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2024.05.16 15:36 Minimum_Tiger_937 I (19m) flirted other girls to have something to fill the void for after I break up with my gf (20f), and then cut them all off because I decided to stay. Do I say anything? If so, when? Do I even deserve for it to work out?
I feel terrible and don’t know what to do. We’ve had a really rocky almost-year-long relationship with a lot of arguing and differing life perspectives, and we’d already been to couple’s therapy at around six months in, and had gone for four months. We only did this when I gave her an ultimatum that we break up or go to therapy about how to fix the relationship because I was tired of how disrespectful and angry she was towards me. I really love her and really didn’t want to give up on her because I knew she was still trying to be good to me even if she wasn’t too good at it, it was the thought that counted to me. So we went to therapy and she changed a lot about how she acted and I appreciated it, but it still wasn’t enough for me to believe that we’d be a healthy couple going forward.
So about a month after therapy, I told her that maybe we should break up because we just don’t compliment each other very well (which is true). There was a lot of crying and going back and forth, a tough conversation which lasted two separate days. Eventually we agreed I should really think about what I was doing and she proposed we just take a break from each other for a week so I could do that. She said we won’t see other people over this break, which I respected and agreed with.
After that week I still hadn’t made up my mind though so I asked if we could do another week and she agreed. I hated how much pain I was putting her through with all of this too, since she was completely at my mercy and couldn’t talk with me through any of it (we’d talked about it for hours together already before we settled on the break idea), but I knew it was down to what I felt because she wanted to stay together and I still wasn’t sure, so that meant I had to sort it out on my own if it was ever going to work. Otherwise, SHE would need to convince me to stay for the rest of our days instead of me having my own reasons and motives.
Anyways, at the beginning of our second week of no contact, I thought I was okay with moving on from her because no matter how I thought of our relationship, I kept concluding we just weren’t good for each other and that there were more bad futures possible than good ones. With that headspace, I still feared the loneliness that would come once I made the breakup real, which is why I started texting the other girls in hopes of having something to look forward to in the following weeks to take my mind off of it and maybe start something new. I never intended on seeing any of them until the weeks after I broke up with my gf.
The second she texted me at the end of the second no-contact week, though, all of it hit me. Guilt, shame, uncertainty, dread of what to tell her, fear of the future. We made small talk that day as I tried to figure out what to tell her. The last thing I ever want to do is break her heart, someone who loves me to the best of her ability, even if it isn’t perfect. It’s a rough relationship but I still wanted to keep trying because I’d never been loved like this before.
I deleted all of the messages I’d sent on Instagram and blocked/unfollowed all the girls immediately because I realized I don’t want to be with anyone else, especially if all it means is not being alone (most of them rejected me anyways so maybe that’s a sign). I called her the next day because I knew she was waiting for an answer from me and, after starting to cry, told her I wanted to start fresh with her by making a healthy set of boundaries for ourselves and sort out our differences in our ideal futures.
This brings me to right now. Our first date back is in three days and I don’t know when or if I should tell her what I did in that second week. I feel horrible about it and I can’t stand the thought of hiding it from her because it would make me feel (or be) unworthy of her if we end up coming to healthy long-term agreements. I technically didn’t cheat but it’s obviously unfaithful, so I feel it’s only right that she knows.
I guess my questions are: Do I say anything about it? If so, when? Do I even deserve for it to work out anyways given what I did? Please be honest, I don’t care how harsh. I’m here for the truth.
TL;DR I flirted with other women because I was going to break up with my gf and wanted to pre-fill the post-breakup void, then decided not to break up and don’t know if I should tell her I did that or if I even deserve her anymore
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So about a month after therapy, I told her that maybe we should break up because we just don’t compliment each other very well (which is true). There was a lot of crying and going back and forth, a tough conversation which lasted two separate days. Eventually we agreed I should really think about what I was doing and she proposed we just take a break from each other for a week so I could do that. She said we won’t see other people over this break, which I respected and agreed with.
After that week I still hadn’t made up my mind though so I asked if we could do another week and she agreed. I hated how much pain I was putting her through with all of this too, since she was completely at my mercy and couldn’t talk with me through any of it (we’d talked about it for hours together already before we settled on the break idea), but I knew it was down to what I felt because she wanted to stay together and I still wasn’t sure, so that meant I had to sort it out on my own if it was ever going to work. Otherwise, SHE would need to convince me to stay for the rest of our days instead of me having my own reasons and motives.
Anyways, at the beginning of our second week of no contact, I thought I was okay with moving on from her because no matter how I thought of our relationship, I kept concluding we just weren’t good for each other and that there were more bad futures possible than good ones. With that headspace, I still feared the loneliness that would come once I made the breakup real, which is why I started texting the other girls in hopes of having something to look forward to in the following weeks to take my mind off of it and maybe start something new. I never intended on seeing any of them until the weeks after I broke up with my gf.
The second she texted me at the end of the second no-contact week, though, all of it hit me. Guilt, shame, uncertainty, dread of what to tell her, fear of the future. We made small talk that day as I tried to figure out what to tell her. The last thing I ever want to do is break her heart, someone who loves me to the best of her ability, even if it isn’t perfect. It’s a rough relationship but I still wanted to keep trying because I’d never been loved like this before.
I deleted all of the messages I’d sent on Instagram and blocked/unfollowed all the girls immediately because I realized I don’t want to be with anyone else, especially if all it means is not being alone (most of them rejected me anyways so maybe that’s a sign). I called her the next day because I knew she was waiting for an answer from me and, after starting to cry, told her I wanted to start fresh with her by making a healthy set of boundaries for ourselves and sort out our differences in our ideal futures.
This brings me to right now. Our first date back is in three days and I don’t know when or if I should tell her what I did in that second week. I feel horrible about it and I can’t stand the thought of hiding it from her because it would make me feel (or be) unworthy of her if we end up coming to healthy long-term agreements. I technically didn’t cheat but it’s obviously unfaithful, so I feel it’s only right that she knows.
I guess my questions are: Do I say anything about it? If so, when? Do I even deserve for it to work out anyways given what I did? Please be honest, I don’t care how harsh. I’m here for the truth.
TL;DR I flirted with other women because I was going to break up with my gf and wanted to pre-fill the post-breakup void, then decided not to break up and don’t know if I should tell her I did that or if I even deserve her anymore
2024.05.16 15:33 StevenHicksTheFirst Should I return to always giving exams in-person?
After reading a post here by a student suggesting that the sudden downtick of class attendance, completion of assignments and increase in cheating and plagiarism is partially the professors’ fault, I have to ask this… are teachers reverting back to all in-class exams?
Since COVID and the increase of the use of online courses, or at least many elements from online courses, administrating exams is obviously so much more efficient on-line.
I do know that this promotes cheating. I do not want students to feel like they “need” to cheat to keep up with those that do.
I’ve tried to adapt to the real world by changing the nature of many of my questions… from objective, mostly fact-based answers that can be “looked up“ to asking questions about things we have discussed in class, including film segments.
I also have started requiring answering practical questions where, for example, students view details of a crime scene and I ask for implications and psychological impressions… something that’s hard to cheat with others on and not show up.
Are any of you eliminating online testing because of cheating concerns?
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Since COVID and the increase of the use of online courses, or at least many elements from online courses, administrating exams is obviously so much more efficient on-line.
I do know that this promotes cheating. I do not want students to feel like they “need” to cheat to keep up with those that do.
I’ve tried to adapt to the real world by changing the nature of many of my questions… from objective, mostly fact-based answers that can be “looked up“ to asking questions about things we have discussed in class, including film segments.
I also have started requiring answering practical questions where, for example, students view details of a crime scene and I ask for implications and psychological impressions… something that’s hard to cheat with others on and not show up.
Are any of you eliminating online testing because of cheating concerns?
2024.05.16 15:29 awalt08 Bug? Cheating? Where's the data?
I know I'll be preaching to the choir here, but please, do not bother claiming a bug or cheating without providing a screenshot or video.
I'm an engineer in the automotive industry and for a while my role was "triage engineer". Basically, if something went wrong, my job was to figure out who's responsible for fixing it.
From experience, you might be adamant that you followed the instructions that were printed and taped to the steering wheel of a development car, but once I look at the data for 10 seconds, the truth is perfectly clear.
Please, take a screenshot.
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I'm an engineer in the automotive industry and for a while my role was "triage engineer". Basically, if something went wrong, my job was to figure out who's responsible for fixing it.
From experience, you might be adamant that you followed the instructions that were printed and taped to the steering wheel of a development car, but once I look at the data for 10 seconds, the truth is perfectly clear.
Please, take a screenshot.
2024.05.16 15:28 HandOGawd New York vacation to a friend
So I live in Ireland and my wife and I made friends with a girl from New York through work.
She stayed with us for a few days when stopping off in Ireland on 2 occasions and we got on like a house on fire. We talked about wanting to go to New York some day and she was adamant about getting us over to stay with her and her BF and she would show us the best of new york.
My Wife and I saw this as a motivator get the ball rolling and finally visit new york for 7 days. Nearly 2 years later, we flew over the new york and our friend picked us up from the airport to go to her apartment in Brooklyn. We were so excited.
We finally met the boyfriend who was a bit aloof and smoked alot of weed. On the first day, she said she was tired so we thought that's fine as we just flew 7 hours too.
The bed we stayed on was actually a pull out couch that was so uncomfortable that we slept on the mattress on the floor.
On the next morning, I got up and asked for some toast and she said there was no bread, so I had to find something down in the corner store that looked somwhat nice for my wife and I.
The friend knew how much we wanted to see new york (all the tourist sights too) but only decided to get moving into the city in the evening around 5pm on day 2 for a show downtown that I had booked and paid for the week before.
Once the show was over ($260 in total including food and tip) the friend couple looked to go back home but I suggested a stroll toward midtown. They agreed if we stopped for drinks on the way. The whole thing felt a bit off but we tried to make conversation and was excited by the city around us.
On day 3 my wife and I decided to take the same route to the city as our friend's were not making an effort to get ready, even though she was talking about the different places we could see together across the week to come the nights before.
I suggested a last minute hotel in the city in private to my wife to be closer but she thought that was a bit disrespectful to our New York friends.
When our friend was with us in Ireland she was cooked a breakfast everyday, food deliveries were made every evening and her clothes were washed, all at our expense.
When we were in the apartment in Brooklyn she would come in with snacks and not offer us anything and we were using the same towel in the shower since we arrived (3 days) also. The vibes were strange.
My wife had enough of sleeping on the floor among the several cats and agreed we should move into the city. We packed up on morning of the 4th day and broke the news to them.
For the rest of that day after we left and checked into the hotel ($700 lighter) my anger towards them had ramped up and I was stewing with resentment but the problem was that we had paid plans with them the following evening (the only plans they kept)
As soon as I saw them the following evening my blood was boiling and I didn't speak to them for the whole evening, not one word.
My Wife was making conversation as she noticed my silence and was giving me secret looks.
I felt bad but I literally couldn't think of a single thing to say and felt I owed them nothing at the same time to make things more comfortable.
I felt like a child but I really couldn't snap out of it. They suggested a late cabaret show, I bowed out to stay back at the hotel and my wife went for a few hours and got a cab back to the hotel.
The rest of our time was amazing but the holiday was tainted as we had to cram everything in that we originally wanted to do. We were meant to see them on the last day but were so tired from catching up that we cancelled and never saw them again. The friend was meant to bring us to JFK bit was mot bringing it up in the messages to my wife so I figured out the route by train.
I kinda wish I had faked the effort but at the same time wanted them to feel awkward as they seemed so oblivious overall.
Sorry for the long post but going to New York was always a dream of ours and feel a little cheated out of what should have been a completely positive experience in an amazing city and it cost around 5k in total too.
I would love to hear some thoughts if you made it this far. Thanks for your time.
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She stayed with us for a few days when stopping off in Ireland on 2 occasions and we got on like a house on fire. We talked about wanting to go to New York some day and she was adamant about getting us over to stay with her and her BF and she would show us the best of new york.
My Wife and I saw this as a motivator get the ball rolling and finally visit new york for 7 days. Nearly 2 years later, we flew over the new york and our friend picked us up from the airport to go to her apartment in Brooklyn. We were so excited.
We finally met the boyfriend who was a bit aloof and smoked alot of weed. On the first day, she said she was tired so we thought that's fine as we just flew 7 hours too.
The bed we stayed on was actually a pull out couch that was so uncomfortable that we slept on the mattress on the floor.
On the next morning, I got up and asked for some toast and she said there was no bread, so I had to find something down in the corner store that looked somwhat nice for my wife and I.
The friend knew how much we wanted to see new york (all the tourist sights too) but only decided to get moving into the city in the evening around 5pm on day 2 for a show downtown that I had booked and paid for the week before.
Once the show was over ($260 in total including food and tip) the friend couple looked to go back home but I suggested a stroll toward midtown. They agreed if we stopped for drinks on the way. The whole thing felt a bit off but we tried to make conversation and was excited by the city around us.
On day 3 my wife and I decided to take the same route to the city as our friend's were not making an effort to get ready, even though she was talking about the different places we could see together across the week to come the nights before.
I suggested a last minute hotel in the city in private to my wife to be closer but she thought that was a bit disrespectful to our New York friends.
When our friend was with us in Ireland she was cooked a breakfast everyday, food deliveries were made every evening and her clothes were washed, all at our expense.
When we were in the apartment in Brooklyn she would come in with snacks and not offer us anything and we were using the same towel in the shower since we arrived (3 days) also. The vibes were strange.
My wife had enough of sleeping on the floor among the several cats and agreed we should move into the city. We packed up on morning of the 4th day and broke the news to them.
For the rest of that day after we left and checked into the hotel ($700 lighter) my anger towards them had ramped up and I was stewing with resentment but the problem was that we had paid plans with them the following evening (the only plans they kept)
As soon as I saw them the following evening my blood was boiling and I didn't speak to them for the whole evening, not one word.
My Wife was making conversation as she noticed my silence and was giving me secret looks.
I felt bad but I literally couldn't think of a single thing to say and felt I owed them nothing at the same time to make things more comfortable.
I felt like a child but I really couldn't snap out of it. They suggested a late cabaret show, I bowed out to stay back at the hotel and my wife went for a few hours and got a cab back to the hotel.
The rest of our time was amazing but the holiday was tainted as we had to cram everything in that we originally wanted to do. We were meant to see them on the last day but were so tired from catching up that we cancelled and never saw them again. The friend was meant to bring us to JFK bit was mot bringing it up in the messages to my wife so I figured out the route by train.
I kinda wish I had faked the effort but at the same time wanted them to feel awkward as they seemed so oblivious overall.
Sorry for the long post but going to New York was always a dream of ours and feel a little cheated out of what should have been a completely positive experience in an amazing city and it cost around 5k in total too.
I would love to hear some thoughts if you made it this far. Thanks for your time.
2024.05.16 15:27 Jaded_Two5339 I wonder if any other men feel the same..
I think women just smell soooo amazing naturally, like they only need to shower once a month lol. Every part of them just smells sooo good especially when they exercise for awhile and get really sweaty then its way stronger and I just wanna keep inhaling it. And I love licking there armpits and sucking there toes after they just ran for awhile in the hot sun. I'm just so addicted to it. Do any other men feel the same? U can see I've made some other comments about this but I'm starting to realize that I can't find any other men who agree lol. Is it just me? Or do u guys think women smell so amazing too when they don't shower? And I love there period blood too, it's just way different then normal blood and something about it makes me just wanna eat it all. And when it dries up between her legs and sits for awhile it smells kinda fishy but has a unique smell at the same time and it's literally the bestttt. Only women smell so amazing for some reason. And ppl are so surprised when I tell them I'm straight and they act shocked lol because I am really feminine and I always wear makeup and women's clothing, but I'm just not attracted to men at all, I can't be with one. And I feel like I'm more attracted to women then every other men out there bc I can't find any who love there body was much as I do. I'll send a pic of me and my gfs chat from yesterday... Well I'm pretending to still be committed to her and acting like everything is fine and I forgive her for cheating on me like 3 weeks ago so she's not rlly my gf, and I'm looking for a new women but it's not easy to find one who is accepting of me being so feminine and I might scare them away if they know how much I love there body lol. And I need a women who is willing to not shower that often for me and I will pay all the rent and bills and give her an allowance. I am doing this now with the girl who cheated and I barley have money for myself left tho... But it's worth it to me and I'm going to be making more soon, hopefully I find a women who won't make me pay them to not shower tho, that's too good to be true. Dm me if u want pics of our chat too if u think it's fake
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2024.05.16 15:26 Jaded_Two5339 I wonder if any other men feel the same..
I think women just smell soooo amazing naturally, like they only need to shower once a month lol. Every part of them just smells sooo good especially when they exercise for awhile and get really sweaty then its way stronger and I just wanna keep inhaling it. And I love licking there armpits and sucking there toes after they just ran for awhile in the hot sun. I'm just so addicted to it. Do any other men feel the same? U can see I've made some other comments about this but I'm starting to realize that I can't find any other men who agree lol. Is it just me? Or do u guys think women smell so amazing too when they don't shower? And I love there period blood too, it's just way different then normal blood and something about it makes me just wanna eat it all. And when it dries up between her legs and sits for awhile it smells kinda fishy but has a unique smell at the same time and it's literally the bestttt. I like the blood clots too, I sucked on one only 1 time and she got mad at me for doing it lol, I'm gonna try to again next time she's in her period tho. Only women smell so amazing for some reason. And ppl are so surprised when I tell them I'm straight and they act shocked lol because I am really feminine and I always wear makeup and women's clothing, but I'm just not attracted to men at all, I can't be with one. And I feel like I'm more attracted to women then every other men out there bc I can't find any who love there body was much as I do. I'll send a pic of me and my gfs chat from yesterday... Well I'm pretending to still be committed to her and acting like everything is fine and I forgive her for cheating on me like 3 weeks ago so she's not rlly my gf, and I'm looking for a new women but it's not easy to find one who is accepting of me being so feminine and I might scare them away if they know how much I love there body lol. And I need a women who is willing to not shower that often for me and I will pay all the rent and bills and give her an allowance. I am doing this now with the girl who cheated and I barley have money for myself left tho... But it's worth it to me and I'm going to be making more soon, hopefully I find a women who won't make me pay them to not shower tho, that's too good to be true. Dm me if u want pics of our chat too if u think it's fake
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2024.05.16 15:26 Glittering_Use_5486 Raise your hand if you haven’t slept with Brother Lover!
 | Bon Bon has lots of free time now that she either quit or was fired from working at a pizza place because her boss was mean and refused to offer her a free place to live. Her current obsessions include: the corrupt justice system even though she still doesn’t understand the difference between criminal and civil, her school district, Aunt Ringleader and the Freemasons, and continuing to accuse anyone she has ever met of sleeping with Brother Lover. submitted by Glittering_Use_5486 to bonnieannxosnark [link] [comments] She is so narcissistic that she truly can’t understand that there is not a gaggle of women lined up to sleep with her sloppy leftovers. A leftover who happens to be married. She is so convinced that people want to be like her that she has convinced herself that women are lining up to sleep with a married man just to spite her. That doesn’t even make sense, Bonnie. Most of us have happy marriages and don’t wish to destroy them nor do we wish to attain a man who is cheating on his wife with the gym whore. And you know you’re a whore because only whores feel a need to continuously remind people that they don’t have STD’s and are “celibate.” You know what I would do if someone started a rumor that I had an STD? I would laugh. Why would I care about something so stupid if it’s not true. Oh, and by the way, let’s not forget that you’ve admitted you never actually heard these rumors for yourself. You had an intuitive download that people were spreading rumors about you. Sounds legit. You’re so messy, Bonnie. This isn’t a good look. Go get another job to keep you busy so you stop embarrassing yourself. You can’t even hold a job that my 16 year old niece does. Has it occurred to you that you have problems everywhere you go and you are the common denominator? Even in Mexico you had “stalkers” and people trying to kill you. Literally no one likes you no matter where you go. Has it crossed your mind that maybe you’re the problem? |
2024.05.16 15:13 MinecraftSexUpdate [GUIDE] Enjoy GAMING again by ruining the fun of sexhavers and foids
Are you a gamer? Want to take out on normies, sexhavers, and foids that infest what used to be OUR hobby? Those of us born in the 80's will remember a time when being a gamer was scorned. We were bullied, chastised, and shunned from our peer groups for enjoying video games. This would last up until the mid to late 90's when the media finally started pushing games to "dudebros" and eventually women in the early to mid 2000's. Finally in the past 10 years we've seen an infestation of shitskins and third worlders completely flooding everything. I refuse to lay down and die. I will stand and fight till the bitter end.
It's time to turn the tables and make them suffer as they made us suffer, both in life and the virtual world. (Legally and within the confines of the game, this is NOT a guide to IRL ruinate or anything of the sort.) Some of this stuff isn't allowed if you're an EU gamer.
First off, you're going to have to let go of playing video games to "win" or acquire virtual greed. You're going to need a new mindset. The mindset of a sadistic psychopath hellbent on extracting keks from anyone and everyone deemed not one of us. No more giving a fuck about your KDA, w/l ratio, or "following the rules" or the "meta" of what other players expect you to do. You are a gamer going your own way, regardless of what the groupthink expects or wants. If the game is F2P or you're a richfag or jewtuber who can get free games from devs then being banned is part of the fun, and is expected of you. If you cannot afford to buy back into games or are too technologically retarded to change your IP and spoof your hardware to get around bans in F2P games then you'll have to tread carefully.
Here's the part where I instruct you on how to fuck over these sexhavers for your own sadistic pleasure. After all they've denied us a life worth living in the real world and treat us like lepers. It's time they feel uncomfortable in OUR space. Feel free to add to any of these methods or pitch in ideas.
Foid infested "cozy" games
Shit like "Animal Crossing" or "Palia." Anything that lets you decorate and grow shit is a "cozy" game and women infest these games more than any other. It's literally a containment game of sorts to keep them out of other shit. To fuck with women in these games all you have to do is steal resources, build ugly and annoying things within the game world, be rude via emotes and text chat, and use emotes to make it look like your character is grabbing their tits or eating them out. I once did /eat to some slag girl gamer in WoW Vanilla 20 years ago and when I reverse searched my name she was bitching about it on reddit and remembered my characters exact name 4-5 years ago. She's STILL SEETHING about it 15 years later. This is what you want. Virtual RAPE. Many foids stream these types of games, and it's incredibly easy to get under their skin. Make the ugliest characters you possibly can and always stand in their camera. Stalk them in-game. Uglify the world around them. Spam emotes. The world is your oyster.
MMORPG's
World of Warcraft, or anything else really. Gank them. Corpse camp them. Dispel their world buffs. Emote spam sexually assault them. Use a high level or highly geared character to camp low level quest zones and steal mobs, resources, and kill low level players. Stream snipe them till they hide their screen with nothingness. Join their guilds and steal their resources after faking being a Chad. Get the entire guild wiped, blame it on the women healers. Play a vital role and underperform / disconnect at pivotal moments and blame a thunderstorm. Make everyone wait on your actions, but not enough to get gkicked. Openly challenge sex havers lifestyles in discord voice calls and call them out on their privileged bullshit. (Genetics, riches, went to a nice school, raised by good parents, etc.) Use every underbelly evil shithead tactic that these fuckers used towards us during our childhoods and young adult lives. Roleplay it up and lie about your IRL self to make them feel inferior. Exploit early and often, and cash out via RMT before you get banned or when you quit for some NEET bucks. If the game has a "random queue" system you can wipe endless groups or refuse to participate and hold entire game lobbies hostage.
FPS
Overwatch, Counter Strike, etc. Simply play terribly in ranked matches. Don't assist the team. Mic spam. Play vital roles like tank or healer then simply don't heal and tell them openly on the mic to beg if they want heals. Refuse to play at all if a woman is in voice chat. Verbally accost every white knight that defends her. Remember, they're most likely wagies who have to go to work tomorrow and you're most likely a NEET who has infinite free time. Remind them of this. (Even if it's not true.) In FPS with one life, openly tell the enemy team where your team mates are camping. Use aimbots, wall hacks, and other cheats to make both sides pissed off. If you're doing well gloat. If you're playing shittily, then call them a loser or a nerd. Flashbang your own team. Drop objective items as far as possible. Die with expensive guns (Auto sniper in CS triggers normies.) and make sure the enemy acquires them. Acquire or goad team mates into team killing you to 2 week ban them.
MOBA / RTS
League, Dota 2, Age of Empires, and other slop. Never go to the "meta" lane. (AD carry / support normally go bottom lane, but you're gonna always go middle, and steal your own teams jungle.) Never build the right items. Feed the enemy team, kill steal your own. Never push lanes or objectives. Ping spam. Keep text chats very "safe" to avoid bans. When a team mate dies, some ping spam and a "?" goes a long way. Never agree to surrender, unless your team is winning. Always report everyone who rages on you. Play characters that have statistically low win rates or are extra annoying. Use a lag switch to delay and hold entire lobbies hostage (RTS). Wall in your own team. Use retarded high risk low reward build orders. Be completely useless all of the time and never join team fights except after everyone's dead then schizo gaslight them that they were the ones not helping.
Survival, Crafting / Building Games
Minecraft, and shit like it. Become insanely super godlike good at the game. Learn all the metas, muscle memory, speed run tech, and master PvP. Join reddit servers and ruinate months of "cozy crafting" with max enchanted equipment and masterful grief tactics. Construct server destroying redstone machines. Completely ruin spawn and active players bases while they're offline. Destroy their VIP / pay 2 win "donation" special items. Join their discords and spam anti-vax, anti-pitbull, and black people violence webms from rekt threads on 4chan to get their servers shut down. Literally use modded hacked clients to ESP radar hack and dupe your way to victory, kicking down reddit twerps virtual sand castles and record the seethe in their discord voice chats while pretending you don't know what's going on. Abuse and exploit anything you can to the detriment of other players (Shittily coded cash shops and stores. RPG elements that are 100% broken, like a "health swap" spell that you can use on any god-geared player to swap your 1/2 heart health with their full HP then 1 shot them naked kinda shit.)
Indie slop
None of these games have any cheat protection. Cheat Engine even the most basic shit. I once played some slop card game and was able to set my opponents HP at the start of the game to 0 and win immediately. You can pretty much speed hack on all of this shit and most hack sites will have a few dedicated cheat bros that can do the wildest shit like gain access to admin panels and other destructive things. Even without cheats most basic exploits can really break these games. If a dupe method worked on one shitty survival Unreal 5 sloppa game, chances are it works on the other 7,000.
VR / Roleplay shit
Fondle titties. When the white knights run up and shout "back off" loudly point and laugh at them. Force feed slags coconut drinks. Put your arm around everyone and get really up close in their face. Make fun of their furfag outfits. Call them trannies. Take a right wing stance on everything. Use cheats to spam gore and porn everywhere. Use mod menus (Cheats) to force other players to emote or spawn giant laggy objects and explosions. Always talk shit in VOIP and spam soundboards. Be as annoying and as insufferable as possible.
Single Player Games
Okay, so this one's hard to "troll" but there's still ways to do it. You gotta share stuff in normie spaces that will offend and upset them. There was a guy that played Red Dead 2 and brutually murdered and tortured the "women have a right to vote" NPC to the point where he got banned off jewtube for it cause it pissed off so many redditors. You're gonna have to be real creative with this one. If you're a jewtuber you can intentionally kill off all the gay NPC's in Baldurs Gate 3 or something during your streams or playthroughs and watch the seethe roll in. Or make misleading and untrue guides or push a narrative you'd prefer to see and post them to normie sites to really stick it to 'em.
Please, feel free to share your ways of griefing and trolling foids and sexhavers within the confines of the video game. Since we can't be happy in real life, the least we can do is make their virtual lives closer to ours. Give them a taste of their own medicine. The only joy I have left in life is making others seethe in video games, because what the fuck else is there to do?
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It's time to turn the tables and make them suffer as they made us suffer, both in life and the virtual world. (Legally and within the confines of the game, this is NOT a guide to IRL ruinate or anything of the sort.) Some of this stuff isn't allowed if you're an EU gamer.
First off, you're going to have to let go of playing video games to "win" or acquire virtual greed. You're going to need a new mindset. The mindset of a sadistic psychopath hellbent on extracting keks from anyone and everyone deemed not one of us. No more giving a fuck about your KDA, w/l ratio, or "following the rules" or the "meta" of what other players expect you to do. You are a gamer going your own way, regardless of what the groupthink expects or wants. If the game is F2P or you're a richfag or jewtuber who can get free games from devs then being banned is part of the fun, and is expected of you. If you cannot afford to buy back into games or are too technologically retarded to change your IP and spoof your hardware to get around bans in F2P games then you'll have to tread carefully.
Here's the part where I instruct you on how to fuck over these sexhavers for your own sadistic pleasure. After all they've denied us a life worth living in the real world and treat us like lepers. It's time they feel uncomfortable in OUR space. Feel free to add to any of these methods or pitch in ideas.
Foid infested "cozy" games
Shit like "Animal Crossing" or "Palia." Anything that lets you decorate and grow shit is a "cozy" game and women infest these games more than any other. It's literally a containment game of sorts to keep them out of other shit. To fuck with women in these games all you have to do is steal resources, build ugly and annoying things within the game world, be rude via emotes and text chat, and use emotes to make it look like your character is grabbing their tits or eating them out. I once did /eat to some slag girl gamer in WoW Vanilla 20 years ago and when I reverse searched my name she was bitching about it on reddit and remembered my characters exact name 4-5 years ago. She's STILL SEETHING about it 15 years later. This is what you want. Virtual RAPE. Many foids stream these types of games, and it's incredibly easy to get under their skin. Make the ugliest characters you possibly can and always stand in their camera. Stalk them in-game. Uglify the world around them. Spam emotes. The world is your oyster.
MMORPG's
World of Warcraft, or anything else really. Gank them. Corpse camp them. Dispel their world buffs. Emote spam sexually assault them. Use a high level or highly geared character to camp low level quest zones and steal mobs, resources, and kill low level players. Stream snipe them till they hide their screen with nothingness. Join their guilds and steal their resources after faking being a Chad. Get the entire guild wiped, blame it on the women healers. Play a vital role and underperform / disconnect at pivotal moments and blame a thunderstorm. Make everyone wait on your actions, but not enough to get gkicked. Openly challenge sex havers lifestyles in discord voice calls and call them out on their privileged bullshit. (Genetics, riches, went to a nice school, raised by good parents, etc.) Use every underbelly evil shithead tactic that these fuckers used towards us during our childhoods and young adult lives. Roleplay it up and lie about your IRL self to make them feel inferior. Exploit early and often, and cash out via RMT before you get banned or when you quit for some NEET bucks. If the game has a "random queue" system you can wipe endless groups or refuse to participate and hold entire game lobbies hostage.
FPS
Overwatch, Counter Strike, etc. Simply play terribly in ranked matches. Don't assist the team. Mic spam. Play vital roles like tank or healer then simply don't heal and tell them openly on the mic to beg if they want heals. Refuse to play at all if a woman is in voice chat. Verbally accost every white knight that defends her. Remember, they're most likely wagies who have to go to work tomorrow and you're most likely a NEET who has infinite free time. Remind them of this. (Even if it's not true.) In FPS with one life, openly tell the enemy team where your team mates are camping. Use aimbots, wall hacks, and other cheats to make both sides pissed off. If you're doing well gloat. If you're playing shittily, then call them a loser or a nerd. Flashbang your own team. Drop objective items as far as possible. Die with expensive guns (Auto sniper in CS triggers normies.) and make sure the enemy acquires them. Acquire or goad team mates into team killing you to 2 week ban them.
MOBA / RTS
League, Dota 2, Age of Empires, and other slop. Never go to the "meta" lane. (AD carry / support normally go bottom lane, but you're gonna always go middle, and steal your own teams jungle.) Never build the right items. Feed the enemy team, kill steal your own. Never push lanes or objectives. Ping spam. Keep text chats very "safe" to avoid bans. When a team mate dies, some ping spam and a "?" goes a long way. Never agree to surrender, unless your team is winning. Always report everyone who rages on you. Play characters that have statistically low win rates or are extra annoying. Use a lag switch to delay and hold entire lobbies hostage (RTS). Wall in your own team. Use retarded high risk low reward build orders. Be completely useless all of the time and never join team fights except after everyone's dead then schizo gaslight them that they were the ones not helping.
Survival, Crafting / Building Games
Minecraft, and shit like it. Become insanely super godlike good at the game. Learn all the metas, muscle memory, speed run tech, and master PvP. Join reddit servers and ruinate months of "cozy crafting" with max enchanted equipment and masterful grief tactics. Construct server destroying redstone machines. Completely ruin spawn and active players bases while they're offline. Destroy their VIP / pay 2 win "donation" special items. Join their discords and spam anti-vax, anti-pitbull, and black people violence webms from rekt threads on 4chan to get their servers shut down. Literally use modded hacked clients to ESP radar hack and dupe your way to victory, kicking down reddit twerps virtual sand castles and record the seethe in their discord voice chats while pretending you don't know what's going on. Abuse and exploit anything you can to the detriment of other players (Shittily coded cash shops and stores. RPG elements that are 100% broken, like a "health swap" spell that you can use on any god-geared player to swap your 1/2 heart health with their full HP then 1 shot them naked kinda shit.)
Indie slop
None of these games have any cheat protection. Cheat Engine even the most basic shit. I once played some slop card game and was able to set my opponents HP at the start of the game to 0 and win immediately. You can pretty much speed hack on all of this shit and most hack sites will have a few dedicated cheat bros that can do the wildest shit like gain access to admin panels and other destructive things. Even without cheats most basic exploits can really break these games. If a dupe method worked on one shitty survival Unreal 5 sloppa game, chances are it works on the other 7,000.
VR / Roleplay shit
Fondle titties. When the white knights run up and shout "back off" loudly point and laugh at them. Force feed slags coconut drinks. Put your arm around everyone and get really up close in their face. Make fun of their furfag outfits. Call them trannies. Take a right wing stance on everything. Use cheats to spam gore and porn everywhere. Use mod menus (Cheats) to force other players to emote or spawn giant laggy objects and explosions. Always talk shit in VOIP and spam soundboards. Be as annoying and as insufferable as possible.
Single Player Games
Okay, so this one's hard to "troll" but there's still ways to do it. You gotta share stuff in normie spaces that will offend and upset them. There was a guy that played Red Dead 2 and brutually murdered and tortured the "women have a right to vote" NPC to the point where he got banned off jewtube for it cause it pissed off so many redditors. You're gonna have to be real creative with this one. If you're a jewtuber you can intentionally kill off all the gay NPC's in Baldurs Gate 3 or something during your streams or playthroughs and watch the seethe roll in. Or make misleading and untrue guides or push a narrative you'd prefer to see and post them to normie sites to really stick it to 'em.
Please, feel free to share your ways of griefing and trolling foids and sexhavers within the confines of the video game. Since we can't be happy in real life, the least we can do is make their virtual lives closer to ours. Give them a taste of their own medicine. The only joy I have left in life is making others seethe in video games, because what the fuck else is there to do?
2024.05.16 15:11 Witty-Location-5368 Husband texted coworker
My husband and I are married for 4 years now. I am 29, he is 28 and we have a son who is now 15 months old. When he was born it was all ok until husband started having some problems at work and when he would come home we didn’t interact so much. He would be frustrated and angry, i didn’t have help around house and the baby was a bit difficult, screaming so much every day, didn’t want to sleep in his crib for some time, only when i was holding him. So my husband and i didn’t have much time together so that became frustrating also. Meanwhile he changed the job and that’s when the biggest problem happened. First of all after the job interview he just called me to say he accepted the job without coming home and talking about stuff like that like we always did with each other. So he started dating and i noticed he started acting differently. There was this one female colleague that he would mention a lot, look at schedule to see when they are together on the shift and so he started texting her, i saw different behavior, hiding phone when i was around, excitedly jumping to answer the texts and i got very suspicious, this was going on for 2 weeks. So one day when baby was asleep i confronted him and he confessed everything and showed me all the messages and i had a lot to read. He was texting saying they could go walk her dog before or after shift together, the could go to a movie and stuff like that, there were some intimate things too. All in all not the thing you want to text someone outside of your marriage. He says he did it because he missed me because our marriage got a bit cold because of the baby, which was true, it’s our first baby and it’s been really difficult. The type of texts were just like he texted me at the beginning of our relationship. So he said he will stop with that and he did, after that we were ok for 2 weeks but then something else happened. He went to work a bit too early and i had i strong gut feeling that something is happening that shouldn’t be. So i did something i feel very bad for, i did it for the first time ever in my life and i feel like a piece of shit but it was so much stronger than me. We are connected onto the find my app so i saw he went to her home to pick her up before work which was completely unnecessary because she literally lives 3 minutes of walking distance from their job so i texted him about it, he lied to me when he came home he said signal was bad. He drove her home after work and the next day too. The next day he confessed again that he lied about driving her. He promised he wouldn’t do that again but guess what he did it few days later again. He said he couldn’t say no because he was asking and she very well what kind of problem she was for us and she was asking again even though he told her he wouldn’t do that anymore. So anyway we went to therapy in November 2023, and all this happened in august/September 2023. Due to stress i lost so much weight i was almost anorexic, i couldn’t function normally, i was barely able to hold it together to take care of our baby. There was never anything physical with them but i can’t help to think would happen if i didn’t find out. I told him this was emotional affair and that he cheated on me, he doesn’t think the same. He was and still is sorry about everything, and there a lot more of little details and things that happened but this is already so much to write.
He promised he wouldn’t drive her anymore, he says they are just friends, it’s really good to work with her because she is responsible, they still talk to each other every day but i am so much bothered by that still almost a year after. There has been so much fighting, crying, feeling so bad mentally and physically and i still feel like that most of the time on the inside but we are good in a sense that our relationship is just like it was before we had a baby. Am i crazy that i despise their friendship and the fact that they still work together? I am so hurt that he doesn’t realize why that friendship is so bad. Everything gave me so much anxiety that sometimes all I would do is cry every day all day. I was even thinking about divorce for a really long time. We talked about it only with marriage counselor, we never said anything to our parents or friends even though they were asking questions because of the weight i lost and they sensed something was off. I still sometimes feel like i have to talk about it but i don’t want to talk about it with him until completely figure out my feelings and thoughts so i can be clear about everything to him and so i can tell my side calmly without causing us to fight because i am so tired of fighting. I was thinking about going to therapy myself to take care of me because i feel so much resentment, i despise so many things, i am frustrated and angry but i don’t show it because our relationship is really good like the way it was but on the inside i am still hurting and i am still not over it. I am so full of anxiety still, sometimes can’t sleep, i sometimes fear he will drive her again after he promised he wouldn’t do that anymore. I noticed i now react so much differently when we have a typical marriage argument. It sets me into panick mode, i just cry, i can’t talk, i feel so out of place like i am not myself anymore like i can’t function in situations like that. I have the need to put up a wall between me and him. He tries to calm me down and talk to me about what’s happening but i just can’t make myself to talk because of some fear and so he gets frustrated. He also started saying he would love to have a second child but all of this is a very big reason for me not to have the second one. I can’t put myself emotionally in that place again, our baby was just 6 months old when all of this started happening. Maybe in a few years… I also feel so weird to bring this up to him again after almost a year after everything. We love each other so much, he really is a good husband and dad and he really tries. I know it sounds so awful written like this but i know us and how we are, this happened probably for a reason because some thing did get better with us, with our marriage and our communication but some other thing i wrote i still bothering and make me feel bad and i don’t have anyone to talk to about this. Talking to parents or friends is a no go because there would be taking sides and even more drama and i just can’t take it anymore.
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He promised he wouldn’t drive her anymore, he says they are just friends, it’s really good to work with her because she is responsible, they still talk to each other every day but i am so much bothered by that still almost a year after. There has been so much fighting, crying, feeling so bad mentally and physically and i still feel like that most of the time on the inside but we are good in a sense that our relationship is just like it was before we had a baby. Am i crazy that i despise their friendship and the fact that they still work together? I am so hurt that he doesn’t realize why that friendship is so bad. Everything gave me so much anxiety that sometimes all I would do is cry every day all day. I was even thinking about divorce for a really long time. We talked about it only with marriage counselor, we never said anything to our parents or friends even though they were asking questions because of the weight i lost and they sensed something was off. I still sometimes feel like i have to talk about it but i don’t want to talk about it with him until completely figure out my feelings and thoughts so i can be clear about everything to him and so i can tell my side calmly without causing us to fight because i am so tired of fighting. I was thinking about going to therapy myself to take care of me because i feel so much resentment, i despise so many things, i am frustrated and angry but i don’t show it because our relationship is really good like the way it was but on the inside i am still hurting and i am still not over it. I am so full of anxiety still, sometimes can’t sleep, i sometimes fear he will drive her again after he promised he wouldn’t do that anymore. I noticed i now react so much differently when we have a typical marriage argument. It sets me into panick mode, i just cry, i can’t talk, i feel so out of place like i am not myself anymore like i can’t function in situations like that. I have the need to put up a wall between me and him. He tries to calm me down and talk to me about what’s happening but i just can’t make myself to talk because of some fear and so he gets frustrated. He also started saying he would love to have a second child but all of this is a very big reason for me not to have the second one. I can’t put myself emotionally in that place again, our baby was just 6 months old when all of this started happening. Maybe in a few years… I also feel so weird to bring this up to him again after almost a year after everything. We love each other so much, he really is a good husband and dad and he really tries. I know it sounds so awful written like this but i know us and how we are, this happened probably for a reason because some thing did get better with us, with our marriage and our communication but some other thing i wrote i still bothering and make me feel bad and i don’t have anyone to talk to about this. Talking to parents or friends is a no go because there would be taking sides and even more drama and i just can’t take it anymore.
2024.05.16 15:08 subredditsummarybot Your weekly /r/DeepRockGalactic recap for the week of May 09 - May 15, 2024
Thursday, May 09 - Wednesday, May 15, 2024
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Dev
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 4,708 | 155 comments | ..... |
Discussion
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 375 | 89 comments | Got all my Weapon Maintenance stuff done. just in time for Season 5! What do you guys think of this system so far? |
| 315 | 55 comments | Do y'all think there are space hobbits? |
| 267 | 92 comments | Why all bug killing games so patriotic? |
Ideas
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 214 | 15 comments | (Silly idea) It would be cool if your dwarf’s level/promotions increased their alcohol tolerance. |
| 48 | 16 comments | Bosco upgrade idea |
| 31 | 1 comments | Making chest plates on chest armors optional, for style, for clipping, for ROCK & STONE |
Question
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 918 | 251 comments | Cultural Customs a Greenbeard should know? |
| 555 | 100 comments | Question: Would Senshi from Delicious in Dungeon make a good worker in DRG, assuming he’s taught to use firearms and equipment and would other dwarves take a liking to him? |
| 318 | 149 comments | How much PvE is in the game? |
Rock & Stone
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 2,375 | 207 comments | what could he possibly be doing ? |
| 2,105 | 67 comments | The day care at the space rig while the parents are on hoxeus |
| 1,173 | 84 comments | Warframe public chat! 🥰 |
Err
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 295 | 9 comments | Spent like 3 minutes looking for the last mini mule. This one takes the cake. |
| 146 | 33 comments | What the hell did I just wander into? What is HAZ FX2?? |
| 145 | 7 comments | lost helmet spawned inside drop pod drill |
HumoMeme
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 5,763 | 115 comments | Another game, another disappointment. |
| 4,882 | 157 comments | Lol |
| 4,612 | 101 comments | Got banned from the discord for posting this so I’m gonna share it with you guys |
Modded Gameplay
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 1,309 | 20 comments | 100 golden lootbugs all at once! |
| 6 | 3 comments | Anybody know a good mod for "More Bugs?" |
OC
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 2,356 | 76 comments | Imagine having dwarf couple as neighbours... How would it be? |
| 1,019 | 55 comments | GRILL EM ALL!!! |
| 226 | 5 comments | i somehow managed a trickshot out of pure luck |
Weapon Build
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 175 | 19 comments | will the lead storm overclock for the minigun stop you from drunkenly stumbling around like a buffoon? |
| 45 | 34 comments | Ok I rate the build I call him the chitin breaker |
| 4 | 4 comments | Which T5 mod do you use for the Sludge Pump on Haz 5? |
Other Posts
| score | comments | title & link |
|---|---|---|
| 4,207 | 313 comments | [MINER MEME] These diamond promos are getting expensive |
| 3,068 | 44 comments | [Humor] I broke down a driller |
| 2,630 | 75 comments | [MINER MEME] Status effect be like |
| 1,928 | 116 comments | Look where I found a rock and stone! |
| 1,820 | 100 comments | [MINER MEME] Hmm… I wonder what liquid morkite tastes like… |
Top Comments
2024.05.16 15:03 According-Name-7921 Can Dazai just fall in love? Any headcannons?
 | So I am writing a fanfic, I need ideas, so look in this story, A certain girl or woman, joined the agency (and btw she is very beautiful and also don't get me wrong but by beautiful I mean unnaturally beautiful, something that is beyond human perception and one look at her can make anyone feel pleasure of happiness and safety) submitted by According-Name-7921 to BungouSimpBattles [link] [comments] So after she joined the agency for temporary time and for some reason she was Dazai's roommate cause Dazai had to keep an eye on her because she was kind of suspicious, and then the whole guild arc happened blah blah blah, so Dazai and her become very good friends and for sure Dazai tried to flirt with her at first but she wasn't someone who would take his Bs, and as she was his roommate and Dazai was trying to get her, she started to understood Dazai and his inner thoughts and everything, she started to discover his true self even though Dazai was distant at first, Afterwards she felt sad for Dazai and because she wasn't a human and had some beyond powers, she made Oda came back to life just to make Dazai happy which Dazai didn't knew about, but she realized Dazai was still fucked up from the beginning and she started to understand him more and started to fall for him and love him truely even though she didn't show it everytime but she is someone who can understand Dazai completely, Dazai also felt attracted to her, So I wanna know will Dazai fall in love with her? And will he stay faithful? Or will he cheat afterwards and just use her? (Also keep in mind she is someone who gets along with Oda as friends and understands Dazai very well , and might love him truely and has told Dazai something that blew his mind off and change his perspective a bit, she is just as smart as him or maybe even more smarter with more knowledge about everything, she knows the aspects of life like the good and bad) So how do u think this will all play out in the time in season 5 when Dazai was in prison? Will he fall in love with her ? Or will he just use her? |
2024.05.16 15:00 CrazyZealousideal806 I think I am a controlling abuser
Hi everyone
I am a 21 year old student who was in a 3 year relationship that ended abruptly two days ago.
Our relationship began in highschool and got off to a rocky start when everyone around me started gossiping about her cheating on her ex. I grew up in a household with a single mom who had been cheated on every single relationship. So I was deathly afraid of this happening to me. After months we came up with this agreement that we’d update eachother on snapchat whenever we were apart. And because we missed eachother we would also call at night when we slept.
After all those years this turned into what I think was my crutch to keep my fears away. The snapchats turned away from occasional talking to full day surveillance. The calling turned into a necessity. Whenever I saw something that set alight my paranoia I got extremely combative. For example if she hadnt sent a snap in an hour from the other, i would become afraid and fully believe that there was something going on. This then turned into me saying things like “if you treat me like this I wont be able to continue our relationship”. I now look at this and see that it is a threat of me leaving unless she did what i said. I saw it as me enforcing my boundaries and it seemed normal.
She also expected calls from me and would also get upset if I didnt update well, so I thought that this was just how we did things, every relationship had something weird or unhealthy they had to work on in my eyes. And i sought therapy in those two years but had extreme difficulties in finding a psychologist. So these issues remained.
A couple of days ago, while she had a hard week with college, she broke down about everything to a friends mom. Who then informed her parents. While we were discussing the distribution of chores around our appartement, we were living together for 2 years now, her parents stormed in and scolded me for being a controlling manipulator. The dad got very verbal and the mother said something akin to “i dont know how i havent seen that my daughter was so unhappy here”. It blew me away, i never thought she was unhappy as we were having fun just the evening beforehand.
Now they keep her away from me and are blocking my number, telling her that my controlling behaviour outweighed any of the good i did. Like helping her out of cutting herself and abusing alcohol. They check her phone to see if she doesnt message me.
After they left I looked up if I was an abuser, and i can certainly see that i did things on the lists being unaware of what I was doing. I called helplines and spoke to as many people i could to help me and figured that i needed instant care. I will now have a team of psychiatrists and psychologists visit 3 times a week and will be admitted to a facility sometime in the future.
I do not want to be an abuser, and she wants to stay in contact but work on ourselves separately, i agree and i want to be better for myself. But i dont feel okay with them keeping her locked down like this.
Am I a lost cause? Did I lose the best person in my life?
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I am a 21 year old student who was in a 3 year relationship that ended abruptly two days ago.
Our relationship began in highschool and got off to a rocky start when everyone around me started gossiping about her cheating on her ex. I grew up in a household with a single mom who had been cheated on every single relationship. So I was deathly afraid of this happening to me. After months we came up with this agreement that we’d update eachother on snapchat whenever we were apart. And because we missed eachother we would also call at night when we slept.
After all those years this turned into what I think was my crutch to keep my fears away. The snapchats turned away from occasional talking to full day surveillance. The calling turned into a necessity. Whenever I saw something that set alight my paranoia I got extremely combative. For example if she hadnt sent a snap in an hour from the other, i would become afraid and fully believe that there was something going on. This then turned into me saying things like “if you treat me like this I wont be able to continue our relationship”. I now look at this and see that it is a threat of me leaving unless she did what i said. I saw it as me enforcing my boundaries and it seemed normal.
She also expected calls from me and would also get upset if I didnt update well, so I thought that this was just how we did things, every relationship had something weird or unhealthy they had to work on in my eyes. And i sought therapy in those two years but had extreme difficulties in finding a psychologist. So these issues remained.
A couple of days ago, while she had a hard week with college, she broke down about everything to a friends mom. Who then informed her parents. While we were discussing the distribution of chores around our appartement, we were living together for 2 years now, her parents stormed in and scolded me for being a controlling manipulator. The dad got very verbal and the mother said something akin to “i dont know how i havent seen that my daughter was so unhappy here”. It blew me away, i never thought she was unhappy as we were having fun just the evening beforehand.
Now they keep her away from me and are blocking my number, telling her that my controlling behaviour outweighed any of the good i did. Like helping her out of cutting herself and abusing alcohol. They check her phone to see if she doesnt message me.
After they left I looked up if I was an abuser, and i can certainly see that i did things on the lists being unaware of what I was doing. I called helplines and spoke to as many people i could to help me and figured that i needed instant care. I will now have a team of psychiatrists and psychologists visit 3 times a week and will be admitted to a facility sometime in the future.
I do not want to be an abuser, and she wants to stay in contact but work on ourselves separately, i agree and i want to be better for myself. But i dont feel okay with them keeping her locked down like this.
Am I a lost cause? Did I lose the best person in my life?
2024.05.16 14:59 bongothebean A letter to nobody.
I can't email the people that I want to know these things that are in my head.. Nor do I want to. They don't deserve it and frankly, I don't care that much. But I can write it here and pretend this is addressed to you two horrible people.
I have to admit, finding out Eric was cheating on me for 2 years (that I know of, I've always suspected more and he was ALWAYS a horrible husband/partner - what was I thinking??) was a huge shock to my universe. Him finally admitting some sort of wrongdoing was something I was not used to. What was I used to? Constantly telling me I was paranoid, making me feel like I didn't deserve his attention, making me feel like shit, being a terrible parent BECAUSE YOU NEVER PARENTED, abandonment, silent treatment, financial abuses, selfishness, laziness, your shitty family.. the list goes on, really. But on the other side of this my life is better. I feel like I can breathe without you. I can enjoy things and see my friends without a constant guilt trip coming from you. I can spend MY money on things that I WANT to spend money on (or actually save it! fucking shocker there! no more credit card debt accruing because of YOU).
I really hate the impact he's had on my daughter, though. When he was still "with" us, his negative impact came in his indifference. Now, it's his indifference coupled with the distraction of stupid Clarisse. MY daughter deserved so much more. She deserves the fucking world. She's brilliant and funny and beautiful and so so so so loved, and I can't believe you didn't just cheat on me and leave me.. but you did it to BOTH OF US.
So many ways I want to insult Clarisse, so many ways I wish she knew the horrible impact she's had on a family, how she's changed a small girl's view on the world forever. Eric is a lost fucking cause. He is his father AMPLIFIED. I've given up on him understanding. But her.. I want to tell her I think her jawline looks like she's holding tobacco between her lip and her gum, that her hair is stringy and that I think she must be severely damaged to believe that what she's contributed to is OKAY. I want to ask her if she KNOWS that in our divorce agreement (that Eric agreed to and signed off on!) that she's NEVER allowed to have contact with our daughter. I want to ask her if she knows that Eric told me he'd never have kids with her. That he claims he will come in *EVERY* weekend to see his daughter, which means that *EVERY WEEKEND* for as long as they're together, he will not be with her, Clarisse. I want to ask how she plans to spend all of her holidays if he claims to be committed to seeing his daughter.. do you really want to NOT be with your *love* for the rest of your life on holidays? I want to ask if she knows how much student debt he has ($130k+) or how much credit card debt he has or how little he's actually contributing in child support. I want to ask if she knows that his dumbass didn't start planning for retirement until I asked him to consider it when he was finally around 36 years old because I worried that my contributions wouldn't be enough for us (fortunately, something I don't have to be concerned with now). I want to ask her if his weird patches of back hair and receding hairline turn her on.. or his LONG toenails or the fact that he eats his boogers AND earwax? There are so many horrible traits, horrible things about him, secrets he hides, habits that he doesn't, that I could probably fill a book.. but I'm glad you'll just get to experience them all uniquely on your own.. because he cannot and will not change. He refuses to work on himself. Refuses to deal with his deep rooted childhood trauma and his textbook narcissism. Eric will always be number one to Eric. Not you. Not his mother. Not his daughter. It will always be Eric.
My God.. I just wonder what your dynamic is like. At this point it feels more out of morbid curiosity. I hold anger because of what you've done to my daughter, but I'm glad he's out of my life. And truthfully, I hope that your family hates him. :)
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I have to admit, finding out Eric was cheating on me for 2 years (that I know of, I've always suspected more and he was ALWAYS a horrible husband/partner - what was I thinking??) was a huge shock to my universe. Him finally admitting some sort of wrongdoing was something I was not used to. What was I used to? Constantly telling me I was paranoid, making me feel like I didn't deserve his attention, making me feel like shit, being a terrible parent BECAUSE YOU NEVER PARENTED, abandonment, silent treatment, financial abuses, selfishness, laziness, your shitty family.. the list goes on, really. But on the other side of this my life is better. I feel like I can breathe without you. I can enjoy things and see my friends without a constant guilt trip coming from you. I can spend MY money on things that I WANT to spend money on (or actually save it! fucking shocker there! no more credit card debt accruing because of YOU).
I really hate the impact he's had on my daughter, though. When he was still "with" us, his negative impact came in his indifference. Now, it's his indifference coupled with the distraction of stupid Clarisse. MY daughter deserved so much more. She deserves the fucking world. She's brilliant and funny and beautiful and so so so so loved, and I can't believe you didn't just cheat on me and leave me.. but you did it to BOTH OF US.
So many ways I want to insult Clarisse, so many ways I wish she knew the horrible impact she's had on a family, how she's changed a small girl's view on the world forever. Eric is a lost fucking cause. He is his father AMPLIFIED. I've given up on him understanding. But her.. I want to tell her I think her jawline looks like she's holding tobacco between her lip and her gum, that her hair is stringy and that I think she must be severely damaged to believe that what she's contributed to is OKAY. I want to ask her if she KNOWS that in our divorce agreement (that Eric agreed to and signed off on!) that she's NEVER allowed to have contact with our daughter. I want to ask her if she knows that Eric told me he'd never have kids with her. That he claims he will come in *EVERY* weekend to see his daughter, which means that *EVERY WEEKEND* for as long as they're together, he will not be with her, Clarisse. I want to ask how she plans to spend all of her holidays if he claims to be committed to seeing his daughter.. do you really want to NOT be with your *love* for the rest of your life on holidays? I want to ask if she knows how much student debt he has ($130k+) or how much credit card debt he has or how little he's actually contributing in child support. I want to ask if she knows that his dumbass didn't start planning for retirement until I asked him to consider it when he was finally around 36 years old because I worried that my contributions wouldn't be enough for us (fortunately, something I don't have to be concerned with now). I want to ask her if his weird patches of back hair and receding hairline turn her on.. or his LONG toenails or the fact that he eats his boogers AND earwax? There are so many horrible traits, horrible things about him, secrets he hides, habits that he doesn't, that I could probably fill a book.. but I'm glad you'll just get to experience them all uniquely on your own.. because he cannot and will not change. He refuses to work on himself. Refuses to deal with his deep rooted childhood trauma and his textbook narcissism. Eric will always be number one to Eric. Not you. Not his mother. Not his daughter. It will always be Eric.
My God.. I just wonder what your dynamic is like. At this point it feels more out of morbid curiosity. I hold anger because of what you've done to my daughter, but I'm glad he's out of my life. And truthfully, I hope that your family hates him. :)
2024.05.16 14:56 Choice_Age_2948 Trauma Adamson
Please hide my identity.
Sorry for a really long message. I just want to rant about my trauma as a 1st year Klasmeyt in this blue and white school.
First sem was horrible but this sem is worst.
It started during the preliminary period of second semester, there were 2 weeks na wala kaming prof on our computing 2 course, but suddenly a professor naming M.L.C. and said to us that he will be gone for atleast 3 weeks because he has to attend a seminar on Singapore. So he gave a substitute learning material for us kasi wala din siyang hawak na syllabus and learning modules about the subject, So he gave his personal YOUTUBE ACCOUNT where he teaches so many topics, pero useless din ito kasi nga hindi namin alam kung ano-ano yung mga need namin panoorin. He also said The mathematics department is going to send a replacement professor for us. But none came. So much time was wasted waiting for a replacement professor for a 3:30 PM to 5:00 PM class.
But the time came and he got back for teaching us on preliminary period. Sobrang self-entitled niya like using mathematical symbols that were unfamilliar to us. But not only that, He was giving late announcements na walang klase to the point na 4:00 PM na kami naghihintay, dun palang siya magchachat sa GC namin na hindi siya makakapunta.
And at the start of midterms period, he said to us that he will resign because of personal reasons, so new substitute professor will be provided by the mathematics department. Mr. Ignacio was reassigned as our professor and yeah as you've expected, Bagsakan era. Only 2 (their grades was 2.25 and 3.00) out of 16 students passed on our course. Out of desperation, I started cheating on his exams, and whenever i looked around during exam, It's not only me that cheat and use calculators, BUT ALMOST EVERYONE. But i don't want to cheat anymore, it destroys my integrity and character.
He would come late in class, and immediately start giving QUIZ EVERY MEETING for only 15 MINUTES to do. This time is not enough, and his practice examples were not enough.
Mathematics was really my weakness, but I can keep up if I have a strong foundation in it. However, I was part of a K-12 program Pandemic Era where my calculus subjects (Pre-Cal and Basic Cal) were online, and we did not have a professor during my senior high school days. Kaya kung wala akong magandang nasimulan dito sa course na to, wala talaga.
I know matagal ng nirereklamo si Mr. Ignacio in this school, but why? parang walang action ang school dito. Because of this, I'm really fucked up, I'm really traumatized. I might resort into killing myself.
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Sorry for a really long message. I just want to rant about my trauma as a 1st year Klasmeyt in this blue and white school.
First sem was horrible but this sem is worst.
It started during the preliminary period of second semester, there were 2 weeks na wala kaming prof on our computing 2 course, but suddenly a professor naming M.L.C. and said to us that he will be gone for atleast 3 weeks because he has to attend a seminar on Singapore. So he gave a substitute learning material for us kasi wala din siyang hawak na syllabus and learning modules about the subject, So he gave his personal YOUTUBE ACCOUNT where he teaches so many topics, pero useless din ito kasi nga hindi namin alam kung ano-ano yung mga need namin panoorin. He also said The mathematics department is going to send a replacement professor for us. But none came. So much time was wasted waiting for a replacement professor for a 3:30 PM to 5:00 PM class.
But the time came and he got back for teaching us on preliminary period. Sobrang self-entitled niya like using mathematical symbols that were unfamilliar to us. But not only that, He was giving late announcements na walang klase to the point na 4:00 PM na kami naghihintay, dun palang siya magchachat sa GC namin na hindi siya makakapunta.
And at the start of midterms period, he said to us that he will resign because of personal reasons, so new substitute professor will be provided by the mathematics department. Mr. Ignacio was reassigned as our professor and yeah as you've expected, Bagsakan era. Only 2 (their grades was 2.25 and 3.00) out of 16 students passed on our course. Out of desperation, I started cheating on his exams, and whenever i looked around during exam, It's not only me that cheat and use calculators, BUT ALMOST EVERYONE. But i don't want to cheat anymore, it destroys my integrity and character.
He would come late in class, and immediately start giving QUIZ EVERY MEETING for only 15 MINUTES to do. This time is not enough, and his practice examples were not enough.
Mathematics was really my weakness, but I can keep up if I have a strong foundation in it. However, I was part of a K-12 program Pandemic Era where my calculus subjects (Pre-Cal and Basic Cal) were online, and we did not have a professor during my senior high school days. Kaya kung wala akong magandang nasimulan dito sa course na to, wala talaga.
I know matagal ng nirereklamo si Mr. Ignacio in this school, but why? parang walang action ang school dito. Because of this, I'm really fucked up, I'm really traumatized. I might resort into killing myself.
2024.05.16 14:53 No_Funny3533 Miyuki Miyamoto/ Yomi / Jeong Nahyeon Scam Network Sites JPNDATE CUDATE DATESTEADY SAYHIUP
 | UPDATED INFO throughout it. submitted by No_Funny3533 to Romance_Scamer [link] [comments] They have a new Scam Website: https://www.datesteady.com/ (Reuses JPNDATE assets even) I think she Chinese and Korean. They try to scam me a second time, her friend (I just wanted real love) Yomi/ Miyuki Miyamoto/ Jeong Nahyeon Written Before: There is this dangerous woman (same person) running many fake Chinese Romance scam websites, fake Instagram pages, tik tok, We chats, and many Chinese porn sites. It is the same person, she uses her looks with pictures and videos to steal money from men. She has many names she goes by, probably even more than I found. She also uses bots to get fake likes and weird Anime filters to try to look like an idol. She has scam artist female friends also I found. She the leader. I know a lot of scammers steal from other people's identities but that is not the case here. This is the same person as the scammer. My story will explain it. As well as this person has pictures of the same person you can’t find anywhere else on the Internet. Even if you do a Reverse Face image search. They said information that match to an unbelievable level. The person who Scammed me: Has Many names (Such As) And a talent for speaking many languages
https://www.instagram.com/gracegracemei/ Email: [miyukilovee@outlook.com](mailto:miyukilovee@outlook.com) (Something about BlessCeline Lovee) Skype ID: live:.cid.737fb9ac2ad5655c
(Make Sense) u/mingmei1344 https://www.instagram.com/mingmei1344/ https://www.facebook.com/liuliu.meimingmei (Owner of aiu_agency since 2015) u/aiu_agency https://www.instagram.com/aiu_agency/
Hotel Connected: SHILLA STAY Gwanghwamun Her Scam Artist friends who work for both Ai_U Agency and JPNDATE CUDATE (That I found) Vynnie_nat : https://www.instagram.com/vynnie_nat/#jiejierui_ngc: https://www.instagram.com/jiejierui_ngc/Veravera_zhangg: https://www.instagram.com/veravera_zhangg/Elle_owo_elle : https://www.instagram.com/elle_owo_elle/Qiqi_shenglim : https://www.instagram.com/qiqi_shenglim/Myemye_owo_ : https://www.instagram.com/myemye_owo_/Her Friends that are connected somehow but not sure how yet. They appear everywhere with the fake accountsRiyandiwilliam : https://www.instagram.com/riyandiwilliam/https://preview.redd.it/2d0g7b2las0d1.jpg?width=400&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=f25ee7d014b3ae338612c980a5db88eca5ef6cb5Summary: Jpndate.com is a dangerous Romance scam. All the women are paid actors for the website from China. They will try to get into a relationship with you very fast, don’t fall for it. They are milking you for money like if you're a cow. They will threaten to kill you or your family if you call out their scam. They might also say they will sue you. If you stop paying them, they will text you very little. They will never video call you face-to-face. Jpndate.com has a sister scam website from the same people called sayhiup.com. When you buy something on Jpndate the payment goes to Cudate Limited, so that site must be part of the scam also. There is a company in China doing all type of illegal and immoral practices. Their name is Zhengzhou Zhongzhiqi Technology Co., Ltd. / 郑州市中之祺科技有限公司 . They have their main technology business but they also run a list of many scam websites stealing money from American men, Asian, and European men. Such as Cudate, JPNDate, SayhiUp. These are romance scam sites where all the women work for the company. If you make a female account it will pend forever. Only men get approved. They claimed before to be an American-owned company then I exposed them now they claim to be Dutch. Their servers are all in China. They never filed paperwork with any foreign country. They are none of these the Chinese pretending to run many dating sites when in fact it’s all fake. They claim to be in nations their not. They have fake terms of service. I used PayPal before I didn't know it was a scam. I paid in dollars, but they refused to refund me till I told PayPal. PayPal made them. Then they refused to pay me the total amount they wanted to pay me on yuan when I paid dollars. I report them to FTC. They also try to hack my laptop for tell the government the truth about them. They probably get funds from the Communist Party government. They are very very bad people. Please look into it or forward this message somewhere where it can be looked into. Pretends to be a legit dating site but feel more like a pay-to-use website for fake love. All women here are paid actors for the site. The same few women have multiple profiles pretending to be different people. Funny part is anytime you call out JPNDate bs they change their terms of service. Screenshot everything people. They have a fake page saying their trying to stop scammers, it all bs they are the scammers. Host of JPNDate Servers: As the writing of this post: IP: 47.242.112.134 - Server: nginx GeoIP: HK - AS45102 (ALIBABA-CN-NET Alibaba US Technology Co., Ltd., CN) My Story: (Update): I know it is the same person, They told me in a text message. Do you like Asian women? Real Asian women? These ones are real! I know who they are. Hi! This is Mark Faraday talking to you. This is my story of how a website named JPNDate Idols scammed me out of 4000 American dollars. First, I was on Japan Cupid, a dating site. On Japan Cupid, no one can chat unless one of you has a membership. I bought a 1-week membership. Within 5 minutes to 10 minutes, a woman nicknamed Yomi from Japan messaged me; this should have been a red flag for me. We talked for a while. She said she was interested in me. She asked me if I could move over to the dating site JPNDate because she paid for membership there and not Japan Cupid. She also promised to delete her account on Japan Cupid after we changed sites. She does delete her account off Japan Cupid. Unlike a normal scam artist, who may only have 1 or 2 photos, she has several photos on her profile. My trust in her grows a bit seeing that. She then privately messaged me several more photos of her. She asked me for some photos, which I sent. She then sends back happy and heartfelt emojis. She told me she doesn’t date Asian men anymore because they were violent to her in the past and her last boyfriend cheated on her. She talked about how she didn’t want to fight with me. She also said we could talk about any topic. She would compliment me often, as I did for her. Of course, on my profile page, I try to post my best pictures. Throughout my life, I have had many different hairstyles. She even mentioned this and got very happy and asked if I was a hairstylist. The spam of talking between us was from January 20th, 2024, to March 24th, 2024. On JPNDate, there is an upgrade system. You need Blue Diamond to chat with others. Crown to send videos. Blue Diamond is 20 dollars per month, and Crown is 80 dollars per month. I got the Blue Diamond membership at first. It showed her with it too. After a day or two, she asked me to upgrade like she did to the Crown membership so she could send me a video. I upgraded it, and she did actually send me a video. All pictures and the video match the same person and the same face. Some pictures were in different locations, and some were like three different pictures in the same place. We then later buy a 6-month Crown membership for each other because it is cheaper than 1 month at a time. I bought it for her, and she bought it for me. At this point, I start to believe. This person was giving me all their time. They reply very often, and their texting time was the same as Japan timezones every single day. They spoke not only English but also Japanese almost fluently. However, they did let me know that they're still learning English and sometimes use a translator. She let me know that this website has something called a mall. This should have been red flag number 2. You pay 1 American dollar for each gold point. Paypal is the only thing that works. When we started dating, she said it was normal for couples in Japan to send each other gifts. It was a symbol of forever love in Japan, she claimed. As an American, I didn’t know if this was true. I googled it and couldn’t get a clear answer. She said whatever I bought her, she would buy me as well. She asked if I liked necklaces or charms. I said anything was fine. She wanted me to pick up a necklace. At first, she picked up a $1,000 necklace from the site mall and asked me. I said no; that's way too much money for that. She said how about a 300-dollar Jade Romance charm. She told me to get her white one; she would get me the green one. I questioned if she was legit. She started crying. She somehow convinced me at the time that she was legit again. I did buy it. A few weeks later, I did receive the overpriced Green Jade Romance love charm to my address from her. I never told her which day exactly my tracking information said it would come to my house, but I asked her, and her tracking date was the same week as mine. By the way something almost the same as this necklace is 12 dollars on Amazon. It also broke when I got it in the mail. Probably cost them 2 cent to make. For the next few days, we had a wonderful, happy conversation. It is late January, and I know Valentine's Day is coming. I offered to get her flowers. I got her flowers and chocolate at a very high price of multiple hundred dollars. She then gets so happy. She told me many times how she wanted to go to America and find me. We talked about many topics for several more days. She told me she worked in an office in Tokyo. Yomi told me her real name was Miyuki Miyamoto. Which is very funny because I told her before I was a Nintendo fan, and this is the same last name as Mario and Zelda Creator. She also said she had her apartment to herself, which is true; she does own an apartment. She talked about how life is stressful right now in Japan. She claimed to have grown up in the Japanese town of Nagano, Japan. She also said she had gone to a university in Tokyo with a major in computer science. She wanted to visit America in July for 15 days when she had her time off. July is a normal time for people to get off in Japan for vacation, so I thought nothing of it. I told her that I was from a smaller town in California, but I lived not far from San Francisco. I told her how my town is quiet and how I could see mountains outside my house. She said she wanted a peaceful life and that life in Tokyo is too fast. And she always had great things to say about every picture I sent. We also talk about going on dates. I asked most of the questions, but she did ask me questions as well. I started to ask her a lot of questions about Japan. Like if she visited Himeji Castle, she said no. However, I did say yes to visiting Mount Fuji. I should have asked for a photo of this, but I didn’t. She was very happy; she told me very many topics about Japan. We even briefly talked about anime. She told me she liked Digimon, Dragon Ball Z, One Piece, and Detective Conan. This information is important later. We also talked about how both of us were big Disney fans growing up. One day she told me, how work was busy today. I told her it was okay and we didn’t need to talk today. She did, however, still text me a little bit that day. This was the only day during our whole time talking when she was super busy. There is nothing wrong with this; all humans get busy. I decided to spend my evening drawing a picture of me and Yomi on a date to surprise her. When I sent it to her, she did not react. This was a red flag for me. I tried to convince myself that she just didn’t like drawings that much. I know I sound really dumb right here, but whoever I was talking to is very smart and knows a lot of things. We started talking a few days later about the idea of meeting and going on dates together. I know that the yen is weak against the American dollar right now. I told them I would pay for anything they wanted when they were in America because I was in love. This was a big, big, big mistake. They then asked if I could give them 1500 dollars to buy a plane ticket. Never give money to people you never meet in real life, folks. Don’t be dumb like me. Turns out the ticket was actually 2100, so they asked for another 500 dollars the next day, claiming their friend let them borrow the money, and they paid the difference. They did show me a picture of a plane ticket. With the name Yomi and the correct airports in Tokyo and San Francisco. This gave me more trust in them; I got a lot of photos, videos, and even a picture of a plane ticket. At some point, I talked to them about social media. They claim to only have Skype and Line. I found it very hard to believe a woman in her 20s wasn’t on Instagram or Tik Tok. I went on Instagram and typed Yomi, and I found a Yomi who looked just like her. This made me think: why did she lie? What confused me is that all the pictures on her Instagram were different from the ones she sent me, other than one image that was the same. Meaning that the images were not clearly stolen from there. I looked up JPNDate online; there isn’t much info on this website (Right Now), other than one reddit forum from 1 year ago. Someone said something about being scammed by an IDOL on this site. They also said the website wasn’t in Japan but in China. I was wondering why I never saw new females joining the website; it was the same 23 pages worth of them. I wanted to test the website to see if it was legit. I made another account, a fake male account with AI artwork. It was approved in one second. I then made a fake female account; it said pending approval. It has now been 2 weeks since I made that account, and it still says pending approval. This means all the women on this website have to be fake actors. There is also a setting on JPNDate to see who has been online last or which accounts are the oldest. When I asked weeks before, Yomi claimed she had been on this website only for a short time. Her oldest picture was dated October 20, 2023. Yet she has the sixth-oldest account on JPNDate, according to the website. The reddit forum I talked about before was over a year old. When I was on this website for a month, at least 10 other women tried to text me. There was this one profile of a woman from Taiwan, age 20. She texted me three times in one month. When I joined, her age was listed as 20, and at some point, she changed her age to 25 on her profile. I ignored all these women. This proves again that all these women are fake. I do think they are women based on how they type, but they are not truthful like they act like they are. As I write this, I just realized this is Yomi's sister; it matches the other Yomi account's sister tag. I knew this website wasn’t telling the truth. I found the JPNDate IP address and tracked it to a server in Hong Kong, China, hosted by Alibaba cloud servers. Reddit was right; the website is Chinese. I took pictures of the website code just in case. I asked Yomi if she knew Alibaba. Then she asked if I’m going to China—a very strange follow-up question. At this point, I was confused. Who is Yomi? I couldn’t find anything about Miyuki Miyamoto, only Yomi. On Yomi Instagram, she speaks Chinese, not Japanese. I started to think there are no Japanese women on this website like they claim to be. She does speak Japanese, though. I started using more than 10 different software programs to track who Yomi was. I found like 1000 pictures of an idol, WeChat model, singer, dancer, person on endless Chinese dating sites, and a valiant professional gamer part of the AI’U agency for over 8 years. I found two other Instagram accounts with Yomi's face. Another account in Chinese with an idol name other than Yomi also had a Facebook page. The Chinese account has a post about her going to Australia in early 2024, where she is typing in English words. I also found an account where she speaks only Korean on Instagram. I also found a tik-tok where someone dances and looks 100% the same as Yomi, to whom I’m talking. The part that is crazy is that none of the images are 100% the same, but the person is the same in all of them. This shocked me; I follow all the accounts. I saw the stories daily to see who this person was. Her Yomi account is just her normal pictures and atm company or something. Her Korean account is about traveling to Singapore, Spain, and South Korea. She also posts a lot about Disney toys here. When I talked to the scammer about Disney, I had no idea about this. At this point, I knew that many men had been scammed out of money for fake love, not just me. These women are real women. However, there are actors pretending to be in love. They will crush your heart and call you names after a few weeks if you don’t buy their stuff. It has to be from JPNdate Mall only, nowhere else. JPNdate Mall prices are crazy high. I am not sure if the point of the website is just for money or if it is actually for women to study English or what. Chinese women, pretending to be Japanese (most of them), that have connections to Korean music and gaming on professional teams. Man, what a hell of a story this is. This sounds like a Hollywood movie, but it's real, or at least partly. At this point, everything I say seems to be true based on what I know. Yomi told me early on that she had one older sister and one younger brother. It seems like she is actually a twin, and she is the younger sister. Yomi claims to be 25, but I think she is closer to 27 or 28 based on finding a listing of her work in 2015 at Twitch Gaming. You have to be 18 or older to work at Twitch gaming, unless your parents sign things. When I showed the pictures I found to Yomi on JPNdate, she played the victim card on me. Saying she thinks I’m a liar and she wants to break up. Then she gave me her Skype account to try to prove it was legit, and all the other images and accounts were stolen and fake. Her Skype name is Rose, with a One Piece picture. She sent me many voice clips, crying, trying to convince me that she was real. I put them in software, and the voice was 30% human, 70% AI. Clearly, a woman is changing her Chinese or Korean voice to sound Japanese. A PC gamer would know how to do this; they do it all the time to troll. Yomi told me she didn’t play video games anymore, but I found a picture that wasn’t that old of a woman who looked the same as her; she had a Nintendo Switch with a white OLED in it. Btw it’s a known fact that Yomi uses software to cheat in the Pc FPS games. I can’t let Yomi, her sister, and her idol friends scam men for their time and money. Yomi Chiense's name is Vera Yuanxin (维拉). Her twin sister goes by veravera_zhangg. Yomi “deleted her profile” when I exposed her. But Yomi is still there with no pictures. Two they clearly have other accounts with people who look like she just changed hairstyle, talking and trying to scam other men. Remember when I said the anime part was important? On Yomi's Korean account, she has a friend with whom she talks about Digimon. She gave him a Disney toy. She told me she wanted to cosplay a fox; his profile is a fox. There is just so much proof that these are the same people. Later someone hit me up on Reddit from the Phillippines and told me how the same person Yomi scammed them. How for months Yomi promise them so many things. Then when they said it came to going on the plane to visit him they said they were sick or dying or something. Yomi also made a fake Instagram pretending to be Joe Biden and sent me a friend invite. I messaged and it was so funny how bad it was on their part. I said “Yomi are you trolling me?” then they deleted their account. This was on April 6th, 2024. Yomi tries so hard but use a lot of cheap things that are clearly fake like ai artwork, bots for like at ai_u agency, and fake profiles where she comments herself and attacks anyone who calls her out fairly. After exposing Jpndate they Ip ban my address lol. Then on social media joke about attacking me. If you call out their BS they threaten your family and yourself. Just stay away from all these sites if you're going to date online use well-known legit sites. 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2024.05.16 14:52 MonitorSingle3168 Narcissistic people don’t know that they are the problem
Narcissists are masters of destroying or sabotaging their own relationships. This is one of the reasons it’s not possible to make them happy.
This sabotage is driven by 3 key factors:
The lack of whole object relations and object constancy The need for narcissistic supply The need to preserve their idealized self, their persona The lack of whole object relations and object constancy.
The narcissist does not have the ability to see all of you at one time. They see you as “all good” or “all bad.” They also don’t have the ability to remain positive about your relationship during a challenge or a setback. They assume it is over.
For this reason, the narcissist will do or say things when they see you as “all bad” that are harmful to the relationship.
They will…
Say something so cruel that things will never be the same Reveal your deepest secrets Destroy something of importance to you Cheat on you As soon as they flip back into seeing you as “all good,” which can happen quickly, they do not remember ever feeling you were “all bad.” They cannot fathom having done or said anything hurtful because they “never felt that way.”
This is when you’ll hear…
That never happened I would never say that to you! That doesn’t sound like me They have sabotaged the relationship for both of you.
The need for narcissistic supply.
The need for narcissistic supply is so strong, it supersedes all else.
Remember, a narcissist gleans supply in 2 ways:
Ingratiation: admiration, praise, respect, validation, positive attention Grandiosity: Gaining power and control by devaluing others The narcissist will…
Ruin their laundry by leaving a pen in their pocket, just to ruin yours Get fired, decreasing discretionary family income, for attention Continue to blatantly lie, when you’ve told them you’ll leave if it happens again The need to preserve their idealized self, their persona.
The narcissist needs street cred with their flying monkeys. They will do things that sabotage their relationship just to preserve their image. (Picture Danny Zuko when he runs into Sandy at the pep rally in Grease.)
They also need to reinforce this image for themselves.
The narcissist will…
Demean you in public, to look powerful Flirt with younger, attractive people to look more attractive Transfer finances into their name to be in control When their persona includes being a victim, they will sabotage themselves just to have more victim stories.
The narcissist will…
Take a pic while driving, then post it publicly, just so they aren’t considered safe to drive their kids Be physically aggressive with the kids, so they have supervised contact only Spend all of their money, so they can be broke But is it actually sabotage?
Or instead, is the narcissist getting exactly what they need?
While it appears that the narcissist has ruined their day, their financial security, their relationship with their kids, the narcissist has actually secured narcissistic supply. That’s their primary need.
The narcissist has gotten exactly what they wanted.
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This sabotage is driven by 3 key factors:
The lack of whole object relations and object constancy The need for narcissistic supply The need to preserve their idealized self, their persona The lack of whole object relations and object constancy.
The narcissist does not have the ability to see all of you at one time. They see you as “all good” or “all bad.” They also don’t have the ability to remain positive about your relationship during a challenge or a setback. They assume it is over.
For this reason, the narcissist will do or say things when they see you as “all bad” that are harmful to the relationship.
They will…
Say something so cruel that things will never be the same Reveal your deepest secrets Destroy something of importance to you Cheat on you As soon as they flip back into seeing you as “all good,” which can happen quickly, they do not remember ever feeling you were “all bad.” They cannot fathom having done or said anything hurtful because they “never felt that way.”
This is when you’ll hear…
That never happened I would never say that to you! That doesn’t sound like me They have sabotaged the relationship for both of you.
The need for narcissistic supply.
The need for narcissistic supply is so strong, it supersedes all else.
Remember, a narcissist gleans supply in 2 ways:
Ingratiation: admiration, praise, respect, validation, positive attention Grandiosity: Gaining power and control by devaluing others The narcissist will…
Ruin their laundry by leaving a pen in their pocket, just to ruin yours Get fired, decreasing discretionary family income, for attention Continue to blatantly lie, when you’ve told them you’ll leave if it happens again The need to preserve their idealized self, their persona.
The narcissist needs street cred with their flying monkeys. They will do things that sabotage their relationship just to preserve their image. (Picture Danny Zuko when he runs into Sandy at the pep rally in Grease.)
They also need to reinforce this image for themselves.
The narcissist will…
Demean you in public, to look powerful Flirt with younger, attractive people to look more attractive Transfer finances into their name to be in control When their persona includes being a victim, they will sabotage themselves just to have more victim stories.
The narcissist will…
Take a pic while driving, then post it publicly, just so they aren’t considered safe to drive their kids Be physically aggressive with the kids, so they have supervised contact only Spend all of their money, so they can be broke But is it actually sabotage?
Or instead, is the narcissist getting exactly what they need?
While it appears that the narcissist has ruined their day, their financial security, their relationship with their kids, the narcissist has actually secured narcissistic supply. That’s their primary need.
The narcissist has gotten exactly what they wanted.
2024.05.16 14:49 Savings_Ad_2297 39/M I am the droid you’re looking for if you are looking for a new best friend!
Hey all! This is a bit weird for me being almost 40 and looking for friends. But here I am anyways lol. Mainly looking for someone to message throughout the day and get to know. Maybe game with if we have that in common. I do work from home so there’s no one to really talk to during the day.
I’m married and have 2 kids, a 6 month old son and a 9 year old daughter. I’m into basic nerdy things. Gaming, star wars, super heroes, DnD, etc. Also trading card games like Disney Lorcana and Star Wars Unlimited.
I watch a ton of Critical Role stuff especially Campaign 3! Currently on episode 74, so if you watch too, let me know! Also like to watch Battle of the Brands on YouTube.
I’m also into movies and tv, some sports, pro wrestling. Collecting action figures and retro games is one of hobbies as well. Anything 80s/90s nostalgia i absolutely love so if you want to talk childhood and growing up back then, i’m down! I miss the good old days where we went to arcades and italian sunday dinners at the grandparents and where the world just wasn’t as nutso as it is today lol.
My kids are everything to me and I do love talking about them. Love being silly with them and spending time with them (when they aren’t driving me crazy 🤪 lol)..I would prefer you be around my age and have kids as well just so we have that stuff in common off the bat! I’m socially awkward most times but very easy to get along with. I’m definitely considered an introvert. But once you get to know me I break out of that awkward shell. I do like to use sarcasm, and mostly like to try and make people laugh because a world without laughter would just be horrible.
Alright i’ll shut up now but I’d like to think i’m an awesome person to get to know and hopefully there’s more you’d like to know so feel free to DM me! (I looove using GIFs so if you message me, open up with a funny one! Especially since then i’ll know you actually read this 😂)
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I’m married and have 2 kids, a 6 month old son and a 9 year old daughter. I’m into basic nerdy things. Gaming, star wars, super heroes, DnD, etc. Also trading card games like Disney Lorcana and Star Wars Unlimited.
I watch a ton of Critical Role stuff especially Campaign 3! Currently on episode 74, so if you watch too, let me know! Also like to watch Battle of the Brands on YouTube.
I’m also into movies and tv, some sports, pro wrestling. Collecting action figures and retro games is one of hobbies as well. Anything 80s/90s nostalgia i absolutely love so if you want to talk childhood and growing up back then, i’m down! I miss the good old days where we went to arcades and italian sunday dinners at the grandparents and where the world just wasn’t as nutso as it is today lol.
My kids are everything to me and I do love talking about them. Love being silly with them and spending time with them (when they aren’t driving me crazy 🤪 lol)..I would prefer you be around my age and have kids as well just so we have that stuff in common off the bat! I’m socially awkward most times but very easy to get along with. I’m definitely considered an introvert. But once you get to know me I break out of that awkward shell. I do like to use sarcasm, and mostly like to try and make people laugh because a world without laughter would just be horrible.
Alright i’ll shut up now but I’d like to think i’m an awesome person to get to know and hopefully there’s more you’d like to know so feel free to DM me! (I looove using GIFs so if you message me, open up with a funny one! Especially since then i’ll know you actually read this 😂)
2024.05.16 14:49 Savings_Ad_2297 39/M I am the droid you’re looking for if you’re looking for an awesome new best friend!
Hey all! This is a bit weird for me being almost 40 and looking for friends. But here I am anyways lol. Mainly looking for someone to message throughout the day and get to know. Maybe game with if we have that in common. I do work from home so there’s no one to really talk to during the day.
I’m married and have 2 kids, a 6 month old son and a 9 year old daughter. I’m into basic nerdy things. Gaming, star wars, super heroes, DnD, etc. Also trading card games like Disney Lorcana and Star Wars Unlimited.
I watch a ton of Critical Role stuff especially Campaign 3! Currently on episode 74, so if you watch too, let me know! Also like to watch Battle of the Brands on YouTube.
I’m also into movies and tv, some sports, pro wrestling. Collecting action figures and retro games is one of hobbies as well. Anything 80s/90s nostalgia i absolutely love so if you want to talk childhood and growing up back then, i’m down! I miss the good old days where we went to arcades and italian sunday dinners at the grandparents and where the world just wasn’t as nutso as it is today lol.
My kids are everything to me and I do love talking about them. Love being silly with them and spending time with them (when they aren’t driving me crazy 🤪 lol)..I would prefer you be around my age and have kids as well just so we have that stuff in common off the bat! I’m socially awkward most times but very easy to get along with. I’m definitely considered an introvert. But once you get to know me I break out of that awkward shell. I do like to use sarcasm, and mostly like to try and make people laugh because a world without laughter would just be horrible.
Alright i’ll shut up now but I’d like to think i’m an awesome person to get to know and hopefully there’s more you’d like to know so feel free to DM me! (I looove using GIFs so if you message me, open up with a funny one! Especially since then i’ll know you actually read this 😂)
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I’m married and have 2 kids, a 6 month old son and a 9 year old daughter. I’m into basic nerdy things. Gaming, star wars, super heroes, DnD, etc. Also trading card games like Disney Lorcana and Star Wars Unlimited.
I watch a ton of Critical Role stuff especially Campaign 3! Currently on episode 74, so if you watch too, let me know! Also like to watch Battle of the Brands on YouTube.
I’m also into movies and tv, some sports, pro wrestling. Collecting action figures and retro games is one of hobbies as well. Anything 80s/90s nostalgia i absolutely love so if you want to talk childhood and growing up back then, i’m down! I miss the good old days where we went to arcades and italian sunday dinners at the grandparents and where the world just wasn’t as nutso as it is today lol.
My kids are everything to me and I do love talking about them. Love being silly with them and spending time with them (when they aren’t driving me crazy 🤪 lol)..I would prefer you be around my age and have kids as well just so we have that stuff in common off the bat! I’m socially awkward most times but very easy to get along with. I’m definitely considered an introvert. But once you get to know me I break out of that awkward shell. I do like to use sarcasm, and mostly like to try and make people laugh because a world without laughter would just be horrible.
Alright i’ll shut up now but I’d like to think i’m an awesome person to get to know and hopefully there’s more you’d like to know so feel free to DM me! (I looove using GIFs so if you message me, open up with a funny one! Especially since then i’ll know you actually read this 😂)
2024.05.16 14:48 Witty-Location-5368 Husband texted coworker
My husband and I are married for 4 years now. I am 29, he is 28 and we have a son who is now 15 months old. When he was born it was all ok until husband started having some problems at work and when he would come home we didn’t interact so much. He would be frustrated and angry, i didn’t have help around house and the baby was a bit difficult, screaming so much every day, didn’t want to sleep in his crib for some time, only when i was holding him. So my husband and i didn’t have much time together so that became frustrating also. Meanwhile he changed the job and that’s when the biggest problem happened. First of all after the job interview he just called me to say he accepted the job without coming home and talking about stuff like that like we always did with each other. So he started working and i noticed he started acting differently. There was this one female colleague that he would mention a lot, look at schedule to see when they are together on the shift and so he started texting her, i saw different behavior, hiding phone when i was around, excitedly jumping to answer the texts and i got very suspicious, this was going on for 2 weeks. So one day when baby was asleep i confronted him and he confessed everything and showed me all the messages and i had a lot to read. He was texting saying they could go walk her dog before or after shift together, the could go to a movie and stuff like that, there were some intimate things too. All in all not the thing you want to text someone outside of your marriage. He says he did it because he missed me because our marriage got a bit cold because of the baby, which was true, it’s our first baby and it’s been really difficult. The type of texts were just like he texted me at the beginning of our relationship. So he said he will stop with that and he did, after that we were ok for 2 weeks but then something else happened. He went to work a bit too early and i had i strong gut feeling that something is happening that shouldn’t be. So i did something i feel very bad for, i did it for the first time ever in my life and i feel like a piece of shit but it was so much stronger than me. We are connected onto the find my app so i saw he went to her home to pick her up before work which was completely unnecessary because she literally lives 3 minutes of walking distance from their job so i texted him about it, he lied to me when he came home he said signal was bad. He drove her home after work and the next day too. The next day he confessed again that he lied about driving her. He promised he wouldn’t do that again but guess what he did it few days later again. He said he couldn’t say no because he was asking and she very well what kind of problem she was for us and she was asking again even though he told her he wouldn’t do that anymore. So anyway we went to therapy in November 2023, and all this happened in august/September 2023. Due to stress i lost so much weight i was almost anorexic, i couldn’t function normally, i was barely able to hold it together to take care of our baby. There was never anything physical with them but i can’t help to think would happen if i didn’t find out. I told him this was emotional affair and that he cheated on me, he doesn’t think the same. He was and still is sorry about everything, and there a lot more of little details and things that happened but this is already so much to write.
He promised he wouldn’t drive her anymore, he says they are just friends, it’s really good to work with her because she is responsible, they still talk to each other every day but i am so much bothered by that still almost a year after. There has been so much fighting, crying, feeling so bad mentally and physically and i still feel like that most of the time on the inside but we are good in a sense that our relationship is just like it was before we had a baby. Am i crazy that i despise their friendship and the fact that they still work together? I am so hurt that he doesn’t realize why that friendship is so bad. Everything gave me so much anxiety that sometimes all I would do is cry every day all day. I was even thinking about divorce for a really long time. We talked about it only with marriage counselor, we never said anything to our parents or friends even though they were asking questions because of the weight i lost and they sensed something was off. I still sometimes feel like i have to talk about it but i don’t want to talk about it with him until completely figure out my feelings and thoughts so i can be clear about everything to him and so i can tell my side calmly without causing us to fight because i am so tired of fighting. I was thinking about going to therapy myself to take care of me because i feel so much resentment, i despise so many things, i am frustrated and angry but i don’t show it because our relationship is really good like the way it was but on the inside i am still hurting and i am still not over it. I am so full of anxiety still, sometimes can’t sleep, i sometimes fear he will drive her again after he promised he wouldn’t do that anymore. I noticed i now react so much differently when we have a typical marriage argument. It sets me into panick mode, i just cry, i can’t talk, i feel so out of place like i am not myself anymore like i can’t function in situations like that. I have the need to put up a wall between me and him. He tries to calm me down and talk to me about what’s happening but i just can’t make myself to talk because of some fear and so he gets frustrated. He also started saying he would love to have a second child but all of this is a very big reason for me not to have the second one. I can’t put myself emotionally in that place again, our baby was just 6 months old when all of this started happening. Maybe in a few years… I also feel so weird to bring this up to him again after almost a year after everything. We love each other so much, he really is a good husband and dad and he really tries. I know it sounds so awful written like this but i know us and how we are, this happened probably for a reason because some thing did get better with us, with our marriage and our communication but some other thing i wrote i still bothering and make me feel bad and i don’t have anyone to talk to about this. Talking to parents or friends is a no go because there would be taking sides and even more drama and i just can’t take it anymore
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He promised he wouldn’t drive her anymore, he says they are just friends, it’s really good to work with her because she is responsible, they still talk to each other every day but i am so much bothered by that still almost a year after. There has been so much fighting, crying, feeling so bad mentally and physically and i still feel like that most of the time on the inside but we are good in a sense that our relationship is just like it was before we had a baby. Am i crazy that i despise their friendship and the fact that they still work together? I am so hurt that he doesn’t realize why that friendship is so bad. Everything gave me so much anxiety that sometimes all I would do is cry every day all day. I was even thinking about divorce for a really long time. We talked about it only with marriage counselor, we never said anything to our parents or friends even though they were asking questions because of the weight i lost and they sensed something was off. I still sometimes feel like i have to talk about it but i don’t want to talk about it with him until completely figure out my feelings and thoughts so i can be clear about everything to him and so i can tell my side calmly without causing us to fight because i am so tired of fighting. I was thinking about going to therapy myself to take care of me because i feel so much resentment, i despise so many things, i am frustrated and angry but i don’t show it because our relationship is really good like the way it was but on the inside i am still hurting and i am still not over it. I am so full of anxiety still, sometimes can’t sleep, i sometimes fear he will drive her again after he promised he wouldn’t do that anymore. I noticed i now react so much differently when we have a typical marriage argument. It sets me into panick mode, i just cry, i can’t talk, i feel so out of place like i am not myself anymore like i can’t function in situations like that. I have the need to put up a wall between me and him. He tries to calm me down and talk to me about what’s happening but i just can’t make myself to talk because of some fear and so he gets frustrated. He also started saying he would love to have a second child but all of this is a very big reason for me not to have the second one. I can’t put myself emotionally in that place again, our baby was just 6 months old when all of this started happening. Maybe in a few years… I also feel so weird to bring this up to him again after almost a year after everything. We love each other so much, he really is a good husband and dad and he really tries. I know it sounds so awful written like this but i know us and how we are, this happened probably for a reason because some thing did get better with us, with our marriage and our communication but some other thing i wrote i still bothering and make me feel bad and i don’t have anyone to talk to about this. Talking to parents or friends is a no go because there would be taking sides and even more drama and i just can’t take it anymore
2024.05.16 14:48 Powerful_Contract501 Saw my ExWBPD Yesterday and regret saying some things
My ex left (discarded) about a month ago, which was the 3rd time in the last year. We had been together for 4yrs up until that point, in which the first few years were the idealization stage. She wanted to spend every minute with me and sex was flowing. Looking back there were episodes all of the time but the repairs were so quick it became normal. Then the year before the first time we left I noticed a big shift. Mostly in regards to sex. She would make comments how it hurt or she would try to avoid it. Fast forward to the end of that year and she cheated with someone from an app that lived 1200 miles away. They started a long distance relationship and she left. 2 months after she left she came back and we gave it another go but intimacy was a big issue. She said she wanted to have sex with me but couldnt for some reason. We would try but she would get uncomfortable and want to stop. After 2 months she left to be with the guy and oddly enough the day before she left we had the most intense passionate sex and she told me how much she loved me and was crying during it. I felt totally blindsided. This time I swore I was done and went no contact. I found out through my daughter she was trying to introduce the long distance guy to her on facetime and at that point I broke no contact to ask her to talk. She ended up coming over to discuss how we should introduce people to our daughter and she ended up catching feelings again and long story short we gave it another go. It started off ok but quickly realized we still had intimacy issues but everything else was fine. She always wanted to cuddle and hang out so it seemed like she was ok with childlike affection but couldnt kiss or have sex. Our couples counselor said to be patient and focus on connecting without sex but after 6 months she left again and of course shes talking to this guy once more. I went as no contact for the last month and then yesterday i attended a school function for our daughter and she was there with her family who loves me. I made it a point to stand far away and then she walked over to me and asked to talk. I declined but then afterwards she asked again and its very hard to resist so I obliged. She told me how she wished we could work but that she needs to heal and then asked "if you were dating someone else and I wanted to come back would you leave them" lol.
We then spoke for an hour after the event and in the moment I was caught up but held my ground and said im sorry but you left our family 3 times. I told her how I dont hate her and I know she does the things she does to absolve the pain. These relationships are such a cruel trick because when youre with the person (at least in my case) its not obvious that there's something wrong. My ex was diagnosed at 15 but now she thinks she doesnt have it or that was an incorrect diagnosis. She's also very young (early 20's) so its tough to discuss BPD with her. I did say if there was a path back to us she would have to attend this inpatient program recommended by our couples counselor but even then it wouldnt make much of a difference.
The point of this post was to reiterate no contact is the best way to heal and going forward im going to avoid her unless absolutely necessary even if that means missing some events. I regret even mentioning theres a path back to being together because in a couple of months I wont want that. Even now I realize how sick it is to want that with someone that treats you poorly.
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We then spoke for an hour after the event and in the moment I was caught up but held my ground and said im sorry but you left our family 3 times. I told her how I dont hate her and I know she does the things she does to absolve the pain. These relationships are such a cruel trick because when youre with the person (at least in my case) its not obvious that there's something wrong. My ex was diagnosed at 15 but now she thinks she doesnt have it or that was an incorrect diagnosis. She's also very young (early 20's) so its tough to discuss BPD with her. I did say if there was a path back to us she would have to attend this inpatient program recommended by our couples counselor but even then it wouldnt make much of a difference.
The point of this post was to reiterate no contact is the best way to heal and going forward im going to avoid her unless absolutely necessary even if that means missing some events. I regret even mentioning theres a path back to being together because in a couple of months I wont want that. Even now I realize how sick it is to want that with someone that treats you poorly.
2024.05.16 14:44 Careless-Bowl-8449 Cannot-Be-Gay/Str8 Foldable Album by Iris: Patent Pending
NV
Ba’t di ka nalang mag-“full gay”? Ganun rin namang usapan yan kasi mas trip mo mga lalaki, at least less complication within the community, yung mga homophobes nalang po-problemahin mo. Mag-aalangan rin sayo yung ibang lalaki pagsinabi mong bi ka kasi may chance ka na mag-asawa nalang ng babae at iwan sila dahil mas madali buhay mo dun.
Ba’t di ka nalang mag-str8? Mas simple pa buhay mo, tas mas simple pa gumawa ng pamilya. (Insert the tone of holding heterosexuality like it is the way, the truth, and the life.) Mahirap rin na may mag-commit sayo na babae kung bi ka kasi yung dating sa kanila malaki tsansa na manglalalaki ka tas gawin mo lang silang cover.
I know may mga bi peeps na pagod na rin sa mga ganitong unsolicited inputs/expectations from people within and outside the community. When you try to educate them, they look at you with condescending doubt pa. As much as I want to ignore them, there is still a part of me which hopes that it would be an avenue for them to learn.
Ito yung mga instances na nage-gets ko why there are some people who refuse to put labels on themselves para wala nang maraming satsat, still, they draw flak mula sa mga taong utak dinosaur kesyo confused daw, undecided, pa-mysterious, etc.
Kaya naisip ko kung e-print ko nalang kaya ang mga pictures ng mga celebs na’to, yung tipong pocket-size na foldable album:
Albert Martinez Maggie Q Louis Hofmann Tatti Gabrielle Mads Mikkelsen Victoria Pedretti Daniel Dae Kim Tatiana Maslany Sendhil Ramamurthy Neve Campbell Michiel Huisman Barbara Palvin
Yung sabay latag nalang nito sa harap nila ala-“nuff said.” Tas kung ipu-push pa nila yung issue, I’ll just wrap their face with the photos. “Himurin mo silang lahat, tungunu ka.”
Alam ko gasgas na 'to but ...
The gender of someone's partner and their faithfulness to them do not erase their bisexuality.
Someone’s heterosexuality/homosexuality alone does not lessen their chances to cheat.
... or perhaps utak lang talaga nila ang gasgas. (Tregerd na tregerd si Koya nyo eh.)
Siri, play Lagabog.
I hereby declare before Iris, the Goddess of Rainbows, First of Her Name, Queen of the Anals and the Versmen, Protector of the Rim, Mother of Condoms, the Khaleesi of the Great Ass Sea, the Unstraight, the Breaker of Chaste, that any distasteful, unsolicited inputs shall henceforth be met with a calm and seductive “nope”.
Satire aside, between the dilemma of not-giving-a-f*ck and trying to educate people, I think I would be choosing the former na. Ika nga nila I’m getting too old for this sh*t.
It may seem counterintuitive for our cause which is to raise awareness, but educating people is a hit-or-miss activity din and the misses drain you more than the hits replenish your energy.
If someone willingly and openly wants to be educated dun nalang siguro ako e-entre. Dun tayo sa may substantial and savable na utak.
Valar Oralis.
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Ba’t di ka nalang mag-“full gay”? Ganun rin namang usapan yan kasi mas trip mo mga lalaki, at least less complication within the community, yung mga homophobes nalang po-problemahin mo. Mag-aalangan rin sayo yung ibang lalaki pagsinabi mong bi ka kasi may chance ka na mag-asawa nalang ng babae at iwan sila dahil mas madali buhay mo dun.
Ba’t di ka nalang mag-str8? Mas simple pa buhay mo, tas mas simple pa gumawa ng pamilya. (Insert the tone of holding heterosexuality like it is the way, the truth, and the life.) Mahirap rin na may mag-commit sayo na babae kung bi ka kasi yung dating sa kanila malaki tsansa na manglalalaki ka tas gawin mo lang silang cover.
I know may mga bi peeps na pagod na rin sa mga ganitong unsolicited inputs/expectations from people within and outside the community. When you try to educate them, they look at you with condescending doubt pa. As much as I want to ignore them, there is still a part of me which hopes that it would be an avenue for them to learn.
Ito yung mga instances na nage-gets ko why there are some people who refuse to put labels on themselves para wala nang maraming satsat, still, they draw flak mula sa mga taong utak dinosaur kesyo confused daw, undecided, pa-mysterious, etc.
Kaya naisip ko kung e-print ko nalang kaya ang mga pictures ng mga celebs na’to, yung tipong pocket-size na foldable album:
Albert Martinez Maggie Q Louis Hofmann Tatti Gabrielle Mads Mikkelsen Victoria Pedretti Daniel Dae Kim Tatiana Maslany Sendhil Ramamurthy Neve Campbell Michiel Huisman Barbara Palvin
Yung sabay latag nalang nito sa harap nila ala-“nuff said.” Tas kung ipu-push pa nila yung issue, I’ll just wrap their face with the photos. “Himurin mo silang lahat, tungunu ka.”
Alam ko gasgas na 'to but ...
The gender of someone's partner and their faithfulness to them do not erase their bisexuality.
Someone’s heterosexuality/homosexuality alone does not lessen their chances to cheat.
... or perhaps utak lang talaga nila ang gasgas. (Tregerd na tregerd si Koya nyo eh.)
Siri, play Lagabog.
I hereby declare before Iris, the Goddess of Rainbows, First of Her Name, Queen of the Anals and the Versmen, Protector of the Rim, Mother of Condoms, the Khaleesi of the Great Ass Sea, the Unstraight, the Breaker of Chaste, that any distasteful, unsolicited inputs shall henceforth be met with a calm and seductive “nope”.
Satire aside, between the dilemma of not-giving-a-f*ck and trying to educate people, I think I would be choosing the former na. Ika nga nila I’m getting too old for this sh*t.
It may seem counterintuitive for our cause which is to raise awareness, but educating people is a hit-or-miss activity din and the misses drain you more than the hits replenish your energy.
If someone willingly and openly wants to be educated dun nalang siguro ako e-entre. Dun tayo sa may substantial and savable na utak.
Valar Oralis.
2024.05.16 14:41 Savings_Ad_2297 39/M I am the droid you’re looking for if you’re looking for an awesome new best friend!
Hey all! This is a bit weird for me being almost 40 and looking for friends. But here I am anyways lol. Mainly looking for someone to message throughout the day and get to know. Maybe game with if we have that in common. I do work from home so there’s no one to really talk to during the day.
I’m married and have 2 kids, a 6 month old son and a 9 year old daughter. I’m into basic nerdy things. Gaming, star wars, super heroes, DnD, etc. Also trading card games like Disney Lorcana and Star Wars Unlimited.
I watch a ton of Critical Role stuff especially Campaign 3! Currently on episode 74, so if you watch too, let me know! Also like to watch Battle of the Brands on YouTube.
I’m also into movies and tv, some sports, pro wrestling. Collecting action figures and retro games is one of hobbies as well. Anything 80s/90s nostalgia i absolutely love so if you want to talk childhood and growing up back then, i’m down! I miss the good old days where we went to arcades and italian sunday dinners at the grandparents and where the world just wasn’t as nutso as it is today lol.
My kids are everything to me and I do love talking about them. Love being silly with them and spending time with them (when they aren’t driving me crazy 🤪 lol)..I would prefer you be around my age and have kids as well just so we have that stuff in common off the bat! I’m socially awkward most times but very easy to get along with. I’m definitely considered an introvert. But once you get to know me I break out of that awkward shell. I do like to use sarcasm, and mostly like to try and make people laugh because a world without laughter would just be horrible.
Alright i’ll shut up now but I’d like to think i’m an awesome person to get to know and hopefully there’s more you’d like to know so feel free to DM me! (I looove using GIFs so if you message me, open up with a funny one! Especially since then i’ll know you actually read this 😂)
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I’m married and have 2 kids, a 6 month old son and a 9 year old daughter. I’m into basic nerdy things. Gaming, star wars, super heroes, DnD, etc. Also trading card games like Disney Lorcana and Star Wars Unlimited.
I watch a ton of Critical Role stuff especially Campaign 3! Currently on episode 74, so if you watch too, let me know! Also like to watch Battle of the Brands on YouTube.
I’m also into movies and tv, some sports, pro wrestling. Collecting action figures and retro games is one of hobbies as well. Anything 80s/90s nostalgia i absolutely love so if you want to talk childhood and growing up back then, i’m down! I miss the good old days where we went to arcades and italian sunday dinners at the grandparents and where the world just wasn’t as nutso as it is today lol.
My kids are everything to me and I do love talking about them. Love being silly with them and spending time with them (when they aren’t driving me crazy 🤪 lol)..I would prefer you be around my age and have kids as well just so we have that stuff in common off the bat! I’m socially awkward most times but very easy to get along with. I’m definitely considered an introvert. But once you get to know me I break out of that awkward shell. I do like to use sarcasm, and mostly like to try and make people laugh because a world without laughter would just be horrible.
Alright i’ll shut up now but I’d like to think i’m an awesome person to get to know and hopefully there’s more you’d like to know so feel free to DM me! (I looove using GIFs so if you message me, open up with a funny one! Especially since then i’ll know you actually read this 😂)