctioned seventh-grade history textbook that was written with the express intention of presenting a Lost Cause view of slavery as a benign institution. https://encyclopediavirginia.org/how-the-negroes-lived-under-slavery/
I was curious enough to find this textbook in the Link+ library system and check it out with an inter-library loan. It's an amazing collection of outright white supremacy myths, and enormous blocks of missing history, such as:
  • what happened in the deep South after the cotton gin made productivity soar
  • selling family slaves South to be worked to death
  • the Klan surge after Emancipation and Reconstruction and their suppression by Federal troops
  • the Jim Crow deconstruction
  • the second Klan surge in the early 20th century as African Americans slowly emerged from Jim Crow
  • etc., ad nauseum
Here's a few pages of an interesting chapter of the history of the "Old Dominion":
A pleasanter voyage than their arrival ...
Free training, overseers to take care of them and free housing ...
Free health care and mingling with the master's children ...
Happy religious and social life ...
So well treated, like carefree children ...
This 1807 picture from the Library of Congress casts some doubt upon that narrative ...
Let's have a look at the specifics of the history of legislation regarding racial identity in my birth state, the Commonwealth of Virginia. First, some precise definitions beyond the mixed-race term "mulatto":
In the colonial societies of the Americas and Australia, a quadroon or quarteron was a person with one quarter African/Aboriginal and three quarters European ancestry. Similar classifications were octoroon for one-eighth black and quintroon for one-sixteenth black.

1822 Virginia "Mulatto" Law

... an 1822 Virginia law stated that to be defined as mulatto (meaning at that time, multi-racial or colored), a person had to have at least one-quarter (equivalent to one grandparent) African ancestry."
Subsequently, that same year and 4 years before Thomas Jefferson died, his two adult children by his quadroon slave Sally Hemings: his octoroon daughter Harriet Jefferson and son Beverly Frederick Jefferson, were allowed to leave without being legally freed, as reported by his younger son:
Madison Hemings later reported that both passed into white society and that neither their connection to Monticello nor their ā€œAfrican bloodā€ was ever discovered.
I suspect that there is no coincidence between Thomas Jefferson's notoriety, the Virginia law being passed and the immediacy of the departure of Jefferson's not-yet-legally-defined mulatto children. The mixed race "problem" was beginning to make itself known by their abundance and prominence, and also in general there is a principle being evolved: White Supremacy Requires White Authentication.
However, with only a few generations since slavery had begun in the colonies, the offspring of miscegenation was effectively a third generation mulatto problem. Hence, overreach was to be deferred until later.

1910 Virginia "Quintroon" Law

Virginia's one-fourth standard remained in place until 1910, when the standard was changed to one sixteenth.
This law would legally define as mulattoes, Jefferson and Sally Hemings four octoroon children: Harriet, Beverly, Madison and Eston's and their quintroon children who became adults near the end of the 19th century (1900,) but not their grandchildren ... yet.
Pursuant to Reconstruction later in the 19th century, southern states acted to impose racial segregation by law and restrict the liberties of blacks, specifically passing laws to exclude them from politics and voting. From 1890 to 1908, all of the former Confederate states passed such laws, and most preserved disfranchisement until after passage of federal civil rights laws in the 1960s. At the South Carolina constitutional convention in 1895, an anti-miscegenation law and changes that would disfranchise blacks were proposed.
Apparently, the 13th, 14th and 15th Amendments to the constitution were not enough!?
Actual laws had to be passed to give citizens on the United States the right to vote. Strangely, the ratification of the 19th Amendment by the states allowing women's suffrage required no other laws to be passed to be effective for white women, but that was not sufficient for the enfranchisement of women of African descent in the former-Confederacy slave states. White Supremacy at the Supreme Court is such a fine tradition.
First, racial identity laws became widespread:
This fractional, blood-borne approach would remain in some states until the twentieth century. At different times,
Alabama and Arkansas defined anyone with one drop of "Negro" blood as Black; Florida had a one-eighth rule; Georgia referred to ascertainable non-White blood; Indiana used a one-eighth rule; Kentucky relied on a combination of any appreciable admixture of Black ancestry and a one-sixteenth rule; Louisiana did not statutorily define Blackness [but] did adopt via its Supreme Court an "appreciable mixture of negro blood" standard; Maryland used a "person of negro descent to the third generation" test[;] Mississippi combined an appreciable amount of Negro blood and a one-eighth rule; Missouri used a one-eighth test, as did Nebraska, North Carolina, and North Dakota; Oklahoma referred to "all persons of African descent" adding that the "term 'white race' shall include all other persons"; Oregon promulgated a one-fourth rule; South Carolina had a one-eighth standard; Tennessee defined Blacks in terms of "mulattoes, mestizos, and their descendants, having any blood of the African race in their veins"; Texas used an "all persons of mixed blood descended from negro ancestry" standard; Utah law referred to mulattoes, quadroons, or octoroons; and Virginia defined Blacks as those in whom there was "ascertainable any Negro blood" with not more than one-sixteenth Native American ancestry.
Ian F. Haney Lopez, "White by Law: The Legal Construction of Race (1996)"
Note the subtle difference in the de-facto racial identity laws in Kentucky ("a combination of any appreciable admixture of Black ancestry and a one-sixteenth rule") and Louisiana (an "appreciable mixture of negro blood" standard): these small crevices in the identity laws in the non-de-jure states would become a magnet to the border regions of those states. The border regions are easier to flee, when laws are suddenly changed (see Melungeon... below)
Then, at the turn of the 20th century, there had to be a bulwark erected against human desire polluting the "purity of the blood" of the white stock. It might be too little, too late to forestall the extant multiple generations of mulattoes. However, it meant that colored children would pay the price and there would be legal regrets for any mixing of the races ... thus punishing the white parents for and by their relations: their children would lose basic American rights in certain states (a new form of slavery.)
Pursuant to Reconstruction later in the 19th century, southern states acted to impose racial segregation by law and restrict the liberties of blacks, specifically passing laws to exclude them from politics and voting. From 1890 to 1908, all of the former Confederate states passed such laws, and most preserved disfranchisement until after passage of federal civil rights laws in the 1960s. At the South Carolina constitutional convention in 1895, an anti-miscegenation law and changes that would disfranchise blacks were proposed. Delegates debated a proposal for a one-drop rule to include in these laws [which was not passed at that time.]

Virginia Racial Integrity Act of 1924

Where literate whites have a need for rationalization to further their exercise and retention of slave power, pseudoscience will always give them the intellectual crutch supporting their racist views and raising to a fever pitch, the necessity of action based on "reason".
The eugenicist Madison Grant of New York wrote in his book, The Passing of the Great Race (1916): "The cross between a white man and an Indian is an Indian; the cross between a white man and a Negro is a Negro; the cross between a white man and a Hindu is a Hindu; and the cross between any of the three European races and a Jew is a Jew." As noted above, Native American tribes which had patrilineal descent and inheritance, such as the Omaha, classified children of white men and Native American women as white.
[In an interesting aside, this Northern European purity view is inverted in Brazil, there any white background makes you white and only pure African background makes you black. So, this supremacist purity view is not universal in racial identity: citizens of Spain, Sicily and Malta possessing some Moorish descent are white.]
It is no accident that the Ku Klux Klan, federally banned during Reconstruction and put down in its immediate aftermath by the deployments of federal troops in the former slave states, would as Reconstruction waned, began to rise up again at the turn of the 20th century under dozens of different names and banners, as mixed-race progeny became more abundant and visible in the former slave states. As the Klan surged in the 1920s, action was demanded of the Virginia legislature: "there ought to be a law!"
In 1924, the Virginia General Assembly enacted the Racial Integrity Act. The act reinforced racial segregation by prohibiting interracial marriage and classifying as "white" a person "who has no trace whatsoever of any blood other than Caucasian". The act, an outgrowth of eugenicist and scientific racist propaganda, was pushed by Walter Plecker, a white supremacist and eugenicist who held the post of registrar of the Virginia Bureau of Vital Statistics.
The Racial Integrity Act required that all birth certificates and marriage certificates in Virginia to include the person's race as either "white" or "colored". The Act classified all non-whites, including Native Americans, as "colored". The act was part of a series of "racial integrity laws" enacted in Virginia to reinforce racial hierarchies and prohibit the mixing of races; other statutes included the Public Assemblages Act of 1926 (which required the racial segregation of all public meeting areas)
But that discrimination was not scary enough, you really wanted to make the mulattoes tremble in fear.

Virginia Sterilization Act of 1924

Persons of color had to be targeted:
In an 1893 "open letter" published in the Virginia Medical Monthly, Hunter Holmes McGuire, a Richmond physician and president of the American Medical Association, asked for "some scientific explanation of the sexual perversion in the Negro of the present day." McGuire's correspondent, Chicago physician G. Frank Lydston, replied that African-American men raped white women because of "[h]ereditary influences descending from the uncivilized ancestors of our Negroes." Lydston suggested as a solution to perform surgical castration, which "prevents the criminal from perpetuating his kind".
In 1924 the political will for that kind of legislation was finally prevalent in legislatures of the former slave states. However, to get around the 14th Amendment, it had to be written carefully to avoid identifying a special class racially in the text, and yet to still have the effect of being targeted racially in its application:
The Virginia Sterilization Act of 1924 was a U.S. state law in Virginia for the sterilization of institutionalized persons "afflicted with hereditary forms of insanity that are recurrent, idiocy, imbecility, feeble-mindedness or epilepsyā€.
And to get this past any court challenge required a white test case, and that person was Carrie Buck:
Carrie became pregnant when she was 17, as a result of being raped by the nephew of her foster parents. To hide the act, on January 23, 1924, Carrie's foster parents committed the girl to the Virginia State Colony for Epileptics and Feebleminded on the grounds of feeblemindedness, incorrigible behavior, and promiscuity. They did not tell the court the true cause of her pregnancy. On March 28, 1924, Buck gave birth to a daughter, whom she named Vivian. Since Carrie had been declared mentally incompetent to raise her child, her former foster parents adopted the baby.
On September 10, 1924, Albert Sidney Priddy, superintendent of the Virginia State Colony for Epileptics and Feebleminded and a eugenicist, filed a petition with his board of directors to sterilize Carrie Buck, an 18-year-old patient. He claimed she had a mental age of 9. Priddy said that Buck represented a genetic threat to society. While the litigation was making its way through the court system, Priddy died and his successor, James Hendren Bell, came on the case. When the directors issued an order for the sterilization of Buck, her guardian appealed the case to the Circuit Court of Amherst County. It sustained the decision of the board. The case then moved to the Supreme Court of Appeals of Virginia, where it was upheld. It was appealed to the U.S. Supreme Court in Buck v. Bell, which upheld the order.
Justice Oliver Wendell Holmes Jr. wrote the ruling. ...
Holmes concluded his argument with the phrase: "Three generations of imbeciles are enough".
I previously wrote about her abuse and tragedy at the hands of all levels of racist and misogynist government, here.
This 1927 decision provided the hammer, and the Virginia legislature brought that hammer down hard:
Jim Crow laws reached their greatest influence during the decades from 1910 to 1930. Among them were hypodescent laws, defining as black anyone with any black ancestry, or with a very small portion of black ancestry. Tennessee adopted such a "one-drop" statute in 1910, and Louisiana soon followed. Then Texas and Arkansas in 1911, Mississippi in 1917, North Carolina in 1923, Alabama and Georgia in 1927, and Virginia in 1930.

1930 Virginia One-Drop Rule

In 1930 [Virginia], even the one sixteenth standard was abandoned in favor of a more stringent standard. The act defined a person as legally "colored" (black) for classification and legal purposes if the individual had any African ancestry.
Now all those racist codes could be applied to the children who had passed for white and must now separate themselves permanently and hide far from home and their families under assumed identities to survive.
The one-drop rule was not made law until the early 20th century. This was decades after the Civil War, emancipation, and the Reconstruction era. It followed restoration of white supremacy in the South and the passage of Jim Crow racial segregation laws. In the 20th century, it was also associated with the rise of eugenics and ideas of racial purity. From the late 1870s on, white Democrats regained political power in the former Confederate states and passed racial segregation laws controlling public facilities, and laws and constitutions from 1890 to 1910 to achieve disfranchisement of most blacks. Many poor whites were also disfranchised in these years, by changes to voter registration rules that worked against them, such as literacy tests, longer residency requirements and poll taxes.

Melungeon Migrations And Plecker Versus A Liberal Court

The racially oppressive efforts of these local governments caused migrations away from the former slave locales and states. Although the racially more purely African descendants of former slaves could move North into the ghettos of the cities to provide cheap labor without raising the alarms of miscegenation, the mixed-race families who were evidence of miscegenation had to migrate to border regions of states having marginally less defining racial identity laws and thus were more remote, less populated and typically more seriously impoverished.
The Melungeons are a group of multiracial families of mostly European and African ancestry whose ancestors were free in colonial Virginia. They migrated to the frontier in Kentucky and Tennessee. Their descendants have been documented over the decades as having tended to marry persons classified as "white". Their descendants became assimilated into the majority culture from the 19th to the 20th centuries.
It is the actions of local officials in the former Confederate states, which by their furthest overreach, make it clear that the frenzied white supremacist hunts pursuing mixed race citizens back then (similar to the frenzied misogynists hunting women seeking medical care now) as a movement cannot be tolerated by the federal courts when the Constitution is actually read and honestly interpreted (that excludes the Roberts Court).
Through the 1940s, Walter Plecker of Virginia and Naomi Drake of Louisiana had an outsized influence. As the Registrar of Statistics, Plecker insisted on labeling mixed-race families of European-African ancestry as black. In 1924, Plecker wrote, "Two races as materially divergent as the White and Negro, in morals, mental powers, and cultural fitness, cannot live in close contact without injury to the higher." In the 1930s and 1940s, Plecker directed offices under his authority to change vital records and reclassify certain families as black (or colored) (without notifying them) after Virginia established a binary system under its Racial Integrity Act of 1924. He also classified people as black who had formerly self-identified as Indian. When the United States Supreme Court struck down Virginia's law prohibiting inter-racial marriage in Loving v. Virginia (1967), it also declared Plecker's Virginia Racial Integrity Act and the one-drop rule unconstitutional.
Certainly, the Earl Warren Court of 1967 was a very excellent Supreme Court in the English Liberal#History) tradition:
They [English Liberals] favoured social reform, personal liberty, reducing the powers of the Crown and the Church of England (many Liberals were Nonconformists)), avoidance of war and foreign alliances (which were bad for business) and above all free trade. For a century, free trade remained the one cause which could unite all Liberals.
Kind of like the Libertarians and Republicans of the 1980s.
However, in those days the Protestants and Republicans (who approved of abortion rights and freedom for women) had not yet been radicalized (by Jerry Falwell's Moral Majority and further by Robert Jeffress' First Baptist Dallas megachurch) and so the conservative Burger Court (Burger was appointed Chief Justice by Nixon) passed Roe v. Wade in 1973 by a 7-2 vote, including Chief Justice Warren Burger in affirmation.

We Moved to the West Coast In the Middle 1950s When I Was Little ...

... to the People's Republic of California, where liberalism gradually became the rule and not the exception. So I was not touched much by all this, although I remember being surprised that I could not drink at the water fountain reserved for colored people back in Virginia and Maryland, which discrimination is the earliest white person memory of my life. I could not understand the logic of it, and why a thirsty little kid couldn't just have some water without people getting upset.
I grew up, studied a lot of STEM, joined the NSA/SGI in 1970 at 19 as a hippie-flake student division member, ended up as an engineer, did lots of things in many places around the world that only the Gohonzon and Buddhism made possible, had a life, and grew old. I became interested in the mystery of where my father's father came from and finally decided to find out, joining 23andme.com and Ancestry.com/DNA as a Christmas present to myself late last year to compare the two.
Surprise, surprise! As you can see below, on my mother's side, I have a fifth great grandmother born in the 1700s (18th century) who was a 100% pure blooded Bantu African woman. (23andme.com screwed up the analysis due to a zygotic chromosome crossover event they didn't handle properly, Ancestry.com/DNA untangled that correctly.)
From 23andMe
From AncestryDNA
Since the only interracial sex in those days was "slave sex" (ignoring the Mandingo crap fiction) sex was only between European men and African women. That went on until my second great grandmother Mary, who apparently could pass for white as an octoroon (1/8th African) as she was (legally or illegally) married in the later 1830s to a Welsh farmer in Missouri (a de facto "one-drop" law state) well before emancipation in 1865. Mary was listed as being born in Kentucky ... where the Melungeons ended up, but no other details. My mulatto mother (1/64th African, described here for her musicality) was a spectacularly beautiful and brilliant woman, and very talented, and my father worshiped the ground she walked on his whole life. So that chain of women leading through her father's quintroon mother Sarah (my first great-grandmother,) must have really been something to behold.
Getting back to the purpose of my story, I was born a mulatto in Virginia more than a decade before the One-Drop Rule laws were declared unconstitutional and thus the declaration of myself as "white" on my birth certificate was legally fraudulent. It should have said "colored" or "mulatto", according to the laws of the Commonwealth of Virginia in the early fifties. That means that unlike Obama's birth certificate, mine is an fraudulent document, or at least open to legal challenge by the white supremacy autocratic government that might be elected in November. Of course my opinions, big mouth and religious views put me in far greater jeopardy than a potentially fraudulent birth certificate.
Fortunately, my trust in the Gohonzon is absolute. I would be dead thousands of times over, were it not for the Gohonzon. I trust nothing, more than I trust "the Gohonzon, the supreme object of devotion in all of Jambudvīpa."
If we have to have a white supremacist autocracy and end democracy in the United States as the only path to Kosen Rufu, I welcome that challenge. Given a choice, however, I would retain democracy as an expedient means to Kosen Rufu, following Martin Luther King's rule "The arc of the moral universe is long, but it bends towards justice." As Francis Bacon said in 1617: "Swift justice is the sweetest."
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2024.05.01 09:49 BulbyBoiDraws [Grade 9: Research and Statistics] Testing for Likert Scale

Hey there! So in the coming month or so we'll be having a mini-defense for our research project. As per our statistical tool, we'll be using a Likert Scale to compare the responses for our product and a commercial product. (We'll be using a scale of 1 to 5). We figured that we could use a t-test to compare the results but some sources says that it isn't valid due to it being nominal. So what type of statistical treatment should we use?
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2024.05.01 09:35 Express_Key1389 Right now I am extremely stressed about my grades and was wondering if they would decrease my chances of getting into college.

I have a UW gpa of 3.9 and W gpa of 4.5. However, Iā€™ve been struggling in my Precalc w/ Limits class on tests and have a 80% in the class, but it might drop to a 78-79%. The other B I have is in AP Bio.
Since I live in California, Iā€™m applying to the UCā€™s. My target schools include George Washington University and Fordham, but Iā€™m still building. My dream and definitely reach school is NYU, but getting these grades have really took a toll on my confidence to apply if Iā€™m just going to be disappointed.
I have taken 4 APs so far and plan to take 4-5 more in senior year.
SAT: Iā€™ve scored only a 1350, but plan on taking the digital SAT in June or August.
Intended major: International Affairs, Accounting/Finance, Poli Sci
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2024.05.01 09:30 DesiSocialIndyeah BCCI is unprofessional and has zero transparency

There is no objectivity in what BCCI does
Harshit Rana is charged 100% of match fee and one match ban for celebration
Dhoni had stormed the ground and had a fight with umpires. Pant called players back. MI was blatantly cheating. All much much bigger in quantum and seriousness. No one got as much a rap on the wrists.
Just because Baby Shah had publicly announced India would play T20I WC under Rohit, he has to be picked as captain, performances be damned.
Definitely Hardik has some videos or photos of Baby Shah that why he is kept in A1 grade despite not playing tests - while BCCI rules say only those playing in all three formats are eligible. Just because Ambani has kept him as the captain of MI, he is not only picked up in the team but also made a VC despite having an extremely poor leadership record. Bumrah is much more loved and respected.
Surya kumar has done nothing to be selected.
Sanju wonā€™t be played at his position and gain primed for failure.
Not picking players who are at peak performance level.
Ranji is not a selection criteria.
Syed Mushtaq Ali is not a selection criteria.
IPL is not a selection criteria.
What is selection criteria then?
Exasperating for a fan! šŸ˜ŖšŸ˜Ŗ
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2024.05.01 09:27 ResponsibilityOk4363 No feedback on assignments

Is there any policy that requires profs to provide grades/feedback on assignments or tests before the final grades are released?
In one of the courses I took this semester, I didnā€™t receive any feedback or marks whatsoever until the final grade appeared on my transcript. Itā€™s a shockingly low grade, so apparently I didnā€™t learn much. Of course, we also didnā€™t get any rubricsā€¦ so that could have something to do with it. Even now, I still donā€™t know what marks I got on each assignment and exam, so any help would be appreciated!
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2024.05.01 09:15 GuiltlessMaple Best 9mm Magazine Loader

Best 9mm Magazine Loader

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If you're a gun enthusiast or just someone who appreciates the art of crafting ammunition, you'll want to read on. In this article, we've put together a roundup of the best 9mm magazine loaders on the market. From manual loaders to automatic ones, we're highlighting the features that make these loaders stand out from the crowd.
As a gun owner, it is crucial to have the right tools for your firearms. One of these essential tools is a reliable 9mm magazine loader. Not only can it save you time and effort, but it can also help you maintain your ammunition's quality and ensure that your firearms perform optimally. So, buckle up and let's dive into the world of 9mm magazine loaders.

The Top 6 Best 9mm Magazine Loader

  1. ADCO Super Thumb Speedloader for Double Stack Magazines - Streamline magazine loading with the Adco Super Thumb ST1 Speedloader, designed for easy use with a variety of 9mm and .40 caliber handgun magazines.
  2. Universal Fast Loader for 10/22 Rifle with Power & Pellet Compatibility - Experience seamless and efficient reloading with Traditions Universal Fast Loader, accommodating up to 3 loaders per container, perfect for all calibers, and holding both pre-measured powder and extra bullets for smoother ballistics.
  3. Efficient 9mm Magazine Loader for Double Stack Magazines - Effortlessly speed up your reloading process with the ADCO Super Thumb Loader, designed specifically for 9mm-40S&W Double Stack Magazines, ensuring you never run out of ammunition during your outdoor adventures.
  4. High-Speed 9mm Magazine Loader for Efficient Reloading - Boost your shooting speed with the HKS Magazine Loader 380, the ultimate 9mm magazine loader for effortless, double-sided, and rapid reloading in just 18 seconds.
  5. Universal Pistol Magazine Loader for 9mm and .45ACP Calibers - UpLULA: Exceptionally efficient, durable 9mm magazine loader for any single or double-stack magazine, revolutionizing your ammo-loading experience.
  6. Efficient 9mm Magazine Loader for Multiple Revolver Models - HKS 10-A Revolver Speedloader for S, Taurus & Co. - Instant, Secure Magazine Loading with Fits Wide Selection of Calibers; Made in USA.
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Reviews

šŸ”—ADCO Super Thumb Speedloader for Double Stack Magazines


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Meet the Adco Super Thumb ST1 Double Stack Speedloader in black, an ingenious little gadget that has become a must-have in my routine when loading magazines. With a sleek black polymer construction, it's both practical and stylish. The internal dimensions are thoughtfully designed to fit a variety of magazines for different handguns.
One of the primary highlights is its ability to fit many different double stack. 40 and 9mm magazines, making it incredibly versatile. It's truly a game-changer when it comes to magazine loading, making the process quick and ease.
Using this speedloader has been a breeze for me. Whenever I'm preparing for range days or loading my favorite firearms, this gadget is right there to make my life easier. It's all about saving those precious thumb strength for the actual shooting, not for painstakingly loading magazines.
However, one downside was that it could be a bit of a hassle to keep track of just one more item to ensure you don't misplace it. Another minor issue was the initial learning curve, but once I got the hang of it, it became a piece of cake.
Despite these minor drawbacks, the benefits of using the Adco Super Thumb ST1 Double Stack Speedloader are evident. It's been a valuable addition to my firearm accessories and has made my life a whole lot more convenient.

šŸ”—Universal Fast Loader for 10/22 Rifle with Power & Pellet Compatibility


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I had the chance to give the Traditions Universal Fast Loader a try, and I must say, it was a game-changer for my muzzleloader. With the ability to hold pre-measured powder and projectiles, these nifty little tubes made my shooting experience much more efficient.
One of the standout features of the Traditions Universal Fast Loader was its versatility. It could be used with all calibers, making it a must-have accessory for any muzzleloader enthusiast. The loader is designed with a divider that separates the powder from the projectile, keeping everything in place and organized.
However, there were a couple of drawbacks I encountered. The end caps were a bit loose, which led to some powder spillage. It was an easy fix, though, by wrapping some tape around the open mouth side to secure it better. Additionally, the pockets designed to hold the primer didn't work as well as I had hoped.
Despite these minor issues, the Traditions Universal Fast Loader proved to be an excellent addition to my muzzleloader kit. It saved me time and made my shooting sessions more enjoyable, and that's what really counts in the end. If you're in the market for a speed loader, give this one a try - you won't be disappointed.

šŸ”—Efficient 9mm Magazine Loader for Double Stack Magazines


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I recently took my rifle to the range for a casual day of practice. I realized I needed a handier way to reload my magazines, and that's when the ADCO Super Thumb Loader came to my aid. It was a game-changer during my shooting session, making reloading quicker and easier than ever before. The loader is designed for 9mm-40S&W double stack magazines, which was a perfect fit for my firearm.
The loader's build quality is sturdy, ensuring it'll withstand the rigors of constant use. One thing I noticed was that it might take some time to get used to the loader's design, as it requires a bit of technique. But once you figure it out, the loader becomes an invaluable tool for efficiently reloading your magazines.
However, if you're planning on using it heavily, you may want to consider purchasing a spare or extra pair. While the loader's mechanism is durable, the constant use might wear it down faster than anticipated.
Overall, the ADCO Super Thumb Loader is an excellent addition to any shooter's toolkit, as it streamlines the reloading process and makes it more enjoyable. It's well worth considering for anyone looking to make their day at the range more convenient and efficient.

šŸ”—High-Speed 9mm Magazine Loader for Efficient Reloading


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I recently tried the HKS Magazine Loader 380, a handheld thumb-operated speed loader that claims to make pistol loading fast and easy. As someone who isn't a fan of sore fingers or fatigue, I was intrigued to give it a go.
Immediately, I noticed the sleek design and how user-friendly it was. The magazine alignment was a breeze, and I didn't have to spend much time figuring it out. The speed at which it loaded magazines was impressive, with 15 rounds in just 18 seconds. I appreciated that it worked for both single and double stacks, and I didn't experience any finger strain while using it.
However, there were a few negatives that I discovered during my testing. The first issue was that it wasn't compatible with all firearm models, which made me question its true versatility. Additionally, shipping costs seemed to be quite high, which was a bit of a letdown.
Overall, my experience with the HKS Magazine Loader 380 was mostly positive. It made loading my magazines simple and painless, and I enjoyed not having sore fingers afterward. But there were a couple of drawbacks, like its compatibility with specific models and high shipping costs.

šŸ”—Universal Pistol Magazine Loader for 9mm and .45ACP Calibers

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Recently, I had the chance to use the Maglula 9-45 Uplula Univ US Flag - a military-grade, pocket-sized universal pistol magazine loader and unloader. This handy tool is designed to load and unload almost all 9mm Luger up to. 45ACP single and double stack magazines of various manufacturers with ease. I found the UpLULA loader to be incredibly efficient and reliable, as it took significantly less time than traditional thumb loading methods.
One of the standout features of this product is its durable polymer construction, which ensures sturdy but pliable performance. It was a breeze to load and unload magazines of different calibers, including ones with stiff springs that would usually be quite challenging. The loader also worked with single and double stack magazines, making it a versatile tool for shooters.
However, there were a couple of minor drawbacks that I noticed during my experience. Firstly, the device has a slight learning curve for new users, especially for those who are not familiar with pistol magazine loaders. And secondly, despite being incredibly well-designed, it's slightly bulkier than some other options available on the market.
Overall, I would highly recommend the Maglula 9-45 Uplula Univ US Flag to anyone looking for a reliable, efficient, and user-friendly magazine loader. Its versatility, durability, and ease of use make it an invaluable addition to any shooter's toolkit.

šŸ”—Efficient 9mm Magazine Loader for Multiple Revolver Models


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I recently had the chance to try out the HKS 10-A Revolver Speedloader and I must say, it exceeded my expectations. This handy little device is perfect for those who want to efficiently load their revolver with cartridges in no time. The design is simple yet effective: you just need to hold the cartridges in place with strong metal points and then release them into the revolver by turning the speedloader knob.
One thing that stood out to me is the versatility of this device. It fits various caliber. 38/357 revolvers, including S&W 10, 12, 13, 14, 15, 19, 64, 65, 66, 67; Dan Wesson/Charter Arms/Taurus 606, 65, 66, 80, 82; Rossi 971, 951, 851. And not only that, it's made right here in the USA.
However, it wasn't all smooth sailing. One minor issue I encountered was the difficulty in securing a full load into the device. To do so, I had to push in on the ammo and then turn the lock. But overall, the experience was positive, and the speedloader served its intended purpose.
In conclusion, the HKS 10-A Revolver Speedloader is a reliable and efficient tool for anyone looking to speed up their revolver's reloading process. It's user-friendly, versatile, and made in the USA. Just be prepared for a little effort when securing a full load.

Buyer's Guide

Whether you're looking to load ammunition quickly and efficiently for personal or professional use, a 9mm Magazine Loader can be an invaluable tool. This buyer's guide will help you understand the essential features, considerations, and general advice for selecting the right 9mm Magazine Loader for your needs.

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Features to Consider

  1. Speed: Determine the rate at which you need to load your magazines. Some loaders have a faster pace, but they may be more expensive. Be sure to find a balance between price and loading speed.
  2. Magazine Compatibility: Check if the loader supports single-stack or double-stack magazines. Some loaders can handle both types.
  3. Durability: Loaders made of heavy-duty materials will likely last longer, withstand more abuse, and perform reliably.
  4. Size and Weight: Consider the space available for storage and loading, as well as portability needs.
  5. Ease of Use: Look for loaders that are user-friendly and require minimal maintenance.

Considerations

  1. Budget: Set a realistic budget for your purchase, keeping in mind other expenses related to ammunition and maintenance.
  2. Frequency of Use: Determine how often you'll be using the magazine loader, as this may impact the speed and durability required.
  3. Space Constraints: Assess the space available for storage and loading of a magazine loader.
  4. Portability: If you need to transport the magnetic loader, consider its weight and size.

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General Advice

  1. Read and Follow Instructions: Always refer to the manufacturer's instructions for proper usage and maintenance.
  2. Invest in Quality: Avoid low-rated or cheaply made loaders, as they may not function properly or last long.
  3. Customer Reviews: Pay attention to user reviews and testimonials to gauge the performance, reliability, and customer satisfaction of the magazine loader you are considering.
  4. Compare Models: Research and compare various 9mm Magazine Loaders before making a decision to ensure you get the best product for your needs and budget.

Frequently Asked Questions

  1. How do I know if a 9mm Magazine Loader is good quality?
Check the manufacturer's reputation, read customer reviews, and look for a warranty or guarantee. A well-built, durable loader should also come with clear, easy-to-follow instructions for use and maintenance.
  1. Can I load magazine rounds automatically?
Yes, automatic loaders can be found in the marketplace. These loaders can be faster and more efficient than manual models, but may require higher investment and maintenance costs.
  1. How do I find the perfect size for my magazine loader?
Measure the dimensions of your target magazines and cross-reference them with the product specifications. Ensure the loader matches the magazine size for an optimal fit.

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FAQ

What is a 9mm Magazine Loader?

A 9mm Magazine Loader is a tool designed to help reload 9mm ammunition magazines quickly and efficiently. It is typically used by gun enthusiasts, law enforcement officers, or anyone who regularly needs to reload magazines for their 9mm firearm.

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Why would I need a 9mm Magazine Loader?

Using a 9mm Magazine Loader can save time and effort compared to manually reloading magazines. It allows you to load multiple rounds at once, which can be especially useful during high-volume shooting or training sessions. Additionally, it can help prevent common issues like misfeeds and jams by ensuring that your magazines are consistently and correctly loaded.

What are the benefits of using a 9mm Magazine Loader?

  • Saves time and effort compared to manual reloading
  • Ensures consistent and correct loading of magazines
  • Can help prevent misfeeds and jams
  • Ideal for high-volume shooting or training sessions

What are some factors to consider when choosing a 9mm Magazine Loader?

Some factors to consider when choosing a 9mm Magazine Loader include:
  • Compatibility with your firearm's magazine
  • Durability and build quality
  • Ease of use and reliability
  • Price and value for money

Are there any safety concerns when using a 9mm Magazine Loader?

As with any tool or device, there are always safety concerns when using a 9mm Magazine Loader. It is essential to follow the manufacturer's instructions and guidelines, perform regular maintenance, and always inspect your magazines for any signs of wear or damage before loading them. Additionally, never attempt to load a magazine beyond its recommended capacity.

How do I maintain and clean my 9mm Magazine Loader?

Regular cleaning and maintenance of your 9mm Magazine Loader can help ensure its proper functionality and extend its lifespan. You should clean it after each use, paying extra attention to any areas that may have gathered dirt, debris, or residue. Additionally, refer to the manufacturer's instructions for any specific cleaning or maintenance recommendations. For more detailed information, you can consult the product's user manual or reach out to the manufacturer's customer support.
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2024.05.01 09:11 BeachSweet8362 The ex boyfriend from my literal nightmares

I (17 f) met my ex-boyfriend in fifth grade. We went to the same church and started to become friends. The summer before sixth grade is when everything started. We went to hike for our youth group and he was walking with me the whole way up, and this wasn't a small hike it was a lonngggg and hard hike. So, that was a long time. Finally when we reached the top of the mountain there was a lake. I didn't bring a swimsuit so I wasn't going to swim. But my ex was trying to get me to swim so finally I got in and swam with him. On the way back he switched with my best friend to ride in the car with me back to the church. On the way back to the church he stole my phone and put his number in my phone and texted himself. After that he started to text me a lot more.
A week after this he sent me a text that said "I really like her though dude. I just don't know how to tell her." I naturally asked him about who he liked. He said that he didn't mean to send that to me, but he told me that he had a crush on me. But then a couple days later he stopped texting me back and he told my best friend (the one he switched cars with) that he had a crush on her. He went back and forth between us for a while doing the same thing (pretending to text his friends that he has a crush on someone). The last time he told me he liked me he told me that he decided he would like me because my best friend would never like him...so he was settling for me. I naturally stopped talking to him romantically (i guess you could say) after that. But I never really stopped liking him.
Then a little after he told me he was settling for me he got a girl friend (at this point we were in 8th grade). Not going to lie I was a little jealous because I did like him. But a couple days later she broke up with him. A couple days after this he started texting me again. We talked from 8th grade to spring break of freshman year. In the beginning it was because we both weren't ready and we couldn't drive so we didn't see the point of dating when you can't go on dates. However, we were seeing each other every weekend freshman year. AND he kissed me before spring break. I thought this meant we should put a label on it because it was both of our first kisses and it meant a big deal to me. And we were basically dating anyways. He didn't feel the same way. We hung out the next weekend after we had our first kiss and he started making out with me the second we were alone. I told him I wasn't comfortable with it and it was moving way too fast for me. He replied with practice will make you comfortable with it so you should just do it so it becomes comfortable...WHAT. I thought oh yeah that makes sense (in my defense I was 15). then it was spring break so we hung out the next day and he asked me to be his girlfriend, I said yes.
In the beginning our relationship was mostly okay. But as the relationship he continued to push my boundaries more and more. I was extremely innocent I thought there was only kissing and the nasty, I had no idea there was grey area in between. He knew this and definitely used this to his advantage during our relationship. Whenever he would try anything new I told him I was not comfortable with this, he never listened to me. Whenever I would have a serious conversation with him about how I felt used in our relationship and felt like he didn't love me for me he would say he would fix it. News flash he wouldn't and would ignore me for weeks. He started to ignore me for longer periods of time. He would only stop ignoring me if I did what he wanted. And when I refused to do something he would say things like "but you did it before I don't see why you can't do it again" or "the Bible doesn't specifically say that it is bad" or "that it we were going to get married anyways" and other things along that line.
I started to stand up for myself more and refuse him more, however this resulted in him ignoring me A LOT more. He would text me only to ask weird questions like "what would it take for you to break up with me?" What kind of boyfriend asks that. Then the month leading up to our one year anniversary he ignored me...for a month straight. We then went out on a date for our one year anniversary. After we went to dinner we decided to go for a movie, but when we got to the movie he said that we should stay in the car and do something else. I told him no and said that if he continues to push my boundaries I will break up with him. We went to the movie and instead of going back to his house like we planned and took me home. It was weird he said he had to do homework...I did all his homework (if your going to lie at least be smart about it). I wrote it off as he must be upset at what I said. OH HOW I WAS WRONG!!!
My mom asked me to see where my sister was on find my. I had my ex boyfriends location and I saw that he wasn't even close to his house. He was at a house that I had never seen him at before. It was a big wealthy house. I had a feeling he was cheating on me I decided to ignore it because he said and I quote "I would cheat on a test but I wouldn't cheat on you" deep down I knew he was lying because he would say things like that to lighten the mood when he was lying.
After our one year anniversary he ignored me for a whole month again. I called him out for it and he asked me for space and asked if we could talk at youth group. I agreed. I thought that we were going to be okay because he came up to me and my leaders and started talking to us like everything was okay holding a taco bell bag. He then said lets go talk. He sat down and started to eat his food. He told me (while eating a beefy five layer burrito and drinking a baja blast) that he never saw us getting married he has wanted to break up with me for a while he just put it off because he didn't want me to unalive myself if he did. He also said that all his friends want to spend every second with their girlfriend and he can't say the same about me. I am not proud of this but I tried to get him to not break up with me. But he did.
Two days after he broke up with me his ex from 8th grade requested to follow me on instagram. I followed her back and guess what was on her story...SHE WAS FISHING WITH MY EX. Which my ex said "I don't want to go fishing with you because I like going by myself". I know someone that goes to their school and I asked her about it she said that his ex is known for sleeping with everyone boyfriend and that shes a rude person and no one likes her. Me and his ex are also both cheerleaders and we hear about everything going on from other squads from other schools. One of the girls on my team told me that his ex was bragging about the fact that she slept with him while we were together and he left me for her...weird flex but okay.
A couple days after I found out about this news we had summer camp. My ex was there. He made me very uncomfortable on this trip he was looking at me a lot and tried talking to me and came up and stood next to me a lot. Then he took one of his friends cameras and came over to me and my friends and blocked me sitting on the couch in the corner of the room. He shoved the camera in my face and said do you have anything to say to the camera and when I said no he kept trying to get me to say stuff and wouldn't get out of my face. My leader saw this and came over and pushed him away from me and grabbed my hand and got me out of there. We then went and told the youth pastor about it.
My ex was then banned from coming to youth group until he came and talked to me and my youth pastor about leaving me alone. He refused to talk to us but he would come to youth anyways and leave before small group. Then one night he came to youth while I was cheering at a basketball event and my youth leaders called me when it was over and told me to get there as soon as I could because they were keeping him there so he could have a conversation with me. He finally sat down and had the conversation with me. He has only come to youth one other time after this. And now I have both him and his ex blocked on all social media.
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2024.05.01 09:05 Hoppipoppi I hate my friends.

I(17f) currently have 3 friends that I hang out with, and Iā€™m really sick of them. But I feel bad for feeling this way. Letā€™s call them A, B and C.
A is pretty ok. Sheā€™s kind, caring, and diligent. But, she often cares too much about how others might feel and apologizes too much imo. And she is planning on studying abroad (in the US) but speaks poorer English than me. She took 2 SAT tests and has 1 more to go, but her scores are not so great. Us foreigners have to get better scores on math section because English is not our mother language, but her math is not very great. She asked me some questions and they were all middle school level in our country (weā€™re high schoolers).
B takes the same classes with me, but she hardly pays attention to the classes. I can never ask what I didnā€™t understand, because she either didnā€™t understand too or she slept during the class. Her pronunciation is not very good; others canā€™t even correctly guess what her name is when sheā€™s speaking. She says she will go to university by applying in ā€˜CSAT(Korean SAT) onlyā€™ admission but she is less prepared than average, and gets lower scores than me (I am not even going to apply on CSAT only admission)
C is the one I hate the most. Sheā€™s ugly, her voice is ugly, she is chubby but eats the most while saying she has to lose weight, she has no social skills so she copy others (especially me and I hate it), sheā€™s always sleeping and snoring in class, her grades are not great (she has half my GPA), sheā€™s tone deaf and really bad at singing, she canā€™t dance or draw or play sports, she has given up all 3 ā€˜main subjectsā€™ which are Korean, English, and math. She just has no talent, from looks to academics to arts and sports. A can dance, B can draw/paint and I can sing, but C has nothing. Iā€™m thinking maybe she just lacks understanding on things. In Korean History, she studied for a month and I studied for a day, and we got the same grades. She gave up math since middle school.
I used to think that all people have the same amount of skill/talent and theyā€™re just distributed differently, but these guys made me think otherwise, that some people are just better than others.
I know I sound bad. Among these there are things they canā€™t change, and I really shouldnā€™t hate them for those, but I feel like Iā€™m stuck. I want someone who I can look up to as a friend, but no. I get the best grades, Iā€˜m the best singer, etc etc. And this is making me arrogant; I started to think that others know nothing and I should explain everything. There is no room for growth with these friends, and I donā€™t know how to get out of this friend circle AND get in a new one.
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2024.05.01 08:53 Necessary_Prune_4561 AITA because the guy I'm seeing didn't do well on a test? Or is this a sign of a toxic relationship?

Screenshots posted in album at end of post. TLDR: read the screenshots. I was previously in an emotionally abusive relationship and can't tell if I'm an asshole, or if nobody is, or if this could be on the road to emotional manipulation.
Iā€™m (35F) in nursing school and have gotten involved with a classmate (30M). Itā€™s been about 6 months, casual without expectations but we are somewhat emotionally involved at this point and we also havenā€™t been dating other people. Earlier this semester, he didnā€™t do well at all on a quiz and kind of spiraled down about it. Kinda shifted a little blame to me, and the distraction that I was to him. He went to a really tough place and was extremely hard on himself about it and convinced himself he was going to flunk out. I listened and supported him through it many times throughout the following weeks. Helped him study a lot, helped him strategize for how to get back on track and shore up his grade in the program. We just had an exam we have to sit for to move on in the program (called ATI), a really tough one, but one whoā€™s grade doesnā€™t matter in terms of moving on to the next part of the program. As long as we take the test, no matter the score, we get to move forwards. It was a doozey, our program didnā€™t teach us most of the material on it, the entire class was kind of gobsmacked by it. But again, it really doesnā€™t impact our grade, as we have to take two of them and the combined total percentage points from both test amount to 4% of our grade. The subject matter is wildly broad, and we have our final, worth 25% of our grade coming up this week too, on material we actually covered in class and with a much less broad scope. Iā€™ve been focusing my energy on the final and encouraging classmates to do the same because there is less material to study on it, and it is worth substantially more of our grade.
The night before the ATI exam I went over there to study with him, he was busy finishing up an assignment so I tried to get some readings done. Then he wanted me to read his assignment before submitting so I did. Then he put on some music and I continued to read. Finally I got really tired and said I was going to go home and asked if he wanted to cuddle and talk for a few minutes before I left. He did, and we consensually just cuddled, and talked, for a maximum of 15 minutes and I left. That is the only time I ā€œdistractedā€ him that I can think of? And I have no idea what the boundary heā€™s talking about is, and he is not telling me. Well we just took the ATI exam and I shocked myself and wound up doing well, mostly by just process of elimination and hunches. Some stuff I knew, but there was an overwhelming amount of material I was unfamiliar with on it. The guy Iā€™m seeing didnā€™t do as well, but it really wonā€™t impact his grade. He has a very solid B in the class. I believe he could get a low D on our final and still qualify to move forwards in our program, so not a bad place to be in at all.
When we came out of the exam he was incredibly standoffish to me whereas before we took it he was joking around with me and we were talking about our weird dreams the night before. This is where the texts pick up.
For some background on me; I was in a 10 year relationship with an extremely emotionally volatile man that had a cycle of verbally abusing me, and talking me in circles so much when I would try to bring up the real issues in our relationship that I felt like I was legitimately going crazy. One of the classics was that whenever I would bring up how to keep communication respectful during arguments I try to state some pretty innocuous boundaries such as no name calling, avoiding physically intimidating me by standing really tall right over me while yelling, etc. Every time I would try to bring these issues up one of the first responses would be something like yelling ā€œI guess Iā€™m just a total piece of shit then huh? Youā€™re just saying Iā€™m some drunk asshole! Thatā€™s not who I am!ā€ and Iā€™d be like ā€œno, Iā€™m asking for behavior changes for parts of this relationship that arenā€™t healthyā€ but then he would talk me in circles for hours and the entire conversation would be derailed by me then needing to explain over and over again why I donā€™t think those things about him and attempting to clearly explain what I was trying to say. Over and over and over. I told my therapist, and our couples therapist that it felt like I would say ā€œapple and orangeā€ and he would become livid at me, picking a massive screaming fight saying ā€œwhy the fuck would you say banana???ā€ It was exhausting and I needed a long time to tease apart and unravel what that relationship did to my psyche, my hypervigilance, etc. for this and so many more reasons. I do know that communication was already a strength but out of necessity (even though it was futile) I became an even clearer communicator. But I also still question what is normal, what my part in things is, what is reasonable to expect from others. Iā€™m having trouble identifying whether this is just like a normal frustrating interaction, or an early sign of a relationship that would wind up being as emotionally manipulative as my last. Some of this guyā€™s responses felt like a milder version of how my ex would respond and so I donā€™t know whether Iā€™m being too sensitive, whether I am an asshole here, or whether this is toxic.
Also, thereā€™s an audio message I sent in there, Iā€™ll post the screenshot of the transcript at the end of the text thread.
https://imgur.com/a/MJM4LC9
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2024.05.01 08:40 El_Jose_22 According to all known laws of aviation

According to all known laws of aviation
According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyway because bees don't care what humans think is impossible. Yellow, black. Yellow, black. Yellow, black. Yellow, black. Ooh, black and yellow! Let's shake it up a little. Barry! Breakfast is ready! Coming! Hang on a second. Hello? Barry? Adam? Can you believe this is happening? I can't. I'll pick you up. Looking sharp. Use the stairs, Your father paid good money for those. Sorry. I'm excited. Here's the graduate. We're very proud of you, son. A perfect report card, all B's. Very proud. Ma! I got a thing going here. You got lint on your fuzz. Ow! That's me! Wave to us! We'll be in row 118,000. Bye! Barry, I told you, stop flying in the house! Hey, Adam. Hey, Barry. Is that fuzz gel? A little. Special day, graduation. Never thought I'd make it. Three days grade school, three days high school. Those were awkward. Three days college. I'm glad I took a day and hitchhiked around The Hive. You did come back different. Hi, Barry. Artie, growing a mustache? Looks good. Hear about Frankie? Yeah. You going to the funeral? No, I'm not going. Everybody knows, sting someone, you die. Don't waste it on a squirrel. Such a hothead. I guess he could have just gotten out of the way. I love this incorporating an amusement park into our day. That's why we don't need vacations. Boy, quite a bit of pomp under the circumstances. Well, Adam, today we are men. We are! Bee-men. Amen! Hallelujah! Students, faculty, distinguished bees, please welcome Dean Buzzwell. Welcome, New Hive City graduating class of 9:15. That concludes our ceremonies And begins your career at Honex Industries! Will we pick our job today? I heard it's just orientation. Heads up! Here we go. Keep your hands and antennas inside the tram at all times. Wonder what it'll be like? A little scary. Welcome to Honex, a division of Honesco and a part of the Hexagon Group. This is it! Wow. Wow. We know that you, as a bee, have worked your whole life to get to the point where you can work for your whole life. Honey begins when our valiant Pollen Jocks bring the nectar to The Hive. Our top-secret formula is automatically color-corrected, scent-adjusted and bubble-contoured into this soothing sweet syrup with its distinctive golden glow you know as... Honey! That girl was hot. She's my cousin! She is? Yes, we're all cousins. Right. You're right. At Honex, we constantly strive to improve every aspect of bee existence. These bees are stress-testing a new helmet technology. What do you think he makes? Not enough. Here we have our latest advancement, the Krelman. What does that do? Catches that little strand of honey that hangs after you pour it. Saves us millions. Can anyone work on the Krelman? Of course. Most bee jobs are small ones. But bees know that every small job, if it's done well, means a lot. But choose carefully because you'll stay in the job you pick for the rest of your life. The same job the rest of your life? I didn't know that. What's the difference? You'll be happy to know that bees, as a species, haven't had one day off in 27 million years. So you'll just work us to death? We'll sure try. Wow! That blew my mind! "What's the difference?" How can you say that? One job forever? That's an insane choice to have to make. I'm relieved. Now we only have to make one decision in life. But, Adam, how could they never have told us that? Why would you question anything? We're bees. We're the most perfectly functioning society on Earth. You ever think maybe things work a little too well here? Like what? Give me one example. I don't know. But you know what I'm talking about. Please clear the gate. Royal Nectar Force on approach. Wait a second. Check it out. Hey, those are Pollen Jocks! Wow. I've never seen them this close. They know what it's like outside The Hive. Yeah, but some don't come back. Hey, Jocks! Hi, Jocks! You guys did great! You're monsters! You're sky freaks! I love it! I love it! I wonder where they were. I don't know. Their day's not planned. Outside The Hive, flying who knows where, doing who knows what. You can't just decide to be a Pollen Jock. You have to be bred for that. Right. Look. That's more pollen than you and I will see in a lifetime. It's just a status symbol. Bees make too much of it. Perhaps. Unless you're wearing it and the ladies see you wearing it. Those ladies? Aren't they our cousins too? Distant. Distant. Look at these two. Couple of Hive Harrys. Let's have fun with them. It must be dangerous being a Pollen Jock. Yeah. Once a bear pinned me against a mushroom! He had a paw on my throat, and with the other, he was slapping me! Oh, my! I never thought I'd knock him out. What were you doing during this? Trying to alert the authorities. I can autograph that. A little gusty out there today, wasn't it, comrades? Yeah. Gusty. We're hitting a sunflower patch six miles from here tomorrow. Six miles, huh? Barry! A puddle jump for us, but maybe you're not up for it. Maybe I am. You are not! We're going 0900 at J-Gate. What do you think, buzzy-boy? Are you bee enough? I might be. It all depends on what 0900 means. Hey, Honex! Dad, you surprised me. You decide what you're interested in? Well, there's a lot of choices. But you only get one. Do you ever get bored doing the same job every day? Son, let me tell you about stirring. You grab that stick, and you just move it around, and you stir it around. You get yourself into a rhythm. It's a beautiful thing. You know, Dad, the more I think about it, maybe the honey field just isn't right for me. You were thinking of what, making balloon animals? That's a bad job for a guy with a stinger. Janet, your son's not sure he wants to go into honey! Barry, you are so funny sometimes. I'm not trying to be funny. You're not funny! You're going into honey. Our son, the stirrer! You're gonna be a stirrer? No one's listening to me! Wait till you see the sticks I have. I could say anything right now. I'm gonna get an ant tattoo! Let's open some honey and celebrate! Maybe I'll pierce my thorax. Shave my antennae. Shack up with a grasshopper. Get a gold tooth and call everybody "dawg"! I'm so proud. We're starting work today! Today's the day. Come on! All the good jobs will be gone. Yeah, right. Pollen counting, stunt bee, pouring, stirrer, front desk, hair removal... Is it still available? Hang on. Two left! One of them's yours! Congratulations! Step to the side. What'd you get? Picking crud out. Stellar! Wow! Couple of newbies? Yes, sir! Our first day! We are ready! Make your choice. You want to go first? No, you go. Oh, my. What's available? Restroom attendant's open, not for the reason you think. Any chance of getting the Krelman? Sure, you're on. I'm sorry, the Krelman just closed out. Wax monkey's always open. The Krelman opened up again. What happened? A bee died. Makes an opening. See? He's dead. Another dead one. Deady. Deadified. Two more dead. Dead from the neck up. Dead from the neck down. That's life! Oh, this is so hard! Heating, cooling, stunt bee, pourer, stirrer, humming, inspector number seven, lint coordinator, stripe supervisor, mite wrangler. Barry, what do you think I should... Barry? Barry! All right, we've got the sunflower patch in quadrant nine... What happened to you? Where are you? I'm going out. Out? Out where? Out there. Oh, no! I have to, before I go to work for the rest of my life. You're gonna die! You're crazy! Hello? Another call coming in. If anyone's feeling brave, there's a Korean deli on 83rd that gets their roses today. Hey, guys. Look at that. Isn't that the kid we saw yesterday? Hold it, son, flight deck's restricted. It's OK, Lou. We're gonna take him up. Really? Feeling lucky, are you? Sign here, here. Just initial that. Thank you. OK. You got a rain advisory today, and as you all know, bees cannot fly in rain. So be careful. As always, watch your brooms, hockey sticks, dogs, birds, bears and bats. Also, I got a couple of reports of root beer being poured on us. Murphy's in a home because of it, babbling like a cicada! That's awful. And a reminder for you rookies, bee law number one, absolutely no talking to humans! All right, launch positions! Buzz, buzz, buzz, buzz! Buzz, buzz, buzz, buzz! Buzz, buzz, buzz, buzz! Black and yellow! Hello! You ready for this, hot shot? Yeah. Yeah, bring it on. Wind, check. Antennae, check. Nectar pack, check. Wings, check. Stinger, check. Scared out of my shorts, check. OK, ladies, let's move it out! Pound those petunias, you striped stem-suckers! All of you, drain those flowers! Wow! I'm out! I can't believe I'm out! So blue. I feel so fast and free! Box kite! Wow! Flowers! This is Blue Leader, We have roses visual. Bring it around 30 degrees and hold. Roses! 30 degrees, roger. Bringing it around. Stand to the side, kid. It's got a bit of a kick. That is one nectar collector! Ever see pollination up close? No, sir. I pick up some pollen here, sprinkle it over here. Maybe a dash over there, a pinch on that one. See that? It's a little bit of magic. That's amazing. Why do we do that? That's pollen power. More pollen, more flowers, more nectar, more honey for us. Cool. I'm picking up a lot of bright yellow, Could be daisies, Don't we need those? Copy that visual. Wait. One of these flowers seems to be on the move. Say again? You're reporting a moving flower? Affirmative. That was on the line! This is the coolest. What is it? I don't know, but I'm loving this color. It smells good. Not like a flower, but I like it. Yeah, fuzzy. Chemical-y. Careful, guys. It's a little grabby. My sweet lord of bees! Candy-brain, get off there! Problem! Guys! This could be bad. Affirmative. Very close. Gonna hurt. Mama's little boy. You are way out of position, rookie! Coming in at you like a missile! Help me! I don't think these are flowers. Should we tell him? I think he knows. What is this?! Match point! You can start packing up, honey, because you're about to eat it! Yowser! Gross. There's a bee in the car! Do something! I'm driving! Hi, bee. He's back here! He's going to sting me! Nobody move. If you don't move, he won't sting you. Freeze! He blinked! Spray him, Granny! What are you doing?! Wow... the tension level out here is unbelievable. I gotta get home. Can't fly in rain. Can't fly in rain. Can't fly in rain. Mayday! Mayday! Bee going down! Ken, could you close the window please? Ken, could you close the window please? Check out my new resume. I made it into a fold-out brochure. You see? Folds out. Oh, no. More humans. I don't need this. What was that? Maybe this time. This time. This time. This time! This time! This... Drapes! That is diabolical. It's fantastic. It's got all my special skills, even my top-ten favorite movies. What's number one? Star Wars? Nah, I don't go for that... kind of stuff. No wonder we shouldn't talk to them. They're out of their minds. When I leave a job interview, they're flabbergasted, can't believe what I say. There's the sun. Maybe that's a way out. I don't remember the sun having a big 75 on it. I predicted global warming. I could feel it getting hotter. At first I thought it was just me. Wait! Stop! Bee! Stand back. These are winter boots. Wait! Don't kill him! You know I'm allergic to them! This thing could kill me! Why does his life have less value than yours? Why does his life have any less value than mine? Is that your statement? I'm just saying all life has value. You don't know what he's capable of feeling. My brochure! There you go, little guy. I'm not scared of him.It's an allergic thing. Put that on your resume brochure. My whole face could puff up. Make it one of your special skills. Knocking someone out is also a special skill. Right. Bye, Vanessa. Thanks. Vanessa, next week? Yogurt night? Sure, Ken. You know, whatever. You could put carob chips on there. Bye. Supposed to be less calories. Bye. I gotta say something. She saved my life. I gotta say something. All right, here it goes. Nah. What would I say? I could really get in trouble. It's a bee law. You're not supposed to talk to a human. I can't believe I'm doing this. I've got to. Oh, I can't do it. Come on! No. Yes. No. Do it. I can't. How should I start it? "You like jazz?" No, that's no good. Here she comes! Speak, you fool! Hi! I'm sorry. You're talking. Yes, I know. You're talking! I'm so sorry. No, it's OK. It's fine. I know I'm dreaming. But I don't recall going to bed. Well, I'm sure this is very disconcerting. This is a bit of a surprise to me. I mean, you're a bee! I am. And I'm not supposed to be doing this, but they were all trying to kill me. And if it wasn't for you... I had to thank you. It's just how I was raised. That was a little weird. I'm talking with a bee. Yeah. I'm talking to a bee. And the bee is talking to me! I just want to say I'm grateful. I'll leave now. Wait! How did you learn to do that? What? The talking thing. Same way you did, I guess. "Mama, Dada, honey." You pick it up. That's very funny. Yeah. Bees are funny. If we didn't laugh, we'd cry with what we have to deal with. Anyway... Can I... get you something? Like what? I don't know. I mean... I don't know. Coffee? I don't want to put you out. It's no trouble. It takes two minutes. It's just coffee. I hate to impose. Don't be ridiculous! Actually, I would love a cup. Hey, you want rum cake? I shouldn't. Have some. No, I can't. Come on! I'm trying to lose a couple micrograms. Where? These stripes don't help. You look great! I don't know if you know anything about fashion. Are you all right? No. He's making the tie in the cab as they're flying up Madison. He finally gets there. He runs up the steps into the church. The wedding is on. And he says, "Watermelon? I thought you said Guatemalan. Why would I marry a watermelon?" Is that a bee joke? That's the kind of stuff we do. Yeah, different. So, what are you gonna do, Barry? About work? I don't know. I want to do my part for The Hive, but I can't do it the way they want. I know how you feel. You do? Sure. My parents wanted me to be a lawyer or a doctor, but I wanted to be a florist. Really? My only interest is flowers. Our new queen was just elected with that same campaign slogan. Anyway, if you look... There's my hive right there. See it? You're in Sheep Meadow! Yes! I'm right off the Turtle Pond! No way! I know that area. I lost a toe ring there once. Why do girls put rings on their toes? Why not? It's like putting a hat on your knee. Maybe I'll try that. You all right, ma'am? Oh, yeah. Fine. Just having two cups of coffee! Anyway, this has been great. Thanks for the coffee. Yeah, it's no trouble. Sorry I couldn't finish it. If I did, I'd be up the rest of my life. Are you...? Can I take a piece of this with me? Sure! Here, have a crumb. Thanks! Yeah. All right. Well, then... I guess I'll see you around. Or not. OK, Barry. And thank you so much again... for before. Oh, that? That was nothing. Well, not nothing, but... Anyway... This can't possibly work. He's all set to go. We may as well try it. OK, Dave, pull the chute. Sounds amazing. It was amazing! It was the scariest, happiest moment of my life. Humans! I can't believe you were with humans! Giant, scary humans! What were they like? Huge and crazy. They talk crazy. They eat crazy giant things. They drive crazy. Do they try and kill you, like on TV? Some of them. But some of them don't. How'd you get back? Poodle. You did it, and I'm glad. You saw whatever you wanted to see. You had your "experience." Now you can pick out yourjob and be normal. Well... Well? Well, I met someone. You did? Was she Bee-ish? A wasp?! Your parents will kill you! No, no, no, not a wasp. Spider? I'm not attracted to spiders. I know it's the hottest thing, with the eight legs and all. I can't get by that face. So who is she? She's... human. No, no. That's a bee law. You wouldn't break a bee law. Her name's Vanessa. Oh, boy. She's so nice. And she's a florist! Oh, no! You're dating a human florist! We're not dating. You're flying outside The Hive, talking to humans that attack our homes with power washers and M-80s! One-eighth a stick of dynamite! She saved my life! And she understands me. This is over! Eat this. This is not over! What was that? They call it a crumb. It was so stingin' stripey! And that's not what they eat. That's what falls off what they eat! You know what a Cinnabon is? No. It's bread and cinnamon and frosting. They heat it up... Sit down! ...really hot! Listen to me! We are not them! We're us. There's us and there's them! Yes, but who can deny the heart that is yearning? There's no yearning. Stop yearning. Listen to me! You have got to start thinking bee, my friend. Thinking bee! Thinking bee. Thinking bee. Thinking bee! Thinking bee! Thinking bee! Thinking bee! There he is. He's in the pool. You know what your problem is, Barry? I gotta start thinking bee? How much longer will this go on? It's been three days! Why aren't you working? I've got a lot of big life decisions to think about. What life? You have no life! You have no job. You're barely a bee! Would it kill you to make a little honey? Barry, come out. Your father's talking to you. Martin, would you talk to him? Barry, I'm talking to you! You coming? Got everything? All set! Go ahead. I'll catch up. Don't be too long. Watch this! Vanessa! We're still here. I told you not to yell at him. He doesn't respond to yelling! Then why yell at me? Because you don't listen! I'm not listening to this. Sorry, I've gotta go. Where are you going? I'm meeting a friend. A girl? Is this why you can't decide? Bye. I just hope she's Bee-ish. They have a huge parade of flowers every year in Pasadena? To be in the Tournament of Roses, that's every florist's dream! Up on a float, surrounded by flowers, crowds cheering. A tournament. Do the roses compete in athletic events? No. All right, I've got one. How come you don't fly everywhere? It's exhausting. Why don't you run everywhere? It's faster. Yeah, OK, I see, I see. All right, your turn. TiVo. You can just freeze live TV? That's insane! You don't have that? We have Hivo, but it's a disease. It's a horrible, horrible disease. Oh, my. Dumb bees! You must want to sting all those jerks. We try not to sting. It's usually fatal for us. So you have to watch your temper. Very carefully. You kick a wall, take a walk, write an angry letter and throw it out. Work through it like any emotion: Anger, jealousy, lust. Oh, my goodness! Are you OK? Yeah. What is wrong with you?! It's a bug. He's not bothering anybody. Get out of here, you creep! What was that? A Pic 'N' Save circular? Yeah, it was. How did you know? It felt like about 10 pages. Seventy-five is pretty much our limit. You've really got that down to a science. I lost a cousin to Italian Vogue. I'll bet. What in the name of Mighty Hercules is this? How did this get here? cute Bee, Golden Blossom, Ray Liotta Private Select? Is he that actor? I never heard of him. Why is this here? For people. We eat it. You don't have enough food of your own? Well, yes. How do you get it? Bees make it. I know who makes it! And it's hard to make it! There's heating, cooling, stirring. You need a whole Krelman thing! It's organic. It's our-ganic! It's just honey, Barry. Just what?! Bees don't know about this! This is stealing! A lot of stealing! You've taken our homes, schools,hospitals! This is all we have! And it's on sale?! I'm getting to the bottom of this. I'm getting to the bottom of all of this! Hey, Hector. You almost done? Almost. He is here. I sense it. Well, I guess I'll go home now and just leave this nice honey out, with no one around. You're busted, box boy! I knew I heard something. So you can talk! I can talk. And now you'll start talking! Where you getting the sweet stuff? Who's your supplier? I don't understand. I thought we were friends. The last thing we want to do is ups
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2024.05.01 08:38 shawarma_4ever Driving Test Fail

Hey there,
I joined Al Ijarah in December, opting for a half course since I have an Indian license. My road test got rescheduled multiple times: first from March 13 to April 1, then to April 28, and finally to May 1st. Today was finally my test day.
I followed all the instructions during the test ā€“ greeted the captain, adjusted everything, and drove attentively. Kept my lane properly during U turn and exit, I couldn't get to 80 kmph because there wasn't enough distance to because my test was hardly a minute but I thought that was understandable. Despite doing everything right, I received a fail message with seemingly random reasons.
What's frustrating is that the examiner marked my paper with a cross when I said it was my first attempt, which I thought was just routine.
This setback is devastating. I've lost four job opportunities due to the lack of a license, and I can't afford another course if I don't pass on my second attempt.
To add insult to injury, all I had was 325 riyal. I had to renew my learner's permit last month, costing me an additional 150 riyal and today another 50 riyals for the second attempt. Feeling utterly disheartened right now.
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2024.05.01 08:29 dollvette End of first online closed beta in china

End of first online closed beta in china
Today marks the end of the cbt for Chinese players (may 1st) Im glad they had the opportunity to try out the game and hopefully give some good feedback. Some time in may the offline test in America starts, perhaps afterwards an online test will be announced> The testers have done a great job at leaking (which I am grateful for) and while were waiting for more official news from paper games lets continue appreciating the stunning graphics in this game :)) also there's still content I will post in the next couple days so look forward to that
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2024.05.01 08:22 jackrabbit1994 Significant Packet Loss. How Do I Fix It?

https://i.imgur.com/coL4wBt.png
Above is 10 minutes of data pinging google.com in Pingplotter.
Windows PC connected to an ISP-supplied modem/router combo via ethernet. Have a gigabit connection.
When I play CS2, I get around 15% packet loss and is unplayable. Weirdly enough when I play CS Source, the game feels smooth. I don't know if that's just because it's old or something.
Random spouts of buffering when streaming video, followed by flawless 2K streaming, followed by random spouts.
This also occurs on my Linux PC that is connected via WiFi and my smartphone connected via WiFi. Don't think it's just this PC.
I've been researching about this but largely running into legit enterprise networking discussions that go over my head, or solutions that assume knowledge I don't have. Ran some traceroutes in command line but to be honest I'm not even 100% sure I was pinging the right address.
Heard about "bufferbloat" - so I ran this test: https://www.waveform.com/tools/bufferbloat
But I got an A grade, so unless that's a flawed test, I don't think that's the issue.
Happy to supply any other information needed to help diagnose the problem.
Any suggestions on what this might be, and things I can try to diagnose it?
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2024.05.01 08:22 advikasharma Type of Portland Cement for Your Construction Needs

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2024.05.01 08:13 chalapakacharan Does 2*8 floor joist will be enough for a room of 12ā€™3ā€ wide with 12 ā€œ spacing ?

I wanna convert the attic room into a media room on 1st level on a 2 story home which is 21ft* 12ft3inch which was built on 2*8 floor joist. I think the builder used grade #2 lumber. Will it be okay to convert the room with the existing joist. Please provide your inputs
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2024.05.01 08:02 Stage-Piercing727 Best 9mm Accessories

Best 9mm Accessories

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Welcome to our roundup of the top 9mm accessories on the market! If you're a firearm enthusiast or simply looking to enhance your 9mm's performance, we've got you covered. From eye-catching grips to precision-engineered sights, we've handpicked the must-have 9mm accessories to help you make the most of your shooting experience.

The Top 8 Best 9mm Accessories

  1. Ambidextrous IWB FN Reflex Holster with Adjustable Cant and Trigger Bump - The Crucial Concealment Ambi Covert IWB FN Reflex offers ambidextrous carry, cant adjustment, and reliable concealment with a thin, low profile design for everyday carry.
  2. Versatile Light-Bearing Alien Gear Holster for 9mm Accessories - Experience the ultimate versatility with Alien Gear Holsters Photon P320/M17 wLight Holster, designed for everyday carry with light-bearing compatibility and optimized for appendix carry.
  3. Slim, Tuckable Kydex Holster for Truck Gun - Experience versatility and durability with the Desantis Slim-Tuk Holster, an ambidextrous Kydex concealed-carry holster offering 360-degree mounting options and easy hardware reversing for ultimate customization.
  4. Mission First Tactical MFT Appendix Holster for S&W M&P Shield EZ 9mm Ambi Black - Concealed Carry Holster - Experience ultimate concealment and reliability with Mission First Tactical's Appendix Holster, designed for S&W M&P Shield EZ 9mm, featuring ambidextrous use, smooth draw, and all-day comfort.
  5. Fobus Extraction IWB-OWB Holster for Taurus GX4: Precision-Fitted, Lightweight, and Versatile - Experience superior versatility and comfort with the Fobus Extraction IWB-OWB Taurus GX4 9mm RH Holster, featuring a lightweight Boltaron construction, ultimate draw efficiency, and unmatched conceal capability.
  6. Lightweight, Durable Shoulder Holster for 9mm Handguns - Experience unparalleled security, superior craftsmanship, and effortless convenience with the Safariland 7053-179-411 Lightweight Shoulder Holster, designed for 9mm S&W Shield 3.1" handguns.
  7. High-quality 1/4 in. Drive Metric 9mm Socket with Chrome Finish - Experience superior durability and precision with Milwaukee's 1/4in Drive 9mm Metric 6-Point Socket, featuring four flat sides for better grip, stamped sizes for easy visibility, and optimized geometry to prevent rounding.
  8. High-Quality 9mm Socket for Durable Fastening - GearWrench 80806 9mm 1/2" Drive 12 Point Socket - Experience a game-changing tool with Surface Drive Technology, easy fastener identification, and a resistant full-chromed finish, meeting or exceeding industry standards for strength and durability.
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Reviews

šŸ”—Ambidextrous IWB FN Reflex Holster with Adjustable Cant and Trigger Bump


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The Crucial Concealment Ambi Covert IWB FN Reflex holster is a reliable and versatile option for carrying handguns. Its ambidextrous design allows users to switch carry sides easily, while the full range of cant adjustment lets you find the perfect position for your needs.
The holster's construction from. 080 KYDEX provides durability without adding bulk, and the low profile design is perfect for everyday carry. The proprietary clip can be used on various clothing styles, ensuring you can carry conveniently no matter the occasion. The subtle Trigger Bump enhances concealment, and the optic compatibility and adjustable retention make this holster even more appealing.
Overall, this holster offers a great blend of function, style, and ease of use, making it a top pick for gun enthusiasts.

šŸ”—Versatile Light-Bearing Alien Gear Holster for 9mm Accessories


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As a fan of versatile and durable holsters, I recently gave the Alien Gear Holsters Photon P320/M17 a try. This modern holster boasts an impressive range of features, including ambidextrous design and compatibility for both OWB and IWB use. Its lightweight and compact construction make it an excellent choice for concealed carry, with the option to customize your setup further with the included appendix carry wing and sidecar mag carrier.
One of the key advantages of the Photon is its compatibility with light-bearing pistols, making it an excellent choice for those who prefer a well-illuminated sight picture. Additionally, the holster's optic cut accommodates a variety of scopes and optics, ensuring a snug and secure fit. With a lifetime warranty and a proudly made in the USA label, the Photon offers peace of mind and excellent value for money.
While the Photon P320/M17 wLight Holster has its share of positives, it's not without its drawbacks. Some users have reported missing or incomplete components, while others have encountered tightness and stiffness in the holster's construction. Nonetheless, if you can get past these minor flaws, the Alien Gear Holsters Photon P320/M17 wLight Holster is a solid choice for any modern shooter seeking a versatile and capable holster.

šŸ”—Slim, Tuckable Kydex Holster for Truck Gun


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The Desantis Slim-Tuk Holster has become an essential part of my daily life. This slim, rugged holster is made from durable Kydex and adds no unnecessary bulk to your outfit. Its completely ambidextrous design allows me to wear it comfortably on either side, and the tuckable 360 clip offers unlimited mounting options for convenience.
While I appreciate the holster's ease of use, I sometimes find the hardware a bit challenging to reverse, and it would be great if it were more intuitive. Overall, the Slim-Tuk provides a reliable and stylish way to carry my firearm, and I've been consistently impressed with its performance.

šŸ”—Mission First Tactical MFT Appendix Holster for S&W M&P Shield EZ 9mm Ambi Black - Concealed Carry Holster


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In the course of my daily routine, I've had the pleasure of using Mission First Tactical's Minimalist Holster for my trusty Smith & Wesson M&P Shield EZ 9mm. This holster is the epitome of low-profile designs, while maintaining the robust performance associated with more conventional holsters.
During my testing phase, I have come to appreciate the holster's ambidextrous nature. Switching between right and left-hand positioning proved a breeze, a testament to its versatility. However, I must admit that the claw mechanism, which keeps the holster pressed into my side, might not be for everyone - especially left-handed shooters.
The audible click combined with side retention was truly the cherry on top. Each draw was smooth and secure, almost instinctual - an ideal fit for my concealed carry needs. The belt clip was a convenient addition, but I found the static-line option even more practical, especially when the holster was tucked away in less conventional spaces like briefcases or nightstands.
My only gripe would be the initial struggle to fit my firearm snugly, but after some tweaking with the adjustment screw, we were a perfect match. It's my go-to choice when it comes to concealed carry - reliable, comfortable, and built to last.

šŸ”—Fobus Extraction IWB-OWB Holster for Taurus GX4: Precision-Fitted, Lightweight, and Versatile


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As a gun enthusiast, I recently had the opportunity to try out the Fobus Holster Extraction IWB - OWB Taurus GX4 9mm RH. With its versatile paddle and belt clip mounting options, this holster allowed me to carry my Taurus GX4 with ease, whether inside or outside my waistband. The passive retention and adjustable holster cant provided a smooth and efficient draw in various CCW positions, ensuring that I was always prepared for any situation.
One of the most impressive aspects of this holster was the use of Boltaron, a lightweight aerospace thermoplastic, which provided great resilience and exceptional comfort. Unlike other holsters, Boltaron was more durable and offered better resistance to extreme temperatures, ensuring that my gun would remain safe in any weather. The fully tuckable design of the Extraction Series holster minimized printing and concealed my weapon effectively.
While the Fobus Holster Extraction series was made with veterans and law enforcement in mind, its quality was evident in its design and functionality. Crafted with precision to fit the Taurus GX4 perfectly, this holster proved to be a reliable and durable option for anyone looking to carry their 9mm with confidence.

šŸ”—Lightweight, Durable Shoulder Holster for 9mm Handguns


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This Safariland shoulder holster quickly became my go-to for concealed carry. The proprietary SafariSeven material adds excellent durability and weather-resistance, while the Automatic Locking System ensures that my weapon is secure once holstered. The system allows for a fast, smooth draw without any snags, making it the perfect option for quick access when needed. I'm particularly fond of the lightweight, adjustable elastic harness, which provides stability and comfort in a variety of situations.
One downside I experienced was the holster's tendency to slide around a bit, especially when walking or moving quickly. This can be slightly annoying and requires adjusting the harness for optimal positioning. However, overall, I found this shoulder holster to be a reliable and stylish option for concealed carry enthusiasts seeking a comfortable and straightforward design.

šŸ”—High-quality 1/4 in. Drive Metric 9mm Socket with Chrome Finish


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Milwaukee's 1/4 in. Drive 9mm Metric Socket had been a trusty companion during my latest DIY project. The four flat sides with stamped sizes provided me with the right visibility even in dim lighting, and the optimized geometry prevented my bolts from getting round or stripped.
However, I had a bit of trouble with its weight and found it a bit challenging to hold onto at times. Nonetheless, the lifetime guarantee backed by Milwaukee made me feel confident using their sockets.
I appreciate the versatility of this socket family, but it has room to improve in terms of ergonomics.

šŸ”—High-Quality 9mm Socket for Durable Fastening


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Introducing the GearWrench 80806, a game-changer in my everyday toolkit. This 9mm 1/2" Drive 12 Point Socket has been a lifesaver during my daily mechanic work. The Surface Drive Technology reduces fastener rounding, making it a reliable and efficient tool. Its chamfered opening guides the fastener into the socket, providing precision and ease of use.
The large, hard-stamped size identification makes it easy for me to quickly find and use the right socket. The clear double line (SAE) and knurled (Metric) ring helps differentiate standard vs. metric sockets at a glance. The full-polish chrome finish cleans easily and resists corrosion, ensuring the longevity of this socket.
While the GearWrench 80806 has been a fantastic addition to my toolbox, it comes without a case or any extensions. Perhaps these could have been convenient additions considering its otherwise excellent features. Overall, I highly recommend this socket for anyone in need of a reliable and user-friendly mechanic tool.

Buyer's Guide

When it comes to firearms, the 9mm is a popular and versatile caliber. It's widely used by law enforcement agencies and civilians alike due to its stopping power, accuracy, and relatively low recoil. To enhance their efficiency and performance, many people turn to 9mm accessories. In this guide, we'll discuss some of the most important features to consider when shopping for 9mm accessories.

Material Quality

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The materials used in constructing 9mm accessories play a significant role in their durability and performance. Common materials include steel, aluminum, and polymer. Steel and aluminum are strong and durable but tend to be heavier, which can affect the gun's balance and handling. Polymer materials are lightweight and versatile but may not always be as strong or resilient as other materials. Look for high-quality materials when choosing your accessories to ensure they will withstand regular use and provide consistent performance.

Customization Options

Different 9mm accessories cater to various user preferences and needs. Consider factors such as barrel length, sight options, and grip styles. Some users may prefer a longer barrel for increased accuracy, while others may prioritize a shorter barrel for easier handling. Similarly, some shooters prefer iron sights, while others prefer optic sights for their enhanced precision. The grip style, be it a standard grip, an over-grip, or even a compensator, can significantly affect the shooter's control and comfort. Take time to explore the different customization options, and choose the accessories that best suit your individual preferences and shooting style.

Compatibility

Ensure that the accessories you are considering are compatible with your specific 9mm firearm model. Inaccuracies in the fit can lead to decreased performance, user discomfort, or even safety issues. Most manufacturers will list the compatible firearm models on their product pages, but it's always a good idea to double-check dimensions and specifications before making a purchase.

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Price and Value

While it's true that you often get what you pay for in the world of accessories, remember that the most expensive option isn't always the best choice. Consider the features, performance, and durability of the accessories you are interested in, as well as any warranties or customer support they offer. Balancing price and value can help you get the most bang for your buck.

Brand Reputation and Customer Reviews

Do your research when it comes to the brand and reputation of the accessories you're considering. Look for customer reviews and testimonials to gauge the overall satisfaction with the product's performance, durability, and customer support. This information can help you make an informed decision and ensure that you're getting a high-quality accessory that will meet your needs.
9mm accessories offer numerous benefits for enhancing the efficiency and performance of this popular caliber. When shopping for accessories, consider the material quality, customization options, compatibility, price, and brand reputation. With these factors in mind, you can find the perfect accessories to complement your 9mm firearm.

FAQ


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What is the primary reason to use 9mm accessories?

9mm accessories are designed to enhance the functionality and performance of 9mm pistols. They can improve accuracy, reliability, and overall user experience.

What types of 9mm accessories are available?

  • Sights: Tritium or fiber-optic sights for improved visibility and aim
  • Mags: High-capacity magazines for increased ammunition capacity
  • Grips: Ergonomic grips for better control and recoil management
  • Triggers: Lightweight or adjustable triggers for faster and more accurate shots
  • Barrels: Match-grade barrels for improved accuracy and precision

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Which 9mm accessories are essential for competitive shooting?

Some essential accessories for competitive shooting include high-quality sights (e. g. , tritium or fiber-optic), high-capacity magazines, and adjustable triggers for increased accuracy and control.

What are the benefits of using 9mm accessories for self-defense purposes?

  • Improved accuracy: Enhanced sights and adjustable triggers can lead to faster and more accurate shots
  • Reliability: High-quality parts can provide better overall performance and longer-lasting use
  • Ergonomics: Ergonomic grips can better suit the user's hand, leading to easier control and reduced recoil

What is the best way to choose the right 9mm accessories for my specific needs?

Consider the specific requirements and features you need based on your shooting situation or personal preference, research the available options, and read reviews to narrow down the choices before making a decision.

Can 9mm accessories be used with other caliber pistols?

While many 9mm accessories can be used with other caliber pistols, it is essential to check if the specific upgrade is compatible with the pistol's design and dimensions before purchasing.

Are there any safety concerns when using 9mm accessories?

As with any firearm accessory, proper handling, installation, and maintenance are crucial to ensure safety. Follow the manufacturer's instructions and consult a qualified professional if you have any doubts.
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2024.05.01 08:01 collegetest35 Failed Out - Advice Needed !

Hey yā€™all,
I need some serious advice about what to do about this situation, so give it to me straight.
TL;DR - was studying engineering at T20 engineering school, failed out last May, I was a shitty student who didnā€™t deserve to be there, didnā€™t go to class, didnā€™t study, didnā€™t do my homework, and procrastinated. Iā€™m not a stupid guy. I did well on the SAT, got grades in HS, got into a very very good college for engineering, and Iā€™m quick to pick up on stuff if Iā€™m listening But talent doesnā€™t best hard work if talent doesnā€™t work hard. I donā€™t work hard. I procrastinate, put off, skip class, and Iā€™m a terrible student ! Why, I donā€™t know.
Iā€™m rethinking whether I want a degree or not. Itā€™s obviously very important to me and would open up a bunch of doors to good jobs, but Iā€™m afraid I canā€™t do it. On top of that, Iā€™ve been suffering panic attacks since last August and my entire life is a mess. How do I dig myself out of this hole ? Whatā€™s my path forward ? Is there a path forward ?
ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€” Warning Lots of backstory incoming
I entered university in 2019 studying engineering. Within 1 semester I was put on academic probation but I kept bouncing back and forth for a few years between being in and out of academic probation. Online school during COVID helped because classes were online and I could watch it if I missed class.
FFW to post-COVID and weā€™re back to in-person classes. I had sleeping issues and would often miss morning classes and classes around noon, and sometimes I would just skip just because. I got on a sleeping pill for a little bit but stopped taking it. Made me sleep too much. Idk why I never talked to doc about this again??
Even if I managed to go to class consistently, I was an awful student. After about 40 minutes I would zone out, and then I wouldnā€™t do my HW until the last minute or just not turn it in whatsoever.
When stuff started getting hard, I did not go to tutoring or office hours or recitation classes. They had a whole system set up to help you not fail, and I didnā€™t take advantage of any of it. I was a terrible awful student. I procrastinated all the time.
I went to my academic advisor, told her all the right things, knew what I needed to do to succeed ā€¦. And didnā€™t do it. :)
I had a nice little campus job and unlike with class I always showed up to my shift and enjoyed it. I spent the bulk of my time on campus there. Why? If I donā€™t show up to work, I got fired. If I didnā€™t show up to class, who cares ? The prof wonā€™t know. The consequence comes later ! Repeat ad nauseum.
In Sprint 2022 I finally ran out of luck and was academically dismissed for a semester. I got a good job machining in a factory (this was also extremely lucky too, I had little experience except at the school machine shop). The hours were rough but the pay was good, and while I did have trouble getting up and getting there exactly on time I never missed a day of work like I would skip with class - obviously because Iā€™d be fired. You donā€™t get fired for skipping class, you get punished later in the semester by failing out !
So as you can tell I have issues with doing things when the reward / consequence is far in the future rather that immediate. Not sure if I have ADHD, talked to my doctor about testing but never did it. Iā€™ve read some stuff and it sounds like I have it, but I have no diagnosis so the point is moot.
Anyways at the end of 2022 I quit my job to go back to school. To this day I kind of wish I hadnā€™t done this because if I didnā€™t Iā€™d still have my job. Nonetheless, I quit and went back to school. The first month I had some trouble as usual but things seemed to be looking okay. I was feeling very optimistic on Syllabus Day! Things could have been better but things werenā€™t that bad - yet. Then the first week of midterms hit in February. I bombed them. The writing was on the wall. I needed exceptionally good grades to crawl out academic probation. They donā€™t just let you continue if you pass the class. If youā€™re GPA is too low they will still kick you out even if you pass all your classes for the current semester. That wasnā€™t a problem for me because I failed all my classes anyways! I kind of continued through the motions of being a student for a few more weeks until Spring Break hit, but I didnā€™t see the point. Iā€™d have to get 100 or even >100 on every remaining grade to save my GPA. I wasnā€™t going to crawl out of this hole. I basically gave up and stopped going to classes. I became bedridden for weeks. Severe depression. I stopped talking to my advisor. She had given me some advice about getting grades basically annulled due to medical problems if I got tested or notes from my doctor but I didnā€™t grab onto this last helping hand. It wouldnā€™t have helped me too much anyways. It would just be a repeat of what happened before unless I got help. I was bedrotting.
This continued into the summer until eventually my savings ran out and I needed a job. I decided to get a job in a fast food place nearby my friend worked out. I lasted three days. I was a good worker and showed up on time but on the third day during the evening rush I had a panic attack and had to leave. I have some experience with panic attacks. I started having them in senior year of high school and my doctor put me on Benzos and they went away pretty quickly and I was back to normal. For five years they didnā€™t come back. Now they hit me like a freight train.
I ended up coming back home to live with my Mom in August because there was no point living in my own during my treatment. It was already tough as it was but loving together made it easier and I didnā€™t have to pay for rent or food. Thank God. If I didnā€™t have this option Iā€™d be out on the streets and probably dead on hooked on drugs. I already had problems with alcoholism, with no help Iā€™d be a goner.
Iā€™m still not feeling better at the moment. Still having panic attacks, mild agoraphobia, the works. This is my situation. But assuming I get better eventually, I want to have a plan
ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”- Returning to my old school is probably not gonna happen. I can return in two years but my GPA is so bad (<1.0) that I probably wouldnā€™t make it. This sucks but it is what it is.
That leaves me with a few options:
1) Try to get a college degree - I like this option because everyone else in my family and extended family has one, and it would suck to be the only one without one. Not to mention career limitations & lifelong regret. Iā€™m already depressed about it now, imagine if I never got one !
The problem ofc is my behavior hasnā€™t changed. It will be a repeat of what happened before. I know what I need to do, but I canā€™t actually do it. I know how to be a good student, but for some reason I canā€™t make myself do it. WTF is wrong with me!
2) Go to trade school - I was decent at being a machinist and could get a certificate. This would make getting a job a lot easier. The last time I tried to get a CNC job they were very skeptical about my experience and lack of certificate and I basically got really lucky with that earlier machinist job and donā€™t think thatā€™s happening again. Ofc if I have to go to school this presents with the same problems as before - actually going to class !
3) Something else - not sure what else I can do but I have to make money and pay the bills.
ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”-
If I go back to school, should I continue with engineering ? Iā€™ve been set in engineering since 5th grade, so to do something else would be upending what amounts to 14 years of believing that is what I want to do. I was thinking finance or economics but Iā€™m not sure.
There is a path back to engineering with community college and transferring to a 4 year institution, but Iā€™m not confident in my ability to do it. My confidence is zero. I have none. Iā€™m anxious about even attempting school again because of what happened last time.
Iā€™ve had trouble with math since 6th grade and yet somehow was able to fail upwards to Calc 3 (multivariable) in college. It was always my worst subject and yet somehow I always passed. Not Calc 3 tho. I failed it three times and my uni wouldnā€™t let me take it a fourth time for very obvious reasons. Not sure I failed because I canā€™t do it or because I was a very shitty student who didnā€™t do my homework, didnā€™t go to class, and didnā€™t practice. Like duh ofc I sucked at it.
ā€”ā€”ā€”ā€”
Anyways, this is my situation. What should I do ? Iā€™m 23 and am basically stuck. All my old college buddies graduated and it freaking sucks. I have no degree and even if I wasnā€™t suffering panic attacks my life would stink right now. Iā€™m living with my Mom in my childhood bedroom with no job, no degree, no prospects, nothing. What do I do ?
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