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I [28F] told my Partner [35M] of 8 years that i dont want to work anymore and that he needs to stop dumping his responsibilities on me

2024.05.15 09:53 Impossible-Type-1276 I [28F] told my Partner [35M] of 8 years that i dont want to work anymore and that he needs to stop dumping his responsibilities on me

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For context, I am a Massage Therapist [28F] while my partner [35M] is a Line Cook. We've been together for 8 years and We have a six-year-old child. When I got pregnant in 2017, we were still boyfriend and girlfriend and not living together. I continued working while pregnant to cover my expenses and rent since I was living alone.
When I reached my sixth month of pregnancy, I decided to move in with him because I couldn't continue doing massages, and I was afraid I wouldn't be able to pay the rent. I thought it would be easier if I had someone to support me financially since he was still working in a call center at that time. However, when we started living together, he had a conflict with someone in his company and he resigned. He didn't apply for another job since then. (I was seven months pregnant when he resigned).
We were in a tight situation, but luckily we were able to live with his family, so we didn't have to pay rent. I went to public hospitals for my check-ups and delivery, so we didn't have to spend money on that. But for our food and our baby's needs, his mother provided for us. At that time, his two siblings were still in college, and his mother was only selling food, so the budget she left for us was only 50 pesos a day. We would get our meals from the food she sold.
I felt really embarrassed to ask for more, to the point that I ran out of money to buy cleaning supplies for my stitches after my C-section. I used panty liners to cover the wound. I didn't want to ask for help from my parents because since I got pregnant, my parents didn't want me to be with him. I was the one who insisted.
Six months after giving birth, I went back to doing massages even though it was difficult for me, and he's left at home to take care of our child and do the household chores. But whenever there's an opportunity, I also help out because he always says that being a house husband is tiring. I really forced myself to work because I felt sorry for us, always relying on handouts. I tried telling him to find work, but the thing is, he keeps flunking the medical exams because of his lung scar. When he applied and failed, he didn't want to try again.
Since then, I have been the one shouldering all the expenses, from baby's needs, food, baptism, birthdays, Christmas, and everything else. My brother forced him to work as a construction worker, and he did it for almost three months, but when the project was finished, he lost his job again. Fast forward In December 2023, his friend got him a job at a restaurant, and he asked me to quit my job so that I could take care of our child. So I resigned, but I still do freelance work twice a week to supplement our budget.
However, there was a problem with their job, so the one-month salary they were supposed to receive was not given immediately. I used up my earnings to support him and our household expenses (bills, food, and our child's school allowance). I was forced to work again because we had nothing left. After two months, he found another job. We both started working, and we hired someone to take care of our child.
I told him that we should split the expenses, but he refused because he only earns minimum wage and he thinks I earn more. I earn 700 pesos per day plus tips (400-700 pesos per day), and on my two rest days, I do freelance work and earn 3,000 pesos weekly. So our weekly budget is 2,000 pesos, including our child's allowance. I divide it into two so that we each contribute 1,000 pesos. Since I earn more, I pay for the water, electricity, internet, caregiver's fee, and gas. The 1,000 pesos is his only contribution, but he still pushing to cut down on what he's chipping in. He wants me to reduce his share so that he can buy things for himself since he thinks I earn a lot. I don't want to agree to that.
I understand that maybe now, since he has finally earned some money through his hard work, he wants to be able to buy the things he desires. But what about our child's needs? I want him to be obligated to provide for our son, but I can't really say it. I always get scared when I try to voice out my feelings because he gets angry right away and says I talk too much.
I'm really struggling, but I have no one to talk to because I don't want my family's view of him to change. I can't even tell his family because they are still his relatives. I don't have any close friends I can confide in. It's difficult because he is a good father to our child, he doesn't cheat on me, and he is caring, especially before when he didn't have a job. He just doesn't have a provider mindset.
I have already told him before that in my line of work, I can't avoid indecent proposals and harassment, even though I don't tolerate them. It's inevitable that there will be people who will try to take advantage. That's why I don't want to work anymore, especially since I have been the only one working throughout our relationship. We've been together for 8 years. If we count the days we've been together, he hasn't even worked for a year yet, he just agrees without making any effort to apply for a job.
I'm so tired, I feel like I'm completely neglecting myself and my mental health. I understand what I should do, the thought of separating has crossed my mind, but I'm worried about the impact it would have on our child. I also don't want to add more worries for my elderly parents since they are both senior citizens. I'm really struggling with this decision.
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2024.05.15 03:28 Impossible-Type-1276 He wants to reduce his weekly contribution to our budget and expenses, but I didn't agree. I [28F] told my Partner [35M] of 8 years that I don't want to work anymore and that he needs to stop dumping his responsibilities on me

TL;DR
I informed my partner that I no longer want to work. We have been together for 8 years, and I am a massage therapist (28F) while he is a line cook (35M). We have a six-year-old child. When I got pregnant in 2017, we were still boyfriend and girlfriend and not living together. I continued working while pregnant to cover my expenses and rent since I was living alone.
When I reached my sixth month of pregnancy, I decided to move in with him because I couldn't continue doing massages, and I was afraid I wouldn't be able to pay the rent. I thought it would be easier if I had someone to support me financially since he was still working in a call center at that time. However, when we started living together, he had a conflict with someone in his company and he resigned. He didn't apply for another job since then. (Note: I was seven months pregnant when he resigned).
We were in a tight situation, but luckily we were able to live with his family, so we didn't have to pay rent. I went to public hospitals for my check-ups and delivery, so we didn't have to spend money on that. But for our food and our baby's needs, his mother provided for us. At that time, his two siblings were still in college, and his mother was only selling food, so the budget she left for us was only 50 pesos a day. We would get our meals from the food she sold.
I felt really embarrassed to ask for more, to the point that I ran out of money to buy cleaning supplies for my stitches after my C-section. I used panty liners and tape to cover the wound. I didn't want to ask for help from my parents because since I got pregnant, my father and mother didn't want me to be with him. I was the one who insisted.
Six months after giving birth, I went back to doing massages even though it was difficult for me, and he's left at home to take care of our child and do the household chores. But whenever there's an opportunity, I also help out because he always says that being a house husband is tiring. I really forced myself to work because I felt sorry for us, always relying on handouts. I tried telling him to find work, but the thing is, he keeps flunking the medical exams because of his lung scar. When he applied and failed, he didn't want to try again.
Since then, I have been the one shouldering all the expenses, from baptism, birthdays, Christmas, and everything else. My brother forced him to work as a construction worker, and he did it for almost three months, but when the project was finished, he lost his job again. In December 2023, his friend got him a job at a restaurant, and he asked me to quit my job so that I could take care of our child. So I resigned, but I still do freelance work twice a week to supplement our budget.
However, there was a problem with their job, so the one-month salary they were supposed to receive was not given immediately. I used up my earnings to support him and our household expenses (bills, food, and our child's school allowance). I was forced to work again because we had nothing left. After two months, he found another job. We both started working, and we hired someone to take care of our child.
I told him that we should split the expenses, but he refused because he only earns minimum wage and he thinks I earn more. I earn 700 pesos per day plus tips (400-700 pesos per day), and on my two rest days, I do freelance work and earn 3,000 pesos weekly. So our weekly budget is 2,000 pesos, including our child's allowance. I divide it into two so that we each contribute 1,000 pesos. Since I earn more, I pay for the water, electricity, internet, caregiver's fee, and gas. The 1,000 pesos is his only contribution, but he still pushing to cut down on what he's chipping in. He wants me to reduce his share so that he can buy things for himself since he thinks I earn a lot. I don't want to agree to that.
I understand that maybe now, since he has finally earned some money through his hard work, he wants to be able to buy the things he desires. But what about our child's needs? I want him to be obligated to provide for our son, but I can't really say it. I always get scared when I try to voice out my feelings because he gets angry right away and says I talk too much.
I'm really struggling, but I have no one to talk to because I don't want my family's view of him to change. I can't even tell his family because they are still his relatives. I don't have any close friends I can confide in. It's difficult because he is a good father to our child, he doesn't cheat on me, and he is caring, especially before when he didn't have a job. He just doesn't have a provider mindset.
I have already told him before that in my line of work, I can't avoid indecent proposals and harassment, even though I don't tolerate them. It's inevitable that there will be people who will try to take advantage. That's why I don't want to work anymore, especially since I have been the only one working throughout our relationship. We've been together for 8 years. If we count the days we've been together, he hasn't even worked for a year yet, he just agrees without making any effort to apply for a job.
I'm so tired, I feel like I'm completely neglecting myself and my mental health. The thought of separating has crossed my mind, but I'm worried about the impact it would have on our child. I also don't want to add more worries for my elderly parents since they are both senior citizens. I'm really struggling with this decision. Should I give in to him again? Should I cut him some slack and reduce his contribution even more?
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2024.05.15 01:14 AsherTheLion M4M - Looking For Long Term Roleplay Partner(s)

Hello everyone, it's Magnus and this is your cordial invitation to a vast world of creativity and imagination.
I am looking for 21+ partners who are on relatively the same level as I am. I tend to lean more towards a novella level, but I am willing to match that of my partner. The one thing I refuse to do is one-liners, however. I would prefer at least a 3-5 paragraph minimum, but more is always welcome.
I'm open to fandom roleplays as well as custom worlds. I would prefer if we did something fandom based. However, if you have a good custom world idea, I would be willing to listen and give it a shot. My mind is open to any and all ideas.
The following are fandoms that I have knowledge of and am interested in. The characters that I am willing to play will accompany them.
Dragon Age - Fenris, Dorian
Fallout - Male OCs
Death Note - Beyond Birthday
Final Fantasy (7, 14) - 7: Reno, Genesis Rhapsodos; 14 - Male OCs (Hrothgar Gunbreaker, Veira Dragoon)
MHA - Shigaraki, Dabi, Overhaul, Aizawa, Present Mic, Hawks, Male OCs
I have some plots in mind. I couldn't think of something for everything, but I have some we can work with and maybe branch out from.
Dragon Age - Fenris somehow gets infected with Red Lyruim and a race to find a cure for him begins. There are several paths to take here and I like the idea of exploring some of them.
Death Note - Beyond Birthday is from the spin off novel written by Mello called Death Note: Another Note: The Los Angeles BB Murder Cases. By the time the series itself starts, he’s dead. So any plots involving him are mostly AU. Some ideas, though cliche, involved interviewing/studying him while he’s in prison, investigating his crimes, or including him in the Kira Case. Just depends on what you wanna do.
MHA - I mainly play the villains of MHA, but I do dabble with Aizawa/Mic/Hawks. We can do LOV/Paranormal Liberation Front content. Or AU stuff where certain characters go in a different direction than what they did in canon aka heros and villains swapping sides and things like that. Or we can just use the world and do OC stuff, doesn't matter to me.
Now, as for original world ideas, I'm most interested in things like dystopian or post-apocalyptic, modern/fantasy, psychological, horror, thrillesuspense, action/adventure, cryptids, and supernatural. Though these are some of my favorites, I am open to other genres as well.
Most of the OCs I have can be adapted from fandom to original content. A large chunk of the OCs are also cryptid creatures in some way. I would prefer that I be allowed to play characters that are more than human. I enjoy playing monsters and things like that.
Again, these are a few suggestions. I am open to other suggestions and I'm sure we can find a common ground with which we can both be interested in brainstorming ideas. I am comfortable playing villains should ideas come about where we need one. I actually kind of enjoy playing villains if I’m being honest. But I’m more than capable of playing the good guys as well. Just depends on the plot line that we want to do.
I prefer to roleplay primarily on Discord. Servers can be organized and it's easier to find everything should a reference back be needed. Be aware of the fact I may not always respond right away. But I will respond when I can. If you cannot accept that, I apologize. Life happens and sometimes, you just gotta roll with the punches.
Usernames can be exchanged once we figure out if we are compatible or not.
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2024.05.15 01:13 AsherTheLion M4M - Looking For Long Term Roleplay Partner(s)

Hello everyone, it's Magnus and this is your cordial invitation to a vast world of creativity and imagination.
I am looking for 21+ partners who are on relatively the same level as I am. I tend to lean more towards a novella level, but I am willing to match that of my partner. The one thing I refuse to do is one-liners, however. I would prefer at least a 3-5 paragraph minimum, but more is always welcome.
I'm open to fandom roleplays as well as custom worlds. I would prefer if we did something fandom based. However, if you have a good custom world idea, I would be willing to listen and give it a shot. My mind is open to any and all ideas.
The following are fandoms that I have knowledge of and am interested in. The characters that I am willing to play will accompany them.
Dragon Age - Fenris, Dorian
Fallout - Male OCs
Death Note - Beyond Birthday
Final Fantasy (7, 14) - 7: Reno, Genesis Rhapsodos; 14 - Male OCs (Hrothgar Gunbreaker, Veira Dragoon)
MHA - Shigaraki, Dabi, Overhaul, Aizawa, Present Mic, Hawks, Male OCs
I have some plots in mind. I couldn't think of something for everything, but I have some we can work with and maybe branch out from.
Dragon Age - Fenris somehow gets infected with Red Lyruim and a race to find a cure for him begins. There are several paths to take here and I like the idea of exploring some of them.
Death Note - Beyond Birthday is from the spin off novel written by Mello called Death Note: Another Note: The Los Angeles BB Murder Cases. By the time the series itself starts, he’s dead. So any plots involving him are mostly AU. Some ideas, though cliche, involved interviewing/studying him while he’s in prison, investigating his crimes, or including him in the Kira Case. Just depends on what you wanna do.
MHA - I mainly play the villains of MHA, but I do dabble with Aizawa/Mic/Hawks. We can do LOV/Paranormal Liberation Front content. Or AU stuff where certain characters go in a different direction than what they did in canon aka heros and villains swapping sides and things like that. Or we can just use the world and do OC stuff, doesn't matter to me.
Now, as for original world ideas, I'm most interested in things like dystopian or post-apocalyptic, modern/fantasy, psychological, horror, thrillesuspense, action/adventure, cryptids, and supernatural. Though these are some of my favorites, I am open to other genres as well.
Most of the OCs I have can be adapted from fandom to original content. A large chunk of the OCs are also cryptid creatures in some way. I would prefer that I be allowed to play characters that are more than human. I enjoy playing monsters and things like that.
Again, these are a few suggestions. I am open to other suggestions and I'm sure we can find a common ground with which we can both be interested in brainstorming ideas. I am comfortable playing villains should ideas come about where we need one. I actually kind of enjoy playing villains if I’m being honest. But I’m more than capable of playing the good guys as well. Just depends on the plot line that we want to do.
I prefer to roleplay primarily on Discord. Servers can be organized and it's easier to find everything should a reference back be needed. Be aware of the fact I may not always respond right away. But I will respond when I can. If you cannot accept that, I apologize. Life happens and sometimes, you just gotta roll with the punches.
Usernames can be exchanged once we figure out if we are compatible or not.
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2024.05.14 01:17 BlendinMediaCorp My first mousse cake and my first time using ganache!

My first mousse cake and my first time using ganache!
For his birthday, my husband requested a cake that was “chocolate, with… like chocolate creamy stuff”. So I decided on a triple chocolate mousse cake. I wanted it to be as airy as possible, so decided to go classic with the mousse, using a meringue in it and all. The layers:
  • Devil’s Food Cake from Stella Parks as the base (always amazing, every time I make it I wonder why I ever make anything else)
  • Dark (70%) chocolate mousse from Bon Appetit
  • White chocolate mousse from Ash Baber (half recipe)
  • Dark (30%) chocolate ganache (1:1 ratio, 8oz total)
  • (note: both mousse recipes say whip the cream to stiff peaks, but I found it much easier to just have it at medium peaks, a bit shy of stiff. Otherwise it was really hard to incorporate into the chocolate.)
I built it bombe style (freeze the cake base, then top with chocolate mousse, freeze and then top with white chocolate mousse, freeze then top with ganache).
It was also my first time using a cake collar and acetate liner … I somehow got the liner stuck on one of the cake collar hooks but managed to get it off without mangling the cake too much.
Not to pat myself on the back but it really tasted incredible. Like an ice cream cloud in cake form — super decadent and pillowy without being overly sweet.
Can’t wait to do this again someday, hopefully without screwing up the chocolate mousse twice and having to start over! (I have soooooo many leftover egg white because of this 😂)
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2024.05.11 22:08 That-TransMasc-Kid AITA for asking for the correct pads?

AITA for asking for the correct pads? I, (ftm) 17, need pads for my periods because tampons are too drying for me to use. I cannot have pads with wings because they stick to my skin, not my clothes. I prefer the thicker pads because the thick ones have cut me before and are just generally uncomfortable. My mom, (cis f) 38, has been undergoing health problems and isn't able to get me pads from the store. She has been ordering our groceries online, along with our toiletries. She's been sending out my dad, (cis m) 33, to get me pads but this man has no idea what he is looking for. So I gave him the description I put above. "Thick, no wings, maxi is preferred but not necessary obviously" He got me paper thin, 2 inch long, panty liners. I had to use five to cover the area I would need. I told him about this when he asked at dinner. He went back to the store again and got me the arguably MUCH worse, "always" pads with wings that are paper thin and say "like a girl" on every one. Reminder that that is the exact opposite of what I need and also misgenders me. I am not capable of getting any gender affirming care even though I've known I was Trans masc before puberty hit me. I did ask for puberty blockers but my parents refused. I had to buy binders in secret and they made me so happy but my parents found out and- that's a story for another time. It's just that, this doesn't look good for them in context. I got through the rest of that period with the panty liners. A month later, (now) I am on my period again and I still haven't gotten any more pads. Which means I have nothing because I cannot use the "always" pads. I have a job, I am a janitor at my local elementary school, and I go Monday, Tuesday, and Thursday. After school ofc. I bring the plastic bag of unusable pads down to my mother's room and say I cannot use themfor the reasons I put above, and she refuses to buy more, calling me wasteful, and telling me most people who need them are girls so it shouldn't bother me, and that I should just cut the wings off, and told me how to use the wings as if I wouldn't know. Unfortunately my check was late this week and I just got it as I am writing this but my mom takes 20 out of it because of something unrelated to this (I'll tell you if enough people ask.) And I barely get payed minimum wage. I usually get around 90-110 dollars each month. I don't know how to drive yet because neither of my parents can/have been teaching me. My mom said she can't buy me pads online because it "costs less in person" and that I should just Uber to the store. Users usually cost around 20 bucks to get there and another 20 to get back. That's not accounting for fluxuations or tipping. I would be paying 40+ dollars out of my paycheck just to get pads. I spent all my money before this paycheck because I wanted to celebrate my best friend's birthday with him at our local arcade. I was not planning on buying anything else. I have a single dollar in my account. And my check got here late this week so I have to cash it still. And I don't want to have to spend that much money to get my pads anyway. Me and my mom were bickering about this over text and she said "You must not need them if you won't use them" She then suggested I use toilet paper. She had also been refusing to get either of us middle for months because I lost a bottle months ago and she says that I keep losing them when I either have been blowing through them with her due to pain, or she has lost them. I lost them maybe three times. But I have been overlooking that because it's just migraines and cramps. She did suggest that I get them online myself but at this point I don't want to use my money for something my parents have been and should be providing for me. I don't know why my dad hasn't taken me to the store with him from the start. I am going to just free bleed and take long baths until I go to school again on Monday because then I can get pads from the nurse. I might be the asshole because I'm being particular about what pads I use.
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2024.05.10 20:28 twoeightnine [WTS] The Final Countdown - New Stuff & Price Drops: 686 Pants, Altra Gaiters, Sun Umbrella, Salomon Hydroflasks, OR Vigor Fleece, MH Canyon Shirt, Roark, Slackline, Travel Wallet, Tons of Winter Hats, Other Stuff

Added a few more things that I don't have room for or just found. Dropped some prices. Please comment here and then message or chat me. Won't be able to ship anything after Monday night.
Paypal goods & services preferred, prices do not include shipping.
Flying out west next Tuesday and then up to Alaska soon after. With limited space I've decided to sell a bunch of other stuff that I'm not bringing with me, rather have it be worn then hanging up at home. Things are priced accordingly but I'll listen to reasonable offers on most things because beer is really really expensive in Alaska. And the food is too. I've got no problem letting it sit unused BUT beer is really really expensive.
686 Men's Anything Cargo Pant, Relaxed Fit, Tobacco - 34x32 - These pants rock but were always too long for me. So many pockets without the bulge of traditional cargoes. Great material and comfort. Maybe worn 3 times. Retail for $130
$80 - https://imgur.com/a/82w54k4
686 Men's Everywhere Featherlight Chino Pant, Relaxed Fit , CHARCOAL - 34x32 - Same deal as above minus the pockets. I'll be replacing these with a 30" inseam if they ever sell them. Amazing travel pants, also worn maybe 3 times. Retail for $100.
$60 - https://imgur.com/a/qYdOUNj
Lighttrek Sun Umbrella - Canyonlands Edition - Bought when I was guiding more in the Southwest but I never really used it. Some discoloration but works as promised. I need something more burly for Alaska. Weighs about 9-10oz. Tough to find in the States now. Retails for $60 https://www.euroschirm.com/en/Trekking-umbrella-light-trek-ultra-silver-UV-protection-50/3019SI17
$25 - https://imgur.com/a/aIZ9HgT
Altra Trail Gaiters Size Large - Worn once and then I found a pair of Kahtoola ones somewhere. Same thing as Dirty Girl Gaiters. I can still return them to REI at this point but originally bought them with a coupon so I'll pass that savings on to someone first.
$20 - https://imgur.com/a/fPLVRLd
Salomon Hydropak Running Soft Flasks - Bought these to use with a backpack I don't have anymore. They never really fit in it anyways so I maybe used them once. Retail for $22 each.
$30 for the pair - https://imgur.com/a/3UvBQmm
LP323 Multi-Color Broadbeam Headlamp w/ Spot Light - Brand new, never used.
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/BTURSvQ
Men's Clothing:
Mountain Hardwear Canyon Short Sleeve Shirt - Large - Absolute favorite guiding/hiking shirt. I've worn them in the SW, Alaska, Africa, while hiking the Inca Trail. They breathe like crazy and protect you. But I have too many of them and I have this one in long sleeve in the same color so it's not coming with me. Also the least worn of them I have. Like new.
$30 - https://imgur.com/a/h1npuH9
Vintage Timberland Boots - Men's 9 - Were my late father's. I don't know if he ever wore them. If he did it was probably only once or twice.
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/iPJfxnw
Women's Clothing:
Universal Standard Next to Naked Pocket Leggings / Tights: Black Cherry, Women's 14-16 / Small, Men's Medium - Some of the top rated leggings out there. Bought them for my mom for yoga but she wanted something a little shorter. I tried them on and they fit me perfectly but I don't need them. Two pockets for your phone and other things. Retail for $96
$20 - https://imgur.com/a/s78RH7X
Winter Hats: Buy them all for $28
Citizens Hose Department - Shortsville NY Fire Department and EMT, money will be donated to them.
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/48fv7hb
Liner - Winter fireproof liner for fire helmets but would add great warmth under any helmet. Money will be donated to the Fire Department
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/yNOsOI4
Fleece Snood: Was my father's for snowblowing. I used it briefly with my quilt for cold weather camping where it worked really well. But I got an EE one for my birthday this year and don't need it anymore.
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/jR5RyEd
Other Stuff -
Xpac Belt Storage Packing Cube - Made by someone on one of the UL forums, got in a grab bag of stuff. Waterproof zipper. Could put on a bag or belt.
$15 - https://imgur.com/a/fTQJnoi
Case Logic Camera Case - Have no need for it.
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/LsjNUBr
Outdoor Research Bottle / Add a Pocket - Rare Made in USA OR bottle holder. Add a pocket anywhere on your bag that it can wrap around. Super solid construction.
$8 - https://imgur.com/a/Y1RV32j
Gibbon Classic Slackline - During the pandemic I decided to get into slacklining. A couple weeks later I realized that I'm not a slackliner. Was hung maybe three or four times. A little dusty but other than that new.
$25 - https://imgur.com/a/7sRLi4D
Lowe Pro Lens Case - Bought at a thrift store in Seward last year when I realized I needed something better for my binoculars. They fit perfectly. Otherwise great for a large lens or a whole mirrorless camera. Normally like $40
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/Zchq2iG
SOLD Roark Bless Up Travel / Hiking Shirt - Men's XL - Blue green print - Only worn once. I bought this for a trip to South America and it's just a little too long for me. Super breathable and lightweight while still stylish. Tons of little perforations to let your body heat out. These shirts are perfect for travel and warm weather hiking. I don't want to sell it but I know I'm not going to wear it again. If you're 5'11" or taller it will be perfect for you. Retails for $90.
$30 - https://imgur.com/a/6wJw8er
SOLD REI Wallace Lake Flannel - Men's Large - Bought it. Wore it a couple times. Forgot I had it. Nice lightweight flannel. Stylish if you're into that.
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/6ca4hRc
SOLD Eagle Creek Zip RFID Travel Wallet - I've taken this all over the world and it still looks like new. Bought a really nice leather one though and don't need 2
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/JeTuaJ4
SOLD Outdoor Research Vigor Grid Fleece Half Zip - Men's Large - Another fantastic piece that I just have room to take with me. Mainly because the color doesn't work on me but the less vain reason is because my Capilene Air Fleece packs is lighter and easier to pack.
$50 - https://imgur.com/a/5WJVovc
SOLD Icelandic Wool - From the Icelandic Handknitting Society. Bought in Iceland for way too much money. Easily the WARMEST winter hat I've ever worn. Also naturally waterproof.
$25 - https://imgur.com/a/ERRYTts
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2024.05.10 04:13 ByGraceandGingham FTM Registry Review: Seasoned parents, please give me your advice!

Hi! I’m a FTM due in August and my first shower is coming up in three weeks! I’m having three showers (one in my hometown, a co-ed one where I live now, and one with coworkers) and in total, there will be about 140 invites sent out. People are already starting to buy things, so I want to make sure I have all my bases covered, but I also don’t want to keep anything on the registry that’s a waste of money or impractical. Also please let me know if there’s anything on this list that’s unsafe! I did my best to do thorough research, but I feel like there were so many things to choose and think about! For reference, we live in the Midwest, so we have all four seasons, and we’re not finding out baby’s gender until birth. I will admit, I’m easily swayed by aesthetics and anxiety-based marketing, and I’m also a big planner, so I like feeling prepared, but I am well aware, this list feels like a lot. Please give me all the advice you have!
Already Gifted: • Uppababy Cruz V2 & Bassinet • Uppababy Bassinet Stand • Nuna Pipa Car Seat Ring Adapter • Munchkin Spring 2-in-1 Bouncer Rocker • Hatch Rest 2nd Gen • Quince Mongolian Cashmere Nursing Cover • Organic Cotton Crib Sheets x2 • Restoration Hardware Crib • Lalo Bath Tub • Ubbi Weighted Wipes Dispenser • Jellycat Lamb Security Blanket • Jellycat Bunny • Boon Trove Manual Breast Pump • Sophie La Girafe Teething Ring • Our Little Library • Lovevery Sensory Strands • DermaFrida Bath Brush • Philips Avent Pacifiers x2 • Comfy Cubs Pacifier Clips • DoHonest Baby Car Camera • Cozy Baby Insulated Car Seat Cover • Ollie Swaddle • Munchkin Changing Pad • PB Kids Changing Topper
Purchased Ourselves (mostly secondhand): • Yogasleep Rohm • Newton Crib Mattresss • Newton Waterproof Mattress Pad • PB Kids Crib Skirt • Maxi-Cosi Swift Playard • Lands End Canvas Tote (diaper bag) • Puj Flyte Sink Bath • PB Kids Hooded Towel • Burt’s Bees Changing Pad Cover x3 • Kissy Kissy Baby Blanket • Snuggle Me Nursing Pillow • Snuggle Me Nursing Pillow Cover • Lalo First Bites Starter Kit • Lalo Suction Plate • Lalo The Bib x2 • Philips Avent Natural Glass Bottles x4 • Motif Duo Breast Pump (insurance) • Lansinoh Breast Pump (insurance) • Lovevery Play Gym • Colugo On The Go Organizer • Love to Dream Swaddle • Halo Sleep Sack • Assorted High-Quality Baby Clothes (all thrifted — mostly onesies, footies, converter gowns, and cardigans for layering)
Baby Gear: • Nuna Pipa RX Car Seat (will be gifted by aunt) • Maxi-Cosi Magellan LiftFit Convertible Car Seat • Maxi-Cosi Moa 8-in-1 High Chair • Wildbird Aerial Carrier • Solly Baby Wrap • Momcozy Stroller Fan • Accmor Stroller Cup Holder • Uppababy Stroller Snack Tray • Uppababy Bassinet Mattress Cover
Diapering: • Ubbi Diaper Pail • Ubbi On The Go Gift Set • Diaper Caddy • Cloud Island Changing Pad Liners, Set of 3 • Water Wipes 9-Pack x4 • Costco Huggies Newborn + Size 1 Combo Pack x1 • Costco Huggies Size 1 Diapers x3 • Costco Huggies Size 2 Diapers x4 • Green Sprouts Wet Dry Bag • Ubbi Diaper Sacks 200ct • Poo-Pourri Diaper Pail Spray • Triple Paste Diaper Rash Ointment • Mustela Sprayable Diaper Rash Cream • Bumco Spatula
Feeding: • WeeSprouts 12-pack Glass Food Storage Containers • Beaba First Stage Feeding Spoon Set
Bath: • Mustela Newborn Arrival Gift Set • KeaBabies Brush and Comb Set • Ubbi Spout Cover • Skip Hop Bath Rinser • Comfy Cubs Muslin Washcloths
Nursery: • PB Kids Organic Crib Sheet x2 • Pure Enrichment Humidifier • Pure Enrichment Air Purifier • Brightroom 6-Cube Organizer • Brightroom Water Hyacinth Milk Crate x3 • Kids Hangers x15 • Songnomics Laundry Hamper • Dimmable Wall Sconces
Clothing: • Green Sprouts Bibs 5-pack x2 • Green Sprouts Swim and Sun Bucket Hat
Health and Wellness: • Socub Silicone Teether • Ezpz Oral Development Teether • Frida Baby Mobile Medicine Cabinet • Frida Baby Breathe Easy Kit • Frida Baby Electric Nail File • Frida Baby Windi 10pc • Frida Baby 3-in-1 Picker • Mustela Moisturizing Multi-Purpose Balm • Babyganics After Bite Soothing Itch Stick • Think Baby Mineral Sunscreen • BioGaia Probiotic Baby Drops • Botao Fluoride-Free Baby Toothpaste • Baby Banana Infant Teething Brush • Mommy’s Bliss Gripe Water • Mommy’s Bliss Little Gums Soothing Massage Gel • Dr. Talbots Chamomile Soothing Tablets • Tylenol Infant Pain Reliever • Ddrops Baby Vitamin D Organic Liquid Drops • LifeVac Home Kit
Postpartum Supplies: • Tucks Hemorrhoidal Pads 100ct • Lansinoh Stay Dry Nursing Pads 100ct • Rael Organic Disposable Underwear • Lansinoh Postpartum Essentials Kit • Motherlove Organic Sitz Bath Spray • Silverettes Nursing Cups • Traditional Medicinals Mother’s Milk Herbal Tea • Earth Mama Nipple Butter
Cleaning: • Bissell Little Green Carpet Cleaner • Puracy Baby Stain Remover • Puracy Baby Laundry Detergent • OXO Tot Bottle Brush
Keepsakes: • Silver Baby Cup • Silver Baptism Frame • Silver St. Christopher Baby Pin • Reed & Barton Silver Birthday Candleholder Set • Jefferies Socks Crochet Booties
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2024.05.08 00:50 Passionfruit4Life FTM - Registry Must Have's/Don't Needs 2024

Reddit was insanely helpful to me as I constructed my registry as a FTM, and I wanted to pay it forward and create a detailed post as a now FTM to a 4 week old of what I think are must have's, don't needs, and what I purchased after my daughter was born. When I did my searching, a lot of what I found was quite frankly some obvious stuff like a crib, diapers, etc., so I wanted to take the time to list some more "obscure" stuff along with details around certain items I would have found helpful.
Places I registered at:
Amazon - loved it. Super easy to use, and pretty much everyone knows how to use it and/or has Amazon Prime these days. The welcome box was great, and the returns are super easy. I did not have any isssues with counterfeit products, but I also did not register for many big ticket nursery items such as a crib, etc.
Babylist - I only created a registry here to register for their sampler boxes. I CANNOT recommend these enough. The Bottle Box, Swaddle Box, Diaper Box, and Pacifier Box. We got to try all different kinds of the above items and ultimately ordered more of the kinds she ended up liking! The con to Babylist is that a lot of people find it not user friendly, and the buyer has to actually manually mark items as purchased and they often forget to do so and it's very annoying.
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2024.05.07 22:19 twoeightnine [WTS] The Final Countdown - New Stuff & Price Drops: Patagonia Capilene Cool, OR Vigor Fleece, MH Canyon Shirt, Merino Baselayers, Roark, Slackline, Travel Wallet, Tons of Winter Hats, Other Stuff

Can't ship no more
Paypal goods & services preferred, prices do not include shipping.
Flying out west next week and then up to Alaska soon after. With limited space I've decided to sell a bunch of other stuff that I'm not bringing with me, rather have it be worn then hanging up at home. Things are priced accordingly but I'll listen to reasonable offers on most things because beer is really really expensive in Alaska. And the food is too. I've got no problem letting it sit unused BUT beer is really really expensive.
Newly Added:
SOLD Patagonia Capilene Cool Men's T - Large - Found this in my drawer yesterday. Didn't know I had it so it's not going with me. Worn maybe twice?
$30 - https://imgur.com/a/EYocPdd
Outdoor Research Vigor Grid Fleece Half Zip - Men's Large - Another fantastic piece that I just have room to take with me. Mainly because the color doesn't work on me but the less vain reason is because my Capilene Air Fleece packs is lighter and easier to pack.
$65 - https://imgur.com/a/5WJVovc
Mountain Hardwear Canyon Short Sleeve Shirt - Large - Absolute favorite guiding/hiking shirt. I've worn them in the SW, Alaska, Africa, while hiking the Inca Trail. They breathe like crazy and protect you. But I have too many of them and I have this one in long sleeve in the same color so it's not coming with me. Also the least worn of them I have. Like new.
$40 - https://imgur.com/a/h1npuH9
REI Wallace Lake Flannel - Men's Large - Bought it. Wore it a couple times. Forgot I had it. Nice lightweight flannel. Stylish if you're into that.
$15 - https://imgur.com/a/6ca4hRc
SOLD Patagonia Fisherman's Rolled Beanie - Brand new, normally $40. I had some credit that was expiring at a local store and didn't need anything so I bought this. Hoping to get back (slightly less) than I paid.
$25 - https://imgur.com/a/Rqn75iQ
Eagle Creek Zip RFID Travel Wallet - I've taken this all over the world and it still looks like new. Bought a really nice leather one though and don't need 2
$15 - https://imgur.com/a/JeTuaJ4
Lowe Pro Lens Case - Bought at a thrift store in Seward last year when I realized I needed something better for my binoculars. They fit perfectly. Otherwise great for a large lens or a whole mirrorless camera. Normally like $40
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/Zchq2iG
Vintage Timberland Boots - Men's 9 - Were my late father's. I don't know if he ever wore them. If he did it was probably only once or twice.
$15 - https://imgur.com/a/iPJfxnw
Unisex Merino Wool Clothing: All Brand New in Box, way more than 50% off
SOLD Icebreaker 260 Zoned Merino Base Layer Leggings - Jet HeatheBlack - Men's Small / Women's Medium - Cold Conditions: Retail for $140, 1 left
$40 - https://imgur.com/a/4qdj8fr
SOLD Icebreaker 260 Bodyfit Tech Long Sleeve Crew - Black - Men's Small / Women's Medium - Cold Conditions: Retails for $125, 1 left
$35 - https://imgur.com/a/eOt2r0M
SOLD Icebreaker 260 Bodyfit Tech Long Sleeve Half Zip - Midnight Navy - Men's Small / Women's Medium - Cold Conditions: Retails for $125, 1 left
$35 - https://imgur.com/a/0AkxmKI
Women's Clothing:
Universal Standard Next to Naked Pocket Leggings / Tights: Black Cherry, Women's 14-16 / Small, Men's Medium - Some of the top rated leggings out there. Bought them for my mom for yoga but she wanted something a little shorter. I tried them on and they fit me perfectly but I don't need them. Two pockets for your phone and other things. Retail for $96
$******30 -** https://imgur.com/a/s78RH7X
Men's Clothing:
Roark Bless Up Travel / Hiking Shirt - Men's XL - Blue green print - Only worn once. I bought this for a trip to South America and it's just a little too long for me. Super breathable and lightweight while still stylish. Tons of little perforations to let your body heat out. These shirts are perfect for travel and warm weather hiking. I don't want to sell it but I know I'm not going to wear it again. If you're 5'11" or taller it will be perfect for you. Retails for $90.
$35 - https://imgur.com/a/6wJw8er
Winter Hats: Buy them all for $40
Icelandic Wool - From the Icelandic Handknitting Society. Bought in Iceland for way too much money. Easily the WARMEST winter hat I've ever worn. Also naturally waterproof.
$25 - https://imgur.com/a/ERRYTts
SOLD Smartwool - 100% Merino wool, a small snag or two but great warmth from a soft thin beanie
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/C128ekS
Burton - Brand new, never worn. Came in a pack and I can't wear red.
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/vaeHAe0
Buffalo Sabres - Go hockey team that pisses me off.
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/4odZx90
Citizens Hose Department - Shortsville NY Fire Department and EMT, money will be donated to them.
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/48fv7hb
Liner - Winter fireproof liner for fire helmets but would add great warmth under any helmet. Money will be donated to the Fire Department
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/yNOsOI4
Fleece Snood: Was my father's for snowblowing. I used it briefly with my quilt for cold weather camping where it worked really well. But I got an EE one for my birthday this year and don't need it anymore.
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/jR5RyEd
Other Stuff -
Xpac Belt Storage Packing Cube - Made by someone on one of the UL forums, got in a grab bag of stuff. Waterproof zipper. Could put on a bag or belt.
$15 - https://imgur.com/a/fTQJnoi
SOLD Thermarest Inflatable Lumbar / Belt Pillow - Bought for my packraft and didn't quite work how I wanted it to. Great in a vehicle or on hikes.
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/cBVi56y
SOLD Tenba Camera / Electronics Wrap - Works great for adding soft protection to anything. Approx 20"
$8 - https://imgur.com/a/IPNWeY8
Case Logic Camera Case - Have no need for it.
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/LsjNUBr
Road ID Bracelet - Will remove the metal ID before shipping
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/SWEICp4
Outdoor Research Bottle / Add a Pocket - Rare Made in USA OR bottle holder. Add a pocket anywhere on your bag that it can wrap around. Super solid construction.
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/Y1RV32j
Gibbon Classic Slackline - During the pandemic I decided to get into slacklining. A couple weeks later I realized that I'm not a slackliner. Was hung maybe three or four times. A little dusty but other than that new.
$30 - https://imgur.com/a/7sRLi4D
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2024.05.07 05:25 EulaVengeance What happened to us? (Friends since college)

There was this female friend I had before, and we were just... so alike. To clarify, I'm a guy, and I often told her she was like the female version of me: we both loved to write, we loved to draw, we loved pokemon, we loved Harry Potter, we loved The Hunger Games, we loved harvest moon, we loved writing poetry... the list goes on. We used to share drawings with each other, we shared chapters of what we were writing to comment on. We even had similar tastes in music.
Then I eventually moved away (she stayed in our hometown while I stayed and studied somewhere 3 hours away), but we still talked. Via text, facebook, and hexrpg (Harry Potter fan site) - it was actually a highlight of my day, having someone to talk to about stuff that isn't about medicine and hospitals. I always asked her how her day was (she had a boyfriend at the time, and I was about to get married after leaving a very abusive relationship), we'd get caught up on what we were writing, and I could ask her about so many random things: what to name my protagonist, which video game hat fits my character best, which pokemon looks the cutest, etc.
So eventually she and her boyfriend broke up, and our coversations drifted to that: how our exes were trash, how we were trapped in a country with a shitty government. She asked me how me and my wife met, and she showed me the lame breakup texts her ex sent her. She was absolutely thrilled with my story, and I told her I was writing a novel where I was going to include some of her characters, and she was excited and told me so.
Then one day, she grew distant. Her replies, which were vibrant and exuberant before, became one liners, or even short phrases. Then one day I told her was that my laptop died and I lost one draft of a story I was writing, and she just told me, "Rewrite it then."
That was her last response. I asked her questions, she wouldn't reply. I greeed her during her birthday, during Christmas, and there's no response. I even asked her about some of the articles I wrote before because I needed them for work, and she ignored them.
I was so happy to find someone to talk to about things outside of my life inside the hospital, and just like that, even that was gone too. My outlet for stress disappeared... and even now, I don't know what happened.
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2024.05.07 05:22 EulaVengeance What happened to us?

There was this female friend I had before, and we were just... so alike. To clarify, I'm a guy, and I often told her she was like the female version of me: we both loved to write, we loved to draw, we loved pokemon, we loved Harry Potter, we loved The Hunger Games, we loved harvest moon, we loved writing poetry... the list goes on. We used to share drawings with each other, we shared chapters of what we were writing to comment on. We even had similar tastes in music.
Then I eventually moved away (she stayed in our hometown while I stayed and studied somewhere 3 hours away), but we still talked. Via text, facebook, and hexrpg (Harry Potter fan site) - it was actually a highlight of my day, having someone to talk to about stuff that isn't about medicine and hospitals. I always asked her how her day was (she had a boyfriend at the time, and I was about to get married after leaving a very abusive relationship), we'd get caught up on what we were writing, and I could ask her about so many random things: what to name my protagonist, which video game hat fits my character best, which pokemon looks the cutest, etc.
So eventually she and her boyfriend broke up, and our coversations drifted to that: how our exes were trash, how we were trapped in a country with a shitty government. She asked me how me and my wife met, and she showed me the lame breakup texts her ex sent her. She was absolutely thrilled with my story, and I told her I was writing a novel where I was going to include some of her characters, and she was excited and told me so.
Then one day, she grew distant. Her replies, which were vibrant and exuberant before, became one liners, or even short phrases. Then one day I told her was that my laptop died and I lost one draft of a story I was writing, and she just told me, "Rewrite it then."
That was her last response. I asked her questions, she wouldn't reply. I greeed her during her birthday, during Christmas, and there's no response. I even asked her about some of the articles I wrote before because I needed them for work, and she ignored them.
I was so happy to find someone to talk to about things outside of my life inside the hospital, and just like that, even that was gone too. My outlet for stress disappeared... and even now, I don't know what happened.
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2024.05.03 02:32 PsychedelicTeacher Human anthropomorphism is a characteristic that few alien societies have fully come to terms with yet.

Human anthropomorphism is a characteristic that few alien societies have fully come to terms with yet.
They name their ships 'She'
No other race in the universe uses a personal pronoun to refer to their mechanical possessions.
It is unhinged!
They designed their first supersonic airliner, Concorde, and then almost 3 decades later collectively shed tears at its slow march into obsolescence.
No galactic civilization will ever truly understand that what the humans feel sorry for in that case is not the technical loss of supersonic capability, nor the issues of capitalism, but simply the machine itself.
For 27 years, as human chroniclers tell it, Concorde flew back and forth across the Atlantic, never putting a foot wrong. And then one day, no-one came to its hangar to hoover its carpets, or replenish its fuel tanks. One day, for no reason that it could possibly understand, its owners decided they didn’t want it any more.
Collectively, they think about how a pet might feel if you did that: tickled its tummy and filled its bowl for 27 years and then one day, locked it in a kennel and never went back.
Concorde never understood profit and loss. It had no concept of risk or airworthiness certificates and it sure as hell wouldn’t have understood the ludicrous claims of various rich humans that they could keep it going. It was a machine. It knew only how to fly very, very fast across the Atlantic.
But to the humans... some machines become more than a collection of wires and glass and metal. They take on a personality - and this is what makes their death hard to stomach.
The same could be said of the Zeppelins, The cross-channel hovercraft, and the ocean liners.
The same was certainly true of their spacecraft.
One may naturally have assumed that they would only care for their human carrying craft, but one would be wrong.
'Oppy', the mars rover, gained a cult human following when it, all by itself, alone on the red planet, sang itself happy birthday each year.
'Voyager' induced panic when, years after being sent off into the cosmos, it began to have computer issues resulting in scrambled signals. The humans worried first that it would be lonely out there in deep space.
The Xnexarians could never have understood the horror they had brought upon themselves with the senseless annihilation of Spacey McSpaceship
While the crew had thankfully escaped in the onboard escape capsule Escapey McZoomZoom, the Xnexarians would soon learn that their live stream audience back home of 23 billion humans was what any galactic civilization would soon learn to call 'a planetary level threat'
Spacey McSpaceship had had a social media account. She had kept the humans updated on her whereabouts for twenty years. They knew her interests, her hobbies, her favourite science experiments, and her favourite musical numbers. They knew that she was programmed to love unconditionally and to welcome visitors with open arms.
But like concorde, She wasn't programmed to understand. She was programmed to be a friend. That made it impossible for her to comprehend why the Xnexarians were firing artillery at her.
Humans don't like it when innocents are harmed.
They never have, and they never will.
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2024.05.02 21:06 twoeightnine [WTS] New Stuff & Prices Dropped: Winter Hats and Gloves, Walkie Talkies, Binocs, Bags, Stuff, Icebreaker Baselayers Galore, Universal Standard Leggings/Yoga Pants, Patagonia, Roark, Slackline, Altra, Danner, and more for sale

Can't ship no more
Bunch of stuff I need to get rid of before returning to Alaska this summer while also paying off my tax bill. Paypal goods & services preferred, prices do not include shipping. Open to offers on most things.
Newest stuff:
Winter Hats & Gloves: I have way too many beanies and only one head. Buy all of them for $60 instead of $80.
Icelandic Wool - From the Icelandic Handknitting Society. Bought in Iceland for way too much money. Easily the WARMEST winter hat I've ever worn. Also naturally waterproof.
$35 - https://imgur.com/a/ERRYTts
Smartwool - 100% Merino wool, a small snag or two but great warmth from a soft thin beanie
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/C128ekS
Burton - Brand new, never worn. Came in a pack and I can't wear red.
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/vaeHAe0
Buffalo Sabres - Go hockey team that pisses me off.
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/4odZx90
Citizens Hose Department - Shortsville NY Fire Department and EMT, money will be donated to them.
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/48fv7hb
Liner - Winter fireproof liner for fire helmets but would add great warmth under any helmet. Money will be donated to the Fire Department
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/yNOsOI4
Fleece Snood: Was my father's for snowblowing. I used it briefly with my quilt for cold weather camping where it worked really well. But I got an EE one for my birthday this year and don't need it anymore.
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/jR5RyEd
Showa Gloves - Used once in an emergency on a kayak tour in Alaska. Size XXL / 11 so good for average to large hands. Andrew Skurka swears by them and he's pretty correct.
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/jTNLnu5
Other Stuff -
Xpac Belt Storage Packing Cube - Made by someone on one of the UL forums, got in a grab bag of stuff. Waterproof zipper. Could put on a bag or belt.
$20 - https://imgur.com/a/fTQJnoi
Thermarest Inflatable Lumbar / Belt Pillow - Bought for my packraft and didn't quite work how I wanted it to. Great in a vehicle or on hikes.
$20 - https://imgur.com/a/cBVi56y
Tenba Camera / Electronics Wrap - Works great for adding soft protection to anything. Approx 20"
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/IPNWeY8
SOLD ~~JC Penney Binoculars - Solid heavy duty construction. Older but still a great pair of first binoculars or back up pair.
$20 - https://imgur.com/a/5qddyG8~\~
SOLD ~\~Motorola Walkie Talkies - Tested and seem to work fine. Have no need for them.
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/V03QX1v~\~
Case Logic Camera Case - Have no need for it.
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/LsjNUBr
Thermarest Storage Sack - Unlabeled but came with an older sleeping bag. Perfect for that or laundry.
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/8uhAi2P
Road ID Bracelet - Will remove the metal ID before shipping
$2 - https://imgur.com/a/SWEICp4
SOLD ~\~Joby Tripod Grip Tight Phone Holder - Brand new
$4 - https://imgur.com/a/jXHBkoX~\~
OLDER STUFF DISCOUNTED --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
Unisex Merino Wool Clothing: All Brand New in Box, more than 50% off
Icebreaker 260 Zoned Merino Base Layer Leggings - Jet HeatheBlack - Men's Small / Women's Medium - Cold Conditions: Retail for $140, 2 pairs still available.
$70 $50 - https://imgur.com/a/4qdj8fr
Icebreaker 200 Bodyfit Oasis Long Sleeve Half Zip - Black - Men's Small - Cool Conditions: Retails for $125, 1 available
$60 $40 - https://imgur.com/a/GV1sbcK
Icebreaker 260 Bodyfit Tech Long Sleeve Crew - Black - Men's Small / Women's Medium - Cold Conditions: Retails for $125, 2 available
$60 $40 - https://imgur.com/a/eOt2r0M
Icebreaker 260 Bodyfit Tech Long Sleeve Half Zip - Midnight Navy - Men's Small / Women's Medium - Cold Conditions: Retails for $125, 2 still available
$60 $40 - https://imgur.com/a/0AkxmKI
Women's Clothing:
Universal Standard Next to Naked Pocket Leggings / Tights: Black Cherry, Women's 14-16 / Small, Men's Medium - Some of the top rated leggings out there. Bought them for my mom for yoga but she wanted something a little shorter. I tried them on and they fit me perfectly but I don't need them. Two pockets for your phone and other things. Retail for $96
$60 $50 - https://imgur.com/a/s78RH7X
Men's Clothing:
Roark Bless Up Travel / Hiking Shirt - Men's XL - Blue green print - Only worn once. I bought this for a trip to South America and it's just a little too long for me. Super breathable and lightweight while still stylish. Tons of little perforations to let your body heat out. These shirts are perfect for travel and warm weather hiking. I don't want to sell it but I know I'm not going to wear it again. If you're 5'11" or taller it will be perfect for you. Retails for $90.
$60 45 - https://imgur.com/a/6wJw8er
SOLD ~\~Patagonia Buttondown - Men's Large - Light plaid - I think this is a Go To but I can't remember. Have only worn it once or twice.
$35 $30 - https://imgur.com/a/LiT9XFF~\~
Footwear:
Altra Paradigm 6 - Burnt Red, Men's 13 - Fantastic stability shoe. Light and responsive. Forefoot has wear but still lots of life left. The outer eylelets have sliced the fabric but it still holds and locks down perfectly due to the reinforced construction. Would be a fantastic introduction to Altra/Footshape/Zerodrop shoes for someone or as a second pair.
$10 - https://imgur.com/a/faSpTu4
Danner Vertigo Goretex 917 - Vintage Black, Men's Size 13 - Worn for a year, but I need something wider. Typical Danner quality. Vibram Hiker outsoles. Works well from the streets to hiking while looking stylish yet technical. $240 new.
$70 - https://imgur.com/a/pBI6uIV
Accessories & Stuff:
Outdoor Research Bottle / Add a Pocket - Rare Made in USA OR bottle holder. Add a pocket anywhere on your bag that it can wrap around. Super solid construction.
$20 - https://imgur.com/a/Y1RV32j
Gibbon Classic Slackline - During the pandemic I decided to get into slacklining. A couple weeks later I realized that I'm not a slackliner. Was hung maybe three or four times. A little dusty but other than that new.
$40 - https://imgur.com/a/7sRLi4D
Talkeetna Air Taxi Hat - Pretty much brand new. I work closely with them and they toss me one every once in awhile. Convince everyone that you climbed Denali.
$5 - https://imgur.com/a/rHwJCTv
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2024.05.01 09:18 AsherTheLion M4M - Looking For Long Term Roleplay Partner(s)

Hello. My name is Magnus and this is your cordial invitation to a vast world of creativity and imagination.
I am looking for 21+ partners who are on relatively the same level as I am. I tend to lean towards a novella level, but I am willing to match that of my partner. The one thing I refuse to do is one-liners, however. I would prefer at least a 3-5 paragraph minimum, but more is always welcome.
I'm open to fandom roleplays as well as custom worlds. I would prefer if we did something fandom based. However, if you have a good custom world idea, I would be willing to listen and give it a shot. My mind is open to any and all ideas.
The following are fandoms that I have knowledge of and am interested in. The characters that I am willing to play will accompany them.
Dragon Age - Fenris, Dorian
Fallout - Male OCs
Death Note - Beyond Birthday
Final Fantasy (7, 14) - 7: Genesis, Reno, 14 - Male OCs (Hrothgar Gunbreaker, Veira Dragoon)
MHA - Shigaraki, Dabi, Overhaul, Aizawa, Male OCs
Hellsing Ultimate - Alucard, Young Walter
Hazbin Hotel/Helluva Boss - Alastor, Lucifer, Stolas, Blitzo, Male OCs
This is not the full list. These are just what I can name off the top of my head. I am open to suggestions. If I know it, we can give it a shot. If I don't know it, please allow for me to learn about it before I say yes or no. When it comes to fandoms, I’d say we could do mostly AU plots. Following canon word for word is boring. Now, if you wanna change up certain aspects of canon, I’m all for that. Coming up with our own stuff is half the fun.
I have some plots in mind. I couldn't think of something for everything, but I have some we can work with and maybe branch out from.
Dragon Age - Fenris - Somehow gets infected with Red Lyruim and a race to find a cure for him begins. There are several paths to take here and I like the idea of exploring some of them.
Death Note - Beyond Birthday is from the spin off novel written by Mello called Death Note: Another Note: The Los Angeles BB Murder Cases. By the time the series itself starts, he’s dead. So any plots involving him are mostly AU. Some ideas, though cliche, involved interviewing/studying him while he’s in prison, investigating his crimes, or including him in the Kira Case. Just depends on what you wanna do.
MHA - I mainly play the villains of MHA, but I do dabble with Aizawa. We can do LOV/Paranormal Liberation Front content. Or AU stuff where certain characters go in a different direction than what they did in canon aka instead of being villains, they’re heroes or something.
HH/HB - I watched the pilot of HH when it first came out and have not watched the series as of yet. I probably will eventually. I have, however, seen most of the episodes of HB. I would prefer AU story lines for these two. This is to explore the world and a variety of concepts.
Now, as for original world ideas, I'm most interested in things like dystopian or post-apocalyptic, fantasy, modern fantasy, psychological, horror, thrillesuspense, action/adventure, cryptids, and supernatural. Most of the OCs I have can be adapted from fandom to original content. A large chunk of the OCs are also cryptid creatures in some way. I would prefer that I be allowed to play characters that are more than human. I enjoy playing monsters and things like that.
Again, these are a few suggestions. I am open to other suggestions and I'm sure we can find a common ground with which we can both be interested in brainstorming ideas. I am comfortable playing villains should ideas come about where we need one. I actually kind of enjoy playing villains if I’m being honest. But I’m more than capable of playing the good guys as well. Just depends on the plot line that we want to do.
I prefer to roleplay primarily on Discord. Servers can be organized and it's easier to find everything should a reference back be needed. Be aware of the fact I may not always respond right away. But I will respond when I can. If you cannot accept that, I apologize. Life happens and sometimes, you just gotta roll with the punches.
Usernames can be exchanged once we figure out if we are compatible or not.
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2024.05.01 09:06 AsherTheLion M4M - Looking For Long Term Roleplay Partner(s)

Hello. My name is Magnus and this is your cordial invitation to a vast world of creativity and imagination.
I am looking for 21+ partners who are on relatively the same level as I am. I tend to lean towards a novella level, but I am willing to match that of my partner. The one thing I refuse to do is one-liners, however. I would prefer at least a 3-5 paragraph minimum, but more is always welcome.
I'm open to fandom roleplays as well as custom worlds. I would prefer if we did something fandom based. However, if you have a good custom world idea, I would be willing to listen and give it a shot. My mind is open to any and all ideas.
The following are fandoms that I have knowledge of and am interested in. The characters that I am willing to play will accompany them.
Dragon Age - Fenris, Dorian
Fallout - Male OCs
Death Note - Beyond Birthday
Final Fantasy (7, 14) - 7: Genesis, Reno, 14 - Male OCs (Hrothgar Gunbreaker, Veira Dragoon)
BNHA/MHA - Shigaraki, Dabi, Overhaul, Aizawa, Male OCs
Hellsing Ultimate - Alucard, Young Walter
Hazbin Hotel/Helluva Boss - Alastor, Lucifer, Stolas, Blitzo, Male OCs
This is not the full list. These are just what I can name off the top of my head. I am open to suggestions. If I know it, we can give it a shot. If I don't know it, please allow for me to learn about it before I say yes or no. When it comes to fandoms, I’d say we could do mostly AU plots. Following canon word for word is boring. Now, if you wanna change up certain aspects of canon, I’m all for that. Coming up with our own stuff is half the fun.
I have some plots in mind. I couldn't think of something for everything, but I have some we can work with and maybe branch out from.
Dragon Age - Fenris - Somehow gets infected with Red Lyruim and a race to find a cure for him begins. There are several paths to take here and I like the idea of exploring some of them.
Death Note - Beyond Birthday is from the spin off novel written by Mello called Death Note: Another Note: The Los Angeles BB Murder Cases. By the time the series itself starts, he’s dead. So any plots involving him are mostly AU. Some ideas, though cliche, involved interviewing/studying him while he’s in prison, investigating his crimes, or including him in the Kira Case. Just depends on what you wanna do.
BNHA/MHA - I mainly play the villains of MHA, but I do dabble with Aizawa. We can do LOV/Paranormal Liberation Front content. Or AU stuff where certain characters go in a different direction than what they did in canon aka instead of being villains, they’re heroes or something.
HH/HB - I watched the pilot of HH when it first came out and have not watched the series as of yet. I probably will eventually. I have, however, seen most of the episodes of HB. I would prefer AU story lines for these two. This is to explore the world and a variety of concepts.
Now, as for original world ideas, I'm most interested in things like dystopian or post-apocalyptic, fantasy, modern fantasy, psychological, horror, thrillesuspense, action/adventure, cryptids, and supernatural.
Most of the OCs I have can be adapted from fandom to original content. A large chunk of the OCs are also cryptid creatures in some way. I would prefer that I be allowed to play characters that are more than human. I enjoy playing monsters and things like that.
Again, these are a few suggestions. I am open to other suggestions and I'm sure we can find a common ground with which we can both be interested in brainstorming ideas. I am comfortable playing villains should ideas come about where we need one. I actually kind of enjoy playing villains if I’m being honest. But I’m more than capable of playing the good guys as well. Just depends on the plot line that we want to do.
I prefer to roleplay primarily on Discord. Servers can be organized and it's easier to find everything should a reference back be needed. Be aware of the fact I may not always respond right away. But I will respond when I can. If you cannot accept that, I apologize. Life happens and sometimes, you just gotta roll with the punches.
Usernames can be exchanged once we figure out if we are compatible or not.
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2024.04.29 17:11 Significant-Lion-452 I don't feel seeing my mom on Mother's day

Malapit na mother's day. Dati few weeks prior, nagpaplano na ako kung ano gagawin namin, or ano gift na bibilhin ko at kung saan kami kakain. Ganun ko ka-gusto icelebrate yung araw na yun for my mom.
Hiwalay ang parents ko since 2011. Sumama sa ibang babae ang dad ko, may anak din siya doon. Tatlo kami magkakapatid, yung panganay, no contact na kami since 2013, dahil may unresolved issue sila ni mama and ayun damay na rin ako sa no contact niya. Yung pangalawa naman, namatay na about 8 years ago. Kaya ako nalang ang natira na kasama ng mama ko. Wala siyang work, pero may small business siya, minsan may kita, minsan, wala. Tapos the rest of thr expenses, ako na ang sumasagot since nagstart ako magwork nung 2013.
All those years, kami lang ang magkasama kapag holidays, birthday, mother's day etc.. Estranged din ang relationship niya sa mga kapatid niya. Di rin kami close sa relatives namin sa dad side. Sa mga friends naman, she do not have a lot of friends din. Ako na rin ang parang social life niya. Kaya kapag may mga special occasions, kami ang magkasama. Sa bahay, lagi din kami nagkkwentuhan. Minsan nagkaka inisan din kami kasi matigas ulo ni mama, di nakikinig. At ako, pranka ako sa kanya lalo na pag naghihingi siya ng advice kaya lang minsan, di siya ready to accept it kaya nagkakasamaan ng loob paminsan.Kumbaga, masasabi niyo talaga na marami na kami pinagsamahan ng mom ko. Naiiwan magisa ang mom ko everytime na may work trip ako kaya naman kahit kaming 2 ay lagi magkasama we learned to live independently din kasi nga may times na wala ako.
Fast forward last year nung kinasal na ako, napansin ko na something has changed. Dito na ako nakatira sa bahay ng husband ko sa Manila. Nasa province naman si mama. Minsan umuuwi kami doon kapag weekend at least once a month. Last year, sinwerte mom ko dahil nagkaron sya ng malaking pera galing sa mana nya sa parents nya. Happy ako dahil pwede na ako di magbigay ng pera sa kanya kasi yung mana nya, kaya sya buhayin.
Simula noong nagkaroon siya ng substantial na sariling pera, naging busy sya sa personal life niya, nakakapagbigay na siya ng mas maraming time sa mga gusto niyang gawin - church organization, malling - nabibili na niya ang mga gusto niya. She also started working on her projects para sa bahay namin, well bahay na lang niya dahil di na ako nakatira dun. I am happy for her kasi nagagawa na niya ang mga gusto niya. At ako, mas makakalag ipon ng pera for my family kasi di na siya aada sakin financially. Dito na rin yung time na I started seeing her on a different light..
Kahit na may asawa na ako, nagcecelebrate pa rin kami ng mga special occassion na kasama siya plus family nung husband ko. Kapag kasama namin siya, pakiramdam ko di siya nageenjoy or minsan naman pag naka staycation kami, parang lagi syang may sariling mundo at ayaw makihalubilo. On my part, naiinis ako kasi syempre yun nga time for bonding pero lagi nya ina-isolate ang sarili niya. Kapag may gift kami or pasalubong sa kanya, I feel underappreciated ang mga bigay namin. Nung after ng wedding namin, sabi niya sa'kin, di ko man lang daw siya naalala kamustahin. During mom and daughter dance, I asked her kung nageenjoy ba siya at kung nasarapan ba siya sa food? Di ko maintindihan saan nanggaling yun, bakit ganun ang feels niya?
I'm currently 8 months pregnant, from time to time nagshashare ako ng mga updates about sa pregnancy ko.. ito yung part na pinaka nalulungkot ako kasi I do not feel na she cared about sa pagbubuntis ko; di niya kinakamusta, pag nagchachat ako sa kanya about sa baby, one liner replies nakukuha ko. Para bang di siya interested at all na may bago syang grand child. Pero kapag siya naman ang nagkukwento, I try to be attentive at active sa conversation topic na kinukwento niya. Naiinis ako na di narereciprocate yung energy ko. We're not like this before naman.
Iniisip ko na siguro she is trying to distance herself sakin since nga may asawa na ako. And she is trying to liver her life on her own. I also feel na unti-unti nagdidrift apart yung "solid" relationship namin.. pero naisip ko, solid nga kaya yung meron kami dati ng mom ko? Or was I only present sa life niya dati dahil napilitan ako sa responsibility na naiwan sakin dahil iniwanan na sya ng mga tao sa paligid niya? Are these supressed feelings of resentment sa kanya dahil ako na ang sumalo saknya for the past 10 years at hindi na siya naghanap ng paraan for a better life, at umasa na lang sakin?
Kaya ngayon, heto tinatamad ako for mother's day. I don't even feel like being with her sa araw na yun. Kahit nga sa mismong araw ng delivery ng baby ko, I feel na okay lang sa'kin kahit di siya sumama sa hospital. Di naman siguro ako masamang anak kung ganito ang nararamdaman ko sa kanya.
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2024.04.29 06:29 SmartNSasssy All Weather Mats/Liners for 2009 Limited

Hello! 👋 My dad’s birthday is coming up and I’d like to get him some all weather mats for his 2009 Toyota Avalon Limited. It’s pearl white with beige interior. I’d prefer to get the kind that are custom fitted rather than the ones you have to measure and cut yourself. What brand of all weather mats/liners do you guys have and love in your Avalons? TIA!
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2024.04.28 10:16 Fuzzy_Lock1105 STRESSED!

So, i am a happy go lucky person who this one guy turned to an aggressive bud, i don’t know iw what to do and how to. I will just start by briefing what happened- I met this guy on Instagram he replied to my story, we spoke and obviously we liked each other later in the coming days, we dated for the shortest period and then we came in a relationship around the start he used to treat me really well,I told him in the start of the relationship that i am a bit aggressive in general but i need someone who can understand me and you know calm me.(he turned me more sulking and raging that is another point and that is because of this relationship.) so, he said okay i will take care and i was like okay he understood what i was trying to tell him. But then after few momths this guy changed into a real one liner like he used to reply to me like “okay” “hm” and all of the one liners you all could imagine. Then i used to cry tell him what was wrong still he didn’t change then. One day came up to me all of a sudden told me this isn’t working and i cried i told him why didn’t you tell me in the start why didn’t you just walk away while you knew this isn’t what you need or something. He called me up and he cried and said okay i am genuinely sorry for what i said and whatever happened and then, my dumb ass said okay and we got in a relationship again, past a year, he told me about some personal things he went through and then i told him again why didn’t you tell me about it and then he was like why? Would you leave me if i told you at the start i was like bro just tell me in the start you didn’t and now you are acting up like i would leave you. Okay so what happened these were kinda bigger issues so i told him it will not be okay if we are getting forward because this will ho bad and i would not be able to handle those, he cried i cried obviously and then again after days i thought let it go i will stay without him and deal with all of it.( Now guys here let me just be clear, he had some issues related to the future and all i won’t be able to explain more but please understand what i am trying to converse.) Now, after a few months guess what? We went on a date and i saw his snapchat, and he spoke with a girl he used to earlier before our relationship and flirted with her.( idk if it is cool with you guys it was not with me.) he did flirt and i was shattered. I was still smiling through it all. I was just stunned didn’t know how to react and then, after a point he didn’t let me read the complete texts but he did flirt after that he came to my house and i thought he just spoke to that girl in a casual way and did not flirt then he came we cuddled and then the next day i opened the snapchat again( i asked for his password.) i saw he did flirt with that girl. My heart broke and i told him clearly this will not work and i won’t be able to be with you he cried, he said he will make it up to me and then with alot I MEAN ALOT of convincing he convinced me to be with him but i clearly stated that i would not be able to trust you and i will have issues about it so you gotta be patient and understand then what happened was he said okay I will be patient with you and I will take care of all the reassurance then again came back in a relationship and and then in the next coming year, I was fully frustrated, aggressive and all of this happened because this guy was really not understanding me. After that we were really bad in this year, I mean actually 2023. We got done with our third year anniversary sheet in all of that. We had fight in our anniversary as well because of me because I was really aggressive and I was frustrated. It was all coming from the point that you cheated on me and I want to be with this person but I was trying my best to be with this Because I love this guy and I had complete attachment with him and understand that I have so much attachment with him. He used to always pull me back in the relationship. Anyhow I was always even after so many fights like I’m leaving you. I’m leaving him. I’m leaving you. He didn’t understand that I was actually wanting to leave him and after that point he kept pulling me in the relationship was like no work this out will work this out. It’s okay but the problem was in every fight. The point that I kept in the relationship or in the fight was the same. Basically this guy was just not understanding me or not able to understand that I need him at certain point and he wasn’t there for me Reassurance was far like something that I asked for. I just asked for a scare his love at some point I needed. For example if I’m on my period on those seven days I needed him. He wasn’t there for me and then when I told him that that you weren’t there for me. He said that every time every time every time you say the same thing. and after that he kept on blaming me that I was not able like I was not able to understand him at certain points and he was just blaming me for everything because I was aggressive. I was abusing him while I was just you know I was really frustrated because of whatever happened in this one year and I was I don’t know I’ve lost it. I’ve lost the fucking plot of my relationship because I love this guy I wanted to be with him. I had all of this attachment thing with him but you should repeat his mistakes every fucking time. I’m not talking about cheating you but every time when I wanted to tell him that you know you just not giving me time you just very busy with your collision thingy he was like okay I’m going to give you time but just understand. I am a bit busy and I was like okay. Just give me 15 minutes I’ll be okay I’ll be just like I’ll be okay with it. Then he said that you know I am in a college and you need to understand that I am really busy right now. Actually I just completed my graduation and this person is doing his masters he is elder to me so he was like I’m just doing my masters I’m really busy with that you need to understand and I’m just not able to give you time I was like I’m just asking for 15 minutes. Everybody gets there 15 minutes in the day. You do all of the things with your friends you just move around with them. We just being with them and you just not talking to me and I didn’t know if he was cheating on me as well because obviously we are living in the same city but he didn’t pick up my calls. I don’t know what this person was doing behind my back. After that I once was checking his Instagram obviously because I had his Instagram and Snapchat after whatever he did past year so obviously Then I was checking his following in followers or something and I found these girls coming from somewhere I was like who are these lake so he was like you know she’s in my college and we just like he just said that he he he met her in some event and she initiated that please you know give me a follow back on Instagram and all that I was like okay fine that’s okay because we were open and I was like okay fine but then I just made a drama voted and I was like why didn’t you tell me that you just added somebody on Instagram he just told me like you know I’ve just added somebody and you know you just meet her. She’s really nice and you just jam up with her. But he didn’t tell me anything about it. Okay after a lot of drama, a lot of drama we just stopped fighting all of that. Then we just were okay for some days. We will we had bad days and these all of the things were going on and on also in the one year and also you know he just joined his college. He found his friends and all that I don’t know what was it and then after some period of time one day I just was really frustrated and I spoke something about. I just spoke really out of my limit and I know I was wrong about it and I just was really sorry about it. Then then I kept trying to just you know make this up to him and I was like for barely like two days only he was okay but then in those two days my mind was fucking frustrated. My phone was like really black out. I didn’t have a mobile that point of time I was texting him from laptop. He was not picking up my call as I was calling from my mother’s mobile and he was not picking my call. He was I called him around like I gave him hundred calls or something and he was not picking up. I texted him from. I texted him from the laptop on Instagram was like okay this is what happened you know it’s okay I’m sorry I’m sorry can we just meet and that day it was his birthday so I was more of like okay just meet you know please come please come. We’ll just go somewhere else will do do something or whatever then this guy was after some point okay and he was like he cried a bit in front of me, and he was like okay fine just be okay with it and we were like okay. After that he was like okay. I just meet and we met he came. He came around my house around 10 PM or something and he made up to me because we had a really bad phase on all of that so he came up to me and he got me some food and flowers like that and we were like okay. After that we met really nicely nicely. Day after that we met and we were just talking about something and then this guy just didn’t get the point. I was telling you that you don’t understanding my point is understand what I’m trying to say and then after that he just you know a bit. He was on a high note with me and then I was like again you’re starting with this again you’re being aggressive I’m trying to tell this relationship a bit but you’re not just understanding what I’m trying to say we had a lot of drama that day and I’m just telling you a lot of drama. You’re just not understanding very much. Then this guy went home. After that he came near my house for like three days and he didn’t tell me that I’m near your house and he was just like that and I was like okay why didn’t you tell me that you’re coming up we could meet and all.(small story that day. This person also was a bit more aggressive with me in his body language.) After that we decided that this is not working. I didn’t need him. He didn’t come to me and he tried to just you know jealou After that we decided that this is not working. I didn’t need him. He didn’t come to me and he tried to just you know gel this relationship a bit but it was not happening. And I told him that it is not happening any new also that it is not happening. Then we stop talking to each other and then he used to send me reels of something. You know really cute reels or something and I was like why are you doing this right now because you’re not in a relationship and now it is not important still he was chasing me so I was like okay fine if something can happen in the future or something like that then one day I was just really frustrated because I don’t know he’s following just and followers was just went up after we broke up and I was like okay fine I just gave up on his Instagram because I got a new mobile and the Instagram mobile and the Instagram. Now the situation is basically that we are not together. This person is doing what he wants to do. I am doing what I’m wanting to do but the problem is I am so touch with this person this person can go weeks like without talking to me and I cannot go days. I’m just looking at the text that if he’s texting me or not if he’s texting me or not we followed each other in Instagram. I told him to block me he didn’t block me, but then again, he just you know unblocked me as for some reason I don’t know what I am so fucking attached to this person. I’m not able to get out of this and I’m so stretch stressed each and every stressed each and every day I am not able to just you know get out of this phase of my life I barely have any friends I mean all of these three years his friends are my friends. I used to be with him for a for all this long and I don’t know what to do right now because nobody really you know I have friends actually my school friends are there with me but I don’t know how to just you know get out of the situation, I am just not able to understand what to do how to be and you know I was just scrolling through some reels or something and then I was just I just found something that said people don’t take mentally seriously unless you’re very aggressive and frustrating. This guy blame me for that this guy was blaming me for you know being really aggressive being really frustrating and all of that but even understand what I was trying to tell him and that is what made me this person. I have never been this aggressive in any relationship I ever been and I am feeling sorry for myself for the three years. I give this guy. This person keeps manipulating me. I just kept getting manipulated in the relationship. I don’t know. If also in this paragraph I am able to make you guys also understand that what I went through for all of these parts. These are just like 1 to 2% things that I’m telling you guys, I am really loyal in the relationship. I am really giving everything in the relationship and this guy just comes up Monday that I don’t want to be with you three months later four months later then he just wants to cheat on me. He doesn’t want to be with me really nicely. I’m not saying he did not do something really nice for me but if some guy does 99% shit to me and 1% really great things to me. I’m just going to understand that this person is an idiot and I’m just going to see those 99% of shitty things that he did to me right? Now after explaining everything, even to my cousins and to my friends and all of that, I’m just not able to understand what to do how to do how to be. I am very frustrated with my own self and I’m not able to get out of this phase of my life I just want to be away but now I am craving for some friends because I have been an extrovert all this long and because I had this one person I didn’t feel the need of any friend that I wanted in life and now I am really craving for some people in my life. You know I’m not craving for this attention or you know I’m not just not going to be in a relationship right now because I’m not in that face of life but now I just want to be free. I just want to be you know out there just have friends just be around. I have my daily life stress. I have my studies going on. I am running on Stress and after all of this, all of these backlogs that I have in life basically the relationship it is taking upon me and it is building so much pressure on me. I am not able to handle myself when I sit alone in a while in my room, I think of all the things I think of all the cute things and all of that, I just get frustrated. I just want to get out of this. Can you guys please make me understand how to be away from all of this and just get positive energy in my life?
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2024.04.26 08:14 redditduk [MEGALIST] SG Gigs Concerts Raves - May 2024: Labour Day Week (26 Apr - 9 May)

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2024.04.24 05:29 AsherTheLion M4A - Looking For Long Term Roleplay Partner(s)

Hello. My name is Magnus and this is your cordial invitation to a vast world of creativity and imagination.
I am looking for 21+ partners who are on relatively the same level as I am. I tend to lean towards a novella level, but I am willing to match that of my partner. The one thing I refuse to do is one-liners, however. I would prefer at least a 3-5 paragraph minimum, but more is always welcome.
I'm open to fandom roleplays as well as custom worlds. I would prefer if we did something fandom based. However, if you have a good custom world idea, I would be willing to listen and give it a shot. My mind is open to any and all ideas.
The following are fandoms that I have knowledge of and am interested in. The characters that I am willing to play will accompany them.
Dragon Age - Fenris, Dorian
Fallout - Male OCs
Death Note - Beyond Birthday
Final Fantasy (7, 14) - 7: Reno, 14 - Male OCs (Hrothgar Gunbreaker, Veira Dragoon)
MHA - Shigaraki, Dabi, Overhaul, Aizawa, Male OCs
Hellsing Ultimate - Alucard, Young Walter
Hazbin Hotel/Helluva Boss - Alastor, Lucifer, Stolas, Blitzo, Male OCs
This is not the full list. These are just what I can name off the top of my head. I am open to suggestions. If I know it, we can give it a shot. If I don't know it, please allow for me to learn about it before I say yes or no. When it comes to fandoms, I’d say we could do mostly AU plots. Following canon word for word is boring. Now, if you wanna change up certain aspects of canon, I’m all for that. Coming up with our own stuff is half the fun.
I have some plots in mind. I couldn't think of something for everything, but I have some we can work with and maybe branch out from.
Dragon Age - Fenris - Somehow gets infected with Red Lyruim and a race to find a cure for him begins. There are several paths to take here and I like the idea of exploring some of them.
Death Note - Beyond Birthday is from the spin off novel written by Mello called Death Note: Another Note: The Los Angeles BB Murder Cases. By the time the series itself starts, he’s dead. So any plots involving him are mostly AU. Some ideas, though cliche, involved interviewing/studying him while he’s in prison, investigating his crimes, or including him in the Kira Case. Just depends on what you wanna do.
MHA - I mainly play the villains of MHA, but I do dabble with Aizawa. We can do LOV/Paranormal Liberation Front content. Or AU stuff where certain characters go in a different direction than what they did in canon aka instead of being villains, they’re heroes or something.
HH/HB - I watched the pilot of HH when it first came out and have not watched the series as of yet. I probably will eventually. I have, however, seen most of the episodes of HB. I would prefer AU story lines for these two. This is to explore the world and a variety of concepts.
Now, as for original world ideas, I'm most interested in things like dystopian or post-apocalyptic, fantasy, modern fantasy, psychological, horror, thrillesuspense, action/adventure, cryptids, and supernatural. Most of the OCs I have can be adapted from fandom to original content. A large chunk of the OCs are also cryptid creatures in some way. I would prefer that I be allowed to play characters that are more than human. I enjoy playing monsters and things like that.
Again, these are a few suggestions. I am open to other suggestions and I'm sure we can find a common ground with which we can both be interested in brainstorming ideas. I am comfortable playing villains should ideas come about where we need one.
I prefer to roleplay primarily on Discord. Servers can be organized and it's easier to find everything should a reference back be needed. Be aware of the fact I may not always respond right away. But I will respond when I can. If you cannot accept that, I apologize. Life happens and sometimes, you just gotta roll with the punches.
Usernames can be exchanged once we figure out if we are compatible or not.
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