Apa format resume examples

import 'dart:convert'; import 'package:fluttematerial.dart'; import 'package:flutter_map/flutter_map.dart'; import 'package:flutter_map_marker_clusteflutter_map_marker_cluster.dart'; import 'package:latlong2/latlong.dart'; import 'dart:ui' as ui; import 'dart:typed_data'; import 'package:http/http.dart' as http; import 'package:testingmap/cluster_test.dart/animation.dart';

void main() { runApp(const MyApp()); } class MyApp extends StatelessWidget { const MyApp({super.key}); @override Widget build(BuildContext context) { return const MaterialApp( home: MapScreen(), ); } } class MapScreen extends StatefulWidget { const MapScreen({super.key}); @override _MapScreenState createState() => _MapScreenState(); } class _MapScreenState extends State { List shops = []; late Map markerIcons; bool isLoading = false; String error = ''; late SlideUpWidget slideUpWidget; late VoidCallback toggleSlideUp; @override void initState() { super.initState(); markerIcons = {}; fetchShops(); slideUpWidget = SlideUpWidget( child: Container( height: 200, decoration: BoxDecoration( color: Colors.red, borderRadius: BorderRadius.only( topLeft: Radius.circular(20), topRight: Radius.circular(20), ), ), child: Center( child: Text( 'Shop Information', style: TextStyle(color: Colors.white, fontSize: 18), ), ), ), ); toggleSlideUp = slideUpWidget.createState().toggle; } Future fetchShops() async { setState(() { isLoading = true; error = ''; }); const token = "eyJhbGciOiJIUzI1NiIsInR5cCI6IkpXVCJ9.eyJpZCI6NTQsImlhdCI6MTcxMzIzMjQwOCwiZXhwIjoxNzI2MTkyNDA4fQ.hdJsGEMYRAAEs5y6RERuT2TNJTBUITkWy-7FarMc_C4"; // Replace with your actual token try { final response = await http.get( Uri.parse('https://api.carcare.mn/v1/shop'), headers: {'Authorization': 'Bearer $token'}, ); if (response.statusCode == 200) { final jsonData = json.decode(response.body)['data']; if (jsonData != null) { setState(() { shops = jsonData.map((data) => Shop.fromJson(data)).toList(); }); await loadMarkerIcons(); } else { setState(() { shops = []; }); } } else { setState(() { error = 'Failed to load shops (${response.statusCode})'; }); } } catch (e) { setState(() { error = 'Error fetching data: $e'; }); } finally { setState(() { isLoading = false; }); } } Future getMarkerIcon(String imageUrl) async { try { final response = await http.get(Uri.parse(imageUrl)); if (response.statusCode == 200) { return response.bodyBytes; } else { print('Failed to load image: ${response.statusCode}'); return null; } } catch (e) { print('Error loading image: $e'); return null; } } Future loadMarkerIcons() async { for (var shop in shops) { Uint8List? markerIcon = await getMarkerIcon(shop.thumbnail); if (markerIcon != null && markerIcons[shop.id]!.isNotEmpty) { markerIcons[shop.id] = markerIcon; } else { markerIcons[shop.id] = await MarkerGenerator.defaultMarkerBytes(); } } setState(() {}); } @override Widget build(BuildContext context) { List markers = shops.map((shop) { return Marker( width: 80, height: 80, point: LatLng(shop.location.latitude, shop.location.longitude), child: GestureDetector( onTap: toggleSlideUp, child: Container( child: markerIcons[shop.id] != null && markerIcons[shop.id]!.isNotEmpty ? Image.memory(markerIcons[shop.id]!) : Icon(Icons.location_on, color: Colors.red), ), ), ); }).toList(); return Scaffold( appBar: AppBar( title: const Text('Map with Markers'), ), body: Stack( children: [ isLoading ? Center(child: CircularProgressIndicator()) : FlutterMap( options: MapOptions( initialCenter: LatLng(47.9187, 106.917), initialZoom: 10, ), children: [ TileLayer( urlTemplate: 'https://tile.openstreetmap.org/{z}/{x}/{y}.png', userAgentPackageName: 'com.example.app', ), MarkerClusterLayerWidget(options: MarkerClusterLayerOptions( markers: markers, builder: (context, markers) { return Container( width: 80, height: 80, decoration: BoxDecoration( shape: BoxShape.circle, color: Colors.blue, ), child: Center( child: Text( markers.length.toString(), style: TextStyle(color: Colors.white), ), ), ); }, ),) ], ), slideUpWidget, ], ), ); } } class Shop { final int id; final String name; final String description; final String phone; final String type; final List additional; final String thumbnail; final List bannerImages; final List branches; final List schedules; final Location location; final List services; Shop({ required this.id, required this.name, required this.description, required this.phone, required this.type, required this.additional, required this.thumbnail, required this.bannerImages, required this.branches, required this.schedules, required this.location, required this.services, }); factory Shop.fromJson(Map? json) { return Shop( id: json?['id'] ?? 0, name: json?['name'] ?? '', description: json?['description'] ?? '', phone: json?['phone'] ?? '', type: json?['type'] ?? '', additional: List.from(json?['additional'] ?? []), thumbnail: json?['thumbnail'] ?? '', bannerImages: (json?['bannerImages'] as List?) ?.map((bannerImage) => BannerImage.fromJson(bannerImage)) .toList() ?? [], branches: List.from(json?['branches'] ?? []), schedules: List.from(json?['schedules'] ?? []), location: Location.fromJson(json?['location'] ?? {}), services: List.from(json?['services'] ?? []), ); } } class BannerImage { final int id; final String name; final String path; final String fileMimeType; final int fileSize; final int fileWidth; final int fileHeight; BannerImage({ required this.id, required this.name, required this.path, required this.fileMimeType, required this.fileSize, required this.fileWidth, required this.fileHeight, }); factory BannerImage.fromJson(Map json) { return BannerImage( id: json['id'] ?? 0, name: json['name'] ?? '', path: json['path'] ?? '', fileMimeType: json['fileMimeType'] ?? '', fileSize: json['fileSize'] ?? 0, fileWidth: json['fileWidth'] ?? 0, fileHeight: json['fileHeight'] ?? 0, ); } } class Location { final int id; final double longitude; final double latitude; final String address; final dynamic city; final dynamic country; final dynamic province; final dynamic subProvince; final dynamic street; Location({ required this.id, required this.longitude, required this.latitude, required this.address, this.city, this.country, this.province, this.subProvince, this.street, }); factory Location.fromJson(Map json) { return Location( id: json['id'] ?? 0, longitude: json['longitude'] ?? 0.0, latitude: json['latitude'] ?? 0.0, address: json['address'] ?? '', city: json['city'], country: json['country'], province: json['province'], subProvince: json['subProvince'], street: json['street'], ); } } class MarkerGenerator { static Future defaultMarkerBytes() async { final recorder = ui.PictureRecorder(); final canvas = Canvas(recorder, Rect.fromPoints(Offset(0, 0), Offset(100, 100))); final paint = Paint()..color = Colors.red; canvas.drawCircle(Offset(50, 50), 50, paint); final picture = recorder.endRecording(); final img = await picture.toImage(100, 100); final byteData = await img.toByteData(format: ui.ImageByteFormat.png); return byteData!.buffer.asUint8List(); } } 

Hey there my names Jordan! I currently have two games that I'm looking for players for! I have a Curse of Strahd, She is the Ancient, game at 8pm EST on Tuesdays and a modified Tyranny of Dragons game at 8pm EST on Thursdays! Both of these are modules I love and am very familiar with, I've put a lot of personal touch into making improvements to the modules to build on their flavor and I weave in the player character's backstories to enhance the flow of the narrative. Currently have 4 players for Curse of Strahd and 1 in Tyranny of Dragons, looking for 4-6 total in each! Check out the games here! https://startplaying.games/gm/mrjordan
Curse of Strahd now has 4 players so we'll be looking to start Session Zero next week! If you want in nows the best time!
I offer a unique "online-inperson" format. I haven't seen anyone else use this which is pretty exciting. All characters and enemies are 3D printed and painted minis placed on a tv screen and streamed through discord via webcam. This is optional of course as Roll20 is utilized for rolling and tracking character sheets, same as any other online game, I just like this for an added layer of unique play! If your curious what this looks like feel free to hop in the discord where I have example images posted! https://discord.gg/fWZuCvK9rx
Reach out if you're interested or have any questions I'd love to have ya!

Hello! After spending a few weeks looking up different game systems (Battletech, X-wing, Malifaux, Shatterpoint etc) it's become increasingly obvious that "fun to spectate" and "fun to play" are quite different beasts.
Some games work really well in the youtube format, either due to the game length, the thematic action or the low downtime between active actions.
In some cases a game can work if it becomes heavily edited down (Season of War battle reports for Age of Sigmar are a good example of this I think), whereas unedited gameplay would be dull beyond belief.
For me personally I think Infinity really works as far as battle reports are concerned. There's always action going on, every encounter is a potential disaster with the low wound count and high lethatlity, clear objectives for the game, and the way terrain works in Infinity makes the battlefields pleasing to the eye.
On the flip side there are some games that don't work at all for me in this format, classic Battletech for example about half the time is spent looking at damage charts.
What do you enjoy watching?

My lists are always being updated and expanded when new information comes in—what did I miss or am I unaware of (even if the thread predates my membership in Reddit), and what needs correction? Even (especially) if I get a subreddit or date wrong. That also includes new lists that you think I should create. (Note that, other than the quotation marks, the thread titles are "sic". I only change the quotation marks to match the standard usage (double to single, etc.) when I add my own quotation marks around the threads' titles.)
The lists are in absolute ascending chronological order by the posting date, and if need be the time of the initial post, down to the minute (or second, if required—there are several examples of this). The dates are in DD MMMM YYYY format per personal preference, and times are in US Eastern Time ("ET") since that's how they appear to me, and I'm not going to go to the trouble of converting to another time zone. They are also in twenty-four hour format, as that's what I prefer, and it saves the trouble and confusion of a.m. and p.m. Where the same user posts the same request to different subreddits, I note the user's name in order to indicate that I am aware of the duplication.
I compile my lists manually, from what shows up in my feed. I choose what interests me (thus the low incidence of romance—I'm not a fan of the literary genre, though I'm fine with the theme, and like romantic movies—and of pure horror, and the preponderance of science fiction/fantasy lists, as well as the large portion of nonfiction), and questions that are asked repeatedly.
Thread lengths: longish (50–99 posts)/long (100–199 posts)/very long (200–299 posts)/extremely long (300–399 posts)/huge (400+ posts) (though not all threads are this strictly classified, especially ones before mid?-2023, though I am updating shorter lists as I repost them); they are in lower case to prevent their confusion with the name "Long" and are the first notation after a thread's information.
booklists, the sub that hosted my lists, went private on or before Sunday 29 October 2023, so all of my lists at the time were blocked, though I have another home for them. That's the sub Recommend_A_Book (with one or two exceptions).
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Recurring Reddit Topics (alphabetized with one exception)

• Reddit: A How-to Guide thread (the title is currently a little grandiose for the present contents).
• The American Health Care System list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• African Hair(care) list of resources and discussion threads (one post).
• Filing Income Taxes in the United States list of Reddit resources, discussion threads, and references (one post).
• For New Owners of Cats list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads.
• [Incest] (not yet posted)
• Learning English list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• List of Writing Advice Subreddits (not yet posted in a central place)
• News & Fact Checking—see my post in "Where do I find true info about the Ukraine conflict?" (NoStupidQuestions; 18 April 2022)
• Pizza Delivery Advice list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Sex and Relationships list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (four posts).
• Tipping in the United States list of resources/references and Reddit discussion threads (one post).
• Toilets: International Differences and Other Matters list of resources, discussion threads, and references (one post).
• [Weddings] (not yet posted; controversies)
• Women's Pants and Pockets list of resources and discussion threads (one post).
• Worsening Search Results of Google list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).

Books

• Audiobooks list of recommendation threads (one post).

Nonfiction

• General Nonfiction list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (four posts).
• (Auto)biographies list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Communism list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Crime (Nonfiction) list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• Cults list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Diversity Nonfiction list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• History (General) list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• The Holocaust list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• How-to list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Information Technology list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• LBGTQ+ Nonfiction list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• [Leadership/Management] (not yet posted; see also the Self-help Nonfiction list)
• Medicine/Biology/For Medical Students list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Narrative Nonfiction ("Reads Like a Novel") list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Native American History and Culture list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Philosophy list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Psychology list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Science (General) list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Self-help Nonfiction list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (seven posts).
• [South Asian Indians] (not yet posted)
• The Space Race list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).

Fiction

• General Fiction list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (nineteen posts).
• Anthropomorphic Animals list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Antiheroes and Villains list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• Apocalyptic/Post-apocalyptic list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (three posts).
• Beautiful Prose/Writing (in Fiction) list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Books to Read in Your 20s list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Circuses & Carnivals list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• Classics (Literature) list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Compelling Reads ("Can't Put Down") list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Convents/Monasteries/Religious Houses and Orders list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• Death Games/Hunting Humans Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Diversity Fiction list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Dragons list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Dystopias list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Emotionally Devastating/Rending list of Reddit recommendation threads, and books (four posts).
• Feel-good/Happy/Upbeat list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Female Characters, Strong list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Female Rage list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Historical Fiction list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Humor list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Japanese Literature list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Knights/King Arthur list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post). Includes paladins.
• LBGTQ+ Fiction list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post). All genres.
• Life Changing/Changed Your Life list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Mysteries list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (two posts).
• Mythology/Folklore/Specific Cultures list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Obscure/Overlooked/Underappreciated/Unknown/Underrated General Fiction list of Reddit recommendation threads books (one post).
• Philosophical Fiction list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Pirates list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Poetry list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Readers 1: For Children Who Want to Start Reading list (one post).
• Readers 2: Here are the the resources and threads I have about books for adolescents/adults who want to start reading ("Get me reading again/I've never read") list (eight posts).
• Romance (not yet posted; very short)
• Romany/Travellers (not yet posted; very short)
• Science Fiction/Fantasy (General) Recommendations list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (thirty-five posts (eventually, again).).
  • N.B.: The category is alphabetized under "Science Fiction/Fantasy", and the lists within it are alphabetized with that as a prefix, even when the prefix is not used (e.g., Hard SF).
• SF/F and ___ list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Afterlife (Heaven, Hell, Valhalla, etc.) list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Alien Aliens list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post). (Includes Just "Aliens" and Other Stuff.)
• SF/F: Alternate History list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, authors, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Artificial Intelligence list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F Artists list of links (one post).
• SF/F Badasses list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• [SF/F: Body Sharing (Multiple Entities)] (draft; not yet posted]
• SF/F: Business list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Character Driven list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Colonization list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F Comics (not yet posted)
• SF/F: Cyberpunk list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Cyberpunk list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Deserts list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Detectives and Law Enforcement list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Epics/Sagas (Long Series) list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Erotica list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Exploration list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Fantasy *and* SF list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Fungi/Mushrooms list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Games list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Generation Ships list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Hard SF list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F Humor list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Immortals and Methuselahs list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Languages list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Magic list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Marine/Oceans/Water list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Medical list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Monster Hunting/Ghost Busting list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Non-human Protagonists/Main Characters list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Obscure/Underappreciated/Unknown/Underrated list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Organized Crime list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F, Philosophical list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Politics list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Powered Armor list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Psionics list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Religion list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F with Romance list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Schools and Education list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• SF/F: Space Opera list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F and Spies list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Steampunk list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Supernatural Creatures (Miscellaneous) list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Terraforming list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Time Travel list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• Urban Fantasy list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F: Utopias list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F: Weapons (Swords, Etc.) list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• SF/F Westerns list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• SF/F World-building list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Seasons/WeatheClimate list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• Self-help Fiction list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• Spies/Espionage (Genre) list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Stephen King: What Book Do I Start With? list of resources and Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Survival (Mixed Fiction and Nonfiction) list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Thrillers list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).
• Unreliable Narrators list. A stalled work in progress.
• Vampires list of Reddit recommendation threads and books (one post).
• Were-_s/Lycanthropes list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Westerns list of resources, Reddit recommendation threads, and books (one post).
• Zombies list of Reddit recommendation threads (one post).

Anime
If you are looking for something to watch, use the What to Watch? flair search first

• "Obscure/Underappreciated/Unknown/Underrated Anime Recommendations (List)" of Reddit recommendation threads (two posts).

Sports injury surgery plays a crucial role in helping athletes recover and return to their sport by addressing significant injuries that may not heal properly with conservative treatments alone. Here's how it helps:
1. Repairing Damaged Tissues : Surgery can repair torn ligaments, tendons, muscles, and cartilage that are common in sports injuries. For example, procedures like ACL reconstruction can restore stability to the knee after a ligament tear.
2. Restoring Functionality : Surgery aims to restore the normal function of the injured body part. This may involve realigning bones, repairing joints, or removing damaged tissue to allow for proper movement and function.
3. Reducing Pain : By addressing the underlying cause of pain, surgery can provide relief to athletes who have been dealing with chronic pain due to their injury. This enables them to engage in rehabilitation more effectively.
4. Facilitating Rehabilitation : Surgery often precedes a structured rehabilitation program. Surgeons and physical therapists work together to create personalized rehabilitation plans that gradually reintroduce movement, strength training, and sport-specific exercises to rebuild strength and flexibility.
5. Preventing Further Damage : Left untreated, some sports injuries can lead to further damage or complications. Surgery can help prevent these issues by addressing the root cause of the injury and stabilizing the affected area.
6. Expediting Recovery : While surgery itself requires a recovery period, once healed, athletes can often return to their sport more quickly and with better outcomes compared to non-surgical treatments alone. This is especially true for injuries that require immediate stabilization or repair.
7. Improving Long-Term Outcomes : Successful sports injury surgery can have lasting benefits, allowing athletes to resume their sport at pre-injury levels of performance while reducing the risk of future complications or re-injury.
However, it's important to note that surgery is not always the first or only option for sports injuries. Many injuries can be effectively treated with conservative measures such as rest, physical therapy, and medication. The decision to undergo surgery should be made in consultation with medical professionals, taking into account factors such as the severity of the injury, the athlete's goals and expectations, and the potential risks and benefits of surgery.

My lists are always being updated and expanded when new information comes in—what did I miss or am I unaware of (even if the thread predates my membership in Reddit), and what needs correction? Even (especially) if I get a subreddit or date wrong. (Note that, other than the quotation marks, the thread titles are "sic". I only change the quotation marks to match the standard usage (double to single, etc.) when I add my own quotation marks around the threads' titles.)
The lists are in absolute ascending chronological order by the posting date, and if need be the time of the initial post, down to the minute (or second, if required—there are several examples of this). The dates are in DD MMMM YYYY format per personal preference, and times are in US Eastern Time ("ET") since that's how they appear to me, and I'm not going to go to the trouble of converting to another time zone. They are also in twenty-four hour format, as that's what I prefer, and it saves the trouble and confusion of a.m. and p.m. Where the same user posts the same request to different subreddits, I note the user's name in order to indicate that I am aware of the duplication.
Thread lengths: longish (50–99 posts)/long (100–199 posts)/very long (200–299 posts)/extremely long (300–399 posts)/huge (400+ posts) (though not all threads are this strictly classified, especially ones before mid?-2023, though I am updating shorter lists as I repost them); they are in lower case to prevent their confusion with the name "Long" and are the first notation after a thread's information.

• "Looking for kaiju/monster hunting recs" (Fantasy; 25 July 2022)
• "He's a monster hunter?" (whatsthatbook; 4 August 2022)
• "Books like Pacific Rim" (suggestmeabook; 14 August 2022)
• "Books with an SCP-Type organization?" (suggestmeabook; 17 August 2022)
• "Monster killing books like The Witcher but with guns" (scifi; 2 September 2022)
• "Books similar to Souls-games in tone and style?" (Fantasy; 8 February 2023)
• "Fantasy book like Predator (1987) movie" (OPost archive) (Fantasy; 17 May 2023)
• "Sci-Fi/Horror book suggestions. Jaws in space" (OPost archive) (printSF; 29 September 2023)
• "The Witcher but I N S P A C E?" (printSF; 22 November 2023)

Books:

• Larry Correia's Monster Hunter International

Related:

• "I’ve read every kind of sea monster there is except…" (booksuggestions; 25 August 2022)
• "Looking for fun paranormal/cryptid/monster books." (booksuggestions; 26 August 2022)—longish

My lists are always being updated and expanded when new information comes in—what did I miss or am I unaware of (even if the thread predates my membership in Reddit), and what needs correction? Even (especially) if I get a subreddit or date wrong. (Note that, other than the quotation marks, the thread titles are "sic". I only change the quotation marks to match the standard usage (double to single, etc.) when I add my own quotation marks around the threads' titles.)
The lists are in absolute ascending chronological order by the posting date, and if need be the time of the initial post, down to the minute (or second, if required—there are several examples of this). The dates are in DD MMMM YYYY format per personal preference, and times are in US Eastern Time ("ET") since that's how they appear to me, and I'm not going to go to the trouble of converting to another time zone. They are also in twenty-four hour format, as that's what I prefer, and it saves the trouble and confusion of a.m. and p.m. Where the same user posts the same request to different subreddits, I note the user's name in order to indicate that I am aware of the duplication.
Thread lengths: longish (50–99 posts)/long (100–199 posts)/very long (200–299 posts)/extremely long (300–399 posts)/huge (400+ posts) (though not all threads are this strictly classified, especially ones before mid?-2023, though I am updating shorter lists as I repost them); they are in lower case to prevent their confusion with the name "Long" and are the first notation after a thread's information.
For romance books, you can also try romancebooks, as well as Help a Bitch Out, the Romance Novel Book Sleuth group on Goodreads, and romance.io "(the filters are your friend!)" (per romancebooks).
ScienceFictionRomance (possibly)
Romance_for_men's Books with Romance for Men (spreadsheet; multiple subgenres)
Erotica tags at the ISFDB
Pornography tags at the ISFDB
Threads:

• "Science fiction erotica that's not terrible?" (printSF; 15:07 ET, 19 October 2022)
• "Fantasy books in wich there is some/healthy amount of s*x?" (suggestmeabook; 10:57 ET, 27 February 2023)—sex/erotica
• "Any Good SF/Fantasy Erotica Out There?" (printSF; 23:37 ET, 8 March 2023)
• "Smutty SF" (printSF; 29 March 2023)—long; with plot
• "Need Fantasy Smut Suggestions" (Fantasy; 9 April 2023)—long
• "Well-written, mature, adult version of A Court of Thorns and Roses?" (Fantasy; 7 May 2023)—very long
• "Explicit Fantasy book(s) recommendations" (Fantasy; 11 May 2023)
• "Don't judge me" (booksuggestions; 30 May 2023)
• "Fantasy books that have s*x in them?" (suggestmeabook; 25 June 2023)
• "Discrete books help" (suggestmeabook; 30 June 2023)
• "Fantasy erotica recommendations" (suggestmeabook; 24 September 2023)
• "What is the best fantasy series that heavily implements smut elements?" (Fantasy; 06:41 ET, 29 October 2023)—extremely long; u\FirelinkTacoSauce
• "What are some of the best sci-fi books (series) that implement smut elements?" (scifi; 06:45 ET, 29 October 2023)—long; u\FirelinkTacoSauce

Books:
Circlet Press—small publishing house
Phil Foglio:

• XXXenophile (anthology comic)

Books (of which I am aware):

• Janet Morris's Silistra series

Anne Rice (as mentioned by u\mgonzo):

• As A. N. Roquelaure: The Sleeping Beauty Quartet
• As Anne Rampling

It is normal to use Power BI as a 'dashboard'. However, my assignment is to use Power BI with data source is nothing but text. The data here is just an example that I made up while typing this.
Each teacher will have an update per class. They update things like: chapters that we have studied, chapters being explained, students engagement and highlight on problems. As you can imagine: english teacher writes nicely and clearly, Maths teacher write too short but can't understand, science teachers is in between (depend on her mood) and don't get me started on art teacher (like writing a book).
They update this on their own excel file. I upload and combine them into table format. The principle can select the class level and will be able to see all updates per subjects (english, maths, science, arts) on 4 columns (what's studied, current study, engagement level, problems).
There is a max I can do to beautify the table. But the number of columns, the text after text after text - simply means I can get different user experience on different day of the week.
Other visualization:

• matrix - not good.
• cards - too many cards to do. besides, level 1 have 4 subjects, level 5 may have 6 subjects. The number of cards can vary depending on filter
• customs visualization - i search for "text", but they're not made for this.

Any brilliant ideas guys? Otherwise, my 'sexy table' is the max I can do

This is my catchall list, for interesting and specific speculative fiction recommendations that don't have another home. Recommendations may be moved to another list (say, a new one) without notice.
My lists are always being updated and expanded when new information comes in—what did I miss or am I unaware of (even if the thread predates my membership in Reddit), and what needs correction? Even (especially) if I get a subreddit or date wrong. (Note that, other than the quotation marks, the thread titles are "sic". I only change the quotation marks to match the standard usage (double to single, etc.) when I add my own quotation marks around the threads' titles.)
The lists are in absolute ascending chronological order by the posting date, and if need be the time of the initial post, down to the minute (or second, if required—there are several examples of this). The dates are in DD MMMM YYYY format per personal preference, and times are in US Eastern Time ("ET") since that's how they appear to me, and I'm not going to go to the trouble of converting to another time zone. They are also in twenty-four hour format, as that's what I prefer, and it saves the trouble and confusion of a.m. and p.m. Where the same user posts the same request to different subreddits, I note the user's name in order to indicate that I am aware of the duplication.
Thread lengths: longish (50–99 posts)/long (100–199 posts)/very long (200–299 posts)/extremely long (300–399 posts)/huge (400+ posts) (though not all threads are this strictly classified, especially ones before mid?-2023, though I am updating shorter lists as I repost them); they are in lower case to prevent their confusion with the name "Long" and are the first notation after a thread's information.

• "Mentions of Sociology in SF" (printSF; 1 September 2022)—long
• "Law firms in Sci-fi or Fantasy settings." (suggestmeabook; 13 September 2022)
• "SF about pregnancy, childbirth, nursing, childcare" (printSF; 24 October 2022)—longish
• "Requesting Feminist Speculative Fiction" (suggestmeabook; 18 November 2022)—longish
• "Sci-fi books which are respectful of women/girls, men/boys or any other gender?" (booksuggestions; 29 November 2022)
• "Are there any other works beside Handmaid's Tale and Children of Men which explore mass infertility?" (Fantasy; 30 November 2022)—longish
• "Any good books of a human being raised by aliens, animals, ect?" (scifi; 13 December 2022)
• "Fashion Fantasy Books?" (Fantasy; 09:48 ET, 14 December 2022)—u\dark-and-the-light
• "Sci-Fashion Works?" (printSF; 11:16 ET, 14 December 2022)—u\dark-and-the-light
• "Looking for books involving ships and travel (not space, but earthbound)" (printSF; 23 December 2022)
• "Who are some of the smartest characters you've seen that felt genuinely smart and what did they do that made them smart" (Fantasy; 2 January 2023)—very long
• "Best non-romantic relationships in fantasy" (Fantasy; 3 January 2023)—huge
• "Any good books on social and communication technology?" (printSF; 23 January 2023)
• "Books that take place between two dimensions of reality?" (booksuggestions; 08:55 ET, 25 January 2023)—long
• "Looking for stories like Piranesi with liminal spaces, mystery realms, or 'other' planes of existence" (suggestmeabook; 12:07 ET, 25 January 2023)—longish
• "Do you know of any books about a zoologist/ecologist caught up in a fantasy plot?" (Fantasy; 27 January 2023)
• "Any novels where mc is or becomes a parent, and has a significant other, relatively early?" (Fantasy; 12 February 2023)
• "What are your favourite magic trees?" (Fantasy; 14 February 2023)—long
• "Recommendations for SF that explores issues of sexuality, including how sex and gender might work for alien races?" (printSF; 22 March 2023)—longish
• "First person female POVs written by men?" (Fantasy; 16 April 2023)—extremely long
• "Works of science fiction that show that bureaucracy can work." (printSF; 1 May 2023)—long
• "Recommendations for weird babies in sf/fantasy" (printSF; 7 May 2023)—longish
• "Fantasy about tres?" (Fantasy; 17 May 2023)—trees
• "I am in love with evolution!" (printSF; 24 May 2023)
• "Can anyone recommend science fiction works that deal with the field of nuclear semiotics?" (printSF; 26 May 2023)
• "What's your favorite sci-fi about geoengineering?" (scifi; 3 July 2023)—AKA climate engineering
• "Sci fi about leadership" (printSF; 14 July 2023)
• "I'm looking for novels about or contains woods, jungles, forests. Not interested in YA." (OPost archive) (suggestmeabook; 31 July 2023)—very long
• "Any book with Incredible smart MC." (booksuggestions; 9 August 2023)
• "Request for SciFi novel suggestions" (scifi; 13 August 2023)—"include human reproduction, general reproduction that is related to human life, or the creation of new life"
• "Fantasy book with interesting use of drugs" (Fantasy; 25 August 2023)—longish
• "Looking for fantasy jungle media." (Fantasy; 29 August 2023)
• "What is a good supernatural psychological thriller book" (suggestmeabook; 1 September 2023)
• "I'm looking for books that deal with higher dimensions." (printSF; 8 September 2023)—longish
• "Human civilization entirely dependent on Nuclear Power" (printSF; 20 September 2023)
• "I'm looking for a very mathematical novel (not short story)." (printSF; 7 October 2023)—longish
• "Is there some sci-fi work where organisms reproduce offspring with more than two parents?" (scifi; 7 December 2023)—long
• "stories about loss of social identity" (scifi; 8 December 2023)
• "Suggest me a book that has farming and magic" (suggestmeabook; 2 April 2024)
• "What is the best horror fantasy books you have read?" (Fantasy; 6 April 2024)
• "Can anyone recommend some sci-fi books to me that deal with the evolution of a species" (scifi; 24 April 2024)—longish; short listing

Hi all, im a somewhat new grad (May 2023, so not really THAT recent tbh) and Ive been interning at a small but seemingly successful company that specializes in education tool software (Tools for blackboard, d2l, canvas). Besides me there are 2 fullstack devs and one front end. We Work with python django and react.
Ive been applying to other places and no luck im about to give up tbh, but besides the dooming, I am debating if I want to ask for a small pay bump, I get 14 hourly and it sucks and makes me feel like shit, especially as someone who has a degree. All i have been doing is writing integration tests and doing some UI fixes with internal company dashboards.
How long do you guys think I should tough it out before giving up? How long before I could get hired in? I want to get my life on track and try to tough it out, but I want benefits and be fulltime. I am severly depressed and I am losing motivation to do anything, I also feel like im being taken advantage of doing meaningless work outside of making unit/intergration test since they never did any of that yet. They say I have chops and want to keep me around (Random aside but I was put on a pip earlier this year, I had to let my dog go and it just thew me into a depression, still not over it tbh but I have improved easily because it was only 1 week probation) but that is a different story.
EDIT: Here is my resume I guess not too impressive tbh, Im trying to start making more projects, but I dont know what is worth making. For example, I made a console black jack game in Java, but I doubt that is impressive enough to put on my resume, though I demonstrate knowledge of OOP.
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1kLLyBrOcx2PPzCUVBeclwJTYsD_Ykgntt8SdpMmVtH0/edit

I really like how clean my day zero outline feels, though I haven't run any simulations yet. There are a lot of things going on here, but I think for the amount of complexity firearms generally require, I've managed to get a good blend of specificity and abstraction. What do you think?
Turn Organization
There are two central concepts: Coordination and Initiative.
Coordination is a simple first/second condition in relation to the opposition and is influenced by formation, the manner in which a position is held, and the manner in which an area is approached. This stat affects group behavior.
Initiative is a number based on skill, accuracy, maneuverability, and responsiveness. This value affects all individual behaviors in combat. Further, your Default Initiative is a baseline number that you revert to when you perform recovery actions or remove yourself from certain tactical positions.
Coordination determines the order of action by group until an exchange of fire devolves into a firefight. Technically, these phrases mean the same thing, but I think "exchange of fire" sounds well-ordered and technical, and "firefight" sounds desperate and chaotic. During an exchange, players may devise a coherent strategy on their group turn and use "popcorn initiative". But once a firefight occurs, turn order is determined by character Initiative and only valid in-game tactical commands are allowed.
Examples of shifts from Exchange to Firefight:

• Going from street maneuvering to holding a small building and its perimeter as a strongpoint, where allies may not be in each others' sight
  
• A vehicle or group of vehicles come to a stop and everyone has to get out for a street brawl
  
• A breach gets botched
  
• Artillery is introduced where artillery isn't welcome
  
• You get flanked by enemies on top of buildings while you're in an alley and they have RPGs
  

On your turn, you spend initiative to act. Certain actions can allow you to spend more initiative for a better effect. When a new round begins, you revert back to your Default Initiative
Attacking
Your attack roll is called Attack Significance, and the result determines an effect called Suppression, which damages Initiative. If Suppression exceeds Initiative, actual harm is caused, which is treated like a critical hit, and its effect is based on your weapon. For instance, on a critical hit for a flamethrower, you might get a result that reads: "The target is immolated and begins to scream in abject terror. If friendlies do not administer aid within the next round, the victim will die"
Weapons affect initiative, initiative costs, and attack significance. A high rate of fire but a low powecaliber round would have a high attack significance but count as a light weapon in terms of critical progression. A heavy weapon will have a steeper critical progression. And artillery-level damage will flat out kill you. A low rate of fire weapon has a high initiative cost and a low attack significance
Armor
Armor is classified as light, heavy, or artillery-class:
Armor is immune to suppression against weapons a class below it, unless if you aim for weak points like the joints, face, or lower legs
If a weapon class exceeds the target's armor, then their armor will not protect them against that attack. For example, if you fire a 7.62 rifle at civilian armor, the armor will do nothing at all, unless if the distance is extreme enough to reduce the attack by a whole class. If you fire a rail gun at infantry armor
If your armor and the attacking weapon are equal in class, then it will block Critical Damage if Suppression Damage does not exceed the armor's threshold value.
Threshold is largely based on the coverage of your armor, and so it's possible to remove peripheral pieces to sacrifice some threshold in order to improve your mobility
Range, Accuracy, Mobility, Armor Penetration
Range governs the maximum distance you can fire your weapon before its damage degrades by class
Accuracy affects your maximum initiative in mid range combat and scoped long range combat.
Mobility affects your Default Initiative in close range combat.
Armor-penetrating ammunition defeats armor of the same class
Positions and Maneuvers
Some tactics are only available during a coordinated turn, such as "Area Suppression" where a the players tell the GM they're focusing fire on a single area, which organizes everyone's attack into a single, overpowered roll.
If you take up certain held positions on your turn, you'll be able to react quickly and move to cover or provide interrupting fire. If your character has hand-to-hand skills (and drugs, lots of drugs), they can take up high mobility maneuvers to build excess initiative, "release" it to perform adrenaline attacks (disarms, bodyshields, throws, wall runs and drop attacks, a throwing knife to the neck) or reactively dash out of the line of fire.
Thus, the modes of combat can allow for a more grounded military style or a batman/daredevil style, with a gritty-cinematic feel

Looking for people to play with? This is the place to find them!Please post in the following format:

Availability (with timezone) 

Platform How many people you have in your group already
Here's a list of timezone abbreviations to use: https://www.timeanddate.com/time/zones/
For example:

Tuesdays and Thursday evenings (CDT)Steam (Mac)Have one other in the party already

or

Saturday mornings (CET)GOG (PC)Just me so far

Gather your party and venture forth!

I vaguely remember Bwipo also stating something similar but let me elaborate on it.
People tend to look at laning stats / KDA when trying to compile a GOAT List of mid laners. A lot of the time arguments revolve around their KDA / their worst season / their best season.
Caps has a play style that no other mid laner in world has and it makes him more successful with weaker players compared to his Korean counterparts like Chovy(who is the best player in an individual sense right now without any discussion
In every single teamfight you will see Caps spearheading the fight if he is not playing with Miky who also has this attribute. In laning phase you will see Caps sacrifice his lane to roam over and over again. Only DoinB was better than him in this sense (See the teleport in game 2 to bot lane which effectively won game resulting in Kogmaw snowballing rather than Draven snowballing). You will see him actively looking for picks and trying ways to bring his team back into the game rather than farming passively. Faker is the other mid laner who is notoriously good at this historically. His champion pool and the flexibility he brings in draft again is again unmatched. Because of his champion ocean he adapts to any meta.
Whenever he is in lane he will take so many risks that enemy jungler and support will always camp mid lane allowing his junglesupport to do whatever they want in map. One of the main reasons Yike and Miky had godlike games was because Meiko and Tian legit got outplayed like 20 different times trying to gank mid. That is also why someone like Targamas looks at least LEC material when playing with Caps and looks so much worse without him. The same thing can be said for every player Caps has ever played with. For almost all lother mid laners only goal in early game is to give themselves the best lane state possible without thinking about the other ways they can help their team play the game. You will almost never see jungler of Caps ganking mid more than enemy jungle as he doesn't waste his team's resources for no reason calling for unnecessary ganks to get ahead in lane.
There are seasons where this approach makes his stats look really bad like 2021 when he plays with a tilted passive mentally boomed team where no one else is trying to do anything active with the space he provides. Combine it with a TF-Ryze meta where enemy mid laner can just click W on you and this is a recipe for disaster. But this is the main reason why Caps has : 1 MSI Title 2 World Championship Finals 1 World Championship Semi final with European teammates
while someone like Chovy who I said is best in an individual sense has : 1 World Championship Semi Final and nothing else in his resume even though he played with the likes of Tarzan Viper Lehends Doran Deft Keria Pyosik Ruler Peanut.
2018 is a great example for this. It was only 2nd year of Caps where he wasn't as good as today. In fact- Rekless/Hyli were the better performing players by far in that Worlds. However one of the reasons they performed so well was Caps playing ultra aggro all the time soaking all the pressure and making a worse game state for himself which have his bot lane a much easier game. He had a Rookie Bwipo and Broxah for god's sake. Even his heavily criticized Taliyah game in Game 5 against T1 is an example of this where he sacrifices his lane to put Hans in a position to carry the game. He can just stay mid and look good in stats against Faker whom he dominated in lane almost all series but that doesn't give him a better chance to win the game.

In short: recommend me your favorite science books!
Hello! I just started getting into science books. I’ve always been in love with chemistry, but normally I read chemistry papers, and kept the books I read to fiction. I’m currently reading The Vital Question (Nick Lane), and realized I enjoy this format for learning about science a lot!
I’m not looking for textbooks, I’m not looking for review articles, I’m looking for books where the author tackles some scientific question or problem in the form of a book.
Bonus points if the topic has to do with origins of homochirality, because I find that topic FASCINATING, but any science topics will do!
Also bonus points if it has to do with organic chemistry (that’s my field), but definitely not a requirement.
Also, I’d prefer something that assumes at least some familiarity with science. I don’t want the author to spend full pages explaining what a covalent bond is, for example.

In short: recommend me your favorite science books!
Hello! I just started getting into science books. I’ve always been in love with chem, but normally I read chemistry papers, and kept the books I read to fiction. I’m currently reading The Vital Question (Nick Lane), and realized I enjoy this format for learning about science a lot!
I’m not looking for textbooks, I’m not looking for review articles, I’m looking for books where the author tackles some scientific question or problem in the form of a book.
Bonus points if the topic has to do with origins of homochirality, because I find that topic FASCINATING, but any science topics will do! (I’m even on if they aren’t chemistry.)
Also, I’d prefer something that assumes at least some familiarity with science. I don’t want the author to spend full pages explaining what a covalent bond is, for example.

Hello! This is a somewhat shameless plug, but I use this tool literally every day multiple times per hour and hope that it might help some more people too.
Basically, clai integrates with LLM's and allows for conversations via cli. On top of this, it has support for pipeing in data + function calling. So analyzing large log file, interpreting output from arcane CLI tools (looking at you, dig..) becomes as easy as clai -i q "What the heck is this: {}"
Recently I added tooling/function calling as well. So it's possible to saycat .file clai -i -t q Why do I get this stacktrace: {}, you'll find the source code here: ~/Projects/some_project and the AI will itself decide what tools to call and how to approach finding the solution. But, tbh, I've had mixed results with this. Always found it easier to debug it myself, but I think that might be that I don't prompt well enough. A final tip is to use the glob mode to create unit tests or generate repetitive code, example clai -r glob 'internal/setup.go' Generate unit tests for this file. Write ONLY code, nothing else. > internal/setup_test.go. You'll want to use the -r flag for this since the output is formated using glow as markdown otherwise.
I hope you'll find it as useful as I do, and ofc I hope for as many people as possible to use it! This is the source code: https://github.com/baalimago/clai, install with go install github.com/baalimago/clai@latest

My lists are always being updated and expanded when new information comes in—what did I miss or am I unaware of (even if the thread predates my membership in Reddit), and what needs correction? Even (especially) if I get a subreddit or date wrong. (Note that, other than the quotation marks, the thread titles are "sic". I only change the quotation marks to match the standard usage (double to single, etc.) when I add my own quotation marks around the threads' titles.)
The lists are in absolute ascending chronological order by the posting date, and if need be the time of the initial post, down to the minute (or second, if required—there are several examples of this). The dates are in DD MMMM YYYY format per personal preference, and times are in US Eastern Time ("ET") since that's how they appear to me, and I'm not going to go to the trouble of converting to another time zone. They are also in twenty-four hour format, as that's what I prefer, and it saves the trouble and confusion of a.m. and p.m. Where the same user posts the same request to different subreddits, I note the user's name in order to indicate that I am aware of the duplication.
Thread lengths: longish (50–99 posts)/long (100–199 posts)/very long (200–299 posts)/extremely long (300–399 posts)/huge (400+ posts) (though not all threads are this strictly classified, especially ones before mid?-2023, though I am updating shorter lists as I repost them); they are in lower case to prevent their confusion with the name "Long" and are the first notation after a thread's information.

• "I’m looking for a book with circus themes in it." (booksuggestions; 12 February 2022)—long
• "Circuses & Carnivals..." (suggestmeabook; 4 September 2022)
• "Suggestions for good fiction books that take place in a Circus, Carnival, or something like that?" (booksuggestions; 11 September 2022)—long
• "Books like the HBO series Carnivale" (booksuggestions; 18 December 2022)—longish
• "Carnival/circus books?" (booksuggestions; 24 February 2023)—longish
• "Books about the circus?" (Fantasy; 27 April 2023)—longish
• "Circus Books - Fiction and Non" (booksuggestions; 4 May 2023)—longish
• "Circus Fantasy?" (booksuggestions; 17 May 2023)
• "Looking for a book where the young man was psychic and had to do with something about a carnaval or fair with a ferris wheel." (whatsthatbook; 12 September 2023)

Books

• Ray Bradbury's Something Wicked This Way Comes. Included based on name recognition.
• Barry B. Longyear's Circus World series.

Couple of months ago I saw a post that showed how to get Plex and Plexamp to recognize Live/Singles/EPs/Compilation tags and how to format them so the Plex Dance picks them up. Updated my entire library and it worked like a charm. Seems like ever since 1.40xxxx, new additions no longer update. Yes, I do the refresh metadata. Yes, I am using local metadata. Nothing has changed on my end. The stuff that updated has stayed updated, but for example, new Live albums do not update to Live in Plex. I haven't seen anyone else post that here so I was wondering if it's happening to anyone else.

I’m pretty new when it comes to excel and have so far figured out for what I need. However I’m stuck on calculating duration. I have to keep track of my supervision hours for my job which then is added to my monthly hours which is then divided by eachother to get my total percentage. What I’m running into is how to calculate the duration of my supervision. For instance : I have a column of my supervised hours in duration. For example I’d have multiple times ranging from 30 minutes up to 3 hours. I want to get the TOTAL duration of hours. I know it’s simple math but when I have times like 1 hour + 30 minutes + 2 hours 45 minutes it gets confusing. I know I’ll be told to use =sum + the whole column which I did but it gives it to me in the time format (hh:ss). However this doesn’t work for what I need as I have another column already made to calculate the division for my percentage and this doesn’t work because it’s using the hh:ss format… I hope this wasn’t too confusing of a question. I can provide a visual if needed. Please help. Thanks

As the title states, (and despite the existential risk to myself - as I am disabled, impoverished, and my survival is reliant on the room I rent in her attic - given her recent threat to have have me thrown out by the police because she could not handle the feelings she had during the argument that she initiated), I have finally drawn a bright red line in the metaphorical sand regarding her treatment of me. This is the culmination of 8+ years of sustained, one-sided, unreciprocated, and unsuccessful effort on my part to sustain, salvage, repair, or improve our "relationship"
 
I've learned a lot from the stories and people on this subreddit, and I know if anyone can understand the way that I'm feeling about this it's you guys.
 
Any input, commentary, criticism, insight, commiseration, etc, is very welcome, and I appreciate anyone who takes the time to read it.
 
Anyways, enough preamble, here's the letter in all of my ridiculously-verbose inglory (the square-bracketed disclaimers, etc, were part of the letter as delivered to her, since she is selective illiterate whenever there's something she doesn't like):
 
[START]
 
[This document begins with a 382 word AI-generated summary (titled "AI- GENERATED SUMMARY:" below the square-bracketed opening remarks), estimated at 1m23s time required to read. If you are unable or unwilling to make it through even this brief summary, then there is literally nothing else I could possibly do to assist in your comprehension of my positions. The full message following the summary is approximately 2100 words, estimated at approximately 8 minutes to read.]
 
[If you would like assistance in understanding things I've written that you're struggling to interpret or comprehend, you can go to chatgpt.com (no account necessary), or download the ChatGPT app from the Google Play Store on your phone. You can simply interact with the chat in natural language (in other words, type as though you were texting another person) and it will understand what you are saying. If you are struggling to understand how to interact with it effectively, you can simply inform it of that (in any wording you choose) and it will assist you with altering your approach to receive more effective results.]
 
AI-GENERATED SUMMARY:
 
Your son's message is a powerful declaration of his boundaries, grievances, and intentions within your relationship. Here's a breakdown to help you understand:
 
Preface: He advises you to read with an open mind and, if needed, with assistance due to the emotional complexity.
 
Declaration of Disengagement: He firmly states his decision to disengage from any form of interaction or acknowledgment outside of essential landlord-tenant matters.
 
Condemnation of Abuse: He accuses you of perpetuating a cycle of abuse that has deeply impacted his health and stability.
 
Rejection of Coercion: He dismisses the idea that being evicted is a viable solution to the abuse, highlighting the coercive nature of such a choice, and how it leaves him vulnerable to further harm.
 
Criticism of Your Behavior: He unreservedly condemns your actions, particularly your exploitation and manipulation, emphasizing the gravity and effects of your conduct.
 
Challenges to Your Claims: He directly confronts your claims regarding his efforts in the relationship, asserting that he has consistently made extensive attempts to maintain it, despite your accusations to the contrary.
 
Commitment to Compliance: He unequivocally affirms his commitment to compliance with all landlord-related demands, demonstrating his unwavering respect for your authority as the homeowner.
 
Demand for Clarity: He demands clear and unambiguous knowledge of the requisite terms when any changes to living arrangement paradigms are demanded, underscoring his willingness to comply with any directives you may issue.
 
Defense Against Gaslighting: He firmly asserts his unwavering commitment to respecting your property and authority, preemptively refuting any attempts to accuse him otherwise.
 
Insights into Your Behaviour: He offers insights into patterns in your behaviour, linking them to moments of vulnerability or distress in your life.
 
Call for Self-Reflection: He urges you to seek professional help for your narcissism and unresolved childhood traumas.
 
Caution Regarding Gravity: He states that failing to address your responsibilities would be a missed opportunity for both of you to salvage the relationship and resolve underlying issues.
 
Reiteration of Hope: Despite his current stance, he leaves the door open for reconciliation if you undergo necessary personal growth.
 
Closure on Unequal Effort: He firmly states that he can no longer sustain the one-sided effort in the relationship and won't continue to do so.
 
It's evident that he's deeply hurt and demanding acknowledgment, change, and resolution in your relationship.
 
[end of AI-generated summary; my full, non-AI-generated message follows below]
 
[I recommend that you read this in its entirety at a time and capacity level where your literacy and comprehension are at their highest level, and preferably with the interpretational assistance of a knowledgeable and competent support person or technological assistant.]
 
[Presumably, after reading a few sentences or less, your defense mechanisms will be activated and you will eject. However, as with the vast majority of the things I have said to you that have gone unacknowledged, I am completely certain that the contents are cogent and comprehensible, and I believe that with competent support and vulnerable effort you undoubtedly have the raw cognitive capacity necessary for comprehension if you are able to stabilize your emotional reactions and put real effort into the actions necessary for you to understand my words.]
 
I will not talk to you.
I will not look at you.
I will not approach you.
I will not acknowledge you.
 
If you attempt to interact with me on any interpersonal level not related to your role as a landlord, I will reserve the right to express just how fucking despicable it is to treat such a vulnerable person with such utter disregard and abuse for so fucking long.
 
The cycle of abuse you have maintained to destabilize me for your own pathological reasons has caused - and continues to cause - extensive damage to my health, stability, and existence. However, since I know your response to this would likely be some variation of "you're not a victim here [my name], so if I treat you so bad, just leave", I'll preemptively and unequivocally condemn such coercive and abusive tactics, and state again (as I did the other day), that the forced choice between your abuse and life-threatening-homelessness is obviously no choice at all, and leaves me perpetually subject to your coercion and abusive control.
 
Such exploitation by you is absolutely disgusting, and honestly I understand why you run away from yourself at every single instance where you're in danger of having your lifelong house-of-cards ego even slightly threatened. I know if I treated another human being the way you treat me for even a moment, let alone for the literal years you have done so, I would not be able to face myself in the mirror either. You should be fucking ashamed of yourself.
 
You say I "don't want to be your son anymore", as though it has been someone other than me making hundreds and hundreds and hundreds of hours of efforts and attempts in order to try and single-handedly keep our relationship alive, and as though it has been someone other than you who has stonewalled me for years about every single legitimate and valid time I attempted to gain even the slightest foothold as a full human being in the owner-pet relationship you have fought so hard to maintain. You siphon, in fact demand, emotional supply whenever you so choose, and then fucking discard me as soon as it appears that I might do anything that would result in you losing even a fraction of a percent of the 99% to 1% imbalance you believe is an immutable part of our "relationship".
 
I will do my absolute best to be in my room as much as physically possible when you are home, so as to minimize the need to be physically adjacent to you in the course of our respective activities of daily living.
 
I, again, remain unequivocally committed to my position of deference and compliance towards any rules/demands related to my existence, presence, or activities as your tenant.
 
As you refuse to provide any sort of unambiguous guidance or clarification whatsoever regarding your shifting demands affecting my ability to access/perform basic activities of daily living, I will continue to act in good faith with respect to my adherence to all previously-established arrangements and protocols (whether codified or de facto) regarding such activities. To the full extent of my abilities, and to the extent that it is physically possible, I will immediately and unequivocally comply with any alterations, additions, or excisions you choose to impose regarding the nature of our physical coexistence as landlord and tenant, regardless of your disregard or intent for any harm to my stability that will ensue as a result.
 
If you intend to attempt to manipulate or threaten or gaslight me to illegitimately and dishonestly accuse me of failing to comply with your rights and demands as the homeownelandlord, then I can assure you that such efforts will be ineffective and inadvisable. The extensive history of my genuine, documented, and unwavering commitment to absolute respect of your home, property, and landlord-tenant authority is unassailable, and nothing has or will change about the good faith nature of my efforts to simply live peacefully and work on stabilizing my health and continuing to attempt to develop basic protocols that offer me the opportunity to seek the ways and means required to sustainably exist, survive, and seek meaning and fulfilment as a human being.
 
To try and make it a bit more bite-sized (without warranty as to the efficacy of said efforts), since I know when your ego is threatened you conveniently - and dishonestly - become completely unable to read a couple thousand words:
 

• I have never been more disgusted by the actions of anyone or anything more in my entire fucking existence.

 

• I will continue to be an absolute model tenant, despite the harmful effects of your constant abuse, and I will unequivocally comply with any demands you make with your authority as my landlord. I will explicitly and aggressively defend against any attempts to gaslight me, or attempt to dishonestly accuse me of failing to comply with any such demands.

 

• Feel free at anytime in your life to decide that maybe it might be time to face the fact that - though skillful in your delusion - you are the same scared child you were 40 years ago, and if you ever want to truly and meaningfully experience what it's like to be secure with yourself beneath the false veneer of superficial and ego-protecting interactions you surround yourself with at the exclusion of true and honest existential vulnerability, then you need to seek, engage with, and be honest and vulnerable with, professional clinical care for your intractable narcissism and the lifelong effects and deficits associated with same. In other words, to reductively and rhetorically restate what you disgustingly told me the other day as a means of deflecting from the fact that you couldn't go more than two seconds without contradicting yourself, “get your fucking meds adjusted”.

 

• When faced with any sort of challenge to your control or authority, your lifelong fear of abandonment has caused you to push people away before they have the opportunity to leave you, resulting in premature, self-created, and misdirected sabotage of significant relationships at the first sign of disturbance or genuine vulnerability. I know you're terrible at recognizing or interpreting patterns or facts, but think, for example, about when your efforts to remove me from your life and/or house have been at their most intense:

 

• (a) in 2016(ish) when conflicts about my role in helping with the [redacted address][job of cleaning out my grandpa's apartment after Alzheimer's took hold] triggered feelings of grief and fear in you at the decline of your father's health and the inevitability of his then-upcoming death,

 

• (b) in late 2019 through 2020ish, in the leadup to and aftermath of your father's death, where you threatened or demanded my removal from your house during damn-near every single minor conflict about utterly insignificant household disputes. The vulnerability and grief you felt surrounding his death triggered the core-level unresolved sense of abandonment you carry as a result of the lack of parental affection you received because of, inter alia, the level of care required by your [editor's note: dying of CF as a teenager] sister and resultant lack of parental support available to you as a result,

 

• (c) in 2021ish, surrounding your mother's acute medical events and her subsequent death, where your treatment of me followed effectively the same patterns and underlying causes as the item above (sans explicit threats of eviction, opting instead for the more oblique and covert references that have been your MO until the recent regression to explicit threats within the past few days).

 

• (d) in 2024, surrounding the final decline and subsequent death of [dog], where all of the same behaviours described above returned and steadily escalated, culminating in telling me to get the fuck out of your house because I wouldn't stop moving some boxes for 30 minutes, and then telling me that you were going to call the police to have me removed from your house as a result of your inability to force me to stop making accurate statements that damaged your ego and need for unquestioned interpersonal control in your self-appointed role as the sole ruler of the relational hierarchy you fought so hard to maintain.

 

• You need to actively and vulnerably seek and participate in professional clinical treatment for the lifelong effects of the hollow narcissism that has maladaptively protected you from your deepest childhood injuries and vulnerabilities, at the expense of truly genuine connection with, at the very least, your firstborn and only son.

 

• [note that the contents of this bullet point are neither a threat of suicide, nor an indication of any intent whatsoever to harm myself or others. I am including this disclaimer to preemptively remove your ability to selectively manipulate my words in order to further gaslight me]
  If you want me gone from your house, and life (and possibly my own life, given the extreme existential risk posed by homelessness for a vulnerable person with the significant disabilities I am faced with), then you will have to have me physically removed from your house in cold blood, and until the day you (or I, depending on the order) die you will live with that being the last time you ever saw the son that you took for granted and abused for 32 fucking years while he groveled at your feet begging for even scraps of affection or humanity from the person who constantly love-bombed and discarded him at her convenience to serve her own narcissistic desires worth no regard for the whole entire person she was subjugating to the role of, barely, a pet.
  

 

• Be aware that if you choose to remove me from your life as a pathological and assuredly-ineffective avoidance mechanism to try and preemptively shield yourself from the fear of abandonment that is triggered in you as a result of my overwhelmingly valid and necessary actions to demand that you cease your lifelong efforts to subjugate me in your self-created hierarchical position at the top of our unequal relationship, then you will be doing yourself an irreparable disservice by extinguishing whatever sliver of opportunity might remain for you to get the help you need to allow you to finally see me as a real person and begin making real decisions and changes and efforts to participate in efforts to salvage whatever scraps of hope might remain for us to have a relationship before both/either of us die.

 

• Feel free to ignore and/or conceal the tens of thousands of words of documented history in order to share contextless excerpts of this text within your self-serving echo chambers in your efforts to receive false validation of your delusional victimhood. Or, alternatively, feel free to vulnerably share this in its entirety - along with the full corpus of my messaging regarding the severity of the harms caused by your behaviours - with a competent and knowledgeable mental health professional(s) for the purposes of seeking treatment for your underlying pathologies and working towards genuine growth.

 

• In the unlikely (though incomprehensibly-or-perhaps-delusionally-still-hopeful) event that you are still reading, I will conclude by saying that the possibility for any hope of salvaging our relationship lies firmly and solely within your control.

 

• After over 8 years of significant, relentless, documented, often-vilified, and absolutely unreciprocated efforts to single-handedly to put 100% of the effort into a relationship that you reaped the benefits of while remaining unwavering in your abdication of even the slightest of responsibilities, I have run out of ways, means, ideas, and capacity to continue unsuccessfully trying to do both of our parts.

 

• I am not closing the door to the possibility of reconciliation if/once you have undertaken the extensive individual work you need to do if you are ever going to be able and willing to put the necessary effort into repairing our relationship. But neither am I continuing to continue working outside your closed door hoping that one day I might be able to do enough to influence you to treat me like a full, real, EQUAL, human being.

 
I love you, and goodbye for now. I hope to see you on the other side, but I cannot force you to undertake the journey.
 
- [name]
 
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