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AITA for getting drunk and turning off my phone
2024.05.15 08:31 Prize-Dinner-7418 AITA for getting drunk and turning off my phone
TW: Alcoholism, drug addiction, violence, suicidal ideation, sex abuse
This is going to be a LLLLLOOONNNNGGGGG one. This story goes back quite a way, but yesterday was the tenth anniversary of the ending to this story and I'm feeling it, still got some guilt about everything that happened, wondering what I could have done differently and I just want to vent it out and hope to get some closure from it.
This story started in 2010.
Characters in this story (names are fake, duh!):
I had known Stephanie for many years and we had the kind of friendship that made her BFs and my GFs uncomfortable to put it lightly. We had never crossed that boundary and I wouldn't consider us in the friendzone, we were just friend, but the kind of friend where she would sit on my lap with her arms around my neck or her head on my shoulder.
At the start of 2010, Stephanie met her then boyfriend, Stephen. He tolerated me and my friendship with Stephanie because I also had a gf back then. She liked Stephanie, wasn't at all jealous of my friendship with her, so he didn't deem me too suspicious. Then my gf and I broke up for reasons unimportant and all hell broke loose for Stephen. He became convinced that I would try and steal Stephanie from him. He insisted that Stephanie introduce me to her female friends or female friends of his. Thus began what I called the year of the 50 blind dates. It was probably closer to 20, but still I like saying the year of 50 blind dates. Most of them were unremarkable and never went beyond the first date. There are some fun stories in there if anyone wants to hear them eventually!
In July of that year, I had to switch gears because I had to focus up and study for a professional exam for a certification important to my career. This exam required close to 600-800 hours of study over a 3-4 month period. So I hunkered down, told Stephanie to stop the blind dates for now because I had to focus on that. She respected my wishes and, other a text here or there, we went low contact for the last two months before the exam.
Except for one fateful night in September. Her birthday was in September and she always threw these big bashes at her house. She would throw a big pool party that started around noon and would go on to the wee hours of the morning. I knew she would harass me to go to her party, so I made some quick math and figured I would lose more energy and time trying to dodge her calls, texts and most likely visits at my place than by just going to the party itself. So when she called me to ask, I just said: "Okay I'll go to your damn party, now git." I texted her I would get there in the evening probably around 8. She texted back "Great, can't wait. Now study, bitch!"
So I ultimately get there around 8PM. Basically everybody is already drunk off their gourd. Stephanie sees me, squeals in excitement and runs to me in her bikini and just jumps in the air and slams into me, wraps her arms around my neck and her legs around my waist and gives me a big hug. I hug her back and just keep walking back to the pool where she had started, carrying her with me. I just duck my head around hers and say hi to Stephen, who just glares at me.
She drops back down and I give her her gift. We chat for a few seconds and says "There's beer in the fridge and food in the dining room." I told her I'd be right back.
I go inside and grab a beer from the fridge. I head to the dining room and the table is against the wall with a buffet of sandwiches, tomato pizza, salads, etc. I grab a plate and start putting food on it. I was focused on the task because I was starving. I barely noticed, sitting at the end of the table one of the most stunning woman I have ever seen. I just see her in my peripheral vision and I do a quick double take, quick glance at her and back to the food. I do that a second time. And finally a third time. At that point she is just straight up staring at me and I can't help but chuckle and whisper under my breath "Subtle Guy, sub-tle".
Thankfully she starts laughing too, saving me some embarassment. I look at her and greet her. She says "Hi, I'm Maryse and I'm guessing you're Guy?" I just nod and we start talking. At that point, I just thought I have no shot with her, she's so far out of my league that I'm just gonna talk to her until she sees one of the "models" hanging out by the pool and ditches me for him.
So I'm not feeling like I'm playing for anything, so I'm just myself and not nervous, just talking to her as I would any friend. We chat and she laughs at all my jokes, she gets all my cultural references. She never gets up or ditches me. The plate of food I had made and the beer I had gotten are sitting on the table next to me untouched, I was too busy with the convo to think about food or beer anymore.
After what felt like only 20-30 minutes, Stephanie comes in and tells me, fake grumpy: "So that's where you disappeared to. I invite my best friend to a party and he spends the whole night talking to someone else." I laugh and go: "What do you mean the whole night? I haven't been here that long." She says "Dude, it's 2AM. You've been here for 6 hours..." My jaw dropped and I just said: "Wow, time flies when you're having fun." Maryse chimes in, with a big smile: "It sure does!" That made me happy as you can imagine.
Now I was a little stuck because where Stephanie lived, there's no night service for the bus and the subway had been closed for an hour or so. I figured I would cab it. So I turn to Maryse and tell her: "It was absolutely lovely to meet you and I enjoyed our conversation very much." She says that she did too. I continued with "At the moment, my schedule is incredibly hectic. I'm basically working full-time, studying full-time and sleeping part-time. So I don't have a lot of free time, but if she was interested, whatever little free time I had, I would love to call her or text her to keep on getting to know her."
I see Stephanie in the backgroudnd, looking like a proud mama at how smooth that came out, knowing I was always anything but smooth with women, as proven by the string of blind dates! Maryse has a big smile and we exchange numbers. I go to Stephanie to wish her a happy birthday again. While I'm talking to her, my phone buzzes with a text from Maryse: "Just checking!"
I asked Stephanie "What's the best cab company to call in this area?" Maryse chimes in: "Where do you live?" I tell her where I lived and she goes "It's on the way to where I live, I can give you a ride if you want." Stephanie raised an eyebrow in surprise. I learned later, she did it because it absolutely was not on the way to her place, like, at all. I say that I would love that as it would give us a chance to keep talking.
We get in her car, driving to my place. We talk, she asks me what I'm studying as I hadn't mentioned it earlier. I tell her all about the boring maths I had to study. Much too quickly, we get to my place. She parks in front of my building and we keep talking. At some point, I tell her: "Normally, this is where I would try to "trick" you into coming up to my place..." She interrupts me: "You wouldn't need to trick me. I'm willing and able!"
I tell her that "As tempting as that sounds, I know who I am and I know that if you come up and things proceed to where they're going, I'm not going to be able to study for the rest of the month. I have a kind of obsessive mind and when I find someone or something I like, I can push everything else to the side in favor of that. So to make sure I can still focus on my studying, I have to go up by myself."
She looks at me, a little disappointed but then says, half-jokingly: "We don't have to go up, there's a backseat right there!" We laugh and I give her a kiss and wish her a good night. I managed to stay strong and go back to my condo. Damn it, why did I have to stay strong!!!
My exam was at the beginning of november. During the month of october, we texted a bunch of times and talked on the phone. We went for coffee a couple of times and dinner once. She respected my boundaries and never pushed for more, which I appreciated but also hated at the same time, if that makes sense. The exam came and it was a monster of a Friday. I slept for basically 18 hours after the exam as the adrenalin dropped and my system crashed.
I texted her when I woke up at around 1PM. She was working at the clothing store Stephanie owned. She said "I'm off at 5PM, wanna meet me." I said: "Duh! Why do you think I'm texting? ;)" So I met her at the store downtown. I asked if she wanted to grab a drink, go for dinner, or what. She proposed going to her place and getting some take out. Stephanie who was closing the store at that moment, came up to us and said: "Hey, so what are we doing?" I said: "WE, that is Maryse and I, are going to her place and getting some takeout. Bye!" I'm sure you'll understand when I tell you that no food was ever ordered that night!
Thus followed a whirlwind month of November where any free time we had was spent together, and I wasn't going to complain!
The troubles
By the start of december, things were still going great with us. One saturday night, we were having dinner at a restaurant and I mention that this coming Friday is my office Christmas party, that it's employees only, so we wouln't see each other that night. She tells me: "Oh sure, that's fine! It'll give me a chance to go see some girlfriends I've been neglecting lately." I said "Great! BTW I also got us a reservation at [this great restaurant she had mentioned a few times] for next Saturday, so we could go there and I'll tell you all about my party and you can tell me all about her night with the girls!"
That was settled, I thought. I was wrong. On Thursday, we had spent the evening together at her place and I was about to leave to go back to my place. She tells me: "So are you coming to meet me at the store tomorrow or do I go to your place?" I reminded her: "Neither, tomorrow is my office Christmas party and we won't see each other tomorrow." She said: "Oh right, I forgot." I asked her if she had made plans with her friends like she had mentioned last saturday. She said that they were all busy tomorrow and weren't available.
She suggested "If your party is boring, maybe you could come meet me." I retorted that it wasn't going to be, knowing who was going to be there.
"Yeah but what if?"
"But it won't"
"But what IFFFFFF?" she kept insisting and I kept saying no. After what felt like 30 minutes of that (probably only 2-3 minutes in reality), I had enough and just said to end the argument: "Okay, if it's boring, I'll come. but it won't be." She said: "Cool" with a big smile on her face. I came to learn that that smile meant "Challenge accepted".
The following night, my colleague and I were pregaming in a conference room before leaving for the party proper and my phone buzzes. Maryse was wishing me a good party. I replied. She texted me again. I replied. She texted again, but I was in a conversation with a colleague so I didn't reply or even look at the phone. My phone buzzes again. Still talking, and didn't want to be rude to my colleague. Another buzz. I just kept talking. Phone buzzes differently, she was now calling because I hadn't answered her texts.
"Why aren't you replying to my texts?"
"Hey, sorry, was talking to my colleague Patrick."
"What? you don't want to talk to me?"
"I am talking to you now."
"Why didn't you reply to my texts?"
"Because it would have been rude to my colleague to pull my phone out while talking to him."
"But you're talking to me now."
"Because I thought something was wrong, maybe it was an emergency."
"I wanted to talk to you, that's all."
"Well, gotta go back to the party. Talk to you later."
She kept texting and if I didn't reply right away, she would call after two or three missed texts. After about 2 hours of this, I stopped answering the texts. When she called back, I asked her: "Aren't you supposed to be working?" which started another round of guilt-tripping of "why are you asking me this? you don't want to talk to me?" At that point I had had enough and wanted to enjoy my party. I remembered that the Blackberry (no shaming old tech!) I had had an annoying feature, but I was hoping to put it to good use at that moment.
Whenever the battery would get really low, like less than 1%, it would let out an ear-piercing BEEP for about 3 seconds, reminiding you to charge it and giving you a heart attack all at the same time. It would do that even when you were in silent mode. It had happened a few days earlier when I was with Maryse. I figured, if I press a button on the Blackberry, it would make a beep too that could be heard through the phone. So while I was talking to Maryse, I pressed my thumb on the space bar for a good 3 seconds and sputtered; "what... the .... what?" trying to put on a somewhat believable performance.
She asked what that noise was and I tell her that it was my blackberry letting me know I was low battery and it might shut off any second. I told her "Listen I'm gonna wish you a good night, I'm having a good time at my party so I'll see you tomorrow at 5PM to go spend our evening together. I hope you have a good....." and hung up mid-sentence. I promptly shut my phone off and went back to the party. I concede that I may be a bit of an AH for that move.
The party was great, I got drunk much quicker than I expected owing to the fact that I hadn't had a drink in over two months because Maryse didn't drink so I didn't either when we were together, and we were always together. At 1AM, I went home and passed out on my bed.
This is another place where I may have been an AH. I didn't turn my cell phone back on and I unplugged my home line too, because I wanted to sleep the deep sleep of the drunkard. I woke up at around 1:30 PM, not knowing it was already too late. In my mind, I was meeting Maryse at 5PM to go out on the town that night. Maryse had other ideas as you'll see.
So like I said, I woke up at 1:30PM and was sticky with alcohol sweat, so I went straight for the shower to get clean again. While in the shower, my stomach grumbled with hunger and I started daydreaming of bacon and eggs. That pushed me out of the shower right quick. I dried myself off quickly, tied the towel around my waist and went to the fridge. No bacon.... booo. Looked at the egg compartment... no eggs... booo again. Okay then, how about a cream cheese bagel. No cream cheese, damn it. Look in the pantry, no bagels.... god. I was starting to get angry. Okay, cereals then. I pick up the cereal box, that mofo was empty and I get mad: "who's the idiot who puts the empty box back in the pantry?" I remembered I live alone.
I close the fridge dejected and see the grocery list stuck on the fridge, taunting me with everything I wanted to eat for breakfast written on it. But I felt like if I went to the grocery store hungry as I Was, I'm just gonna pay 600$ and not get one single healthy thing to eat. I then remembered there's a restaurant next to the grocery store that serves breakfast until 3PM. I get excited! I get dressed quickly, grab my wallet and keys, put my boots on, my coat on, wrap my scarf, my tuque and my gloves and go to the restaurant. If you notice, I didn't mention my phone in there.
I get to the restaurant and confirm that they still have breakfast and get even more excited when she confirms it. I order the "heart attack", at least that's how I nicknamed it: 3 eggs, 3 servings of bacon, 2 sausages, and, I guess to give one peace of mind, fruit (or to be precise, one single solitary slice of orange). Now that the food is ordered and coming I figured I would check if I have any messages. I pat the pocket where my phone always is. No phone. uh-oh. I start clutching evert pocket, no luck.
I wonder if I should go back home after the meal before going to the grocery store and decide against it, it would be too long a detour. So I scarf my breakfast down, rush through the grocery store. I get home and set my bags down in front of the fridge. I go pick up my blackberry. I turn it back on. The little tape icon tells me there are messages on my voicemail, at that time there were no red dots with a number in it to tell you how many.
I connect to the voicemail while starting to put the groceries away. The little automated voice tells me "You have 25 new messages." I pull the phone away from my ear, look at it in disbelief as if saying: "are you f'ing kidding me?" So I press 1 to start playing the messages.
Remember: Maryse knew I was at a party with a dead phone, no chargers and I probably wouldn't get home until 1AM. From 6:30PM, when my phone died, to 11:34 PM, when she went to sleep she left me 9 messages. BTW I know she went to sleep at 11:34PM because she left me a message saying "it's 11:34PM and I'm going to bed. Thinking of you." The 9 messages were in the same vein. These are the salient details, but the messages were all much longer.
She woke up at 7:15 the following day, I'll let you guess how I know that tidbit of information! She left me 5 more messages like those from the day before: 7:15 woke up. 7:35 going to take a shower. 7:55 out of the shower. 8:25 getting ready to leave for work 8:50 walking out of the subway to go to the store.
She leaves me another message at 9 that was different. She sounded very excited as if she had had the best idea in the world: "Hey it's 9AM, I'm about to start my shift. I know we're only supposed to meet after my shift, but what if you came and met me for lunch so you could tell me all about your party." I just did my best Scooby-Doo "Ruh-Roh" and chuckled that I blew that, not thinking the calamity that was awaiting me.
Another couple of messages to talk logistics: "I could take my lunch at 12 or 12:30, let me know which you prefer." "I'm taking my lunch at 12:30"
A slightly worried message: "It's 11:15 and you stil have not said if you were coming or not, are you okay?"
The first bomb goes off and I knew I was in trouble then: "Where are you? We're supposed to meet for lunch and you still haven't given me any sign of life, you're not answering your home phone either, what happened?" Reminder: we were not supposed to meet for lunch, she suggested doing so a couple of hours earlier and I never agreed to anything. I guess she told her colleagues I would meet her for lunch and it was now fact and could perhaps make her look bad in front of her colleagues.
The second bomb drops: "It's almost noon now, WHERE ARE YOU? Stephanie says you're probably sleeping off your drunk, but I don't believe her. I'm sure you got yourself a slut and cheated on me. Didn't you? didn't you, you asshole." Stephanie knows me very well, but that wasn't enough for Maryse it seems.
Ensued four more messages from 12:30 to 1:15, where she starts sounding more and more drunk and accusatory, spewing more attacks like in the message above. At that point I already knew it was over, there was no coming back from that. I can understand having trust issues, but that was nuclear. I don't tolerate jealousy because of horrible experiences with a couple of jealous toxic exes.
A final message comes in, and it's a different voice, that of my best friend being more than a little angry: "Hey Guy, listen, Maryse tells me you had a Christmas party yesterday, so I'm guessing you're sleeping off your drunk, still. But call me when you get this. I put Maryse, who's f'ing drunk, in the backstore so she can dry off and "do inventory". She can't be on the sales floor obviously and I just don't feel safe sending her home in the state she's in. Call me to tell me how you want to handle this."
At that point I had finished putting away my groceries and had put my boots and my coat on and was making my way to the subway to go to the store. I call Stephanie and tell her I got the messages and I was coming. She was right, I was sleeping off my drunk and had just woke up (didn't feel the need to mention the breakfast and grocery store). I ask her if she knows what I'm gonna do when I get there. She says that she knows and understands. She knows my bad history.
When I get out of the subway, I call her again before getting to the store. I ask her how she wants me to do this. It's her store and I don't want to create drama in front of her customers. Does she want me to wait outside and she tells Maryse to meet me in the street or do I go in the store and she takes me to the backstore and I do it there? She says to come to the store.
I walk in the store and every saleswomen on the floor looks at me and gives me the biggest case of the stink-eye. They only have Maryse's side of the story, so they think I did all these horrible things. I see Stephanie in the middle of the store and I walk towards her. She shakes her head and points me towards the cash register. I look over there and see Julia, a salesperson that I've known for a couple of years and really like, who also happens to be the biggest gossip in the store. I understand what Stephanie is trying to do. She's gonna make me tell her my story in front of Julia so Julia can spread the "good news" to the other employees and rehabilitate my name possibly.
So I get to the register and say Hi to Julia. She barely acknoledges me. Steph joins me. She asks me:
"How are you?"
"I was better an hour ago, before I listened to those voicemails. I had gone to our office party last night, had a great night, got drunk off my ass, got home at around 2 and woke up around 2."
Julia asks "Maryse told us you were supposed to meet her for lunch."
"No we weren't. I have a reservation for tonight at XYZ restaurant. I was supposed to take the day to do errands, stuff around the condo and meet her here at closing time. She suggested that it could be fun if I came at lunchtime to meet her, but that was never the plan."
Julia asks again "But why didn't you answer your phone?"
"It ran out of battery last night during the party and when I got home, I was so drunk that I forgot to plug it back in. I only plugged it when I woke up at 2. That's when the messages came in."
Julia asks "She says she tried calling your home line and you didn't answer and your machine didn't kick in."
"Yeah, that one's my fault, I knew I wanted to sleep and telemarketers have a habit of calling me early saturday mornings so I didn't want to be awoken by a call for a rug cleaning service, so I unplugged it yesterday morning, knowing I would be drunk when I got home and forget and be angry if I was awakened by a telemarketer."
Julia gave me a hint of a smile, showing me she was starting to believe me. She asked me a few more questions and then she asked what I was gonna do. I told her that whatever I'll do, I would tell Maryse first.
I looked at Stephanie and said: "Can you open the back store so I can go see her?" So we went to the backstore. As we reached the door, it swung opened and out popped Maryse, looking absolutely terrifying, I actually jumped back when I saw her. Her usual perfect makeup was completely smeared, her mascara streaking down her cheeks from the crying. Her hair was disheveled. She was a mess. Apparently, she had had enough of waiting back there and was planning on leaving the store to go home and had put her coat and boots on.
When she saw me, she went into an unhinged rant about me being an asshole for cheating on her, me not being great in bed, me not treating her right, etc. I let her vent everything she had to say, I looked at Stephanie and apologized for creating such a scene in her store. I tell Maryse we should go outside and talk in private. She keeps on yelling, but when I grab her hand to lead her outside, she follows.
When we get outside, her anger had started to wane a little, or maybe just her energy. I was able to talk to her to explain everything, how I had gotten drunk, had overslept (alone) and woke up at 2PM. I reminded her that we were only supposed to meet at 5PM not for lunch. The anger was leaving her and a smile almost appeared on her face. Through all of this I was being very calm and patient with her, which she interpreted as me not being mad at her. I then said in a firmer tone: "However..." and let it hang for a second.
The beginning smile vanished. I continued: "When you accused me of cheating on you, that broke me. That triggered memories of toxic exes who would always accuse me of cheating, not trusting me when I would tell them where I was, snooping on me, stalking me. Because of those experiences, I have a zero tolerance policy for jealousy. I told her that if she was behaving like after only two months of dating, it didn't bode well for the future and I have to protect myself."
At that, the tears started again and she just turned and ran/waddled away. I told her to wait, but she didn't hear me. I turned towards the entrance of the store to see basically all the employees and customers milling around the door trying to catch the drama. I went back inside to talk to my best friend. The mood had definitely changed and no one was giving me the stink eye anymore, but I didn't really care. I was just sad that it had ended, but proud of myself for having stood up for myself.
So AITA for getting drunk and keeping my phone turned off?
There is a lot more to this story and if you want to learn what happened afterwards, then read on.
The immediate aftermath
So I went back inside the store and talked to Stephanie. I told her that I had a reserrvation for XX restaurant and if she wanted to go with Stephen, she could take it, I wasn't in the mood for a dinner. She said "I already have plans for tonight, but thanks for offering." Julia said she would go with me if I wanted, but I just said that I wasn't in the mood to go out. I just wanted to crash and eat a pizza and get into a food coma.
Stephanie said she didn't feel comfortable leaving me by myself and I should join them at her house. They were having friends over to play board games and it could at least distract me a little. I said why not. So brimming with enthusiasm, I went to play bored games. I left early as I wasn't in the mood. I was feeling a little better, but still a bit down. I thanked Stephanie for the invite and left. I got home and just passed out on the bed.
I woke up at around 7AM the next morning and I saw along the corners of the window the tell-tale signs of a snow-drift and got excited as it was the first snow of the season. I pushed the curtains aside and looked on to see a beautiful white carpet outside. It was early enough that very few cars had marred the whiteness. I was admiring it when I noticed that, against the red bricks of the building across the street, there was a pink blotch. As I focused, the blotch became human shaped and I cleared my eyes enough to realize that it was Maryse and she was raising her cell phone to her ear.
On cue, my phone rings. I pick it up. Still sounding drunk, she asks me if we can speak. I ask her to give me five minutes to get dressed and I'll meet her down there. She asks why she can't come up. I say that I'm not sure I want her in my apartment. She says that it's cold out. I say: "Good, then this will be quick."
I get dressed and meet her outside. I'm still bleary-eyed from having woken up 5 minutes ago, but I try to get my wits together. I tell her that we're going to walk to the subway. It 's a 10-minute walk normally, but with her drunkenness, it might take 15-20 minutes. That's how long she has to tell me what she wants to tell me.
She wants to apologize for accusing me of cheating on her. She says she knows I'm a great guy and... I may be the A-hole at this point too, but I start to drift off in my little bubble and start daydreaming about, if I go back to bed, would there still be some residual heat or would it be cold? I could take a hot shower and warm the bed that way. I could still hear her in the background making excuses, saying how she had been cheated on, but I wasn't really listening.
During the daydreaming I notice it got quite quiet. I look on my left and she's not there, I turn around she's a good 5-6 steps behind me looking angry and she says: "you're not listening" I just say: "when you're right, you're right." I tell her that I understand she's been hurt too in the past, and I hope she can work to resolve her issues, but I was done and I'm going back to bed. I was a bit harsh there, but I was tired and still down.
I walk past her and get maybe 10 paces past her when I hear a scream coming from her. I turn around and I see her messing with something inside her coat. She pulls out a chef's knife with like an 8-inch blade. That wakes me the fuck up. Byebye bleary eyes, hello wakefulness. better than a cup of coffee or a red bull I tell you!
So she's got the knife, she's screaming something that I can't quite understand. She gets quiet and then she charges at me with the knife. If I'm being honest I could have stayed where I was and she probably would have missed me anyways, but someone charges at me with a knife, I'm gonna nope out of there. I take a massive side step and once she gets to where I was and realizes that I'm no longer there, she turns her head towards me and says heyyyyy.
At that point, I have a moment of clarity and see what's gonna happen. She's drunk running one way and looking another, I know she's gonna trip. As I predicted, she stumbled over her feet and starts falling to the ground. I start praying to god and anybody who would listen: "Please don't let her cut herself. I don't want to have to explain this to the doctors, EMTs and nurses. I don't want her drunk ass deciding to take revenge on me by saying I did it."
Thankfully, she winds up in a sitting position on the sidewalk holding the knife up and it was clean. Thank god for small miracles. She starts crying and, other moment of clarity, I know she's gonna turn the knife on herself now. I jump towards her and I realize I was right, the knife starts moving towards her left wrist. I tackle her, grab her right wrist and twist it so she drops the knife. I pick the knife back up and put it in my pocket. She looks at me crying and says: "Why did you stop me?"
I pick her up and take her back to my building. In my building there was a couch in the lobby, so I take her there and I sit her down and plop myself next to her. I look at her and wonder out loud: "What am I gonna do with you? What can I do?"
She goes: "Just let me go, I'll be good." I tell her that's not going to happen. I realize I have three options and I give her the three options.
"So here's the choice I give you.
1- I pull out my phone, call 911 and tell them about the attempted murder back there and they send the police to arrest you. I don't want to do that because that could derail your life and not get you the help you need. Besides, they might not do anything anyway as it's your word against mine.
2= I pull out my phone, call 911 and tell them about the attempted suicide back there and that you need to be placed on a 72 hour hold. I could do that, but at the same time, again it's my word against yours, so maybe they don't believe me.
3- I'm gonna hazard a guess here. From what I've seen, you have alcohol problems. So I'm gonna guess you were in AA, had been sober for a while, I want to say 6 months, maybe less, when we met."
She confirms my guess.
"alright so option 3, I'm guessing you had a sponsor in AA." she nods "we call them up and tell them about your relapse and what happened this morning. Can they come get you and take care of you?"
She takes her phone out and picks a contact and calls. She hands me the phone. Someone answers and I explain the situation. They said they were coming right away. I give them my address, they get here 15 minutes later. Maryse had fallen asleep in the meantime, so I wake her up gently and help her to the car. Off she went.
I went back to my apartment and just crashed back to sleep.
A month later
Mid-january, my phone rings and I see Maryse's number on there. I send her to voice mail. Another call. Voicemail again. 5 minutes later, Private number calling. "Gee I wonder who that could be." Voicemail once more.
Afterwards, I didn't get any unidentified callers for a little over a week. One afternoon, I was at work and my phone rings and it's a number I do not recognize. I pick up.
"Hello."
"Hi, is this Guy?"
"Yes, to whom am I speaking?"
"This is Hannah, Maryse's sponsor. we spoke last month." I started fearing the worst.
"Yes, I remember. How can I help you?"
"Maryse tried to reach you last week and you rejected the calls. I think it could help Maryse if you listened to what she had to say. You're obviously not obligated to entertain her, but I think despite everything that happened, you still care about her or you would not have called me that morning."
"You are right, I do still care about Maryse. I'm just not sure how good it would be for her to meet me this soon after everything that happened. I understand wanting to work through the 9th step and making amends, but..." She interrupts me.
"So you know about the steps."
"Yes I have friends in the program. which is how I could guess that she was in the program too that morning."
"You know it's important."
"I know. I know. How about this: we meet in public at a cafe, you would have to be there. Not necessarily at the table with us, but nearby in case she needs help, in case meeting me causes her pain. Tell her I promise to be in a more receptive mood than I was that morning."
So we make an appointment for that saturday afternoon.
I get to the coffee shop. She's already there, and so is her sponsor. I realize happily that she's not wearing makeup. I say happily because that means she understands that this is not a date, but something serious. She's still stunningly beautiful, and I feel sad almost right away.
I grab a coffee and go join her at the table.
"Hey" I say,
"Hey. So this is gonna be uncomfortable, but thank you for agreeing to meet me and for coming, I appreciate it more than you know. I'm sure you heard I quit the store."
"I have, I'm sorry about that, I hope you didn't do it just because of me."
"No, I needed time to focus on myself for now."
She proceeds to tell me about how I wasn't far off with my guess. She had been sober 4 months when we met. Now she had 39 days. She tells me that in AA, if you are single, they recommend not dating anyone new for at least the first year of your sobriety as it can cause issues, similar to what happened with us. I was like her "drug" and as long as I was available, she could get her fix. But the moment I wasn't available all hell broke loose, and that is what led her back to drinking that day.
I told her I'm glad to see her back sober again this quickly and I hope she can get all the help she needs from it. I ask her if she wants to talk to me about her drinking.
She starts to share a story about how she started drinking at around 11 years old. When puberty hit her, she got into a deep depression because the sexual feelings she was starting to feel were triggering responses. As a child she had been abused by two of her uncles repeatedly and her parents never believed her. They accused her of trying to make herself interesting. That was until they caught one of those uncles red-handed.
They finally believed and took the necessary steps to protect their daughter. But they were poor and they couldn't afford therapy. So she never really got help for it. At 11, she started self medicating the depression with alcohol. When alcohol wasn't enough, she added drugs.
At that point, I was full on crying. She asked me if I wanted her to stop. I told her that she doesn't have to stop. That the tears are there because that was one more thing we had in common. I was also a survivor of sexual assault as a child. In my case, it wasn't a family member, it was only a stranger, so it only happened once. But I also self-medicated with alcohol at the onset of puberty, switching to drugs later on too. I was lucky to avoid the pitfalls of addiction, but I was still dealing with my demons, slowly making peace with them.
So there we were, sitting at a coffee shop, both crying and holding each other. I tell her that I think it's great she's getting help for her alcoholism and addicion, but was she doing anything to help with the underlying issue, the original trauma? She said no, she couldn't afford therapy. I tell her that I am a member of a survivors group and if she is interested, I could get her into a meeting and perhaps learn to heal that part of herself too.
She said that she could give it a try. I tell her I have to talk to the other members to know if I can bring someone new and I would let her know. If they said yes, we would go to her first meeting together, I would introduce her and then we would coordinate so that I never went to meetings where she was. I wanted to do that because I wanted her first few meetings to be about healing and I didn't want our own history to be intertwined or mixed in with that.
After that, we left both feeling content and, while not necesarily happy, at peace if you will. Later on, I contacted Stephanie who was one of the "pillars" of the support group (that's how we met) to ask her if it was okay for me to bring in a new member to the group. She said sure. She asked if it was anyone she knew. I told her she would have to meet her at the meeting if she decides to come.
We were having a meeting the following day. I called Maryse, told her the time and place, and she said she would be there. She came to the group meeting and was shocked to see Stephanie there but Stephanie kinda guessed that it was Maryse I was referring to.
I introduce her, we start sharing stories, talking about how we're feeling, etc. The meeting was good and Maryse liked the vibe. So for the first six months after that, I never saw Maryse and we planned which meeting we would be attending to ensure we didn't cross paths. She started feeling much better.
After maybe 2 and a half years, she finally felt ready and she started dating again. She met someone and she fell for him. They were together for about six months, she looked happy. Unfortunately after about six months, she caught him cheating on her. We tried supporting her, being good friends, cursing his name, doing all the things we could to make sure she didn't relapse. But on April 5th 2014, she ODed on heroin. She was hospitalized for 2 weeks after that.
Hannah took her in and she set up a room for Maryse. She was still in a fragile state, so a group of her friends and I started taking turns watching over Maryse, making sure there was always at least one person there with her to keep her company.
Despite our vigilance, on May 14th 2014, when Hannah was out running a quick errand, she was gone maybe 15 minutes tops, Maryse found a way to cut her wrists and she died. We found a note saying that "the OD was not an accident, and neither was that. Thanks for everything you did for me. I love you all, but I can't do this anymore."
It feels good to write that story (I'll just ignore the fat tears rolling down my face!). Thanks for reading this far and sorry for the long story, I just started writing and couldn't stop. I apologize if it was a bit of a bummer.
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This is going to be a LLLLLOOONNNNGGGGG one. This story goes back quite a way, but yesterday was the tenth anniversary of the ending to this story and I'm feeling it, still got some guilt about everything that happened, wondering what I could have done differently and I just want to vent it out and hope to get some closure from it.
This story started in 2010.
Characters in this story (names are fake, duh!):
- Me, Guy, 32M at the time, 45 now.
- My BFF Stephanie, 33F at the time.
- Stephen, 40M at the time, Stephanie's boyfriend.
- Maryse, 27F at the time.
I had known Stephanie for many years and we had the kind of friendship that made her BFs and my GFs uncomfortable to put it lightly. We had never crossed that boundary and I wouldn't consider us in the friendzone, we were just friend, but the kind of friend where she would sit on my lap with her arms around my neck or her head on my shoulder.
At the start of 2010, Stephanie met her then boyfriend, Stephen. He tolerated me and my friendship with Stephanie because I also had a gf back then. She liked Stephanie, wasn't at all jealous of my friendship with her, so he didn't deem me too suspicious. Then my gf and I broke up for reasons unimportant and all hell broke loose for Stephen. He became convinced that I would try and steal Stephanie from him. He insisted that Stephanie introduce me to her female friends or female friends of his. Thus began what I called the year of the 50 blind dates. It was probably closer to 20, but still I like saying the year of 50 blind dates. Most of them were unremarkable and never went beyond the first date. There are some fun stories in there if anyone wants to hear them eventually!
In July of that year, I had to switch gears because I had to focus up and study for a professional exam for a certification important to my career. This exam required close to 600-800 hours of study over a 3-4 month period. So I hunkered down, told Stephanie to stop the blind dates for now because I had to focus on that. She respected my wishes and, other a text here or there, we went low contact for the last two months before the exam.
Except for one fateful night in September. Her birthday was in September and she always threw these big bashes at her house. She would throw a big pool party that started around noon and would go on to the wee hours of the morning. I knew she would harass me to go to her party, so I made some quick math and figured I would lose more energy and time trying to dodge her calls, texts and most likely visits at my place than by just going to the party itself. So when she called me to ask, I just said: "Okay I'll go to your damn party, now git." I texted her I would get there in the evening probably around 8. She texted back "Great, can't wait. Now study, bitch!"
So I ultimately get there around 8PM. Basically everybody is already drunk off their gourd. Stephanie sees me, squeals in excitement and runs to me in her bikini and just jumps in the air and slams into me, wraps her arms around my neck and her legs around my waist and gives me a big hug. I hug her back and just keep walking back to the pool where she had started, carrying her with me. I just duck my head around hers and say hi to Stephen, who just glares at me.
She drops back down and I give her her gift. We chat for a few seconds and says "There's beer in the fridge and food in the dining room." I told her I'd be right back.
I go inside and grab a beer from the fridge. I head to the dining room and the table is against the wall with a buffet of sandwiches, tomato pizza, salads, etc. I grab a plate and start putting food on it. I was focused on the task because I was starving. I barely noticed, sitting at the end of the table one of the most stunning woman I have ever seen. I just see her in my peripheral vision and I do a quick double take, quick glance at her and back to the food. I do that a second time. And finally a third time. At that point she is just straight up staring at me and I can't help but chuckle and whisper under my breath "Subtle Guy, sub-tle".
Thankfully she starts laughing too, saving me some embarassment. I look at her and greet her. She says "Hi, I'm Maryse and I'm guessing you're Guy?" I just nod and we start talking. At that point, I just thought I have no shot with her, she's so far out of my league that I'm just gonna talk to her until she sees one of the "models" hanging out by the pool and ditches me for him.
So I'm not feeling like I'm playing for anything, so I'm just myself and not nervous, just talking to her as I would any friend. We chat and she laughs at all my jokes, she gets all my cultural references. She never gets up or ditches me. The plate of food I had made and the beer I had gotten are sitting on the table next to me untouched, I was too busy with the convo to think about food or beer anymore.
After what felt like only 20-30 minutes, Stephanie comes in and tells me, fake grumpy: "So that's where you disappeared to. I invite my best friend to a party and he spends the whole night talking to someone else." I laugh and go: "What do you mean the whole night? I haven't been here that long." She says "Dude, it's 2AM. You've been here for 6 hours..." My jaw dropped and I just said: "Wow, time flies when you're having fun." Maryse chimes in, with a big smile: "It sure does!" That made me happy as you can imagine.
Now I was a little stuck because where Stephanie lived, there's no night service for the bus and the subway had been closed for an hour or so. I figured I would cab it. So I turn to Maryse and tell her: "It was absolutely lovely to meet you and I enjoyed our conversation very much." She says that she did too. I continued with "At the moment, my schedule is incredibly hectic. I'm basically working full-time, studying full-time and sleeping part-time. So I don't have a lot of free time, but if she was interested, whatever little free time I had, I would love to call her or text her to keep on getting to know her."
I see Stephanie in the backgroudnd, looking like a proud mama at how smooth that came out, knowing I was always anything but smooth with women, as proven by the string of blind dates! Maryse has a big smile and we exchange numbers. I go to Stephanie to wish her a happy birthday again. While I'm talking to her, my phone buzzes with a text from Maryse: "Just checking!"
I asked Stephanie "What's the best cab company to call in this area?" Maryse chimes in: "Where do you live?" I tell her where I lived and she goes "It's on the way to where I live, I can give you a ride if you want." Stephanie raised an eyebrow in surprise. I learned later, she did it because it absolutely was not on the way to her place, like, at all. I say that I would love that as it would give us a chance to keep talking.
We get in her car, driving to my place. We talk, she asks me what I'm studying as I hadn't mentioned it earlier. I tell her all about the boring maths I had to study. Much too quickly, we get to my place. She parks in front of my building and we keep talking. At some point, I tell her: "Normally, this is where I would try to "trick" you into coming up to my place..." She interrupts me: "You wouldn't need to trick me. I'm willing and able!"
I tell her that "As tempting as that sounds, I know who I am and I know that if you come up and things proceed to where they're going, I'm not going to be able to study for the rest of the month. I have a kind of obsessive mind and when I find someone or something I like, I can push everything else to the side in favor of that. So to make sure I can still focus on my studying, I have to go up by myself."
She looks at me, a little disappointed but then says, half-jokingly: "We don't have to go up, there's a backseat right there!" We laugh and I give her a kiss and wish her a good night. I managed to stay strong and go back to my condo. Damn it, why did I have to stay strong!!!
My exam was at the beginning of november. During the month of october, we texted a bunch of times and talked on the phone. We went for coffee a couple of times and dinner once. She respected my boundaries and never pushed for more, which I appreciated but also hated at the same time, if that makes sense. The exam came and it was a monster of a Friday. I slept for basically 18 hours after the exam as the adrenalin dropped and my system crashed.
I texted her when I woke up at around 1PM. She was working at the clothing store Stephanie owned. She said "I'm off at 5PM, wanna meet me." I said: "Duh! Why do you think I'm texting? ;)" So I met her at the store downtown. I asked if she wanted to grab a drink, go for dinner, or what. She proposed going to her place and getting some take out. Stephanie who was closing the store at that moment, came up to us and said: "Hey, so what are we doing?" I said: "WE, that is Maryse and I, are going to her place and getting some takeout. Bye!" I'm sure you'll understand when I tell you that no food was ever ordered that night!
Thus followed a whirlwind month of November where any free time we had was spent together, and I wasn't going to complain!
The troubles
By the start of december, things were still going great with us. One saturday night, we were having dinner at a restaurant and I mention that this coming Friday is my office Christmas party, that it's employees only, so we wouln't see each other that night. She tells me: "Oh sure, that's fine! It'll give me a chance to go see some girlfriends I've been neglecting lately." I said "Great! BTW I also got us a reservation at [this great restaurant she had mentioned a few times] for next Saturday, so we could go there and I'll tell you all about my party and you can tell me all about her night with the girls!"
That was settled, I thought. I was wrong. On Thursday, we had spent the evening together at her place and I was about to leave to go back to my place. She tells me: "So are you coming to meet me at the store tomorrow or do I go to your place?" I reminded her: "Neither, tomorrow is my office Christmas party and we won't see each other tomorrow." She said: "Oh right, I forgot." I asked her if she had made plans with her friends like she had mentioned last saturday. She said that they were all busy tomorrow and weren't available.
She suggested "If your party is boring, maybe you could come meet me." I retorted that it wasn't going to be, knowing who was going to be there.
"Yeah but what if?"
"But it won't"
"But what IFFFFFF?" she kept insisting and I kept saying no. After what felt like 30 minutes of that (probably only 2-3 minutes in reality), I had enough and just said to end the argument: "Okay, if it's boring, I'll come. but it won't be." She said: "Cool" with a big smile on her face. I came to learn that that smile meant "Challenge accepted".
The following night, my colleague and I were pregaming in a conference room before leaving for the party proper and my phone buzzes. Maryse was wishing me a good party. I replied. She texted me again. I replied. She texted again, but I was in a conversation with a colleague so I didn't reply or even look at the phone. My phone buzzes again. Still talking, and didn't want to be rude to my colleague. Another buzz. I just kept talking. Phone buzzes differently, she was now calling because I hadn't answered her texts.
"Why aren't you replying to my texts?"
"Hey, sorry, was talking to my colleague Patrick."
"What? you don't want to talk to me?"
"I am talking to you now."
"Why didn't you reply to my texts?"
"Because it would have been rude to my colleague to pull my phone out while talking to him."
"But you're talking to me now."
"Because I thought something was wrong, maybe it was an emergency."
"I wanted to talk to you, that's all."
"Well, gotta go back to the party. Talk to you later."
She kept texting and if I didn't reply right away, she would call after two or three missed texts. After about 2 hours of this, I stopped answering the texts. When she called back, I asked her: "Aren't you supposed to be working?" which started another round of guilt-tripping of "why are you asking me this? you don't want to talk to me?" At that point I had had enough and wanted to enjoy my party. I remembered that the Blackberry (no shaming old tech!) I had had an annoying feature, but I was hoping to put it to good use at that moment.
Whenever the battery would get really low, like less than 1%, it would let out an ear-piercing BEEP for about 3 seconds, reminiding you to charge it and giving you a heart attack all at the same time. It would do that even when you were in silent mode. It had happened a few days earlier when I was with Maryse. I figured, if I press a button on the Blackberry, it would make a beep too that could be heard through the phone. So while I was talking to Maryse, I pressed my thumb on the space bar for a good 3 seconds and sputtered; "what... the .... what?" trying to put on a somewhat believable performance.
She asked what that noise was and I tell her that it was my blackberry letting me know I was low battery and it might shut off any second. I told her "Listen I'm gonna wish you a good night, I'm having a good time at my party so I'll see you tomorrow at 5PM to go spend our evening together. I hope you have a good....." and hung up mid-sentence. I promptly shut my phone off and went back to the party. I concede that I may be a bit of an AH for that move.
The party was great, I got drunk much quicker than I expected owing to the fact that I hadn't had a drink in over two months because Maryse didn't drink so I didn't either when we were together, and we were always together. At 1AM, I went home and passed out on my bed.
This is another place where I may have been an AH. I didn't turn my cell phone back on and I unplugged my home line too, because I wanted to sleep the deep sleep of the drunkard. I woke up at around 1:30 PM, not knowing it was already too late. In my mind, I was meeting Maryse at 5PM to go out on the town that night. Maryse had other ideas as you'll see.
So like I said, I woke up at 1:30PM and was sticky with alcohol sweat, so I went straight for the shower to get clean again. While in the shower, my stomach grumbled with hunger and I started daydreaming of bacon and eggs. That pushed me out of the shower right quick. I dried myself off quickly, tied the towel around my waist and went to the fridge. No bacon.... booo. Looked at the egg compartment... no eggs... booo again. Okay then, how about a cream cheese bagel. No cream cheese, damn it. Look in the pantry, no bagels.... god. I was starting to get angry. Okay, cereals then. I pick up the cereal box, that mofo was empty and I get mad: "who's the idiot who puts the empty box back in the pantry?" I remembered I live alone.
I close the fridge dejected and see the grocery list stuck on the fridge, taunting me with everything I wanted to eat for breakfast written on it. But I felt like if I went to the grocery store hungry as I Was, I'm just gonna pay 600$ and not get one single healthy thing to eat. I then remembered there's a restaurant next to the grocery store that serves breakfast until 3PM. I get excited! I get dressed quickly, grab my wallet and keys, put my boots on, my coat on, wrap my scarf, my tuque and my gloves and go to the restaurant. If you notice, I didn't mention my phone in there.
I get to the restaurant and confirm that they still have breakfast and get even more excited when she confirms it. I order the "heart attack", at least that's how I nicknamed it: 3 eggs, 3 servings of bacon, 2 sausages, and, I guess to give one peace of mind, fruit (or to be precise, one single solitary slice of orange). Now that the food is ordered and coming I figured I would check if I have any messages. I pat the pocket where my phone always is. No phone. uh-oh. I start clutching evert pocket, no luck.
I wonder if I should go back home after the meal before going to the grocery store and decide against it, it would be too long a detour. So I scarf my breakfast down, rush through the grocery store. I get home and set my bags down in front of the fridge. I go pick up my blackberry. I turn it back on. The little tape icon tells me there are messages on my voicemail, at that time there were no red dots with a number in it to tell you how many.
I connect to the voicemail while starting to put the groceries away. The little automated voice tells me "You have 25 new messages." I pull the phone away from my ear, look at it in disbelief as if saying: "are you f'ing kidding me?" So I press 1 to start playing the messages.
Remember: Maryse knew I was at a party with a dead phone, no chargers and I probably wouldn't get home until 1AM. From 6:30PM, when my phone died, to 11:34 PM, when she went to sleep she left me 9 messages. BTW I know she went to sleep at 11:34PM because she left me a message saying "it's 11:34PM and I'm going to bed. Thinking of you." The 9 messages were in the same vein. These are the salient details, but the messages were all much longer.
She woke up at 7:15 the following day, I'll let you guess how I know that tidbit of information! She left me 5 more messages like those from the day before: 7:15 woke up. 7:35 going to take a shower. 7:55 out of the shower. 8:25 getting ready to leave for work 8:50 walking out of the subway to go to the store.
She leaves me another message at 9 that was different. She sounded very excited as if she had had the best idea in the world: "Hey it's 9AM, I'm about to start my shift. I know we're only supposed to meet after my shift, but what if you came and met me for lunch so you could tell me all about your party." I just did my best Scooby-Doo "Ruh-Roh" and chuckled that I blew that, not thinking the calamity that was awaiting me.
Another couple of messages to talk logistics: "I could take my lunch at 12 or 12:30, let me know which you prefer." "I'm taking my lunch at 12:30"
A slightly worried message: "It's 11:15 and you stil have not said if you were coming or not, are you okay?"
The first bomb goes off and I knew I was in trouble then: "Where are you? We're supposed to meet for lunch and you still haven't given me any sign of life, you're not answering your home phone either, what happened?" Reminder: we were not supposed to meet for lunch, she suggested doing so a couple of hours earlier and I never agreed to anything. I guess she told her colleagues I would meet her for lunch and it was now fact and could perhaps make her look bad in front of her colleagues.
The second bomb drops: "It's almost noon now, WHERE ARE YOU? Stephanie says you're probably sleeping off your drunk, but I don't believe her. I'm sure you got yourself a slut and cheated on me. Didn't you? didn't you, you asshole." Stephanie knows me very well, but that wasn't enough for Maryse it seems.
Ensued four more messages from 12:30 to 1:15, where she starts sounding more and more drunk and accusatory, spewing more attacks like in the message above. At that point I already knew it was over, there was no coming back from that. I can understand having trust issues, but that was nuclear. I don't tolerate jealousy because of horrible experiences with a couple of jealous toxic exes.
A final message comes in, and it's a different voice, that of my best friend being more than a little angry: "Hey Guy, listen, Maryse tells me you had a Christmas party yesterday, so I'm guessing you're sleeping off your drunk, still. But call me when you get this. I put Maryse, who's f'ing drunk, in the backstore so she can dry off and "do inventory". She can't be on the sales floor obviously and I just don't feel safe sending her home in the state she's in. Call me to tell me how you want to handle this."
At that point I had finished putting away my groceries and had put my boots and my coat on and was making my way to the subway to go to the store. I call Stephanie and tell her I got the messages and I was coming. She was right, I was sleeping off my drunk and had just woke up (didn't feel the need to mention the breakfast and grocery store). I ask her if she knows what I'm gonna do when I get there. She says that she knows and understands. She knows my bad history.
When I get out of the subway, I call her again before getting to the store. I ask her how she wants me to do this. It's her store and I don't want to create drama in front of her customers. Does she want me to wait outside and she tells Maryse to meet me in the street or do I go in the store and she takes me to the backstore and I do it there? She says to come to the store.
I walk in the store and every saleswomen on the floor looks at me and gives me the biggest case of the stink-eye. They only have Maryse's side of the story, so they think I did all these horrible things. I see Stephanie in the middle of the store and I walk towards her. She shakes her head and points me towards the cash register. I look over there and see Julia, a salesperson that I've known for a couple of years and really like, who also happens to be the biggest gossip in the store. I understand what Stephanie is trying to do. She's gonna make me tell her my story in front of Julia so Julia can spread the "good news" to the other employees and rehabilitate my name possibly.
So I get to the register and say Hi to Julia. She barely acknoledges me. Steph joins me. She asks me:
"How are you?"
"I was better an hour ago, before I listened to those voicemails. I had gone to our office party last night, had a great night, got drunk off my ass, got home at around 2 and woke up around 2."
Julia asks "Maryse told us you were supposed to meet her for lunch."
"No we weren't. I have a reservation for tonight at XYZ restaurant. I was supposed to take the day to do errands, stuff around the condo and meet her here at closing time. She suggested that it could be fun if I came at lunchtime to meet her, but that was never the plan."
Julia asks again "But why didn't you answer your phone?"
"It ran out of battery last night during the party and when I got home, I was so drunk that I forgot to plug it back in. I only plugged it when I woke up at 2. That's when the messages came in."
Julia asks "She says she tried calling your home line and you didn't answer and your machine didn't kick in."
"Yeah, that one's my fault, I knew I wanted to sleep and telemarketers have a habit of calling me early saturday mornings so I didn't want to be awoken by a call for a rug cleaning service, so I unplugged it yesterday morning, knowing I would be drunk when I got home and forget and be angry if I was awakened by a telemarketer."
Julia gave me a hint of a smile, showing me she was starting to believe me. She asked me a few more questions and then she asked what I was gonna do. I told her that whatever I'll do, I would tell Maryse first.
I looked at Stephanie and said: "Can you open the back store so I can go see her?" So we went to the backstore. As we reached the door, it swung opened and out popped Maryse, looking absolutely terrifying, I actually jumped back when I saw her. Her usual perfect makeup was completely smeared, her mascara streaking down her cheeks from the crying. Her hair was disheveled. She was a mess. Apparently, she had had enough of waiting back there and was planning on leaving the store to go home and had put her coat and boots on.
When she saw me, she went into an unhinged rant about me being an asshole for cheating on her, me not being great in bed, me not treating her right, etc. I let her vent everything she had to say, I looked at Stephanie and apologized for creating such a scene in her store. I tell Maryse we should go outside and talk in private. She keeps on yelling, but when I grab her hand to lead her outside, she follows.
When we get outside, her anger had started to wane a little, or maybe just her energy. I was able to talk to her to explain everything, how I had gotten drunk, had overslept (alone) and woke up at 2PM. I reminded her that we were only supposed to meet at 5PM not for lunch. The anger was leaving her and a smile almost appeared on her face. Through all of this I was being very calm and patient with her, which she interpreted as me not being mad at her. I then said in a firmer tone: "However..." and let it hang for a second.
The beginning smile vanished. I continued: "When you accused me of cheating on you, that broke me. That triggered memories of toxic exes who would always accuse me of cheating, not trusting me when I would tell them where I was, snooping on me, stalking me. Because of those experiences, I have a zero tolerance policy for jealousy. I told her that if she was behaving like after only two months of dating, it didn't bode well for the future and I have to protect myself."
At that, the tears started again and she just turned and ran/waddled away. I told her to wait, but she didn't hear me. I turned towards the entrance of the store to see basically all the employees and customers milling around the door trying to catch the drama. I went back inside to talk to my best friend. The mood had definitely changed and no one was giving me the stink eye anymore, but I didn't really care. I was just sad that it had ended, but proud of myself for having stood up for myself.
So AITA for getting drunk and keeping my phone turned off?
There is a lot more to this story and if you want to learn what happened afterwards, then read on.
The immediate aftermath
So I went back inside the store and talked to Stephanie. I told her that I had a reserrvation for XX restaurant and if she wanted to go with Stephen, she could take it, I wasn't in the mood for a dinner. She said "I already have plans for tonight, but thanks for offering." Julia said she would go with me if I wanted, but I just said that I wasn't in the mood to go out. I just wanted to crash and eat a pizza and get into a food coma.
Stephanie said she didn't feel comfortable leaving me by myself and I should join them at her house. They were having friends over to play board games and it could at least distract me a little. I said why not. So brimming with enthusiasm, I went to play bored games. I left early as I wasn't in the mood. I was feeling a little better, but still a bit down. I thanked Stephanie for the invite and left. I got home and just passed out on the bed.
I woke up at around 7AM the next morning and I saw along the corners of the window the tell-tale signs of a snow-drift and got excited as it was the first snow of the season. I pushed the curtains aside and looked on to see a beautiful white carpet outside. It was early enough that very few cars had marred the whiteness. I was admiring it when I noticed that, against the red bricks of the building across the street, there was a pink blotch. As I focused, the blotch became human shaped and I cleared my eyes enough to realize that it was Maryse and she was raising her cell phone to her ear.
On cue, my phone rings. I pick it up. Still sounding drunk, she asks me if we can speak. I ask her to give me five minutes to get dressed and I'll meet her down there. She asks why she can't come up. I say that I'm not sure I want her in my apartment. She says that it's cold out. I say: "Good, then this will be quick."
I get dressed and meet her outside. I'm still bleary-eyed from having woken up 5 minutes ago, but I try to get my wits together. I tell her that we're going to walk to the subway. It 's a 10-minute walk normally, but with her drunkenness, it might take 15-20 minutes. That's how long she has to tell me what she wants to tell me.
She wants to apologize for accusing me of cheating on her. She says she knows I'm a great guy and... I may be the A-hole at this point too, but I start to drift off in my little bubble and start daydreaming about, if I go back to bed, would there still be some residual heat or would it be cold? I could take a hot shower and warm the bed that way. I could still hear her in the background making excuses, saying how she had been cheated on, but I wasn't really listening.
During the daydreaming I notice it got quite quiet. I look on my left and she's not there, I turn around she's a good 5-6 steps behind me looking angry and she says: "you're not listening" I just say: "when you're right, you're right." I tell her that I understand she's been hurt too in the past, and I hope she can work to resolve her issues, but I was done and I'm going back to bed. I was a bit harsh there, but I was tired and still down.
I walk past her and get maybe 10 paces past her when I hear a scream coming from her. I turn around and I see her messing with something inside her coat. She pulls out a chef's knife with like an 8-inch blade. That wakes me the fuck up. Byebye bleary eyes, hello wakefulness. better than a cup of coffee or a red bull I tell you!
So she's got the knife, she's screaming something that I can't quite understand. She gets quiet and then she charges at me with the knife. If I'm being honest I could have stayed where I was and she probably would have missed me anyways, but someone charges at me with a knife, I'm gonna nope out of there. I take a massive side step and once she gets to where I was and realizes that I'm no longer there, she turns her head towards me and says heyyyyy.
At that point, I have a moment of clarity and see what's gonna happen. She's drunk running one way and looking another, I know she's gonna trip. As I predicted, she stumbled over her feet and starts falling to the ground. I start praying to god and anybody who would listen: "Please don't let her cut herself. I don't want to have to explain this to the doctors, EMTs and nurses. I don't want her drunk ass deciding to take revenge on me by saying I did it."
Thankfully, she winds up in a sitting position on the sidewalk holding the knife up and it was clean. Thank god for small miracles. She starts crying and, other moment of clarity, I know she's gonna turn the knife on herself now. I jump towards her and I realize I was right, the knife starts moving towards her left wrist. I tackle her, grab her right wrist and twist it so she drops the knife. I pick the knife back up and put it in my pocket. She looks at me crying and says: "Why did you stop me?"
I pick her up and take her back to my building. In my building there was a couch in the lobby, so I take her there and I sit her down and plop myself next to her. I look at her and wonder out loud: "What am I gonna do with you? What can I do?"
She goes: "Just let me go, I'll be good." I tell her that's not going to happen. I realize I have three options and I give her the three options.
"So here's the choice I give you.
1- I pull out my phone, call 911 and tell them about the attempted murder back there and they send the police to arrest you. I don't want to do that because that could derail your life and not get you the help you need. Besides, they might not do anything anyway as it's your word against mine.
2= I pull out my phone, call 911 and tell them about the attempted suicide back there and that you need to be placed on a 72 hour hold. I could do that, but at the same time, again it's my word against yours, so maybe they don't believe me.
3- I'm gonna hazard a guess here. From what I've seen, you have alcohol problems. So I'm gonna guess you were in AA, had been sober for a while, I want to say 6 months, maybe less, when we met."
She confirms my guess.
"alright so option 3, I'm guessing you had a sponsor in AA." she nods "we call them up and tell them about your relapse and what happened this morning. Can they come get you and take care of you?"
She takes her phone out and picks a contact and calls. She hands me the phone. Someone answers and I explain the situation. They said they were coming right away. I give them my address, they get here 15 minutes later. Maryse had fallen asleep in the meantime, so I wake her up gently and help her to the car. Off she went.
I went back to my apartment and just crashed back to sleep.
A month later
Mid-january, my phone rings and I see Maryse's number on there. I send her to voice mail. Another call. Voicemail again. 5 minutes later, Private number calling. "Gee I wonder who that could be." Voicemail once more.
Afterwards, I didn't get any unidentified callers for a little over a week. One afternoon, I was at work and my phone rings and it's a number I do not recognize. I pick up.
"Hello."
"Hi, is this Guy?"
"Yes, to whom am I speaking?"
"This is Hannah, Maryse's sponsor. we spoke last month." I started fearing the worst.
"Yes, I remember. How can I help you?"
"Maryse tried to reach you last week and you rejected the calls. I think it could help Maryse if you listened to what she had to say. You're obviously not obligated to entertain her, but I think despite everything that happened, you still care about her or you would not have called me that morning."
"You are right, I do still care about Maryse. I'm just not sure how good it would be for her to meet me this soon after everything that happened. I understand wanting to work through the 9th step and making amends, but..." She interrupts me.
"So you know about the steps."
"Yes I have friends in the program. which is how I could guess that she was in the program too that morning."
"You know it's important."
"I know. I know. How about this: we meet in public at a cafe, you would have to be there. Not necessarily at the table with us, but nearby in case she needs help, in case meeting me causes her pain. Tell her I promise to be in a more receptive mood than I was that morning."
So we make an appointment for that saturday afternoon.
I get to the coffee shop. She's already there, and so is her sponsor. I realize happily that she's not wearing makeup. I say happily because that means she understands that this is not a date, but something serious. She's still stunningly beautiful, and I feel sad almost right away.
I grab a coffee and go join her at the table.
"Hey" I say,
"Hey. So this is gonna be uncomfortable, but thank you for agreeing to meet me and for coming, I appreciate it more than you know. I'm sure you heard I quit the store."
"I have, I'm sorry about that, I hope you didn't do it just because of me."
"No, I needed time to focus on myself for now."
She proceeds to tell me about how I wasn't far off with my guess. She had been sober 4 months when we met. Now she had 39 days. She tells me that in AA, if you are single, they recommend not dating anyone new for at least the first year of your sobriety as it can cause issues, similar to what happened with us. I was like her "drug" and as long as I was available, she could get her fix. But the moment I wasn't available all hell broke loose, and that is what led her back to drinking that day.
I told her I'm glad to see her back sober again this quickly and I hope she can get all the help she needs from it. I ask her if she wants to talk to me about her drinking.
She starts to share a story about how she started drinking at around 11 years old. When puberty hit her, she got into a deep depression because the sexual feelings she was starting to feel were triggering responses. As a child she had been abused by two of her uncles repeatedly and her parents never believed her. They accused her of trying to make herself interesting. That was until they caught one of those uncles red-handed.
They finally believed and took the necessary steps to protect their daughter. But they were poor and they couldn't afford therapy. So she never really got help for it. At 11, she started self medicating the depression with alcohol. When alcohol wasn't enough, she added drugs.
At that point, I was full on crying. She asked me if I wanted her to stop. I told her that she doesn't have to stop. That the tears are there because that was one more thing we had in common. I was also a survivor of sexual assault as a child. In my case, it wasn't a family member, it was only a stranger, so it only happened once. But I also self-medicated with alcohol at the onset of puberty, switching to drugs later on too. I was lucky to avoid the pitfalls of addiction, but I was still dealing with my demons, slowly making peace with them.
So there we were, sitting at a coffee shop, both crying and holding each other. I tell her that I think it's great she's getting help for her alcoholism and addicion, but was she doing anything to help with the underlying issue, the original trauma? She said no, she couldn't afford therapy. I tell her that I am a member of a survivors group and if she is interested, I could get her into a meeting and perhaps learn to heal that part of herself too.
She said that she could give it a try. I tell her I have to talk to the other members to know if I can bring someone new and I would let her know. If they said yes, we would go to her first meeting together, I would introduce her and then we would coordinate so that I never went to meetings where she was. I wanted to do that because I wanted her first few meetings to be about healing and I didn't want our own history to be intertwined or mixed in with that.
After that, we left both feeling content and, while not necesarily happy, at peace if you will. Later on, I contacted Stephanie who was one of the "pillars" of the support group (that's how we met) to ask her if it was okay for me to bring in a new member to the group. She said sure. She asked if it was anyone she knew. I told her she would have to meet her at the meeting if she decides to come.
We were having a meeting the following day. I called Maryse, told her the time and place, and she said she would be there. She came to the group meeting and was shocked to see Stephanie there but Stephanie kinda guessed that it was Maryse I was referring to.
I introduce her, we start sharing stories, talking about how we're feeling, etc. The meeting was good and Maryse liked the vibe. So for the first six months after that, I never saw Maryse and we planned which meeting we would be attending to ensure we didn't cross paths. She started feeling much better.
After maybe 2 and a half years, she finally felt ready and she started dating again. She met someone and she fell for him. They were together for about six months, she looked happy. Unfortunately after about six months, she caught him cheating on her. We tried supporting her, being good friends, cursing his name, doing all the things we could to make sure she didn't relapse. But on April 5th 2014, she ODed on heroin. She was hospitalized for 2 weeks after that.
Hannah took her in and she set up a room for Maryse. She was still in a fragile state, so a group of her friends and I started taking turns watching over Maryse, making sure there was always at least one person there with her to keep her company.
Despite our vigilance, on May 14th 2014, when Hannah was out running a quick errand, she was gone maybe 15 minutes tops, Maryse found a way to cut her wrists and she died. We found a note saying that "the OD was not an accident, and neither was that. Thanks for everything you did for me. I love you all, but I can't do this anymore."
It feels good to write that story (I'll just ignore the fat tears rolling down my face!). Thanks for reading this far and sorry for the long story, I just started writing and couldn't stop. I apologize if it was a bit of a bummer.
2024.05.15 02:05 DanielAnakBudi Sebuah harapan dibalik orang yang tidak berduit
Di post ini, aku mau cerita bedasarkan kisah nyata dari sebagian besar orang yang pernah ngobrol sama aku (plus dengan pengalamanku pas bersama mereka) dan mungkin ini bisa menggerakkan hati atau kita makin positif sih. Ada 2 cerita yang bakalan aku bahas, dan kalian bisa pilih aja mau cerita mana yang mau kalian baca. And ofc, i make it short to save everyone's time.
The story has 2 perspective : Gojek, dan Tukang parkir (niatnya mau ada tambahan 1 lagi, yaitu cerita tentang guruku.. maybe next time i guess.)
Let's start with Gojek.
Gojek Kejadian ini terjadi pasca tahun 2021-an (kalo ga salah). Ceritanya, Sahabat jauh dari solo pulang ke sentul dan aku main sama beliau sambil ngobrol bareng kondisi-nya disana. Kami bercengkrama sampai dengan jam 8 malam, dan aku memutuskan untuk pulang (karena nyokap udah nyariin). Aku akhirnya dianterin pulang dengan mobil nyokap sahabatku yang kebetulan lagi satu jalan dari AEON. tapi, aku denger kabar kata-nya bokap-nya temen tiba-tiba sakit dan Nyokap-nya perlu beli obat. Aku nawarin untuk nemenin beli obat + nunjukin apotik terdekat, tapi akhirnya aku cukup minta diberhentiin aja di Lampu merah dekat CCM. Karena aku takut-nya mengganggu juga + takut pulang kemaleman. Cukup ucapan semoga cepat sembuh, dan akhirnya pergi ke kantor polisi perempatan CCM buat pesan Gojek.
Jujur, aku kaget ketika yang dateng ketika pesen Gojek yang dateng adalah perempuan. Aku ga permasalahin kamu kerja jadi apa... tapi dengan kondisi malem seperti ini dan beliau berani narik Gojek? oh my. That's a daring move and deserve my respect. Tapi pas aku mau naik, beliau bilang.. ini baru pertama kali dia ambil pesanan malem-malem dan kebetulan aga capek (kalo ga salah inget). Aku tawarin untuk ngendarain motornya (it was a scoopy. its has good handling but slow as snail speed. but it has good fuel economy. hehe, maaf terlalu mendiskripsikan motornya).
Kami ngobrol di jalan dong... tanya-tanya abis ngapain dan ini itu. Sampai aku nanya ke beliau "Ibu kenapa mau kerja jadi Go-Jek?". Beliau dengan lumayan santai-nya bilang something along like "Karena ada-nya ini pada saat ini, dan saya harus membiayain kedua anak saya". Aku sambil mengucapkan maaf nanya kepada beliau "Maaf bu, saya kalo boleh nanya.. Suami ibu apakah tidak kerja?". Beliau bilang "Suami saya kabur". That bring a chill on my spine... karena ini ngobrol secara langsung. Beliau bela-belain Nganter barang sampai malam, dan bahkan nyoba nge-gojek. it's somewhat shows how mother figure should always be. She wants nothing but her kids to become succeed and didnt end up like her.
And today 2024, i share her story to here... it shows that maybe even at the very rock bottom, you cannot see down but only up. and you need to keep on going whatever your situation is.
okay, Mari kita langsung aja cerita kedua.
Tukang ParkirMixue Miksu (ga boleh nyebut merek meskipun keliatan dikit, atleast its for the sake of the funni)
Nah, ini sebenarnya kejadian yag masih baru-baru banget. Cerita-nya ini abis ngampus.. Karena lagi kepengen makan eskrim, pergilah aku ke Miksu deket Sate Tegal Laka-laka yang ada di cibinong. Kebetulan disitu ada tukang parkir (yang kebetulan sering ketemuan dan dia ramah).. ngobrol lah aku sama beliau. He give me many wise words dan saran sebelum beranjak ke dunia yang bener-bener dewasa. it was all fun and game.
But then, i ask him... "Tapi pak, dengan pemikiran dan wawasan yang luas. Kenapa bapak jadi tukang parkir?" He said ketika beliau di pelabuhan tanjung priuk, dulunya dia kerja sebagai pengangkut barang dan disukai sama bos-nya karena etos kerja-nya yang tinggi (Sambil nunjukin kertas kerja-nya, dan dokumen penting lainnya ketika kerja di pelabuhan tanjung priuk. I was surprised how did he trust me to the point to show me this). He got paid handsomely, dan dia kerja dari pagi ke pagi. Sampai ketika orang dalam plays along dan kompetisi yang ga sehat mulai masuk. Dia suka disenggol dan begitu sebagai-nya... dan bahkan sudah berfikir kalo sebagai pengangkut barang udah bukan passion dia lagi (karena terkadang dia mesti berantem pas ngangkut barang di jalan entah sama pungli, dll).
Dan dimasa dimana dia udah kepala 5 atau 6 ini (kalo ga salah). Dia hanya ingin meninggal dengan tenang aja. Dia bilang sama aku "Keinginan muda dan tau pasti berbeda. Semakin kamu tua, kamu semakin belajar kalo dalam hidup itu ga semuanya bisa kamu dapatkan. tapi kamu ga boleh nyerah, dan harus tekun".
He's respectable person... even as tukang parkir. Maybe some people doesnt have a choice and ended up like him. Bahkan orang berjasa kayak beliau aja di-injek". like damn..... Hope he's having a good day
That's the story for today folks. Have a good day !
edit : typo :b
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The story has 2 perspective : Gojek, dan Tukang parkir (niatnya mau ada tambahan 1 lagi, yaitu cerita tentang guruku.. maybe next time i guess.)
Let's start with Gojek.
Gojek Kejadian ini terjadi pasca tahun 2021-an (kalo ga salah). Ceritanya, Sahabat jauh dari solo pulang ke sentul dan aku main sama beliau sambil ngobrol bareng kondisi-nya disana. Kami bercengkrama sampai dengan jam 8 malam, dan aku memutuskan untuk pulang (karena nyokap udah nyariin). Aku akhirnya dianterin pulang dengan mobil nyokap sahabatku yang kebetulan lagi satu jalan dari AEON. tapi, aku denger kabar kata-nya bokap-nya temen tiba-tiba sakit dan Nyokap-nya perlu beli obat. Aku nawarin untuk nemenin beli obat + nunjukin apotik terdekat, tapi akhirnya aku cukup minta diberhentiin aja di Lampu merah dekat CCM. Karena aku takut-nya mengganggu juga + takut pulang kemaleman. Cukup ucapan semoga cepat sembuh, dan akhirnya pergi ke kantor polisi perempatan CCM buat pesan Gojek.
Jujur, aku kaget ketika yang dateng ketika pesen Gojek yang dateng adalah perempuan. Aku ga permasalahin kamu kerja jadi apa... tapi dengan kondisi malem seperti ini dan beliau berani narik Gojek? oh my. That's a daring move and deserve my respect. Tapi pas aku mau naik, beliau bilang.. ini baru pertama kali dia ambil pesanan malem-malem dan kebetulan aga capek (kalo ga salah inget). Aku tawarin untuk ngendarain motornya (it was a scoopy. its has good handling but slow as snail speed. but it has good fuel economy. hehe, maaf terlalu mendiskripsikan motornya).
Kami ngobrol di jalan dong... tanya-tanya abis ngapain dan ini itu. Sampai aku nanya ke beliau "Ibu kenapa mau kerja jadi Go-Jek?". Beliau dengan lumayan santai-nya bilang something along like "Karena ada-nya ini pada saat ini, dan saya harus membiayain kedua anak saya". Aku sambil mengucapkan maaf nanya kepada beliau "Maaf bu, saya kalo boleh nanya.. Suami ibu apakah tidak kerja?". Beliau bilang "Suami saya kabur". That bring a chill on my spine... karena ini ngobrol secara langsung. Beliau bela-belain Nganter barang sampai malam, dan bahkan nyoba nge-gojek. it's somewhat shows how mother figure should always be. She wants nothing but her kids to become succeed and didnt end up like her.
And today 2024, i share her story to here... it shows that maybe even at the very rock bottom, you cannot see down but only up. and you need to keep on going whatever your situation is.
okay, Mari kita langsung aja cerita kedua.
Tukang Parkir
Nah, ini sebenarnya kejadian yag masih baru-baru banget. Cerita-nya ini abis ngampus.. Karena lagi kepengen makan eskrim, pergilah aku ke Miksu deket Sate Tegal Laka-laka yang ada di cibinong. Kebetulan disitu ada tukang parkir (yang kebetulan sering ketemuan dan dia ramah).. ngobrol lah aku sama beliau. He give me many wise words dan saran sebelum beranjak ke dunia yang bener-bener dewasa. it was all fun and game.
But then, i ask him... "Tapi pak, dengan pemikiran dan wawasan yang luas. Kenapa bapak jadi tukang parkir?" He said ketika beliau di pelabuhan tanjung priuk, dulunya dia kerja sebagai pengangkut barang dan disukai sama bos-nya karena etos kerja-nya yang tinggi (Sambil nunjukin kertas kerja-nya, dan dokumen penting lainnya ketika kerja di pelabuhan tanjung priuk. I was surprised how did he trust me to the point to show me this). He got paid handsomely, dan dia kerja dari pagi ke pagi. Sampai ketika orang dalam plays along dan kompetisi yang ga sehat mulai masuk. Dia suka disenggol dan begitu sebagai-nya... dan bahkan sudah berfikir kalo sebagai pengangkut barang udah bukan passion dia lagi (karena terkadang dia mesti berantem pas ngangkut barang di jalan entah sama pungli, dll).
Dan dimasa dimana dia udah kepala 5 atau 6 ini (kalo ga salah). Dia hanya ingin meninggal dengan tenang aja. Dia bilang sama aku "Keinginan muda dan tau pasti berbeda. Semakin kamu tua, kamu semakin belajar kalo dalam hidup itu ga semuanya bisa kamu dapatkan. tapi kamu ga boleh nyerah, dan harus tekun".
He's respectable person... even as tukang parkir. Maybe some people doesnt have a choice and ended up like him. Bahkan orang berjasa kayak beliau aja di-injek". like damn..... Hope he's having a good day
That's the story for today folks. Have a good day !
edit : typo :b
2024.05.14 22:20 neissiebeetsie 24F SB seeking SD in Silicon Valley/Bay Area
Im a sweet Latina seeking a fun and respectful SD ideally in a nearby city but open to long distance if it works. I like nice smiles, kind people and silly clever banter. I have a ton of silly memes, love texting, kink friendly, go to the gym often and love laughing. I have long thick dark hair, piercings and tattoos. I’m 5’7 and on the curviefull side. I love thoughtfulness and my heart flutters when people give me gifts as it’s such a warm reminder that they are thinking of me. I would say my best characteristics are being fun, open minded and kind. I work with homeless children and want to go back to school for my masters in the next two years, also interested in learning how to invest.
I seek a relationship where we both respect and learn from each other. I’d like a SD that can reciprocate the consideration and thoughtfulness I carry on a daily basis. I’m open to discretion, but I am not interested in exclusivity. Older men is truthfully the only type of man I can see myself with as my experiences with older men has been warm, kind and straight forward. I’d love to travel, weekend getaways, staying in, going out to restaurants, bars, get into the art scene wherever we are, outdoor activities, trying new things!
I seek a connection with chemistry both in and outside the bedroom. I’m a lucky, sweet, drama free, adventurous and happy girl! Let me share that with you 💗
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I seek a relationship where we both respect and learn from each other. I’d like a SD that can reciprocate the consideration and thoughtfulness I carry on a daily basis. I’m open to discretion, but I am not interested in exclusivity. Older men is truthfully the only type of man I can see myself with as my experiences with older men has been warm, kind and straight forward. I’d love to travel, weekend getaways, staying in, going out to restaurants, bars, get into the art scene wherever we are, outdoor activities, trying new things!
I seek a connection with chemistry both in and outside the bedroom. I’m a lucky, sweet, drama free, adventurous and happy girl! Let me share that with you 💗
2024.05.14 18:58 VeeQueue [US] Open to offers! ABH, Armani, FAB, Julep, Jo Malone, MAC, Penhaligon's, Tom Ford, Urban Decay and tons more!
Hi there, welcome to my post! Feel free to make an offer for anything listed :D
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Benefit Greeting From Cabana Glama DesTANation Makeup Kit, used as shown - $15
Karl Lagerfeld x ModelCo Minaudière with Mini Lip Kit, full size, NIB P - $100 Includes: - Minaudière hard clutch / makeup bag, with attachable (heavy) chain to use as a shoulder bag and dust bag - Full-size Lip Liner in Rosewood (0.05 oz.) - 2 Mini Lip Glosses in Ramatuelle and St Tropez Sunset (0.04 oz. each) - 2 Mini Lipsticks in Kate and Stella (0.05 oz. each)
Flesh Starshine eyeshadow palette, full size, new. Open. Back of palette. - $20
Kat von D Shade + Light eyeshadow palette in Plum, full size, used 2x as shown. Back of palette. - $10
Make Up For Ever MUFE 9 artist shadow palette Volume 4 (shades 100, 842, 240, 620, 806, 536, 126, 546, 530), full size, used 2x as shown. Back of palette. - $25
Smith & Cult Book of Eyes quad palette in Noonsuite (bronzey), full size, NIB - $25
Tarte Be Your Own Tarteist Eye & Cheek Palette, used as shown - $20
Urban Decay Naked Cherry palette, full size, NIB - $40
Anastasia Beverly Hills ABH Clear Brow Gel, travel size (2.5ml), NIB - $7
ModelCo More Brows in Light / Medium, Full Size - $10
Ulta Brow Tint in Medium, full size, new - $6
Eyeliner:
BareMinerals Lasting Line Long-wearing Eye Liner in Absolute Black, Full Size, New - $10
Beauty For Real I-Line 24-7 Eyeliner in Black Magic, full size, new - $10
Estée Lauder Automatic Eye Pencil Duo Refill in Charcoal, full size, NIB - $10
Lancome Drama Liqui-Pencil in Noir Intense, Travel Size, .018oz - $5
Laura Geller I-Care Waterproof Eyeliner in Charcoal, Full Size - $10
NYX Jumbo Eye Pencil in Milk (white), full size, new - $3
Sephora Waterproof Contour Eye Pencil in 33 Love Affair (plum), new, travel size (.017oz) - $3
Stila Smudge Stick Waterproof Eyeliner in Stingray (jet black), full size, NIB - $15
Tarte Sex Kitten Eyeliner in Black, travel size (half size, .0035oz), new - $8
Ulta Dual-Ended Liner, in Halo & Black/Brown, Full Size - $3
Victoria's Secret Very Sexy Sparkling Eyeliner in Blacklight, Full Size, cracked cap used 2x - $5
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Laura Geller Baked Marble Eyeshadow in Amethyst, full size, new - $12
Maybelline Expert Wear Eyeshadow in Amethyst Smokes, used 3x - $2
NYC HD Color Trio Eye Shadow in Late Night Latte, Full Size, used 5x - $2
NYX Prismatic Eyeshadow Single in Punk Heart (plum with purple shimmer), full size, used as shown - $3
Trestique Color and Smudge Shadow Crayon in Marimoto Pink Pearl, full size, NIB - $15
Ulta Eye Shadow singles Duo in Petite (light beige matte) and Beauty Junkie (mauve glitter), both full size (.06oz), both new - $8 for the pair
Ulta Eye Shadow Palette in Lace, Charm, Nostalgia, Vintage, Delicate, and Seaside, .21oz, new - $6
Lashes:
Eyelure London Limited Edition Party Lashes in Snow Princess, full size, NIB - $3
Wet n Wild Fantasy Makers Blue Glow in the Dark Lashes, full size, NIB - $2
Mascara:
BellaPierre Volume Lash Waterproof Mascara, full size, new & sealed - $10
Butter London Double Decker Lashes Mascara in Black, travel size (.18oz), NIB - $6
Clinique Chubby Lash Mascara in 01 Jumbo Jet (black), travel size (4ml), NIB - $5
Clinique High Impact Mascara in black, half size (.15oz), new - $10
Clinique Lash Power Flutter-to-Full Mascara in 01 Black Onyx, travel size, new - $8
Estée Lauder Sumptuous Knockout Mascara in 01 Black, travel size (.09oz), new - $10
Julep Length Matters Mascara in Jet Black, travel size (.2oz), NIB - $8
Laura Geller StyleLASH Intense Lengthening Mascara, FS (.33oz), NWOB - $14
Maybelline Great Lash Mascara in Black, travel size (.15oz), new - $2
Pur Big Look Mascara with Argan oil, full size (.12oz), new - $6
Ulta Amped Lashes Mascara in Jet Black, full size, new - $6
Ulta Beauty Maximum Lashes Defining and Lengthening Mascara, full size, new - $6
ChapStick Lip Butter in Green Tea Mint, full size, NIB - $2
First Aid Beauty FAB Ultra Repair Lip Therapy, full size (.5oz), new - $8
Jane Iredale SPF 15 Lip Drink Lip Balm in Flirt (sheer pink), full size, NIB - $10
MAC Vamplify Lip Gloss in Suggestive, FS, new - $12
Mally Beans High Shine Lip Gloss in Pilar Bean, DS (.07oz), new - $6
NYC City Proof Extended Wear Lip Gloss in Mauving All Night #458, Full Size - $3
Philosophy High-Gloss Lip Shine in Fresh Cream, full size (.4oz), new and sealed - $6
Pur Chrome Glaze High-Shine Lip Gloss In DIY (pinky nude), full size (0.07 oz), NIB - $10
Ulta Double Duty Lip Stain and Balm in Drama (Dark Red), full size, new - $4
Ulta Double Duty Lip Stain and Balm in Romance (Pink), full size, new - $4
Urban Decay Revolution Lip Gloss in Savage (bright pink), travel size (.05oz), new - $5
Whole Foods organic lip balm in Peppermint, full size, new and sealed - $1
Whole Foods organic lip balm in Pomegranate Orange, full size, new and sealed - $1
Whole Foods organic lip balm in Tangerine, full size, new and sealed - $1
Victoria's Secret Beauty Rush Lip Balm in Minty Kiss, Full Size - $3
Lip Liners & Primers:
Kat Von D Everlasting Lip Liner in Homegirl, full size (.25g), used 2x as shown - $10
Milani Color Statement Lip Liner in 02 True Red, full size, new - $2
Tarte Tarteist Lip Crayon in Thirsty (bright red), .01oz, NIB - $10
Lipstick - Liquid:
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in At Midnight (Fireball Red Matte), full size (.14oz), new - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in Love Potion (Bronzed Black Metallic Matte), full size (.14oz), new P - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in Pillow Talk (Victorian Pink Matte), full size (.14oz), new - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in Say Hello (Rich Marsala Matte), full size (.14oz), new - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in XOXO (Femme Fuchsia Matte), full size (.14oz), new - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Laura Geller Lip Silk Liquid Lipstick in French Kiss (soft pink), full size, new - $10
Maybelline Color Sensational Vivid Matte Liquid Lip Color in Nude Flush , Full Size, swatched 1x - $3
NYX Suede Cream Liquid Lipstick in Orange County (bright orange), travel size (.05oz), new - $4, or 2/$6
NYX Suede Cream Liquid Lipstick in Pink Lust (bright pink), travel size (.05oz), new - $4, or 2/$6
NYX Cosmetics Soft Matte Lip Cream in Transylvania (deep wine), full size (0.27 oz), new - $4, or 2/$6
OCC Lip Tar in Disintegration (pale plum metallic), full size, NIB - $12
OCC Lip Tar in Hoochie (magenta / purple), full size, NIB - $12
Tarte Lip Sculptor, Lipstick & Lipgloss, in VIP (cool nude), travel size (1.5g lipstick 1ml lipgloss), new - $10
Tarte Tarteist Lip Paint in Bae (red), full size, new - $13
Lipstick - Bullet & Pencil:
Almay Demi-Sheer Creme Lipcolor in 80 Demi Mauve, full size, used 3x as shown - $8
Bite Beauty Luminous Creme Lipstick Topper, no shade listed but a shimmery bronze, full size, new - $18
Bite Beauty High Pigment Pencil in Rhubarb, full size (.09oz), used 1x - $10
Bite Beauty Matte Cream Lipstick in Barberry (cool dark plum), full size, used as shown - $16
DCA Lipstick in No. 108, full size, used 2x as shown - $4
Estée Lauder All-Day Lipstick in Ancient Brick, full size, swatched as shown - $12
Estée Lauder Pure Color Envy Sculpting Lipstick in Irresistible, full size (.12oz), new P - $15
Illamasqua Glamour Lipstick in Tease (pale Nude), full size, used 3x - $12
Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Homegirl (satin matte berry), travel size (.04oz), used as shown - $6
Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Poe (cool metallic blue), full size, NIB - $12
Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Roxy (purple), mini size (1g), used 1x as shown - $6
Korres Matte Twist Lipstick in Tempting Coral, full size (.05oz), new - $10
Lancome Rouge Absolu Lipstick in Rose Espace, full size, used 3x as shown - $12
Laura Geller Color Brilliance Lustrous Lipstick in Cute, full size, new - $12
Laura Geller Italian Marble lipstick in Strawberry Toffee, full size, new - $12
MAC Retro Matte Lipstick in Flat Out Fabulous (bright pink/purple), full size, new - $12
Makeup Academy Lipstick in Persian Rose (bright pink), full size, used 1x - $3
Makeup Revolution Scandalous Lipstick in Depraved (violet), full size, used 1x - $3
NARS Velvet Matte Lip Pencil in 413 BLKR (fuchsia), full size (.08oz), new - $16
NARS Velvet Matte Lip Pencil in Let's Go Crazy (cool fuchsia), 3/4 size (1.8g, FS is 2.4g), new - $10
Nudestix Magnetic Matte Lip Color in Greystone (greige), .088oz (FS is .1oz), new - $12
NYC Lipstick in Fragile Pink, Full Size - used as shown - $2
NYC Ultra Moist Lip Wear in Blossom #316, Full Size, Used 2x - $2
NYC Ultra Moist Lip Wear in Ruby #305, Full Size, Used 2x - $2
Sephora Collection Rouge Cream in #49 Belly-Dancing (red), mini (.03oz, FS is .14) - $2
Smashbox Be Legendary Cream Lipstick in Inspiration (cool fuchsia), .08oz (FS is .1oz), new - $10, or 2/$15
Smashbox Be Legendary Cream Lipstick in Legendary (cool red), .08oz (FS is .1oz), new - $10, or 2/$15
Smashbox Be Legendary Cream Lipstick in Tabloid (cool violet), .08oz (FS is .1oz), new - $10, or 2/$15
Ulta Lipstick in Cherry Picked 202 (medium true red), Full Size, Used 1x - $4
Urban Decay x Gwen Stefani lipstick in Spiderweb (satin red cream), full size, NIB - $12
Urban Decay Matte Revolution Lipstick in Temper (red-orange), full size, NIB - $12
Urban Decay Vice Lipstick in Phone Call (bright pink with cream finish), full size, NIB - $10
Wander Beauty Wanderout Dual Lipstick in Wanderberry (rich burgundy), half size (.07oz), new - $10
Winky Lux Matte Lip Velour in Royal (purple), .14oz, NIB - $10
Lancome Blush Subtil in in Rose Fresque, full size (.18oz), used as shown - $12
Ulta Cheek Palette in Fresh Glow Highlighter and Nude Pink Blush, .155oz, new - $5
Bronzer & Contour:
BareMinerals BareSkin Serum Bronzer in Sheer Sun, Travel Size (.1oz) - $3
St. Tropez One Night Only Finishing Gloss, travel size (.16oz), new - $2
Foundations, Concealers, CC Cream, & Powders:
Bee Naturals Tinted Moisturizer in Shade 2 (Medium/Dark), Full Size (1oz) - 1/$15 or 2/$20
Benefit Porefessional Pore Minimizing Makeup in Shade 1, travel size (.16oz), new - $10
Dermablend Loose Setting Powder, travel size (.11oz), new - $10
Jane Iredale Smooth Affair, travel size (.24oz), new - $8
Julep Cushion Complexion concealer 5-in-1 Skin Perfector with Turmeric in 200 Nude, full size, NIB - $18
Laura Geller Balance-N-Brighten Baked Foundation in Medium, full size, new - $15
Laura Mercier Translucent Loose Setting Powder, travel size (.12oz), new - $6
Pixi by Petra Beauty Bronzer in Summertime, Travel Size, .16oz - $4
Highlighters:
Laura Geller Baked Gelato Lace Illuminator in Ballerina, full size, new - $15
Laura Geller Baked Golden Rose Highlighter, full size, new - $12
P/Y/T Upgrade Highlighter in Backstage Pass (warm shimmer nude), .07oz, NIP - $8
Primers & Setting Sprays:
Becca First Light Priming Filter, travel size (.2oz), NIB - $7
Japonesque Velvet Touch Primer, travel size (.3oz), new - $8
Laura Geller Spackle Even Tone Primer, travel size (.5oz), new - $6
Pur Correcting Primer, travel size (.3oz), new - $10
Too Faced Hangover 3-in-1 Face Primer & Setting Spray, travel size (.06oz), NIB - $4
Too Faced Hangover Replenishing Face Primer, travel size (.16oz), NIB - $4
Urban Decay All Nighter Long Lasting Makeup Spray, travel size (.5oz), new - $6
Bliss Leave it to Cleavage, Travel Size, .5oz - $4
Bliss Triple Oxygen Instant Energizing Foaming Mask, new, travel size (.16oz) - $3
Clinique Dramatically Different Moisturizing Gel, new, Travel Size (.5oz) - $4
Clinique 7 Day Scrub Cream, travel size (1oz), new - $5
Daily Concepts Exfoliating Body Scrubber - $5
Elizabeth Arden Prevage Daily Anti-Aging Serum, Travel Size, .17oz - $8
Erborian Bamboo Creme Frappe Skin Reviving Gel, new, travel size (.17oz) - $4
Estée Lauder Advanced Night Micro Cleansing Foam, travel size (1oz), new - $6
Estée Lauder Revitalizing Supreme+ Global Anti-Aging Cell Power Creme, .5oz, new - $15
First Aid Beauty FAB Facial Radiance Intensive Peel, travel size (.34oz), new - $6
First Aid Beauty FAB Ultra Repair Cream, travel size (1oz), new - $6
First Aid Beauty FAB Ultra Repair Cream Intense Hydration in Honeysuckle, travel size (1oz), new - $6
First Botany Cosmeceuticals 50X Strength Hyaluronic Acid Serum, .5oz, new - $8
MAC Cleanse Off Oil, travel size (.2oz), new - $4
Milk Makeup Sunshine Oil, Sample, .1oz - $2
Murad Age Reform Nutrient-Charged Water Gel, travel size (.25oz), NIB - $10
Omorovicza Budapest Magic Moisture Mist, full size (1.7oz), NIB - $65
Omorovicza Balancing Moisturizer, full size (30ml), new - $50
Perricone MD Blue Plasma Cleansing Treatment (gentle cleanser), travel size (2oz), new - $18
Perricone MD Cold Plasma Plus + Eye Cream, travel size (.25oz), new - $30
Proactiv Skin Purifying Mask, travel size (1oz), NIB - $10
Shiseido Ultimune Power Infusing Concentrate, travel size (.33oz), new - $15
Strivectin TL Advanced Light Tightening Neck Cream, travel size (.25oz), NIB - $10
Toulon Mineral Infusion Serum-92, 1oz - $6
Whish Self-Tanner, Travel Size (.75oz) - $2
Bumble & Bumble BB Pret-a-Powder, travel size (.5oz), used 1x - $8
Essie Nail Lacquer in Say it Aint Soho (metallic copper), full size, new - $5
Fatboy Spray Putty, full size (4.8oz), new - $15
Julep Color Treat Polish in It Girl Lillian (pink creme), full size, new - $8
Living Proof TBD Multi-Tasking Styler, travel size (1oz), new - $7
OPI Nail Lacquer in Can i Bairro This Shade (dusty teal), full size, new - $5
OPI Nail Lacquer in The Taupe of the Iceberg, full size, new - $5
Phyto Paris Phytoelixir Cleansing Care Hair Cream, travel size (1oz), new - $8
Phyto Paris Intense Hydrating Brilliance Mask (Dry Hair Phytojoba), 1.7oz, NIB - $8
Matrix Total Results Miracle Creator Multi-Tasking Treatment, travel size (1oz), new - $3
Urban Decay Heavy Metal loose glitter in Reverb (blue), full size (.10oz), NIB - $10
Aromachology Exotic & Spicy EDP, full size (1.7oz), used 1x - $40
Jo Malone English Oak & Redcurrant Cologne, full size (3.4 oz), sprayed 1x - $100
Penhaligon's Heartless Helen, full size (75ml) in box, used 3x - $160
Ralph Lauren Polo Sport for Women, used as shown - $12
Travel Size
Armani Air di Gioia EDP, travel size spray (.5oz - bigger than a rollerball), NIB - $20
Armani Sky di Gioia EDP, travel size spray bottle (.5oz - bigger than a rollerball), NIB - $20
Bvlgari Au The Rouge EDC, travel size (.17oz), used 2x - $10
Candie's Candie's EDT, travel size (.5oz), about 60% remaining - $5
Lush All Good Things solid perfume, travel size (12g), used 1x as shown - $15
Origins Ginger Essence Sensuous Skin Scent, travel size (.5 oz), used as shown (about 80% remaining) - $12
Philosophy Pure Grace EDT spray, travel size (.5oz), NIB - $15
Samples 3/$5
Atelier Cologne Vanilla Insensée Cologne Absolue, sample size + postcard, new - $3
Burberry Mr. Burberry EDT, sample size (2ml), new - $2
Calvin Klein Eternity for Men EDT, sample size (1.2ml), new - $2
Clean for Men Classic EDT, sample size (1ml), new - $2
Versace Eros EDT, sample size (1ml), new - $2
Viktor & Rolf Spicebomb EDT, sample size (1.2ml), new - $2.
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The Boring Stuff: - Items come from a non-smoking home, and are all new / never used unless noted. Used items have photos showing usage. - Prices exclude shipping & insurance, to be calculated to your zip code ($5+).
ISO List
(trades only, not looking to purchase at this time. Will also look at lists!)- Imaginary Authors: A City on Fire, Memoirs of a Trespasser, O Unknown, Saint Julep, Whispered Myths
- Too Faced mini Gingerbread Spice palette
- Too Faced mini Salted Caramel palette
- Tetris x Ipsy brushes
- Christophe Robin Regenerating Hair Mask - FS or multiple minis from beauty boxes
- Necromancy Cosmetica lipsticks in Ancient Queen, Lydia, Solis Mortem, or Ophidian
- Try me on lip scrubs (new please)
- Pat McGrath Subversive palette (also interested in other gold PM items)
- Lalique fragrances: Fleur Universelle, Or Intemporel, Silver, Zamak, and Zinc
- Jo Malone fragrances: particularly interested in Bloomsbury (non-floral - Leather & Artemisia, Tobacco & Mandarin, and Whiskey & Cedarwood) and Ginger Biscuit, but try me
- Zoologist samples
- Marc Jacobs fragrances: Ginger Cocktail
- Diptyque fragrances: Eau Lente and Eau Duelle
- Ginger / clove forward fragrances in general...if someone has a decant of CB I hate perfume Gingerbread that would be awesome
Palettes, Kits, and Sets
Anastasia Beverly Hills eyeshadow singles, listed L-R, top then bottom. $25 for the 4 shadows, or priced individually below: - ABH eyeshadow single in Wine, full size, swatched - $8 - ABH eyeshadow single in Surface of the Sun, full size, swatched - $8 - ABH eyeshadow single in Chocolate Crumble, full size, new - $8 - ABH eyeshadow single in Metal, full size, swatched - $8Benefit Greeting From Cabana Glama DesTANation Makeup Kit, used as shown - $15
Karl Lagerfeld x ModelCo Minaudière with Mini Lip Kit, full size, NIB P - $100 Includes: - Minaudière hard clutch / makeup bag, with attachable (heavy) chain to use as a shoulder bag and dust bag - Full-size Lip Liner in Rosewood (0.05 oz.) - 2 Mini Lip Glosses in Ramatuelle and St Tropez Sunset (0.04 oz. each) - 2 Mini Lipsticks in Kate and Stella (0.05 oz. each)
Flesh Starshine eyeshadow palette, full size, new. Open. Back of palette. - $20
Kat von D Shade + Light eyeshadow palette in Plum, full size, used 2x as shown. Back of palette. - $10
Make Up For Ever MUFE 9 artist shadow palette Volume 4 (shades 100, 842, 240, 620, 806, 536, 126, 546, 530), full size, used 2x as shown. Back of palette. - $25
Smith & Cult Book of Eyes quad palette in Noonsuite (bronzey), full size, NIB - $25
Tarte Be Your Own Tarteist Eye & Cheek Palette, used as shown - $20
Urban Decay Naked Cherry palette, full size, NIB - $40
Eyes
Brows:Anastasia Beverly Hills ABH Clear Brow Gel, travel size (2.5ml), NIB - $7
ModelCo More Brows in Light / Medium, Full Size - $10
Ulta Brow Tint in Medium, full size, new - $6
Eyeliner:
BareMinerals Lasting Line Long-wearing Eye Liner in Absolute Black, Full Size, New - $10
Beauty For Real I-Line 24-7 Eyeliner in Black Magic, full size, new - $10
Estée Lauder Automatic Eye Pencil Duo Refill in Charcoal, full size, NIB - $10
Lancome Drama Liqui-Pencil in Noir Intense, Travel Size, .018oz - $5
Laura Geller I-Care Waterproof Eyeliner in Charcoal, Full Size - $10
NYX Jumbo Eye Pencil in Milk (white), full size, new - $3
Sephora Waterproof Contour Eye Pencil in 33 Love Affair (plum), new, travel size (.017oz) - $3
Stila Smudge Stick Waterproof Eyeliner in Stingray (jet black), full size, NIB - $15
Tarte Sex Kitten Eyeliner in Black, travel size (half size, .0035oz), new - $8
Ulta Dual-Ended Liner, in Halo & Black/Brown, Full Size - $3
Victoria's Secret Very Sexy Sparkling Eyeliner in Blacklight, Full Size, cracked cap used 2x - $5
Eyeshadow:
Kat Von D KVD Metal Crush Eyeshadow in Thunderstruck (warm white gold), full size (.1oz), swatched - $12
Laura Geller Baked Marble Eyeshadow in Amethyst, full size, new - $12
Maybelline Expert Wear Eyeshadow in Amethyst Smokes, used 3x - $2
NYC HD Color Trio Eye Shadow in Late Night Latte, Full Size, used 5x - $2
NYX Prismatic Eyeshadow Single in Punk Heart (plum with purple shimmer), full size, used as shown - $3
Trestique Color and Smudge Shadow Crayon in Marimoto Pink Pearl, full size, NIB - $15
Ulta Eye Shadow singles Duo in Petite (light beige matte) and Beauty Junkie (mauve glitter), both full size (.06oz), both new - $8 for the pair
Ulta Eye Shadow Palette in Lace, Charm, Nostalgia, Vintage, Delicate, and Seaside, .21oz, new - $6
Lashes:
Eyelure London Limited Edition Party Lashes in Snow Princess, full size, NIB - $3
Wet n Wild Fantasy Makers Blue Glow in the Dark Lashes, full size, NIB - $2
Mascara:
BellaPierre Volume Lash Waterproof Mascara, full size, new & sealed - $10
Butter London Double Decker Lashes Mascara in Black, travel size (.18oz), NIB - $6
Clinique Chubby Lash Mascara in 01 Jumbo Jet (black), travel size (4ml), NIB - $5
Clinique High Impact Mascara in black, half size (.15oz), new - $10
Clinique Lash Power Flutter-to-Full Mascara in 01 Black Onyx, travel size, new - $8
Estée Lauder Sumptuous Knockout Mascara in 01 Black, travel size (.09oz), new - $10
Julep Length Matters Mascara in Jet Black, travel size (.2oz), NIB - $8
Laura Geller StyleLASH Intense Lengthening Mascara, FS (.33oz), NWOB - $14
Maybelline Great Lash Mascara in Black, travel size (.15oz), new - $2
Pur Big Look Mascara with Argan oil, full size (.12oz), new - $6
Ulta Amped Lashes Mascara in Jet Black, full size, new - $6
Ulta Beauty Maximum Lashes Defining and Lengthening Mascara, full size, new - $6
Lips
Lip Gloss, Balms, & Stains:ChapStick Lip Butter in Green Tea Mint, full size, NIB - $2
First Aid Beauty FAB Ultra Repair Lip Therapy, full size (.5oz), new - $8
Jane Iredale SPF 15 Lip Drink Lip Balm in Flirt (sheer pink), full size, NIB - $10
MAC Vamplify Lip Gloss in Suggestive, FS, new - $12
Mally Beans High Shine Lip Gloss in Pilar Bean, DS (.07oz), new - $6
NYC City Proof Extended Wear Lip Gloss in Mauving All Night #458, Full Size - $3
Philosophy High-Gloss Lip Shine in Fresh Cream, full size (.4oz), new and sealed - $6
Pur Chrome Glaze High-Shine Lip Gloss In DIY (pinky nude), full size (0.07 oz), NIB - $10
Ulta Double Duty Lip Stain and Balm in Drama (Dark Red), full size, new - $4
Ulta Double Duty Lip Stain and Balm in Romance (Pink), full size, new - $4
Urban Decay Revolution Lip Gloss in Savage (bright pink), travel size (.05oz), new - $5
Whole Foods organic lip balm in Peppermint, full size, new and sealed - $1
Whole Foods organic lip balm in Pomegranate Orange, full size, new and sealed - $1
Whole Foods organic lip balm in Tangerine, full size, new and sealed - $1
Victoria's Secret Beauty Rush Lip Balm in Minty Kiss, Full Size - $3
Lip Liners & Primers:
Kat Von D Everlasting Lip Liner in Homegirl, full size (.25g), used 2x as shown - $10
Milani Color Statement Lip Liner in 02 True Red, full size, new - $2
Tarte Tarteist Lip Crayon in Thirsty (bright red), .01oz, NIB - $10
Lipstick - Liquid:
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in At Midnight (Fireball Red Matte), full size (.14oz), new - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in Love Potion (Bronzed Black Metallic Matte), full size (.14oz), new P - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in Pillow Talk (Victorian Pink Matte), full size (.14oz), new - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in Say Hello (Rich Marsala Matte), full size (.14oz), new - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Julep It's Whipped Matte Lip Mousse in XOXO (Femme Fuchsia Matte), full size (.14oz), new - $10 for 1, $16 for 2
Laura Geller Lip Silk Liquid Lipstick in French Kiss (soft pink), full size, new - $10
Maybelline Color Sensational Vivid Matte Liquid Lip Color in Nude Flush , Full Size, swatched 1x - $3
NYX Suede Cream Liquid Lipstick in Orange County (bright orange), travel size (.05oz), new - $4, or 2/$6
NYX Suede Cream Liquid Lipstick in Pink Lust (bright pink), travel size (.05oz), new - $4, or 2/$6
NYX Cosmetics Soft Matte Lip Cream in Transylvania (deep wine), full size (0.27 oz), new - $4, or 2/$6
OCC Lip Tar in Disintegration (pale plum metallic), full size, NIB - $12
OCC Lip Tar in Hoochie (magenta / purple), full size, NIB - $12
Tarte Lip Sculptor, Lipstick & Lipgloss, in VIP (cool nude), travel size (1.5g lipstick 1ml lipgloss), new - $10
Tarte Tarteist Lip Paint in Bae (red), full size, new - $13
Lipstick - Bullet & Pencil:
Almay Demi-Sheer Creme Lipcolor in 80 Demi Mauve, full size, used 3x as shown - $8
Bite Beauty Luminous Creme Lipstick Topper, no shade listed but a shimmery bronze, full size, new - $18
Bite Beauty High Pigment Pencil in Rhubarb, full size (.09oz), used 1x - $10
Bite Beauty Matte Cream Lipstick in Barberry (cool dark plum), full size, used as shown - $16
DCA Lipstick in No. 108, full size, used 2x as shown - $4
Estée Lauder All-Day Lipstick in Ancient Brick, full size, swatched as shown - $12
Estée Lauder Pure Color Envy Sculpting Lipstick in Irresistible, full size (.12oz), new P - $15
Illamasqua Glamour Lipstick in Tease (pale Nude), full size, used 3x - $12
Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Homegirl (satin matte berry), travel size (.04oz), used as shown - $6
Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Poe (cool metallic blue), full size, NIB - $12
Kat Von D Studded Kiss Lipstick in Roxy (purple), mini size (1g), used 1x as shown - $6
Korres Matte Twist Lipstick in Tempting Coral, full size (.05oz), new - $10
Lancome Rouge Absolu Lipstick in Rose Espace, full size, used 3x as shown - $12
Laura Geller Color Brilliance Lustrous Lipstick in Cute, full size, new - $12
Laura Geller Italian Marble lipstick in Strawberry Toffee, full size, new - $12
MAC Retro Matte Lipstick in Flat Out Fabulous (bright pink/purple), full size, new - $12
Makeup Academy Lipstick in Persian Rose (bright pink), full size, used 1x - $3
Makeup Revolution Scandalous Lipstick in Depraved (violet), full size, used 1x - $3
NARS Velvet Matte Lip Pencil in 413 BLKR (fuchsia), full size (.08oz), new - $16
NARS Velvet Matte Lip Pencil in Let's Go Crazy (cool fuchsia), 3/4 size (1.8g, FS is 2.4g), new - $10
Nudestix Magnetic Matte Lip Color in Greystone (greige), .088oz (FS is .1oz), new - $12
NYC Lipstick in Fragile Pink, Full Size - used as shown - $2
NYC Ultra Moist Lip Wear in Blossom #316, Full Size, Used 2x - $2
NYC Ultra Moist Lip Wear in Ruby #305, Full Size, Used 2x - $2
Sephora Collection Rouge Cream in #49 Belly-Dancing (red), mini (.03oz, FS is .14) - $2
Smashbox Be Legendary Cream Lipstick in Inspiration (cool fuchsia), .08oz (FS is .1oz), new - $10, or 2/$15
Smashbox Be Legendary Cream Lipstick in Legendary (cool red), .08oz (FS is .1oz), new - $10, or 2/$15
Smashbox Be Legendary Cream Lipstick in Tabloid (cool violet), .08oz (FS is .1oz), new - $10, or 2/$15
Ulta Lipstick in Cherry Picked 202 (medium true red), Full Size, Used 1x - $4
Urban Decay x Gwen Stefani lipstick in Spiderweb (satin red cream), full size, NIB - $12
Urban Decay Matte Revolution Lipstick in Temper (red-orange), full size, NIB - $12
Urban Decay Vice Lipstick in Phone Call (bright pink with cream finish), full size, NIB - $10
Wander Beauty Wanderout Dual Lipstick in Wanderberry (rich burgundy), half size (.07oz), new - $10
Winky Lux Matte Lip Velour in Royal (purple), .14oz, NIB - $10
Face
Blush:Lancome Blush Subtil in in Rose Fresque, full size (.18oz), used as shown - $12
Ulta Cheek Palette in Fresh Glow Highlighter and Nude Pink Blush, .155oz, new - $5
Bronzer & Contour:
BareMinerals BareSkin Serum Bronzer in Sheer Sun, Travel Size (.1oz) - $3
St. Tropez One Night Only Finishing Gloss, travel size (.16oz), new - $2
Foundations, Concealers, CC Cream, & Powders:
Bee Naturals Tinted Moisturizer in Shade 2 (Medium/Dark), Full Size (1oz) - 1/$15 or 2/$20
Benefit Porefessional Pore Minimizing Makeup in Shade 1, travel size (.16oz), new - $10
Dermablend Loose Setting Powder, travel size (.11oz), new - $10
Jane Iredale Smooth Affair, travel size (.24oz), new - $8
Julep Cushion Complexion concealer 5-in-1 Skin Perfector with Turmeric in 200 Nude, full size, NIB - $18
Laura Geller Balance-N-Brighten Baked Foundation in Medium, full size, new - $15
Laura Mercier Translucent Loose Setting Powder, travel size (.12oz), new - $6
Pixi by Petra Beauty Bronzer in Summertime, Travel Size, .16oz - $4
Highlighters:
Laura Geller Baked Gelato Lace Illuminator in Ballerina, full size, new - $15
Laura Geller Baked Golden Rose Highlighter, full size, new - $12
P/Y/T Upgrade Highlighter in Backstage Pass (warm shimmer nude), .07oz, NIP - $8
Primers & Setting Sprays:
Becca First Light Priming Filter, travel size (.2oz), NIB - $7
Japonesque Velvet Touch Primer, travel size (.3oz), new - $8
Laura Geller Spackle Even Tone Primer, travel size (.5oz), new - $6
Pur Correcting Primer, travel size (.3oz), new - $10
Too Faced Hangover 3-in-1 Face Primer & Setting Spray, travel size (.06oz), NIB - $4
Too Faced Hangover Replenishing Face Primer, travel size (.16oz), NIB - $4
Urban Decay All Nighter Long Lasting Makeup Spray, travel size (.5oz), new - $6
Skincare & Body
BareMinerals Skinlongevity Vital Power Infusion, full size (1.7oz), new - $35Bliss Leave it to Cleavage, Travel Size, .5oz - $4
Bliss Triple Oxygen Instant Energizing Foaming Mask, new, travel size (.16oz) - $3
Clinique Dramatically Different Moisturizing Gel, new, Travel Size (.5oz) - $4
Clinique 7 Day Scrub Cream, travel size (1oz), new - $5
Daily Concepts Exfoliating Body Scrubber - $5
Elizabeth Arden Prevage Daily Anti-Aging Serum, Travel Size, .17oz - $8
Erborian Bamboo Creme Frappe Skin Reviving Gel, new, travel size (.17oz) - $4
Estée Lauder Advanced Night Micro Cleansing Foam, travel size (1oz), new - $6
Estée Lauder Revitalizing Supreme+ Global Anti-Aging Cell Power Creme, .5oz, new - $15
First Aid Beauty FAB Facial Radiance Intensive Peel, travel size (.34oz), new - $6
First Aid Beauty FAB Ultra Repair Cream, travel size (1oz), new - $6
First Aid Beauty FAB Ultra Repair Cream Intense Hydration in Honeysuckle, travel size (1oz), new - $6
First Botany Cosmeceuticals 50X Strength Hyaluronic Acid Serum, .5oz, new - $8
MAC Cleanse Off Oil, travel size (.2oz), new - $4
Milk Makeup Sunshine Oil, Sample, .1oz - $2
Murad Age Reform Nutrient-Charged Water Gel, travel size (.25oz), NIB - $10
Omorovicza Budapest Magic Moisture Mist, full size (1.7oz), NIB - $65
Omorovicza Balancing Moisturizer, full size (30ml), new - $50
Perricone MD Blue Plasma Cleansing Treatment (gentle cleanser), travel size (2oz), new - $18
Perricone MD Cold Plasma Plus + Eye Cream, travel size (.25oz), new - $30
Proactiv Skin Purifying Mask, travel size (1oz), NIB - $10
Shiseido Ultimune Power Infusing Concentrate, travel size (.33oz), new - $15
Strivectin TL Advanced Light Tightening Neck Cream, travel size (.25oz), NIB - $10
Toulon Mineral Infusion Serum-92, 1oz - $6
Whish Self-Tanner, Travel Size (.75oz) - $2
Hair / Tools / Nail Polish / Etc
Alterna Haircare Caviar Anti-Aging Miracle Volume Mist, travel size (1.4oz), new - $6Bumble & Bumble BB Pret-a-Powder, travel size (.5oz), used 1x - $8
Essie Nail Lacquer in Say it Aint Soho (metallic copper), full size, new - $5
Fatboy Spray Putty, full size (4.8oz), new - $15
Julep Color Treat Polish in It Girl Lillian (pink creme), full size, new - $8
Living Proof TBD Multi-Tasking Styler, travel size (1oz), new - $7
OPI Nail Lacquer in Can i Bairro This Shade (dusty teal), full size, new - $5
OPI Nail Lacquer in The Taupe of the Iceberg, full size, new - $5
Phyto Paris Phytoelixir Cleansing Care Hair Cream, travel size (1oz), new - $8
Phyto Paris Intense Hydrating Brilliance Mask (Dry Hair Phytojoba), 1.7oz, NIB - $8
Matrix Total Results Miracle Creator Multi-Tasking Treatment, travel size (1oz), new - $3
Urban Decay Heavy Metal loose glitter in Reverb (blue), full size (.10oz), NIB - $10
Fragrance
Full SizeAromachology Exotic & Spicy EDP, full size (1.7oz), used 1x - $40
Jo Malone English Oak & Redcurrant Cologne, full size (3.4 oz), sprayed 1x - $100
Penhaligon's Heartless Helen, full size (75ml) in box, used 3x - $160
Ralph Lauren Polo Sport for Women, used as shown - $12
Travel Size
Armani Air di Gioia EDP, travel size spray (.5oz - bigger than a rollerball), NIB - $20
Armani Sky di Gioia EDP, travel size spray bottle (.5oz - bigger than a rollerball), NIB - $20
Bvlgari Au The Rouge EDC, travel size (.17oz), used 2x - $10
Candie's Candie's EDT, travel size (.5oz), about 60% remaining - $5
Lush All Good Things solid perfume, travel size (12g), used 1x as shown - $15
Origins Ginger Essence Sensuous Skin Scent, travel size (.5 oz), used as shown (about 80% remaining) - $12
Philosophy Pure Grace EDT spray, travel size (.5oz), NIB - $15
Samples 3/$5
Atelier Cologne Vanilla Insensée Cologne Absolue, sample size + postcard, new - $3
Burberry Mr. Burberry EDT, sample size (2ml), new - $2
Calvin Klein Eternity for Men EDT, sample size (1.2ml), new - $2
Clean for Men Classic EDT, sample size (1ml), new - $2
Versace Eros EDT, sample size (1ml), new - $2
Viktor & Rolf Spicebomb EDT, sample size (1.2ml), new - $2.
2024.05.13 15:02 Herodriver Apakah study tour/darmawisata adalah akal-akalan guru agar bisa piknik gratis dibiayai siswa?
 | Di sekolah-sekolah terutama ketika menjelang kelulusan, para guru selalu mengadakan acara darmawisata. Mau ikut ataupun tidak siswa akan dipaksa untuk membayar biaya darmawisata secara penuh. Apakah ini salah satu upaya guru bisa senang-senang berwisata dan mungkin dapat uang sampingan juga? submitted by Herodriver to indonesia [link] [comments] |
2024.05.13 08:39 wowelephants My three week experience in Japan - from the perspective of a Vietnamese-Canadian gay solo traveller who loves shopping
Just came back a few days ago from a 3 week trip to Japan. Here was my experience:
To preface:
Day 1-3: Tokyo - I landed right on Pride weekend! It was fantastic. I knew only 1 person in Tokyo and I had some friends randomly also in Tokyo the same time I was. We went out for a drag brunch, one of the first of its kind in Japan as it's still a very new concept for the country. Performers were great though. Went to the Shinjuku gay district and had a blast discovering all these cool bars all with different vibes. It's also a great place to meet locals, tourists and immigrants (not just immigrants from Western countries, but from other Asian countries like China, Vietnam, Korea etc. who now live in Japan). There was also a festival for Pride in Yoyogi park and it was crowded and fun. Great to see Tokyo really embracing Pride.
Day 4-10: Based myself in Osaka but went exploring with my Setouchi JR West Pass throughout the week I was in Osaka. Went to Hiroshima and Miyajima Island, Nagoya so I can make my way to Ghibli Park (not a part of JR West so I paid out of pocket for that), and went to Kyoto twice. Overall, I really liked Osaka. I love big cities that are lively and noisy. I don't mind the crowds when I am also shopping in the Dotonbori area. The best part was cutting my day short in Kyoto because I was feeling sick, and then discovering that there was an exclusive Sailor Moon Museum happening in Namba and deciding to get tickets for that. Best unplanned experience that was actually better than Ghibli Park. Also, shopped on Orange Street, one of the best places for fashion lovers. Osaka castle was great but the line up to get in the castle was way too long and the day was super hot. Got to a see a high school Kendo tournament going on though so that was a neat experience!
Day 11-12: Flew to Sapporo from Osaka. It was cold. Windy on the first day. Rainy on the second day. Overall, just cold. Not Canadian Winter cold, but I wish I had a warmer jacket cold. It was the few places that had cherry blossoms left. The Sapporo Beer Museum was really neat and I liked learning about the history of such an iconic brand.
Day 13-21: Back to Tokyo. I am a remote worker and my job doesn't care where I work so I took the opportunity to save some vacation days for a future trip, and just work remotely while exploring Tokyo and surrounding areas. Went to Mt. Fuji for a day and back, did not get to see the mountain as it was really rainy and foggy that day. Wento the lucky cat shrine and it was cute but also busy for such a small shrine thanks to TikTok. Went out to the gay bars two more times and had a blast and met some new people (locals and tourists) who I still keep in contact with on social media. Got a tattoo at one point - LOVE IT. The artist was amazing and so gentle, I hardly felt anything. Did some more shopping in Ginza, Shibuya, Shinjuku and my favourite place - Harajuku! Overall, I really enjoyed Tokyo and my Japan trip as this was my first time.
Time and weather:
As much as I loved having a list of some places to eat at, I abandoned it and didn't really care anymore. From high-end restaurants, cafes, local places and even fast-food, everything was delicious. I stopped caring about where I ate, and just took a walk down any street and when I saw a menu I liked, I just went in. Honestly, even Denny's in Japan was amazing (it's a different menu and not like Denny's in Canada).
Shopping experience:
Loved shopping in Japan. I brought one large suitcase that was empty, put a smaller suitcase inside of it and then had my backpack and carry on suitcase. The yen was weaker than CAD, plus if you spend over 5,500 yen, and show them your passport, you'll get the tax off and some stores offer additional discounts for foreign passport holders.
Brands I bought:
I really like Japan and I would go again, but now that I've experienced it, I now know what I like and don't like. As much as everyone raves about Kyoto, I honestly didn't care for it. Inari shrine was great, the climb to the top was great exercise and most people give up not even halfway up so it gets less and less busy. I also like Nishiki market as I love street food in Vietnam so that type of vibe of just trying everything was a great experience. But honestly, Kyoto was a tourist trap (as with most places). Gion district was cute but you definitely won't find locals hanging there unless they work there. The street will be quiet for 10 minutes, then the next set of tour buses will come, 8 taxis will come and the whole experience walking through the street is kind of ruined. Also, it just felt a bit like...Disneyland. Everything was catered to tourists. I'm not someone who even seeks out places where locals are so you can meet locals as I don't really care that much if I meet a tourist or a local, if it happens it happens, but I'm not obsessed with it. But I somehow just got this feeling that Gion has been warped into a thing for tourists who are sold an "authentic, cultural experience". It reminds me of tourist traps in Vietnam, and maybe I only have this view because I've experienced Vietnam too. Perhaps a non-Asian tourist won't see this and to each their own of course. It didn't really help that there were signs saying don't take photos on private streets, and tourists would stand in front of those signs and start taking photos...
Another take is that the Japan that's shown to you on TV shows, dramas and the news is not the Japan you'll experience (unless you're always a part of a tour group). The media portrays Japan as a nation that is ONLY Japanese people, and that you will only meet Japanese people serving you and that despite a low birth rate, immigration is just not a thing in Japan. This is false. I can't count the number of times where I'll order food, have the cashier speak to me in English and Japanese (because I don't know Japanese), sit down and then hear the cashier and other staff speak Vietnamese. It dawned on me that pretty much all the food service staff were Vietnamese in Osaka and Tokyo. Probably more in other areas if I paid attention more. I started speaking Vietnamese back to them and they were surprised that I knew they were Viet. We made some pleasant conversation and for the most part they liked that someone acknowledged that they were Vietnamese. However, one time, one girl told me not to speak Viet to her or she'll get in trouble. The staff are allowed to speak Vietnamese to each other but not to the customer because the boss didn't want people to know that they weren't being served by Japanese people. Some places were more obvious such as people from Nepal, India or Pakistan working there but spoke perfect Japanese. Some places clearly only hired Vietnamese people because they can pass as Japanese. This was more shocking to me than any culture shock I could have experienced as a Canadian.
I think there's a sense of Japan being a rich nation, aligned with the US, that it's better than places like Vietnam. But after spending some time in both countries, I saw that even buildings were built in a similar way. Narrow staircases, no baseboards, sometimes low ceilings, and businesses stacked on top of each. I loved Japan and like I said, I would go again. But I think I would stick to just to Tokyo and Osaka next time. Both are also very touristy but not in a way that it's disguised as anything else. Osaka Dotonbori is a place to shop. People know that. It's extremely crowded, but you're there to shop, not for a cultural experience. If I were to go elsewhere, I would try Okinawa and maybe a rural experience too. But other than that, I'm someone who goes for the shopping and eating experience and the nightlife. I know some people might not agree with my take, as most subs about traveling to Japan always seem to be finding an authentic Japanese experience. But being able to realize that some people serving you aren't Japanese and that most experiences are waterdown and overpriced tourist experiences, you quickly realize that authentic Japanese experiences (as with any country popular with tourists) are hard to come by.
Edit: I replaced the term expat with immigrant for sensitivity.
Edit 2:
Just to provide more details on my experience that contrasts a lot of what you may find on Reddit.
Cleanliness:
Yes, parts of Tokyo and Japan itself is clean. But I have seen some parts of Toyko with garbage on the ground. Osaka is more obviously dirty if you want to put it that way. More garbage on the street, especially at night. My local friend told me that Japanese people are just good at hiding their litter and when they think no one is watching, they do litter.
Homelessness:
I saw homelessness. In Asakusa where my hotel was, there was one homeless lady on the main street near Don Quitos. I also some when you are walking to Shibuya Scramble Square. It's a big city, I'm sure homelessness is an issue there. I saw a TikTok while I was there about homeless runway children in the Shibuya and Shinjuku area.
Shyness/Attitude:
I was always told that many Japanese wouldn't really want to make small talk with you. But honestly it really depends. I had pink hair and had my nails done with a cute fun design on them. So many cashiers, retail people etc. wanted to compliment my nails and tell me how cute they were. Even leaving Japan, as I was going through security, the security lady complimented my nails as I was placing my liquids and computers in a bin. I also carried around a Sailor Moon tote bag I got from the museum and strangers on the street were stopping me to compliment it. I'm a man and I have my nails done, pink hair and a Sailor Moon tote bag. If you give them a reason to talk to you, they will.
Weak yen:
The best part about clubbing is going to the 7-11 near the gay district alleys, buying cheap alcohol, drinking it with your newly made friends, and then going back into the club to dance some more before doing it again 20 minutes later. Alcohol is so cheap there! 450 yen for a can of Jack Daniels and Coke...that's like $2-3 Canadian. We Canadians usually pay $6 or $8 for a can!
More on fashion:
I tried my best to avoid buying brands I could get in North America but sometimes the exchange rate and no tax was too good. Commes Des Garcon Play sneakers in Canada are $200 before tax. Found a design that isn't available in Canada, no tax and the conversion made them $160. Had to get them. Bought a Dior cardholder that's $480 before tax in Canada. No tax and converted price in Japan turned out to be $390. I say definitely look for the Japanese brands you can't get back home because you'll come back with more unique pieces (even if it's a popular, mass product in Japan) but also if you have your eye on designer pieces, chances are the piece is cheaper in Japan. The only thing I found that Hermes and Chanel were the same price or more expensive in Japan. But other brands like Gucci, Dior, Prada, Burberry and Louis Vuitton were cheaper.
Even Uniqlo is cheaper. The viral bag that people like is $25 in Canada. In Japan it's $13. There was a Golden Week sale that made the bags $8 each.
I did avoid some brands like A.P.C or Diesel (which is everywhere in Japan) because despite it being cheaper, I know when there's a sale on SSENSE it's even cheaper than what you could get in Japan.
submitted by wowelephants to JapanTravel [link] [comments]
To preface:
- I'm Canadian, Vietnamese, gay man, solo traveller
- I like new experiences and eating food, but I am not one to seek out the best or hottest place to go or obsessively look for tips on social media
- I like shopping and fashion and love discovering brands I am unable to get in North America
- I've been to Vietnam and I understand the very complex socioeconomical discrimination between Asians and Southeast Asians, colorism and what is considered a "rich" Asian country and a "poor" or "jungle" Asian country. I will have a hot take on this later in my breakdown.
Day 1-3: Tokyo - I landed right on Pride weekend! It was fantastic. I knew only 1 person in Tokyo and I had some friends randomly also in Tokyo the same time I was. We went out for a drag brunch, one of the first of its kind in Japan as it's still a very new concept for the country. Performers were great though. Went to the Shinjuku gay district and had a blast discovering all these cool bars all with different vibes. It's also a great place to meet locals, tourists and immigrants (not just immigrants from Western countries, but from other Asian countries like China, Vietnam, Korea etc. who now live in Japan). There was also a festival for Pride in Yoyogi park and it was crowded and fun. Great to see Tokyo really embracing Pride.
Day 4-10: Based myself in Osaka but went exploring with my Setouchi JR West Pass throughout the week I was in Osaka. Went to Hiroshima and Miyajima Island, Nagoya so I can make my way to Ghibli Park (not a part of JR West so I paid out of pocket for that), and went to Kyoto twice. Overall, I really liked Osaka. I love big cities that are lively and noisy. I don't mind the crowds when I am also shopping in the Dotonbori area. The best part was cutting my day short in Kyoto because I was feeling sick, and then discovering that there was an exclusive Sailor Moon Museum happening in Namba and deciding to get tickets for that. Best unplanned experience that was actually better than Ghibli Park. Also, shopped on Orange Street, one of the best places for fashion lovers. Osaka castle was great but the line up to get in the castle was way too long and the day was super hot. Got to a see a high school Kendo tournament going on though so that was a neat experience!
Day 11-12: Flew to Sapporo from Osaka. It was cold. Windy on the first day. Rainy on the second day. Overall, just cold. Not Canadian Winter cold, but I wish I had a warmer jacket cold. It was the few places that had cherry blossoms left. The Sapporo Beer Museum was really neat and I liked learning about the history of such an iconic brand.
Day 13-21: Back to Tokyo. I am a remote worker and my job doesn't care where I work so I took the opportunity to save some vacation days for a future trip, and just work remotely while exploring Tokyo and surrounding areas. Went to Mt. Fuji for a day and back, did not get to see the mountain as it was really rainy and foggy that day. Wento the lucky cat shrine and it was cute but also busy for such a small shrine thanks to TikTok. Went out to the gay bars two more times and had a blast and met some new people (locals and tourists) who I still keep in contact with on social media. Got a tattoo at one point - LOVE IT. The artist was amazing and so gentle, I hardly felt anything. Did some more shopping in Ginza, Shibuya, Shinjuku and my favourite place - Harajuku! Overall, I really enjoyed Tokyo and my Japan trip as this was my first time.
Time and weather:
- rainy for half of it, warm for the other half. Chilly in Sapporo.
- was in Sapporo and Tokyo for Golden Week. Not as crazy as everyone says it would be. It was much crazier leading up to Golden Week. Was still able to get reserved seats tickets at the station itself easily and no need to book in advanced online. Honestly, didn't even bother booking online as the website isn't very clear especially when you have a JR West pass already.
- Digital Suica card on my iPhone. Worked for everything. So easy to use and got me around everywhere including the Kansai region and Sapporo.
- Right when I got off the plane, I got on a Airport Limo bus which was so much easier. No need to know which station to get off from and they had space for all my luggage. Took me to a hotel stop that was 2 blocks away from my hotel. Honestly, after a 9 hour flight, a limo bus is worth the $25 instead of the train and subway.
- Subways became easy to use and once you get to used to them, Osaka and Sapporo was easy to navigate as it was similar to Tokyo's subway.
- If you have a JR pass, pay attention to if you can use it on the local JR lines. Typically, you can. I forgot, and I tapped my Suica to enter a JR local line in Hiroshima, then I realized I could use my JR pass, so I stuck my pass in the machine and it let me through. But because I never tapped my Suica to leave the JR line in Hiroshima, my Suica card stopped working for train stations because it thinks I'm still on a trip in Hiroshima. Had to go to a subway guard (the ones in the booth next to the station gates where you tap your Suica), told them what happend using Google Translate and showed them my JR pass and they understood right away. They took my phone and put it on this scanner and it reset my Suica card. Very easy as if they've done this a million times before (they have).
- Used the convenience store and hotels to send my big luggage to my next hotel so I wouldn't have to deal with it on the train or train stations or flying with it when I flew from Osaka to Sapporo. Such a great service. Just bring your luggage to your hotel reception and tell them your next stop and when you want the luggage by. They will try to get it there the day you requested or the day after. Just be prepared to live out of your carry on for 1 or 2 days. If your hotel doesn't offer it, any 7-11, Family Mart or Lawson offers it. Lawson uses Japan Postal, 7-11 and Family Mart uses Yamato. I also sent my luggage to the airport before I had to leave Japan and it was a breeze. But be warned, for any transfer to an airport, it has to be 2 days before your departure flight or it won't make it on time.
As much as I loved having a list of some places to eat at, I abandoned it and didn't really care anymore. From high-end restaurants, cafes, local places and even fast-food, everything was delicious. I stopped caring about where I ate, and just took a walk down any street and when I saw a menu I liked, I just went in. Honestly, even Denny's in Japan was amazing (it's a different menu and not like Denny's in Canada).
Shopping experience:
Loved shopping in Japan. I brought one large suitcase that was empty, put a smaller suitcase inside of it and then had my backpack and carry on suitcase. The yen was weaker than CAD, plus if you spend over 5,500 yen, and show them your passport, you'll get the tax off and some stores offer additional discounts for foreign passport holders.
Brands I bought:
- Onitsuka Tiger - best shoes ever. So stylish, comfy and very popular in Asia.
- Beams - they carry a variety of brands and their own brands.
- FR2 - great streetwear brand. They have different stores in different cities and exclusive pieces for that city.
- In Osaka, look for The Goodland Market on Orange Street. They carry brands that emphasize sustainability. Very laid-back and casual.
- Master-piece - great brand for bags.
- Saturdays NYC - this is an American brand but has a store in Tokyo. Loved the vibes. Very laid back.
- Rage Blue - easy styles with nice colours and cuts. Often had sales going on. Has a variety of brands.
- United Arrows - great styles here too. You'll be coming back to your country so fashionable.
I really like Japan and I would go again, but now that I've experienced it, I now know what I like and don't like. As much as everyone raves about Kyoto, I honestly didn't care for it. Inari shrine was great, the climb to the top was great exercise and most people give up not even halfway up so it gets less and less busy. I also like Nishiki market as I love street food in Vietnam so that type of vibe of just trying everything was a great experience. But honestly, Kyoto was a tourist trap (as with most places). Gion district was cute but you definitely won't find locals hanging there unless they work there. The street will be quiet for 10 minutes, then the next set of tour buses will come, 8 taxis will come and the whole experience walking through the street is kind of ruined. Also, it just felt a bit like...Disneyland. Everything was catered to tourists. I'm not someone who even seeks out places where locals are so you can meet locals as I don't really care that much if I meet a tourist or a local, if it happens it happens, but I'm not obsessed with it. But I somehow just got this feeling that Gion has been warped into a thing for tourists who are sold an "authentic, cultural experience". It reminds me of tourist traps in Vietnam, and maybe I only have this view because I've experienced Vietnam too. Perhaps a non-Asian tourist won't see this and to each their own of course. It didn't really help that there were signs saying don't take photos on private streets, and tourists would stand in front of those signs and start taking photos...
Another take is that the Japan that's shown to you on TV shows, dramas and the news is not the Japan you'll experience (unless you're always a part of a tour group). The media portrays Japan as a nation that is ONLY Japanese people, and that you will only meet Japanese people serving you and that despite a low birth rate, immigration is just not a thing in Japan. This is false. I can't count the number of times where I'll order food, have the cashier speak to me in English and Japanese (because I don't know Japanese), sit down and then hear the cashier and other staff speak Vietnamese. It dawned on me that pretty much all the food service staff were Vietnamese in Osaka and Tokyo. Probably more in other areas if I paid attention more. I started speaking Vietnamese back to them and they were surprised that I knew they were Viet. We made some pleasant conversation and for the most part they liked that someone acknowledged that they were Vietnamese. However, one time, one girl told me not to speak Viet to her or she'll get in trouble. The staff are allowed to speak Vietnamese to each other but not to the customer because the boss didn't want people to know that they weren't being served by Japanese people. Some places were more obvious such as people from Nepal, India or Pakistan working there but spoke perfect Japanese. Some places clearly only hired Vietnamese people because they can pass as Japanese. This was more shocking to me than any culture shock I could have experienced as a Canadian.
I think there's a sense of Japan being a rich nation, aligned with the US, that it's better than places like Vietnam. But after spending some time in both countries, I saw that even buildings were built in a similar way. Narrow staircases, no baseboards, sometimes low ceilings, and businesses stacked on top of each. I loved Japan and like I said, I would go again. But I think I would stick to just to Tokyo and Osaka next time. Both are also very touristy but not in a way that it's disguised as anything else. Osaka Dotonbori is a place to shop. People know that. It's extremely crowded, but you're there to shop, not for a cultural experience. If I were to go elsewhere, I would try Okinawa and maybe a rural experience too. But other than that, I'm someone who goes for the shopping and eating experience and the nightlife. I know some people might not agree with my take, as most subs about traveling to Japan always seem to be finding an authentic Japanese experience. But being able to realize that some people serving you aren't Japanese and that most experiences are waterdown and overpriced tourist experiences, you quickly realize that authentic Japanese experiences (as with any country popular with tourists) are hard to come by.
Edit: I replaced the term expat with immigrant for sensitivity.
Edit 2:
Just to provide more details on my experience that contrasts a lot of what you may find on Reddit.
Cleanliness:
Yes, parts of Tokyo and Japan itself is clean. But I have seen some parts of Toyko with garbage on the ground. Osaka is more obviously dirty if you want to put it that way. More garbage on the street, especially at night. My local friend told me that Japanese people are just good at hiding their litter and when they think no one is watching, they do litter.
Homelessness:
I saw homelessness. In Asakusa where my hotel was, there was one homeless lady on the main street near Don Quitos. I also some when you are walking to Shibuya Scramble Square. It's a big city, I'm sure homelessness is an issue there. I saw a TikTok while I was there about homeless runway children in the Shibuya and Shinjuku area.
Shyness/Attitude:
I was always told that many Japanese wouldn't really want to make small talk with you. But honestly it really depends. I had pink hair and had my nails done with a cute fun design on them. So many cashiers, retail people etc. wanted to compliment my nails and tell me how cute they were. Even leaving Japan, as I was going through security, the security lady complimented my nails as I was placing my liquids and computers in a bin. I also carried around a Sailor Moon tote bag I got from the museum and strangers on the street were stopping me to compliment it. I'm a man and I have my nails done, pink hair and a Sailor Moon tote bag. If you give them a reason to talk to you, they will.
Weak yen:
The best part about clubbing is going to the 7-11 near the gay district alleys, buying cheap alcohol, drinking it with your newly made friends, and then going back into the club to dance some more before doing it again 20 minutes later. Alcohol is so cheap there! 450 yen for a can of Jack Daniels and Coke...that's like $2-3 Canadian. We Canadians usually pay $6 or $8 for a can!
More on fashion:
I tried my best to avoid buying brands I could get in North America but sometimes the exchange rate and no tax was too good. Commes Des Garcon Play sneakers in Canada are $200 before tax. Found a design that isn't available in Canada, no tax and the conversion made them $160. Had to get them. Bought a Dior cardholder that's $480 before tax in Canada. No tax and converted price in Japan turned out to be $390. I say definitely look for the Japanese brands you can't get back home because you'll come back with more unique pieces (even if it's a popular, mass product in Japan) but also if you have your eye on designer pieces, chances are the piece is cheaper in Japan. The only thing I found that Hermes and Chanel were the same price or more expensive in Japan. But other brands like Gucci, Dior, Prada, Burberry and Louis Vuitton were cheaper.
Even Uniqlo is cheaper. The viral bag that people like is $25 in Canada. In Japan it's $13. There was a Golden Week sale that made the bags $8 each.
I did avoid some brands like A.P.C or Diesel (which is everywhere in Japan) because despite it being cheaper, I know when there's a sale on SSENSE it's even cheaper than what you could get in Japan.
2024.05.13 08:28 twindigital Kenali 5 Jenis Bantal Tidur yang Bagus dan Nyaman
 | https://preview.redd.it/guh5uzs5150d1.jpg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e20ded9726b7f7aed25da6b704839bd64e2fa4a2 submitted by twindigital to u/twindigital [link] [comments] Jenis bantal untuk tidur cukup banyak. Namun tahukah kamu bantal yang bagus berbahan apa? Apakah berbahan sintetis, silikon, atau kain spunbond? Dalam artikel ini Twin Digital akan mengajak kamu mengenali jenis-jenis bahan bantal yang bagus sehingga membuat kamu tidur dengan nyaman. 5 Jenis Bahan Bantal yang Bagus1. Bantal MicrofiberSalah satu bantal yang banyak diburu masyarakat adalah bantal microfiber. Sebetulnya bantal microfiber itu apa sih? Bantal microfiber adalah bantal yang terbuat dari serat sintetis yang sangat halus. Ukuran serat microfiber ini seperempat ukuran serat wol, dan sepertiga ukuran serat katun. Keunggulan jenis bantal ini antara lain, memiliki harga yang terjangkau dan mudah dirawat. Bagi penderita alergi bantal microfiber sangat direkomendasikan karena bersifat hypoallergenic alias tidak menimbulkan alergi seperti bantal serat alami pada umumnya.2. Bantal Memory FoamKalau kamu suka mendengkur saat tidur, bantal memory foam sangat cocok. Jenis bantal ini mendukung posisi leher sewaktu tidur dengan baik sehingga mengurangi risiko mendengkur. Bantal memory foam sendiri terbuat dari bahan sejenis busa bernama poliuretan. Tekstur bantal ini sangat kencang sehingga bagus untuk menghilangkan sakit leher. Sayangnya, sebagian orang menilai bantal ini terlalu panas.3. Bantal DacronBantal dacron adalah salah satu bantal yang disukai sebagai alas kepala saat tidur. Jenis bantal ini tidak menimbulkan alergi dan aman untuk anak-anak. Selain itu, bantal dacron juga sangat baik untuk kesehatan karena dapat menahan otot leher. Keunggulan lainnya adalah ketahanan bantal yang cukup lama. Bahan sintetis sebagai pengisi bantal akan dapat kembali ke bentuk semula meski sudah dicuci berkali-kali. Oh ya, kalau kamu bosan dengan motif bantal yang polos saja, kamu bisa custom bantal dacron di Twin Digital.4. Bantal WolBahan yang terbuat dari wol terbilang mudah kembang kempis. Namun jenis bantal ini mampu mengatur suhu panas di tubuh. Seperti bantal microfiber, bantal wol juga tidak menyebabkan alergi atau hypoallergenic. Jika dibandingkan dengan jenis bantal yang lainnya, bantal wol cenderung lebih sulit perawatannya dan lebih berat. Di samping itu, saat pertama kali bantal ini akan mengeluarkan bau tak sedap.5. Bantal Bulu AngsaJenis bantal yang terakhir ini pasti cukup familiar bagi banyak orang. Bantal bulu angsa memiliki tekstur bahan yang berkualitas tinggi. Keunggulan lainnya, bantal ini juga tidak mudah menyusut dan lebih higienis karena terbuat dari bahan kapuk. Namun kekenyalan bantal bulu angsa yang empuk ini mungkin tidak disukai orang-orang yang menyukai tekstur bantal yang keras. Dari segi harga pun, bantal ini memiliki harga yang lebih tinggi. Harga tersebut biasanya berkisar antara 150 ribu hingga 250 ribu.Dari kelima jenis bahan bantal di atas, mana yang paling cocok menjadi alas tidurmu? sebagai digital printing terbaik di Jakarta, Twin Digital juga menyediakan bantal custom. Kamu bisa custom teks, foto, atau desain sesuai keinginan kamu dengan harga yang terjangkau. Lihat produk bantal custom terbaik di sini! Temukan Twin Digital di:Situs Web: twindigital.id Situs Blog : twindigital.co.id Facebook. : twindigital.id Instagram: twindigital.id Tiktok: twindigital.id Shopee: twindigitalprinting dan twin_creative Tokopedia: twin digital dan digital printing indonesia |
2024.05.13 08:21 twindigital 5 Manfaat Pelihara Kucing yang Jarang Diketahui Pemilik Anabul
 | https://preview.redd.it/buea0ufqz40d1.jpg?width=1920&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=5279d4f8ec2d3fa4fa4115ed53f1048cdc08864c submitted by twindigital to u/twindigital [link] [comments] Manfaat pelihara kucing sangatlah banyak, termasuk meningkatkan mood pada saat-saat tertentu. Sebagai pemilik kucing, tahukah kamu bahwa ada banyak manfaat lain dari memiliki hewan peliharaan? Hewan peliharaan terutama kucing adalah teman yang sangat baik. Mereka bisa membuat kamu bahagia, dan juga baik untuk kesehatan fisik dan mental kamu. Inilah 6 manfaat pelihara kucing sebagai hewan peliharaan di rumah. Apa Saja Keuntungan Memelihara Kucing?Kamu pasti pernah mendengar pendapat yang mengatakan bahwa memelihara kucing dapat membawa berkah dan rezeki. Apakah kamu salah satu yang mempercayainya? atau justru kamu memelihara kucing dengan senang hati tanpa terlalu memikirkan keuntungannya. Nah, di bawah ini adalah lima manfaat pelihara kucing yang jarang disadari pemiliknya.1. Meningkatkan Sistem Kekebalan TubuhPercaya nggak sih salah satu manfaat pelihara kucing ialah meningkatkan sistem kekebalan tubuh. Kucing kamu mungkin bermain-main di luar (gunakan kalung hewan akrilik supaya nggak hilang). Hewan peliharaan kamu mungkin juga membawa berbagai jenis kotoran ke dalam rumah. Ini tidak berarti buruk. Sebab kuman tambahan dapat membantu meningkatkan kekebalan tubuh kamu loh.2. Menurunkan Tingkat Stres dan KecemasanSiapa yang tidak tahu bahwa menghabiskan waktu dengan hewan peliharaan membuat kamu bahagia dan meningkatkan energi positif dalam diri kamu. Banyak penelitian menunjukkan tentang manfaat pelihara kucing, terutama pengaruhnya terhadap penurunan tingkat stres. Bahkan mengenalkan kucing kepada orang jompo membantu mereka mengurangi depresi dan kecemasan. Pantes nyaman banget ya rebahan bareng anabul.3. Meningkatkan Interaksi SosialTahu nggak sih manfaat pelihara kucing tak jauh berbeda dengan memelihara anjing atau hewan peliharaan lainnya. Kamu pasti suka kan mengajak ngobrol kucing peliharaan kamu yang cantik. Sebuah eksperimen dengan anjing menunjukkan bahwa 69% pemilik anjing memiliki lebih banyak interaksi sosial daripada mereka yang tidak memeliharanya. Wah, luar biasa ya manfaat memelihara anabul.4. Mengatasi KesepianManfaat pelihara kucing yang berikutnya, membantu mengatasi kesepian pemiliknya. Sebuah penelitian yang dilakukan Habri.org menunjukkan 80% pemilik hewan peliharaan mengatakan mereka tidak kesepian dengan adanya hewan peliharaan mereka. Disadari atau tidak, memelihara hewan termasuk kucing membuat pemiliknya merasa lebih aman dan kurang kesepian. Studi yang dilakukan selama pandemi Covid-19 juga menunjukkan bahwa hewan peliharaan memberi dukungan yang cukup besar.5. Membantu Anak BelajarMemiliki hewan peliharaan dapat mengajarkan anak belajar bertanggung jawab. Bukan rahasia lagi jika anak-anak menyukai hewan peliharaan apalagi kucing. Anak-anak tidak hanya mempelajari cara merawat dan memeliharanya, seperti memberi makan, membersihkan kandang, hingga menunjukkan rasa cinta kepada mereka. Selama merawat mereka, anak-anak juga dapat mengembangkan keterampilan berempati dan bertanggung jawab terhadap hewan.Hewan peliharaan termasuk kucing melakukan banyak hal unik dan lucu untuk pemiliknya. Kamu dapat membalas cinta dengan menjadi pemilik yang bertanggung jawab dan menyayanginya. Kalung hewan dapat membantu kamu untuk membuat peliharaan kamu senang dan tetap aman di manapun. Dijamin mereka akan terlihat tambah lucu! Beli di sini! Temukan Twin Digital di:Situs Web: twindigital.id Situs Blog : twindigital.co.id Facebook. : twindigital.id Instagram: twindigital.id Tiktok: twindigital.id Shopee: twindigitalprinting dan twin_creative Tokopedia: twin digital dan digital printing indonesia |
2024.05.12 22:25 EnvironmentalAd6029 Revisiting California's 2022 statewide races
 | Superintendent of Public Instruction, D+27 submitted by EnvironmentalAd6029 to AngryObservation [link] [comments] Tony Thurmond, who was originally not registered in any party in his narrow 2018 win, would go on to register as a Democrat during the 2020 election. He was facing Lance Christensen, a conservative candidate who ran on "anti woke school policy" and was backed by the CA GOP. Flyers were sent out urging republicans to back Lance. Thurmond, while benefiting mostly from incumbency, gave democrats the largest win of the night. Thurmond would surprisingly underperform in Hispanic areas compared to rural white counties, but ran fantastic on the coast. Senate, D+22 Padilla would win with the second largest win of the night, running well in Southern California and the hispanic central valley. Padilla would hold onto Lake County and SJC which have been reliably Democrat for the last few decades. Padilla also did good in San Diego and Imperial counties, winning them both by over 15 points. Secretary of State, D+20 The third biggest Dem win of the night, Weber played a pivotal roll being appointed by Newsom, and certifying the recall of the governor. Weber would go on to win by 20, a rightward shift from Padilla's win in 2018. Bernosky would narrowly flip a few southern California counties, but did worse in Hispanic areas compared to upcoming state republicans. For example, Imperial county was still a 15+ point win for Weber even with its rapid rightward shift. Lt. Gov, D+19 A three point rightward shift from the last dem win, a few cracks would begin to show. The central valley would flip hard against Kounalakis, as well as some suburban reversion in the southern counties. The incumbent would hold onto SJC county by just 13 votes, as well as barely holding onto the Dem stronghold county of Lake by under a point. Governor, D+18 Dahle would go on to put on an impressive performance for someone out-funded by 30-1. Dahle cut into Southern California margins, securing 5%+ wins in Riverside and San Bernardino, as well as cutting SD to 10 points and 88% Hispanic Imperial to 10. Dahle flipped SJC by 3 points, as well as being the first republican to win Lake county in over a 15 years. However this did solidify some ancestral Republican areas (San Diego, San Luis Obispo, Ventura) as pretty reliably democrat, as the movement in them could be pertained to single digits. Ski county also saw minimal shifts, with Inyo county not really budging much from 2018. Treasurer, D+17 Although Guerro would overperform Dahle by percentage, it looks like an underperfomance on the map. Ma would fumble more in San Diego and Orange county, as well as deal the damages of 1-2 point shifts in urban areas. Guerro surprisingly underperformed Dahle in the central valley with Hispanic voters, and only narrowly won SJC and Lake. Guerro still did overperform due to suburban strength even if the rural were a bit more leftward leaning. Controller, D+10 For reference, Arizona's treasurer race was a larger win than this. Chen benefitted from high white and asian suburban support, but underperformed in Hispanic areas even compared to Dahle. The only exception here was SJC in which San Joaquin (city) would swing towards Chen. Chen dropped San Diego county within 2 points, and almost cracked 38% in Los Angeles county. Chen was also the only Republican of the night to win San Luis Obispo county, benefitting from higher income folks backing him over Cohen. This was the largest republican win of the night and a vast overperfomance from the last race. |
2024.05.12 22:21 Dopamine_rush_001 Garapal yung ex ng live in partner ng ate kong tibo
May mga tao talagang garapal noh? Like wala talaga silang kahihiyan kung anong ginawa nila sa isang tao, ung tipong asal squammy na sila pero they just can't reflect on their actions. Ganito kasi yun, yung ate ko has been in a relationship with someone for almost 17 years and dito nakatira yung babae from 2009 until 2021. Ang kwento ng live in partner ng ate ko kaya sya umalis dun sa tinitirhan nya sa bulacan kasi muntikan na syang i-grape nung bayaw nya (ewan ko kung legit na muntikan na syang ma-grape kasi HINDI naman sya nagreport sa pulis that time basta nalang sya nagpaalam sa nanay ko na if pwede daw ba syang makitira dito sa bahay namin kahit pansamantala lang hanggang maayos lang daw nya yung issue nya sa ate nya at kapag nakapag usap usap na sila ng pamilya nya regarding sa nangyari. Dahil nga maawain yung nanay ko at bukas naman syang tumulong dun sa jowa ng ate ko edi pinatira nalang nya.
Fastforward, after several years, napapansin namin na parang kalaunan nagiging "feeling anak" na si live in partner ng ate ko, alam mo yung feeling close na to the point na lahat ng matters dito sa bahay nakekealam sya, nadidisrespect nya na si mama, pero kahit ganun ginawa nya di sya pinaalis dito sa bahay kasi ang iniisip ng nanay ko "baka kaya ganyan ung ugali kasi literal na parang pinabayaan na ng pamilya nya, intindihin nalang kasi mahal yan ng ate mo". Eto kami si puro intindi ang ginawa, to the point na nilalait nya na pati ako kung anu anong sinasabi ng bruha lalo na kapag nalalasing sya, at parang naging parang pipe at sunud-sunuran yung ate ko sa mga pinagagagawa nya (LITERAL na BULAG sa pagibig) kalaunan, yung galit na pinoproject nila sa akin naging mas grabe, everytime na nalalasing silang dalawa ako yung pulutan na kesyo "bakit pa pinag aral ni mother yang kapatid mo sa private eh maglalandi at mag aasawa lang naman din yan". Sa almost everyday na panglalait nila sakin hindi ako lumaban, hindi ako nakipagsagutan sa kanila kasi that time natatakot ako e, pag nagsusumbong ako sa nanay ko wala naman din nagiging resolution kasi kapag pinagsasabihan sila ni mama, lalo lang lumalala kasi si girl is magaling "magpavictim" at "mag twist ng kwento" kapag kino confront na sya.
Hindi ko alam kung saan nanggagaling yung galit ng ate ko at nung jowa nya kasi pinakitaan ko naman sila nang maayos, Oo may instance na may mga pinag awayan kami nung 2013 pero sila naman nag umpisa nun, ginulpi pa nga ako ng ate ko para dun imagine 14 years old gugulpihin dahil lng hindi nasunod yung inutos na balatan yung nilagang talong, samantalang wala naman silang ginagawa during that time kundi maglaklakan. Dati kaming close ng ate ko pero dahil ginagatungan at sinusulsulan ng karelasyon nya naging sobrang layo na ng gap naming magkapatid. Simula 2013 hanggang ngayon hindi ko na kinakausap yung ate ko, ewan parang naumay na din ako kasi naaalala ko lang yung pangbubully, emotional abuse, verbal abuse.
Hindi ako lumaban sa kanila until nung April 2021, nagkaroon ng gulo dito sa bahay, ALAM NYO BA KUNG SINONG CAUSE? Syempre yung jowa ng ate ko, dahil lang sa aso, pinagbintangan na nila yung 5 years old kong pamangkin na "baka sipain yung aso" nila kaya ayun nagkarambulan na dito sa bahay nag away yung kuya ko at yung ate ko at nauwi pa sa baranggayan. Dahil sa instance na yun tuluyan nang nagkalamat yung relasyon bilang magkapatid ng kuya ko at ate ko dati-dati kasi close sila e may times din na mas kinakampihan ng kuya ko yung ate ko, alam mo yung tipong sanggang dikit sila sa pambubully sakin hahahaha ang ending silang dalawa din mag aaway dahil Lang sa sulsul na jowa ng ate ko. Ayun na nga dahil nga involve na yung minor kong pamangkin na pinabintangan nila na baka sipain yung aso nila, dun na ako sumabog at binulalas ko na yung galit ko sa knla, pati yung hipag ko na matagal nang nagtimpi at nakisama sa knila nang maayos sumabog na din (kasi nga pinagbintangan yung anak nya na baka sipain yung aso, hello 5 yrs old lang pamangkin ko at naka monitor naman ung hipag ko sa bata at di naman tanga ung hipag ko pra kunsintihin ung anak na sipain ung aso)
Fast forward na nga eto na kumapit ka... Dahil nga sa kahihiyan (pero i doubt na meron sila nun) nag alsabalutan ung ate ko at yung jowa nyang bruha sa bahay, like literal na naghakot sila ng mga gamit nila siguro mga one week or two weeks after nung away nila ni kuya. Naghanap sila ng apartment na mga tatlong kanto lang halos ung layo mula sa bahay namin. Ayun na nga nung umalis sila, life must go on kami alam mo ung parang nakahinga kami ng maluwag kasi nawala ung toxic dito sa bahay. Akala namin okay ung relasyon nila kasi diba nakabukod na sila, akala namin literal na through thick and thin ung relasyon nila kasi kayang kaya ngang kalimutan at abandonahin ng ate ko ung pamilya nya para sa babaeng yun e pero akala lang pala namin yun pero nabalitaan nalang namin na si bruha iniwan na si ate sa apartment nila at sumama sa ibang tibo (kasamahan ata sa trabaho ni bruha yung shibuli na pinalit nya sa ate ko) as per sa kwento ng ate ko kay mama, iniwan daw sya ni bruha sa paupahan kasi nagkakaroon na sila ng financial issues or sguro sa dami ng utang ni bruha like home credit at credit card kaya nagkakaroon sila ng issue sa pera. Kaya sguro ang ending imbes na kaharapin ni bruha ung mga pinagkakautangan nya sumama nalang sya sa ibang tibo na akala nyang mas may pera o mas capable na magprovide sa kanya ng mga luho nya. Nalaman na rin namin na may karelasyon ng iba si bruha nung inistalk namin ung fb nya, proud na proud sila nung shibuli eh todo flex sila sa social media (malas nya di nya ako nablock sa fb) ung iba kong kamag anak lang ata naka block sa knya nun kaya di sila aware na may ibang jowa na si gurl. After nga nun mga bandang February 2023 umuwi na yung ate ko sa bahay kasi pinakiusapan nya si mama at nangako sya na tinapos na nya yung relasyon nila ni bruha dahil nga niloko sya at pinagpalit sa ibang shibuli. Pero dahil medyo shunga at puro alak nalang laman ng utak ng ate ko, konting iyak lang sa knya nung ex nyang haliparot binalikan nya na ung babae,na kesyo binubugbog daw at inaaway sya ng pinalit nyang tibo,masyado daw selosa at isip bata ung tibo na pinalit nya pati daw ung nanay nung shibuli is minamaltrato na din sya (classic pavictim style) ayun ang ending konting paawa lang, binalikan ulit ng ate ko ung babae, naging sila ulit at andito nanaman si gurl sa bahay na parang wala syang inagrabyado hahahaha alam mo yung tipong parang hindi sya nagrereflect sa actions nya, na tipong lahat ng tao need mag adjust sa knya kesyo "inaatake ng anxiety" ayan dinadahilan ni ate kesyo na trauma daw si gaga dun sa shibuli,ganyan sinabi nyang dahilan nun nung nag away kami ng ate ko kesyo "ina anxiety daw" kaya daw dapat hindi daw dapat ini-stress hahahaha taena bakit kami mag aadjust sa shota mong anak ni lucifer? Like wtf? Nasa mid 30's na yang shota mong usemanipulative b!*ch pero hindi mo maiwan para sa ano? Nanghihinayang kang iwan kasi may pinagsamahan na kayo?. Taena sana malaman ng ate ko na sobrang tanga nya sa part na yon, sasamahan lang naman sya ng babae na yan depende sa pakinabang sa knya e, sasamahan lang sya sa laklakan, sasamahan lang sya nyan sa paglulustay or pagwawaldas ng pera, sasamahan lang sya sa kadramahan (trauma plus trauma = drama & chaos) ni pagiging anak mo kay mama sinasantabi mo na pra sa babaeng yan samantalang si mama natatakbuhan mo kapag may problema ka specifically nung naospital ka, nung wala kang trabaho, nung pandemic na wala kang maayos na hanap buhay, nung nagkaproblema ka sa mata mo, nung wala kang pang requirements nung nag aapply ka, diba si mama yun lahat? Anong natulong ng karelasyon mong manggagamit? WALA! Kung meron man, di ganun kagrabe compare sa sakripisyo ni mama. Tapos sasabihin mong mismong pamilya mo yung nag cacause sayo ng stress??? hahahaha kaloka ewan sana hanggang pagtanda nyo damayan ka nyan, sana lang di ka nya ulit iwanan, sana lang di ka nyan ulit traydorin, sana lahat ng sakripisyo mo para sknya suklian nya lahat balang araw kasi for sure kaming pamilya mo mismo malayo na malayo na loob sayo kapag dumating na yung time na yon, kaya magipon ka ng pera para sa pagtanda mo, wala na din kaming ganang umalalay sayo after all the sh!ts na dinanas namin sayo/sainyo at sa mga kasinungalingan mo.
Sa mga nakakabasa neto, sana wag dumating sa punto na magpapakatanga kayo pra sa pagibig, sana wag dumating yung time na yung kakayahan nyong magisip at desisyon nang tama ay ma-cloud ng pagmamahal nyo para sa tao. Dahil it is never our duty na maging "rehab" "therapist" dhil may mga taong beyond repair, ika nga, we deserve what we tolerate. It is never my intention to judge someone based on their gender preferences. May mga kaibigan din akong part ng LGBTQIA and di nila deserve ma discriminate. Pero galit ako dun sa pagiging masokista ng ate ko, alam mo yung kahit sinaktan na sya at niloko pagbibigyan nya padin ng chance. Kahit inaabuso na sya nung bruha is G lang sya palagi, laging naka "Yes Master". Wala e sguro talagang karma na nila yung isa't isa, ang masama lang dun is nakaka agrabayado na din.
Pasensya na sa magulong istorya hahahaa eto Lang nakayanan ko hanggang ngayon gigil ako sa jowa ng ate ko gusto ko syang tirisin nang buhay pero bakit nga naman ako bababa masyado sa level nya, eh kakalait nya sakin, kakasilip nya masyado sa buhay ko, hindi rin naman sya umasenso 😂 ok bye 😅
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Fastforward, after several years, napapansin namin na parang kalaunan nagiging "feeling anak" na si live in partner ng ate ko, alam mo yung feeling close na to the point na lahat ng matters dito sa bahay nakekealam sya, nadidisrespect nya na si mama, pero kahit ganun ginawa nya di sya pinaalis dito sa bahay kasi ang iniisip ng nanay ko "baka kaya ganyan ung ugali kasi literal na parang pinabayaan na ng pamilya nya, intindihin nalang kasi mahal yan ng ate mo". Eto kami si puro intindi ang ginawa, to the point na nilalait nya na pati ako kung anu anong sinasabi ng bruha lalo na kapag nalalasing sya, at parang naging parang pipe at sunud-sunuran yung ate ko sa mga pinagagagawa nya (LITERAL na BULAG sa pagibig) kalaunan, yung galit na pinoproject nila sa akin naging mas grabe, everytime na nalalasing silang dalawa ako yung pulutan na kesyo "bakit pa pinag aral ni mother yang kapatid mo sa private eh maglalandi at mag aasawa lang naman din yan". Sa almost everyday na panglalait nila sakin hindi ako lumaban, hindi ako nakipagsagutan sa kanila kasi that time natatakot ako e, pag nagsusumbong ako sa nanay ko wala naman din nagiging resolution kasi kapag pinagsasabihan sila ni mama, lalo lang lumalala kasi si girl is magaling "magpavictim" at "mag twist ng kwento" kapag kino confront na sya.
Hindi ko alam kung saan nanggagaling yung galit ng ate ko at nung jowa nya kasi pinakitaan ko naman sila nang maayos, Oo may instance na may mga pinag awayan kami nung 2013 pero sila naman nag umpisa nun, ginulpi pa nga ako ng ate ko para dun imagine 14 years old gugulpihin dahil lng hindi nasunod yung inutos na balatan yung nilagang talong, samantalang wala naman silang ginagawa during that time kundi maglaklakan. Dati kaming close ng ate ko pero dahil ginagatungan at sinusulsulan ng karelasyon nya naging sobrang layo na ng gap naming magkapatid. Simula 2013 hanggang ngayon hindi ko na kinakausap yung ate ko, ewan parang naumay na din ako kasi naaalala ko lang yung pangbubully, emotional abuse, verbal abuse.
Hindi ako lumaban sa kanila until nung April 2021, nagkaroon ng gulo dito sa bahay, ALAM NYO BA KUNG SINONG CAUSE? Syempre yung jowa ng ate ko, dahil lang sa aso, pinagbintangan na nila yung 5 years old kong pamangkin na "baka sipain yung aso" nila kaya ayun nagkarambulan na dito sa bahay nag away yung kuya ko at yung ate ko at nauwi pa sa baranggayan. Dahil sa instance na yun tuluyan nang nagkalamat yung relasyon bilang magkapatid ng kuya ko at ate ko dati-dati kasi close sila e may times din na mas kinakampihan ng kuya ko yung ate ko, alam mo yung tipong sanggang dikit sila sa pambubully sakin hahahaha ang ending silang dalawa din mag aaway dahil Lang sa sulsul na jowa ng ate ko. Ayun na nga dahil nga involve na yung minor kong pamangkin na pinabintangan nila na baka sipain yung aso nila, dun na ako sumabog at binulalas ko na yung galit ko sa knla, pati yung hipag ko na matagal nang nagtimpi at nakisama sa knila nang maayos sumabog na din (kasi nga pinagbintangan yung anak nya na baka sipain yung aso, hello 5 yrs old lang pamangkin ko at naka monitor naman ung hipag ko sa bata at di naman tanga ung hipag ko pra kunsintihin ung anak na sipain ung aso)
Fast forward na nga eto na kumapit ka... Dahil nga sa kahihiyan (pero i doubt na meron sila nun) nag alsabalutan ung ate ko at yung jowa nyang bruha sa bahay, like literal na naghakot sila ng mga gamit nila siguro mga one week or two weeks after nung away nila ni kuya. Naghanap sila ng apartment na mga tatlong kanto lang halos ung layo mula sa bahay namin. Ayun na nga nung umalis sila, life must go on kami alam mo ung parang nakahinga kami ng maluwag kasi nawala ung toxic dito sa bahay. Akala namin okay ung relasyon nila kasi diba nakabukod na sila, akala namin literal na through thick and thin ung relasyon nila kasi kayang kaya ngang kalimutan at abandonahin ng ate ko ung pamilya nya para sa babaeng yun e pero akala lang pala namin yun pero nabalitaan nalang namin na si bruha iniwan na si ate sa apartment nila at sumama sa ibang tibo (kasamahan ata sa trabaho ni bruha yung shibuli na pinalit nya sa ate ko) as per sa kwento ng ate ko kay mama, iniwan daw sya ni bruha sa paupahan kasi nagkakaroon na sila ng financial issues or sguro sa dami ng utang ni bruha like home credit at credit card kaya nagkakaroon sila ng issue sa pera. Kaya sguro ang ending imbes na kaharapin ni bruha ung mga pinagkakautangan nya sumama nalang sya sa ibang tibo na akala nyang mas may pera o mas capable na magprovide sa kanya ng mga luho nya. Nalaman na rin namin na may karelasyon ng iba si bruha nung inistalk namin ung fb nya, proud na proud sila nung shibuli eh todo flex sila sa social media (malas nya di nya ako nablock sa fb) ung iba kong kamag anak lang ata naka block sa knya nun kaya di sila aware na may ibang jowa na si gurl. After nga nun mga bandang February 2023 umuwi na yung ate ko sa bahay kasi pinakiusapan nya si mama at nangako sya na tinapos na nya yung relasyon nila ni bruha dahil nga niloko sya at pinagpalit sa ibang shibuli. Pero dahil medyo shunga at puro alak nalang laman ng utak ng ate ko, konting iyak lang sa knya nung ex nyang haliparot binalikan nya na ung babae,na kesyo binubugbog daw at inaaway sya ng pinalit nyang tibo,masyado daw selosa at isip bata ung tibo na pinalit nya pati daw ung nanay nung shibuli is minamaltrato na din sya (classic pavictim style) ayun ang ending konting paawa lang, binalikan ulit ng ate ko ung babae, naging sila ulit at andito nanaman si gurl sa bahay na parang wala syang inagrabyado hahahaha alam mo yung tipong parang hindi sya nagrereflect sa actions nya, na tipong lahat ng tao need mag adjust sa knya kesyo "inaatake ng anxiety" ayan dinadahilan ni ate kesyo na trauma daw si gaga dun sa shibuli,ganyan sinabi nyang dahilan nun nung nag away kami ng ate ko kesyo "ina anxiety daw" kaya daw dapat hindi daw dapat ini-stress hahahaha taena bakit kami mag aadjust sa shota mong anak ni lucifer? Like wtf? Nasa mid 30's na yang shota mong usemanipulative b!*ch pero hindi mo maiwan para sa ano? Nanghihinayang kang iwan kasi may pinagsamahan na kayo?. Taena sana malaman ng ate ko na sobrang tanga nya sa part na yon, sasamahan lang naman sya ng babae na yan depende sa pakinabang sa knya e, sasamahan lang sya sa laklakan, sasamahan lang sya nyan sa paglulustay or pagwawaldas ng pera, sasamahan lang sya sa kadramahan (trauma plus trauma = drama & chaos) ni pagiging anak mo kay mama sinasantabi mo na pra sa babaeng yan samantalang si mama natatakbuhan mo kapag may problema ka specifically nung naospital ka, nung wala kang trabaho, nung pandemic na wala kang maayos na hanap buhay, nung nagkaproblema ka sa mata mo, nung wala kang pang requirements nung nag aapply ka, diba si mama yun lahat? Anong natulong ng karelasyon mong manggagamit? WALA! Kung meron man, di ganun kagrabe compare sa sakripisyo ni mama. Tapos sasabihin mong mismong pamilya mo yung nag cacause sayo ng stress??? hahahaha kaloka ewan sana hanggang pagtanda nyo damayan ka nyan, sana lang di ka nya ulit iwanan, sana lang di ka nyan ulit traydorin, sana lahat ng sakripisyo mo para sknya suklian nya lahat balang araw kasi for sure kaming pamilya mo mismo malayo na malayo na loob sayo kapag dumating na yung time na yon, kaya magipon ka ng pera para sa pagtanda mo, wala na din kaming ganang umalalay sayo after all the sh!ts na dinanas namin sayo/sainyo at sa mga kasinungalingan mo.
Sa mga nakakabasa neto, sana wag dumating sa punto na magpapakatanga kayo pra sa pagibig, sana wag dumating yung time na yung kakayahan nyong magisip at desisyon nang tama ay ma-cloud ng pagmamahal nyo para sa tao. Dahil it is never our duty na maging "rehab" "therapist" dhil may mga taong beyond repair, ika nga, we deserve what we tolerate. It is never my intention to judge someone based on their gender preferences. May mga kaibigan din akong part ng LGBTQIA and di nila deserve ma discriminate. Pero galit ako dun sa pagiging masokista ng ate ko, alam mo yung kahit sinaktan na sya at niloko pagbibigyan nya padin ng chance. Kahit inaabuso na sya nung bruha is G lang sya palagi, laging naka "Yes Master". Wala e sguro talagang karma na nila yung isa't isa, ang masama lang dun is nakaka agrabayado na din.
Pasensya na sa magulong istorya hahahaa eto Lang nakayanan ko hanggang ngayon gigil ako sa jowa ng ate ko gusto ko syang tirisin nang buhay pero bakit nga naman ako bababa masyado sa level nya, eh kakalait nya sakin, kakasilip nya masyado sa buhay ko, hindi rin naman sya umasenso 😂 ok bye 😅
2024.05.12 18:26 WonderingWhenSayHi RG35XX H will charge, but not power on, help!
My RG35XXH arrived yesterday, I immediately replaced it with a genuine Samsung 64GB MicroSD Card and put the Stock OS on there.
I've used it for about 4-5 hours between yesterday and today, and spent a good hour on it this morning.
The battery was about 60% this morning, and I've put it on charge for an hour or so just, however when I took it off charge, it won't power on.
When I press the power button, nothing happens, no green light, no nothing.
I've tried the usual troubleshooting (pressing reset, holding reset, holding power for a minute or two, re-inserting SD cards etc) but nothing works.
If I plug a cable in, the charging light comes on as orange, but I can't actually get the device to power on.
I've tried a few different USB-c cables and plugs, but nothing seems to be helping.
Any ideas?
submitted by WonderingWhenSayHi to SBCGaming [link] [comments]
I've used it for about 4-5 hours between yesterday and today, and spent a good hour on it this morning.
The battery was about 60% this morning, and I've put it on charge for an hour or so just, however when I took it off charge, it won't power on.
When I press the power button, nothing happens, no green light, no nothing.
I've tried the usual troubleshooting (pressing reset, holding reset, holding power for a minute or two, re-inserting SD cards etc) but nothing works.
If I plug a cable in, the charging light comes on as orange, but I can't actually get the device to power on.
I've tried a few different USB-c cables and plugs, but nothing seems to be helping.
Any ideas?
2024.05.12 18:21 WonderingWhenSayHi Device will charge, but won't power on!
My RG35XXH arrived yesterday, I immediately replaced it with a genuine Samsung 64GB MicroSD Card and put the Stock OS on there.
I've used it for about 4-5 hours between yesterday and today, and spent a good hour on it this morning.
The battery was about 60% this morning, and I've put it on charge for an hour or so just, however when I took it off charge, it won't power on.
When I press the power button, nothing happens, no green light, no nothing.
I've tried the usual troubleshooting (pressing reset, holding reset, holding power for a minute or two, re-inserting SD cards etc) but nothing works.
If I plug a cable in, the charging light comes on as orange, but I can't actually get the device to power on.
I've tried a few different USB-c cables and plugs, but nothing seems to be helping.
Any ideas?
submitted by WonderingWhenSayHi to RG35XX_H [link] [comments]
I've used it for about 4-5 hours between yesterday and today, and spent a good hour on it this morning.
The battery was about 60% this morning, and I've put it on charge for an hour or so just, however when I took it off charge, it won't power on.
When I press the power button, nothing happens, no green light, no nothing.
I've tried the usual troubleshooting (pressing reset, holding reset, holding power for a minute or two, re-inserting SD cards etc) but nothing works.
If I plug a cable in, the charging light comes on as orange, but I can't actually get the device to power on.
I've tried a few different USB-c cables and plugs, but nothing seems to be helping.
Any ideas?
2024.05.12 15:29 prof_ricardo Arch Linux for Orange PI 5
I was looking for a new distro to test on my Orange Pi 5 Plus and I found this one: https://github.com/7Ji/orangepi5-archlinuxarm
Did you try it? It worked great for me: kernel is up to date (6.1 after update), 3D Acceleration, Wayland...
I need to get more sd cards to install the other, for now I have tested: Arch, Armbian, DietPi and JR Ubuntu, all working great for daily tasks.
submitted by prof_ricardo to OrangePI [link] [comments]
Did you try it? It worked great for me: kernel is up to date (6.1 after update), 3D Acceleration, Wayland...
I need to get more sd cards to install the other, for now I have tested: Arch, Armbian, DietPi and JR Ubuntu, all working great for daily tasks.
2024.05.12 12:00 AutoModerator Weekly Reminder: Rules and FAQ - May 12, 2024 (Now with updates!)
Below you will find a weekly reminder of our Rules and partial FAQ. It's definitely a long read, but it's worth your time, especially if you are new to the community, or dropping by as a result of a link you found elsewhere. We periodically revise our rules, this weekly notice will help keep you informed of any changes made.
NOTE: These rules are guidelines. Some moderation discretion is to be expected.
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NOTE: These rules are guidelines. Some moderation discretion is to be expected.
Community Rules
1. Kindness Matters
Advise, don't criticize.- Post with empathy, thoughtfulness, and constructive commentary rather than judgment. Don't be an asshole.
- Name-calling, slurs (including gender or race based slurs), and insults towards other community members will not be tolerated. Do not attack others for their personally held values, custody situation, marital status, physical distance from stepkids, or economic status; or on the basis of race, sex, sexual orientation, age, religion, or ethnicity.
- No name-calling toward children, including the above-mentioned insults or the term "skids", or terms such as "mini-wife" or "mini-husband."
- Comments advocating spanking or any mention of wanting to harm children are not allowed.
- This is a support sub, not a judgement sub, assholes are not tolerated. Comments with terms used in other subs to pass judgement on assholes will be removed.
2. No Drama
This is a support sub.- Bickering, nitpicking, and thread derailment will not be tolerated and will be subject to removal at moderator discretion.
- Do not repeatedly badger a poster demanding answers, or refuse to acknowledge an answer that's already been given.
- Do not use sensitive issues from past posts (either from this sub or other subs) to attack another user, as we are all discussing vulnerable topics.
- Crossposting anything from /stepparents to any other subreddit might result in a ban and may result in the original thread being locked. Brigading our sub will result in an immediate ban.
3. Report, Don’t Rant
No backseat modding.- If you see someone breaking the rules, report the post or comment to the mods rather than engaging them in an argument. Failure to do so may be subject to comment removal at moderator discretion.
- No meta posts complaining about rude comments, DMs, or general sub issues.
- If you think someone is a troll or previously banned user, either use the report function or message the mods to direct their attention to the issue.
4. No Naming & Shaming
No userpings or links.- Tagging/pinging users or other subreddits in an attempt to bully, harass, or complain will not be tolerated. Do not tag other subs, ever.
- If you want to complain about another subreddit being hostile to stepparents, do not name the subreddit. "Other parenting/advice/judgement subs" will suffice.
5. No Platitudes
Nobody knew what they were getting into.- Comments like "You knew what you were getting into", "Love them, love their kids!", "They're a package deal!" and "You have to love them like your own!" will be removed.
- Comments suggesting that OP is not cut out for stepparenting will be removed at moderator discretion.
- Comments like "This is just a part of parenting, deal with it!" will be removed at moderator discretion.
6. No Trolling
We have zero tolerance for trolls.- This is a support sub. Our subscribers do not have the time, nor inclination, to provide support to internet trolls. Posts that are suspected to be trolling attempts will be immediately removed, and the poster banned.
- Concern trolling, devil's advocating, gish-galloping, sealioning, and general asshattery are subject to immediate removal and banning without warning or notice.
- Any attempt to circumvent the ban by creating a new username will be reported to reddit admins and possibly result in account suspension.
7. No Personally Identifiable Information
Use discretion when posting.- We highly recommend using a separate account for support subs to help prevent being doxxed. Do not post any information that may allow others to figure out your identity.
- Do not post photos of children, or any other photo that could be used to identify you or another user on the sub.
- Any image that contains a name or other identifying information should have the name or identifying information blurred out. This includes drawings, notes, and screenshots.
- Do not link to social media or any articles/blogs where you or another user on the sub is mentioned by name.
8. No More than 2 Posts per 24 hours
Use the daily threads.- We are not a huge sub, but we are no longer a small sub. If you have multiple grievances to air, use the daily discussion threads instead of multiple posts.
9. Follow Reddiquette
Remember the human.- Adhere to the same standards of behavior online that you follow in real life.
- Read it in full here.
- Downvoting is reserved for comments that don’t contribute, and shouldn't be used to indicate disagreement.
- If you believe someone is in violation of the subreddit rules, please either use the report function or message the mods to direct their attention to the issue.
- Suspected brigading will be reported to reddit admins.
10. No Porn, Spam, Blogs, or Research Studies/Surveys Without Mod Approval
Just don't.- This is a SFW subreddit. Posting pornography will result in immediate post removal and permanent ban.
- Advertising on the subreddit (outside of Reddit's own advertising) is not allowed.
- No personal blog posts are allowed without express moderator permission.
- No advertising without prior mod approval.
- No asking for money/posting fundraisers/etc.
- For links to parenting research studies or surveys, please message the mods for permission before posting.
11. Disputes in Modmail Only
Don't argue with the mods on the sub.- Any issues specifically related to how a mod is moderating should be addressed to the full moderating team via mod mail. This ensures that all mods are aware of any concerns and prevents disintegration of the topic thread at hand.
- This means to do not message or send chat requests to individual mods. All discussion and complaints about mod actions need to be done in mod mail ONLY. Failure to follow this rule can result in an immediate permanent ban.
- Comments in threads asking about mod decisions are subject to removal without notice.
12. Moderator Actions
We aren't kidding.- Users are expected to know the rules before posting. If you are warned or banned for violating the rules, ignorance is not an excuse.
- Moderators will remove posts and comments and/or lock threads in accordance with the rules above. Typically this happens when threads have gone off-topic in a way that is not productive for the OP, or comments overall have become contentious or disrespectful.
- If a poster continues to argue or to willfully violate these rules, temporary and permanent ban procedures will be followed. Any attempts to avoid or bypass temporary bans will result in a permanent ban. User bans will not be discussed in the sub. Questions posted about user bans are subject to removal and the poster subject to warning/ban procedures. The mod team will not discuss a specific user ban with anyone other than the user involved.
- New accounts are subject to manual approval until they are no longer deemed "new" by the mod team. This helps to weed out trolls and ban evaders.
- We rely on Automoderator to scan for specific words and phrases that are not welcome here and notify the mod team to review the comment or post. This includes slurs of any type and platitudes such as "Love them as your own!"
- The mod team uses a combination of blacklisting and banning when dealing with trolls.
- We employ the use of a bot that automatically bans anyone who comments in subs that have historically harassed our users. If you are picked up by the bot for telling trolls to get fucked, reach out via mod mail and we'll get you sorted out.
- The rules above as well as ban procedures are considered guidelines only; some deviation may be necessary on a case by case basis and/or at the mod team's discretion.
13. Ban Procedure
These actions are at moderator discretion.- Pornography will result in an automatic permanent ban.
- Extremely egregious content will result in an immediate permanent ban.
- You may receive a 7 or 30 day temporary ban for first and second rule violations, depending upon severity.
- Continued rule violations will result in a permanent ban.
- Willful attempts to avoid or bypass temporary bans will result in a permanent ban.
- We recognize the reddit site-wide rules of using alt names to get around bans and will ban those as well as report them to reddit admins.
FAQ - About the Rules
What does Kindness Matters mean?
- Shortest version? Don't be an asshole. People come here for support and advice, they do not come here to be yelled at or told they are the reason everything is going sideways. There are ways to point out that someone may want to do some reflection on their own actions and reactions without being an asshole about it.
- The purpose of this subreddit is to provide support and a sense of belonging for struggling stepparents. We aren't here to pass judgement, but rather to offer support, empathy, and constructive commentary. That does not include "hard truths" or "tough love." Stepparents get enough of that in every other subreddit, we're not passing it out here. Be respectful.
- Remember, most people aren't going to come to a sub like this when everything is going great and everyone is getting along. People are coming here when they are down, when they are feeling defeated and stretched to the limit. Kicking someone when they are down is shitty behavior and we don't tolerate it.
What about being kind to the kids?
- "Won't somebody think of the children?" Pearl clutching isn't needed here. If you read the Kindness Matters rule closely, you will see that there is a clause in there about name calling children. We don't allow it. We also don't allow people rolling in telling OP that they feel sorry for their stepkids because OP is feeling overwhelmed and overloaded.
- If anyone is advocating slapping, spanking, or any other form of violence, report the comment immediately. We do not advocate violence towards children of any sort. The mod team does not advocate any sort of physical punishment at any time.
- Venting about behaviors is not the same as insulting the kids. However, if you see a post or comment where kids are being name called or dragged to the point of no return, use the report button. We try to catch the posts and remove them before they hit the sub, but we cannot see every comment without your help. Use the report button to bring problematic comments to our attention. Don't engage in a war of words on our subreddit.
Why is this sub such an echo chamber?
- Not allowing contributors to pile on and tell OP that they are a terrible human being who should never be around children does not equate to being an echo chamber. Many contributors here will offer OP suggestions to help them work through their resentments and frustrations, and the most egregious situations are called out. We simply ask that it be called out with respect.
- If you feel that a post is simply too much for you to handle without following the rules, move on to another post.
- If you believe that a post itself is crossing the rules report it. If the mod team has approved the post, it is because the mod team believes that the OP needs help from the community or needs a moment to vent and move on from their vent. That does not give you license to pile on disrespectfully. Unless it is proven that OP is a bot, assume that OP is a human being with real thoughts and feelings and has posted from a place of vulnerability.
Why can't I tell OP that they are an asshole?
- Because this isn't a judgement sub. We aren't AITA, we don't want to be AITA.
- Comments with terms like YTA, NTA, ESH, NAH will be removed.
- Don't start your posts with INFO either. We generally recognize that as a fishing attempt for more information to pass judgement on OP, and again, we are not a judgment sub.
But OP asked if they were an asshole?!
- Their post somehow got past our automoderator. Just use the report button. We will address it with OP.
- If you've asked if you are an asshole, a-hole, a*hole, a**hole, whatever, don't be surprised if your post is removed without warning. This isn't a judgment sub. If you want judgment, you know where to go.
What is a gendered slur?
- While it seems that everyone understands what racist slurs are, people struggle understanding the concept of gendered slurs. Generally speaking, we are talking about derogatory nouns or verbs that are used to negatively describe people or situations based on gendered terms.
- We've gone back and forth on this a few times, and the truth is, we get it, it's your safe space and you want to be able to vent about BM/BD how you want to vent about them, without us telling you how to vent about them. Fair enough. Vent away. What we are going to stick to here how people are referring to other users and to stepchildren.
- Examples that are not allowed:
- "My SD is such a little bitch."
- "She dresses/acts like a slut."
- "My SS acts like a pussy."
- "My SS is such a beta male."
- "You are all fucking whores."
- "Any dude who is raising some sluts kids is a cuck!"
- "Little Lord Fauntleroy over here thinking he runs the house!"
- "You're just the bangnanny, get used to it."
- Don't call users here names, don't call stepchildren names.
- Masking the term with asterisks or other neat little tricks might get you around the bot, but if we see it, we're removing it and quite possibly giving you a time out. The intended word is still there and you deliberately tried to skate the rule.
- As there is not enough space to list every term that is offensive and does not belong, nor every situation in which term or phrase may be allowable in context, this rule is enforced based on moderator discretion.
Seriously? You are the language police now?
- We're here to talk about stepparenting. And we would like for that to happen in a respectful way. Attacking each other doesn't help. Belittling stepchildren draws in trolls who don't understand your frustration, all they see is an evil stepmonster talking shit on the internet about a poor, innocent baby. Yes, even if that "poor, innocent baby" just robbed you blind and set fire to the house on their way out the door. That's just how it goes.
- We are aware that this is a relatively new rule and a lot of older posts and comments contain a lot of problematic language, including some from mods themselves. We are growing and evolving, and rules change as the sub grows and evolves.
What does No Drama really mean?
- Pretty much what it says, do not bring drama from other subs into this sub. Do not engage in vote brigades. Do not try to incite other subscribers to riot in a different sub. Don't follow posters into this sub from other subs to continue to harass them. Do not badger someone or derail threads. Do not harass community members because you don't agree with them. There's enough drama in the daily lives of subscribers, more isn't needed.
What is thread derailment?
- When a comment chain has devolved to the point where all you are doing is arguing back and forth with someone about the same thing over and over again, you have derailed the thread. Also known as bickering. It's what children do. We assume if people are in a stepparent role they are adults. We expect you to act like it.
- If you aren't a stepparent, or in a stepparenting role, consider that perhaps this subreddit isn't for you. If you want to participate, do so with respect. Thread derailment, arguing, bickering, and nitpicking are not allowed.
But what if they didn't answer my question?
- No one has to answer your questions. This is a support sub, not an inquisition. Jumping on a bandwagon with "OP is evading the question" in a 20 comment long chain is the epitome of thread derailment. You'll find more information about trolling below and how this might be considered such.
Why am I being silenced? I'm just asking for a back and forth!
- Thread derailment, badgering, and nitpicking are considered harassment. Continued harassment of either community members or mods will get you banned.
Why can't I look at someone's post history and comment about it?
- No mod in the history of this sub has ever once said post histories are forbidden. What we do frown upon is using someone's post history to attack, belittle, or otherwise harass someone.
- Example Post: "My stepkid's mom really hates me. How can I make this better?"
- Okay: "Based on the timeline and your post history, it looks like this may have started as an affair. Unfortunately there's going to be outstanding issues for a long time due to that. Try focusing on yourself and how you can move forward without worrying about how someone else feels about you."
- Not Okay: "Holy shit! You were the OW! What the hell do you expect, homewrecker?!"
- Example Post: "I am completely overloaded and feeling very down about myself."
- Okay: "In your post history you mentioned that your spouse wasn't really helping around the house. Has that changed at all?"
- Not Okay: "LOL, you already got the answers you need in your post on relationships. You are stupid for sticking with your lazy spouse."
Why can't we crosspost stuff to other subs?
- We can't stop you from doing so. The problem isn't that something has been crossposted, it's when the community that it's been crossposted to feels the need to come over here and harass OP. When we see that happening, we lock the post and start passing out bans. If you did the crossposting, you'll be banned. If you participated in the brigading, you'll be banned.
What if it's my own post?
- Again, we can't stop you from doing so. We prefer that you don't technically crosspost, but rather just copy and paste your post. Why? Because inevitably the above will happen. Redditors from other subs will follow you back to /stepparents and start attacking users here. It just happens.
What is "brigading"?
- Reddit defines vote manipulation and brigading as follows:
- Using multiple accounts, voting services, or any other software to increase or decrease vote scores.
- Asking people to vote up or down certain posts, either on Reddit itself or through social networks, messaging, etc. for personal gain.
- Forming or joining a group that votes together, either on a specific post, a user's posts, posts from a domain, etc.
- We, along with pretty much every other subreddit that has ever had to deal with this nonsense, further define brigading as this: You saw a post on another sub that linked to our sub either via a link in a comment or a crosspost. It was basically saying something along the lines of "OMG, check out these assholes over on /stepparents! They literally hate all their stepkids!" And then you and your friends come over and start hammering on OP and telling OP how much they suck. Congrats, you have just participated in a brigade.
What is this whole Report, Don't Rant thing about?
- If you see a post or comment that breaks the rules, instead of engaging, report it. When you report it, it sends notification to the mod team. We will act on it where appropriate. Engaging with bad faith users may result in your comments being removed. If you repeatedly do so, you may end up being banned.
What if I see an obvious troll?
- Report it.
What if they are being really mean in comments?
- Report it.
What if they are harassing me in private messages?
- Step 1: Report them to admins. You can report harassment to reddit by using this link or send a DM to reddit admins. Include the link to the DM, admins can see your inbox and providing a direct link is helpful for them to weed out bad actors.
- Step 2: Block the person so they cannot directly contact you again.
- Step 3: Send us a mod mail and let the mod team know. Tell us who they are and what they said, send us a screenshot if you can - admins can see your DMs, mods can't. We'll take action where necessary by banning from the sub if they aren't already banned.
What do you mean by No Naming & Shaming?
- Just as we prefer to not be linked to or crossposted from, we do not allow linking to or calling out other subs by name. If you see something you want to share, say it's a hot post that has hit the front page and a stepparent is being absolutely flayed, just refer to it as "that hot post that hit the front page." If you want to complain about other places in general, "other parenting/advice/judgement subs" will suffice. Absolutely under no circumstances should you link to anywhere else.
I can't link to other subs?
- Do not directly link to another sub. (e.g.: "/insertsubnamehere is ridiculously hostile to stepparents!")
- Do not name other subs. (e.g.: "I won't link to it directly, but insertsubnamehere is ridiculously hostile to stepparents!")
- Do not abbreviate other subs. (e.g.: "I know that ISNH is ridiculously hostile to stepparents!")
I can't ping other users?
- Do not summon another user with a username ping/tag. (e.g.: "insertusernamehere was being an asshole.")
- If you are agreeing with someone, it is okay to link to them. (e.g.: "I agree with insertusernamehere, you need to take a couple of steps back and reflect on this.")
What does No Platitudes mean?
- Sanctimonious, overused clichés that grossly oversimplify the stepparenting experience are neither wanted nor allowed here. We have all heard it a thousand times before, we don't need to hear it again. It's not nearly as insightful and wise as some would like to think.
Why don't you people understand it's a package deal?
- Any comment that suggests that OP should have known what they were getting involved with, or that they needed to understand that the kids were part of some package they needed to accept before signing up for marriage is subject to immediate removal.
- This is one of the most insensitive things you can say to a stepparent. Most stepparents were aware of the children, but they were probably not aware of all of the family dynamics.
Why can't you just love them like they are your own?
- Demanding that a stranger you do not know love children that are not biologically theirs as if they were theirs can be incredibly damaging to someone who is already in a vulnerable situation. Any comment that falls along these lines will be removed.
What do you mean by No Trolling? I was just...
- No means no. No trolling. No pretending to be a stepparent and then whipping out the Greatest Hits Bingo Card of The Worst Stepparent in the History of Stepparents. We see you. We've seen you a thousand times.
What does "concern trolling", "gish-galloping", and "sealioning" have to do with stepparenting? This isn't a debate sub, why are you using debate terms?
- That's absolutely right, this isn't a debate sub. And yet, here we are, day after day, having to defend ourselves against this sort of thing. So, enough. No more. Usage of any of these things will get you banned.
What is "Concern Trolling?"
- A concern troll is someone who disingenuously visits sites of an opposing ideology to disrupt conversation by offering unwanted advice on how to solve problems which do not really exist.
- Example Post: OP expresses concern that she will feel, and possibly act, differently towards her stepchildren after her husband decides that no, he doesn't want anymore children after all.
- Example Concern Troll pulled from actual mod mail after their comment was removed: "Possible child abuse claims need to be sorted out well before whatever empathy you believe the OP was looking for."
What is a "Devil's Advocate"?
- "I'm just playing devil's advocate here, but have you considered that maybe BM is just really tired and needs a break, too?" BM has dozens of different mom based subs alone on reddit she can complain on, this sub is for stepparents. The stepparent doesn't need to consider that maybe BM is just really tired and needs a break.
"Gish-galloping?" What does that even mean?
- The Gish Gallop is the fallacious debate tactic of drowning your opponent in a flood of individually-weak arguments in order to prevent rebuttal of the whole argument collection without great effort. The Gish Gallop is a conveyor belt-fed version of the on the spot fallacy, as it's unreasonable for anyone to have a well-composed answer immediately available to every argument present in the Gallop.
And "sealioning?" What's that?
- Sealioning involves jumping into a conversation with endless polite, reasonable questions and demands for answers, usually of entry-level topics far below the actual conversation (e.g. "please prove sexism exists"). This tactic differs little from harassment; instead of discussion, the point is to derail discussion, receive criticism (for their ignorance) so as to look like a victim, or to make someone feel overwhelmed and quit talking.
Who gets to define what is considered asshattery?
- The mod team, of course! If we feel that comments are out of line, are trolling, are leading up to a fight or "just asking questions", we are going to remove them and most likely ban the offender.
FAQ - Sub Questions
Posting Guidelines for Stepparents
- Body text is required, we suggest you use line breaks between paragraphs as a wall of text is difficult to read. Posts that have only a title are likely to be removed. Instead of using names (even fictitious ones), try to use the sub acronyms. It helps our users to follow along if you use the acronyms and not names.
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Posting Guidelines for Bioparents
- Stepparents is a support community for stepparents, by stepparents. As bioparents, you may want to have more insight into how the stepparent in your life feels or thinks. You may have questions on how to ease the transition for your partner. However, please keep in mind that this community was not created for you. It was created for your partner or your ex's partner. If you are seeking support on how to deal with a stepparent, there are other subs more suited for your situation and your post is subject to removal.
- There are some posts from bioparents we will accept:
- Seeking advice on how to support your partner as they navigate stepparenting
- Seeking resources to help you better support your partner
- Seeking resources for your partner
- There are some posts from bioparents we will not accept:
- Complaints about how the stepparent is too involved in your kids lives
- Vents about how the stepparent is not involved enough in your kids lives
- "Cautionary tales" advising stepparents to back off
- Seeking advice on how to tell the stepparent to back off
- The Do's and Dont's of Stepparenting
- How your kid's stepmom is literally The Worst
- Comments from bioparents that are helpful and supportive are welcome and appreciated. Comments from bioparents that are not helpful or supportive are not welcome and subject to removal. There are several other subs that may meet the needs of bioparents better than we can. We recommend /coparenting, /parenting, /parents, /blendedfamilies, and /singleparents as starting points.
Guidelines for Stepkids
- At this time, we do not generally accept posts from stepkids. Comments from stepkids that are helpful and supportive are welcome and appreciated. Comments from stepkids that are not helpful or supportive are not welcome and subject to removal. If you are a stepkid seeking support, we highly recommend /stepkids. It is a very supportive community specifically for stepkids. We also recommend /blendedfamilies as another potential group for support.
What the heck are all these acronyms? I'm confused!
- Check out the Common Acronyms wiki page. We try to keep this updated as new terms are introduced to the sub.
Why aren't my posts or comments showing up?
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This comment/post is really offensive! Why is it still up?
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- If you receive an unwanted/hurtful PM from a name you don't recognize, please report it to Reddit Admins using our handy pre-populated form. Be sure to include the permalink to the message. We've been dealing with a few unhappy folks who like to attack stepparents, and reporting it to the admins is the only way to make it stop.
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Why was I banned without warning?
- There are numerous reasons that the mod team might opt to move perm banning without warning. Message the moderators if you have specific questions.
2024.05.12 00:25 understand-the-times The number 7 in Creation and in the Holy Bible. Everyday reasons to believe in God.
 | "All things were made through Him, and without Him nothing was made that was made.” John 1:3Going to Heaven—how can I guarantee my eternal destination?
1) “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they are doing” Luke 23:34 2) “I tell you the truth, today you will be with me in paradise" Luke 23:43 3) “Dear Woman, here is your son!” and “Here is your mother!” John 19:26-27 4) “My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me?” Matthew 27:46 5) “I am thirsty” John 19:28 6) “It is finished!” John 19:30 7) "Father, into your hands I commit my spirit." Luke 23:46
"In all, the number 7 is used in the Bible more than seven hundred times. If we also include the words related to seven(terms like sevenfold or seventy or seven hundred), the count is higher. The first use of the number 7 in the Bible relates to the creation week in Genesis 1. God spends six days creating the heavens and the earth, and then rests on the seventh day. This is our template for the seven-day week, observed around the world to this day." "Thus, right at the start of the Bible, the number 7 is identified with something being “finished” or “complete.” From then on, that association continues, as 7 is often found in contexts involving completeness or divine perfection." https://www.gotquestions.org/number-7-seven.html
"The reason music is such a wonderful blessing is because God Himself designed music. It seems there is a spiritual version of music that exists apart from and transcending our physical universe. The Bible describes glorious music in God’s very throne room in heaven (Revelation 15:1-4).” “In Colossians 3:16 Paul wrote, “Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly in all wisdom, teaching and admonishing one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing with grace in your hearts to the Lord.” https://lifehopeandtruth.com/bible/bible-study/bible-questions-and-answers/bible-about-music/
ROYGBIV or Roy G. Biv is an acronym for the sequence of hues commonly described as making up a rainbow: red, orange, yellow, green, blue, indigo and violet. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/ROYGBIVWhat Is the Meaning of the Rainbow in the Bible? https://www.christianity.com/wiki/bible/what-is-the-meaning-of-the-rainbow-in-the-bible.html "1 The heavens proclaim the glory of God. The skies display his craftsmanship. 2 Day after day they continue to speak; night after night they make him known. 3 They speak without a sound or word; their voice is never heard. 4 Yet their message has gone throughout the earth, and their words to all the world. God has made a home in the heavens for the sun." Psalm 19:1-4"The bible tells us that David played the harp for King Saul and the troubling spirit left him. The harp has the ability to quiet the soul and bring a level of calm that aids in healing and well being for the listener." David's Harp and Psalms for Peace and Calm. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZiCdferacD4&t=447s More reasons to believe, learning more about the Bible, and encouragement is in previous posts and here. https://www.understandingthetimes.info |
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2024.05.11 14:30 AutoModerator Sugar Daddy Saturday - Weekly Thread
The mod team has talked and decided (on a trial basis) to provide a once weekly thread allowing SDs to provide advice to and ask questions of our forum. Some of the comments we have received (and questions asked via modmail) have been thought provoking and we aim to ensure that all readers of this forum benefit from a different perspective.
However, this is a space for women by women. If you (SDs/men) cannot adhere to the below rules and rules of the forum, you will be treated accordingly.
The rules are as follows:
Ladies, below comment some questions you would like to ask an SD.
Fellas, below comment some questions you would like to ask the SBs of this forum.
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However, this is a space for women by women. If you (SDs/men) cannot adhere to the below rules and rules of the forum, you will be treated accordingly.
The rules are as follows:
- Commentary can only be on this weekly thread. Any responses to other weekly threads or posts made on this forum by an SD will result in a ban.
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Ladies, below comment some questions you would like to ask an SD.
Fellas, below comment some questions you would like to ask the SBs of this forum.
2024.05.11 10:04 Fubukishirou430 Zygarde's Crew (Rogue AU)
2 years later...
Place: A house in Gangseo
Zygarde: I'm going off!
A tall, pale-skinned teenager wearing a high school uniform stood at the entrance. His uniform included a red blazer, a white shirt, and black pants. The boy had white hair in a double curtain that ended in green streaks. He had heterochromia, with his left eye blue and his right eye grey. He wore round glasses that sat firmly on his nose.
[North Gangseo (No 5): "Commander" Zygarde Lee]: 192 cm, 88 kg; ???, ???, A+ (Awakened), S+, ???
Hae-in: Say bye to Daddy!
A 2-year-old was sitting down and pouting. She had chubby cheeks and big round eyes -- the colours taking after her father. She has black hair like her mother. She was wearing a light blue onesie.
Her mother had short black hair and black eyes. She wore round glasses like her husband. She had tattoos on her arms and back. She wore a white waffle T-shirt and black shorts that ended just above the knees.
[Hae-in Kim]: ???, ???, A(Awakened), B, ??? [Yeon Hwa Lee] ???,???, S,???,???
Yeon Hwa toddles over and hugs Zygarde's leg. She looks up with big eyes, pleading silently for Zygarde not to go.
Zygarde lifts her and nuzzles her — Yeon giggles.
Zygarde: Oh what will I do with you?
Zygarde and Yeon both look at Hae-in with puppy dog eyes.
Zygarde: Hon- Hae-in: No. Zygarde: But I haven't even- Hae-in: No. Zygarde (whispering): Time to pull that move Yeon! Zygarde and Hwa Yeon (eyes sparkling): M-mama... Hae-in (deadpan): No means no. Hwa Yeon (pouting): Bwummer... Zygarde: You evil woman. You want to separate my daughter from me!
Hae-in sighed and ruffled their heads. She smiled.
Hae-in: The both of you...
Zygarde gave Yeon back to Hae-in. Yeon grabbed his finger.
Yeon: Papa... Zygarde: Yeon... Hae-in: Enough with the drama! You're gonna be late brat! Zygarde: Fine :(
Zygarde runs off, blowing a kiss to his daughter and wife. His daughter squealed and his wife cringed.
A while later...
Place: North Gangseo Office: The Guards
[North Gangseo (No 4):"???" ???]
A jovial teenager hugged Zygarde. He had bright orange hair and a scar on his face. He had olive green eyes and a wide smile. He wore an unbuttoned red blazer and black pants.
Zygarde: Yo! ??? (4): Zy!
The men gave each other a bear hug.
Zygarde: How's our "Lu Bu" doing? "Lu Bu": Great!
[North Gangseo (No 4): "Lu Bu" Evan Yang]: 182 cm, 99 kg; ???, ???, A+ (Awakened), D, ???
Behind him, a few men were sitting on the floor, playing a game of Uno.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force A]): Samgawi Gonchung]: 165 cm, 62 kg; S-, A+, A, A+, S-
Appearance: Pale skin, long Black Hair and green eyes. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force B]): Jun Hao]: 185 cm, 82 kg; S+, S, A+, C, S+
Appearance: Pale skin, black hair, crew cut and red eyes. Has a scar on his face over his right eye. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force C]): Seojun Ha]: 155 cm, 54 kg; S+, SS-, B(Awakened), B, S
Appearance: Pale skin, grey hair with white highlights, wolf cut and grey eyes. He wears a brown contact lens and Has a scar on his face. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force D]): Jinun Kang]: 178 cm, 76 kg; S, S-, A, C, S
Appearance: Pale skin, blue hair, brown eyes. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force E]): Wooseok Shin]: 177 cm, 68 kg; S, S+, A, B, A
Appearance: Tanned skin, black hair, green eyes. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
???: We aren't late, are we?
A group of men waltzed into the room.
[North Gangseo (No 6): "The Scourge" Kai Jin Ma]: 185 cm, 90 kg; ???, ???, A(Awakened), B+, ???
Appearance: Blond hair, heterochromia -- green and yellow, pale skin. Has a scar on his lip. The outfit consists of a half-slack black shirt and black pants with an Armani belt.
[North Gangseo (No 7): "Swordsman" William Texiter]: 188 cm, 90 kg; ???, ???, S(Awakened), A, ???
Appearance: Black hair tied up in a man bun, black eyes, pale skin. Has a scar covering his left cheek. White T-shirt with black pants and a black parka hoodie. Has a belt with a sheath that holds his sword.
[North Gangseo (No 8): "Tactician" Oh Yechan]: 189 cm, 92 kg; ???, ???, B+(Awakened), S, ???
Appearance: Blue hair, ice-blue eyes, pale skin. The outfit consists of black pants with black straps (overalls) and a striped green shirt.
[North Gangseo (No 9): "Six Fingers" Seongji Yun]: 180 cm, 92 kg; ???, ???, S(Awakened), B, ???
Appearance: Black Hair in a wolf cut, black eyes, pale skin. Has 14 fingers and 14 toes. Wears a black singlet and denim-blue pants. A white windbreaker is tied
[North Gangseo (No 10): "Vanguard" Kim Seol Jin]: 184 cm, 79 kg; ???, ???, B(Awakened), C, ???
Appearance: Long purple hair, red eyes, pale skin. His outfit consists of a blood-red shirt and black dress pants.
Zygarde: Great. We can start the meeting.
Zygarde's men stood behind "Lu Bu", and the rest of the executives sat down and Zygarde started his meeting.
Zygarde revealed his first slide. How much territory they had gained over the past 2 months leading to the summit.
Zygarde (pointing): Here is the "DMZ" or "Maginot Line". Our progress has been halted ever since Brad of Big Deal showed up. Numbers 19 and 20 were sent to infiltrate. We have not heard from them ever since.
Yechan: Could they have betrayed us?
Zygarde: No clue. Their territories are under No 18 right now. Execs below them are scrambling to the border and reinforcing the line. Word has it the South is regrouping and preparing to launch an offensive.
Seol Jin (stands up): We should start moving then. What are we waiting for?
[North Gangseo (No 10): "Vanguard" Kim Seol Jin]: LR+, LR, B(Awakened), C, LR+
Yechan (patting Seol Jin on the shoulder): Calm down.
[North Gangseo (No 8): "Tactician" Oh Yechan]: UR, LR+, B+(Awakened), S, UR
Zygarde: I understand your concerns Seol Jin. But please listen to what I have to say.
Zygarde pointed to the map once more.
Zygarde: Thanks to the efforts of "Lu Bu" and the action force leaders, we have established footholds in Ojeon-dong, Oseo-dong and Gaehwa-dong.
"Lu Bu" reclined his chair and flicked his sunglasses. The men surrounding him did the same.
Yun: Jokesters.
Zygarde: Samgawi. You're up.
Samgawi took the position of Zygarde and began his presentation.
Samgawi: Thank You. As he mentioned, we've taken care of most of the regions. Using this, we could cross over the line and attack the very heart of the South -- Naebalsan-dong.
Samgawi also pointed at Bucheon.
Samgawi: Very soon, we may even be able to take over Bucheon.
William: Well what about the original plan of going through Haneul Park?
Samgawi: That will be done too -- a two-pronged attack. The 5 greats are on it.
Zygarde stepped in.
Zygarde: Our job is to support them.
Zygarde: Action
Zygarde: Kai. William Action Force A and B. Haneul Park.
[North Gangseo (No 6): "The Scourge" Kai Jin Ma]: LR, UR+, A(Awakened), B+, LR
[North Gangseo (No 7): "Swordsman" William Texiter]: LR, LR, S(Awakened), A, UR+
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force A]): Samgawi Gonchung]: S-, A+, A, A+, S-
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force B]): Jun Hao]: S+, S, A+, C, S+
Samgawi's potential is peaking Jun Hao's potential is peaking
Zygarde: Yun. Yechan. Action Force D and E. Gogang-dong.
[North Gangseo (No 8): "Tactician" Oh Yechan]: UR+, LR, B+(Awakened), S, UR+
[North Gangseo (No 9): "Six Fingers" Seongji Yun]: UR+, UR+, S(Awakened), B, LR+
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force D]): Jinun Kang]: S, S-, A, C, S
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force E]): Wooseok Shin]: S, S+, A, B, A
Zygarde: Evan. Seol-jin. Action Force C. Me. Naebalsan-dong.
[North Gangseo (No 4): "Lu Bu" Evan Yang]: LR+, UR+, A+ (Awakened), D, LR+ (Resting)
[North Gangseo (No 5): "Commander" Zygarde Lee]: UR+, UR+, A+ (Awakened), S+, UR+
[North Gangseo (No 10): "Vanguard" Kim Seol Jin]: LR+, LR, B(Awakened), C, LR+
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force C]): Seojun Ha]: S+, SS-, B(Awakened), B, S
Zygarde: The fall of the South will be imminent.
Zygarde's potential is fighting its limits!
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Place: A house in Gangseo
Zygarde: I'm going off!
A tall, pale-skinned teenager wearing a high school uniform stood at the entrance. His uniform included a red blazer, a white shirt, and black pants. The boy had white hair in a double curtain that ended in green streaks. He had heterochromia, with his left eye blue and his right eye grey. He wore round glasses that sat firmly on his nose.
[North Gangseo (No 5): "Commander" Zygarde Lee]: 192 cm, 88 kg; ???, ???, A+ (Awakened), S+, ???
Hae-in: Say bye to Daddy!
A 2-year-old was sitting down and pouting. She had chubby cheeks and big round eyes -- the colours taking after her father. She has black hair like her mother. She was wearing a light blue onesie.
Her mother had short black hair and black eyes. She wore round glasses like her husband. She had tattoos on her arms and back. She wore a white waffle T-shirt and black shorts that ended just above the knees.
[Hae-in Kim]: ???, ???, A(Awakened), B, ??? [Yeon Hwa Lee] ???,???, S,???,???
Yeon Hwa toddles over and hugs Zygarde's leg. She looks up with big eyes, pleading silently for Zygarde not to go.
Zygarde lifts her and nuzzles her — Yeon giggles.
Zygarde: Oh what will I do with you?
Zygarde and Yeon both look at Hae-in with puppy dog eyes.
Zygarde: Hon- Hae-in: No. Zygarde: But I haven't even- Hae-in: No. Zygarde (whispering): Time to pull that move Yeon! Zygarde and Hwa Yeon (eyes sparkling): M-mama... Hae-in (deadpan): No means no. Hwa Yeon (pouting): Bwummer... Zygarde: You evil woman. You want to separate my daughter from me!
Hae-in sighed and ruffled their heads. She smiled.
Hae-in: The both of you...
Zygarde gave Yeon back to Hae-in. Yeon grabbed his finger.
Yeon: Papa... Zygarde: Yeon... Hae-in: Enough with the drama! You're gonna be late brat! Zygarde: Fine :(
Zygarde runs off, blowing a kiss to his daughter and wife. His daughter squealed and his wife cringed.
A while later...
Place: North Gangseo Office: The Guards
[North Gangseo (No 4):"???" ???]
A jovial teenager hugged Zygarde. He had bright orange hair and a scar on his face. He had olive green eyes and a wide smile. He wore an unbuttoned red blazer and black pants.
Zygarde: Yo! ??? (4): Zy!
The men gave each other a bear hug.
Zygarde: How's our "Lu Bu" doing? "Lu Bu": Great!
[North Gangseo (No 4): "Lu Bu" Evan Yang]: 182 cm, 99 kg; ???, ???, A+ (Awakened), D, ???
Behind him, a few men were sitting on the floor, playing a game of Uno.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force A]): Samgawi Gonchung]: 165 cm, 62 kg; S-, A+, A, A+, S-
Appearance: Pale skin, long Black Hair and green eyes. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force B]): Jun Hao]: 185 cm, 82 kg; S+, S, A+, C, S+
Appearance: Pale skin, black hair, crew cut and red eyes. Has a scar on his face over his right eye. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force C]): Seojun Ha]: 155 cm, 54 kg; S+, SS-, B(Awakened), B, S
Appearance: Pale skin, grey hair with white highlights, wolf cut and grey eyes. He wears a brown contact lens and Has a scar on his face. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force D]): Jinun Kang]: 178 cm, 76 kg; S, S-, A, C, S
Appearance: Pale skin, blue hair, brown eyes. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force E]): Wooseok Shin]: 177 cm, 68 kg; S, S+, A, B, A
Appearance: Tanned skin, black hair, green eyes. Outfit similar to Zygarde.
???: We aren't late, are we?
A group of men waltzed into the room.
[North Gangseo (No 6): "The Scourge" Kai Jin Ma]: 185 cm, 90 kg; ???, ???, A(Awakened), B+, ???
Appearance: Blond hair, heterochromia -- green and yellow, pale skin. Has a scar on his lip. The outfit consists of a half-slack black shirt and black pants with an Armani belt.
[North Gangseo (No 7): "Swordsman" William Texiter]: 188 cm, 90 kg; ???, ???, S(Awakened), A, ???
Appearance: Black hair tied up in a man bun, black eyes, pale skin. Has a scar covering his left cheek. White T-shirt with black pants and a black parka hoodie. Has a belt with a sheath that holds his sword.
[North Gangseo (No 8): "Tactician" Oh Yechan]: 189 cm, 92 kg; ???, ???, B+(Awakened), S, ???
Appearance: Blue hair, ice-blue eyes, pale skin. The outfit consists of black pants with black straps (overalls) and a striped green shirt.
[North Gangseo (No 9): "Six Fingers" Seongji Yun]: 180 cm, 92 kg; ???, ???, S(Awakened), B, ???
Appearance: Black Hair in a wolf cut, black eyes, pale skin. Has 14 fingers and 14 toes. Wears a black singlet and denim-blue pants. A white windbreaker is tied
[North Gangseo (No 10): "Vanguard" Kim Seol Jin]: 184 cm, 79 kg; ???, ???, B(Awakened), C, ???
Appearance: Long purple hair, red eyes, pale skin. His outfit consists of a blood-red shirt and black dress pants.
Zygarde: Great. We can start the meeting.
Zygarde's men stood behind "Lu Bu", and the rest of the executives sat down and Zygarde started his meeting.
Zygarde revealed his first slide. How much territory they had gained over the past 2 months leading to the summit.
Zygarde (pointing): Here is the "DMZ" or "Maginot Line". Our progress has been halted ever since Brad of Big Deal showed up. Numbers 19 and 20 were sent to infiltrate. We have not heard from them ever since.
Yechan: Could they have betrayed us?
Zygarde: No clue. Their territories are under No 18 right now. Execs below them are scrambling to the border and reinforcing the line. Word has it the South is regrouping and preparing to launch an offensive.
Seol Jin (stands up): We should start moving then. What are we waiting for?
[North Gangseo (No 10): "Vanguard" Kim Seol Jin]: LR+, LR, B(Awakened), C, LR+
Yechan (patting Seol Jin on the shoulder): Calm down.
[North Gangseo (No 8): "Tactician" Oh Yechan]: UR, LR+, B+(Awakened), S, UR
Zygarde: I understand your concerns Seol Jin. But please listen to what I have to say.
Zygarde pointed to the map once more.
Zygarde: Thanks to the efforts of "Lu Bu" and the action force leaders, we have established footholds in Ojeon-dong, Oseo-dong and Gaehwa-dong.
"Lu Bu" reclined his chair and flicked his sunglasses. The men surrounding him did the same.
Yun: Jokesters.
Zygarde: Samgawi. You're up.
Samgawi took the position of Zygarde and began his presentation.
Samgawi: Thank You. As he mentioned, we've taken care of most of the regions. Using this, we could cross over the line and attack the very heart of the South -- Naebalsan-dong.
Samgawi also pointed at Bucheon.
Samgawi: Very soon, we may even be able to take over Bucheon.
William: Well what about the original plan of going through Haneul Park?
Samgawi: That will be done too -- a two-pronged attack. The 5 greats are on it.
Zygarde stepped in.
Zygarde: Our job is to support them.
Zygarde: Action
Zygarde: Kai. William Action Force A and B. Haneul Park.
[North Gangseo (No 6): "The Scourge" Kai Jin Ma]: LR, UR+, A(Awakened), B+, LR
[North Gangseo (No 7): "Swordsman" William Texiter]: LR, LR, S(Awakened), A, UR+
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force A]): Samgawi Gonchung]: S-, A+, A, A+, S-
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force B]): Jun Hao]: S+, S, A+, C, S+
Samgawi's potential is peaking Jun Hao's potential is peaking
Zygarde: Yun. Yechan. Action Force D and E. Gogang-dong.
[North Gangseo (No 8): "Tactician" Oh Yechan]: UR+, LR, B+(Awakened), S, UR+
[North Gangseo (No 9): "Six Fingers" Seongji Yun]: UR+, UR+, S(Awakened), B, LR+
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force D]): Jinun Kang]: S, S-, A, C, S
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force E]): Wooseok Shin]: S, S+, A, B, A
Zygarde: Evan. Seol-jin. Action Force C. Me. Naebalsan-dong.
[North Gangseo (No 4): "Lu Bu" Evan Yang]: LR+, UR+, A+ (Awakened), D, LR+ (Resting)
[North Gangseo (No 5): "Commander" Zygarde Lee]: UR+, UR+, A+ (Awakened), S+, UR+
[North Gangseo (No 10): "Vanguard" Kim Seol Jin]: LR+, LR, B(Awakened), C, LR+
[North Gangseo (Personal Executive [Head of Action Force C]): Seojun Ha]: S+, SS-, B(Awakened), B, S
Zygarde: The fall of the South will be imminent.
Zygarde's potential is fighting its limits!
2024.05.11 04:54 shaneka69 Chrisean Rock Numerology Report
Chrisean Rock Numerology Report
This Numerology report will be for Chrisean Rock who was born in Baltimore Maryland and who is a star based on her connection to Blueface and Natalie Nunn's Baddies show on Zeus Network.Chrisean's Numerology Report will be a decoding all from her name, not her birthday. Her birthday is one thing that can't ever change in her lifetime so that energy is fixed and general.
Chrisean's full name is "Chrisean Eugenia Malone". I will first decode her first name separately as it's the most significant energy and then I will do a full name decode as well.
Let's start breaking down her name.
C - This is the third letter of the alphabet which gives it the energy of 3 and 3 energy could be very social or creative. This can also give someone a child like impression or there could be something about them that is very jolly or it reminds you of a child sometimes. This can make them come off approachable at times as well. Names that start with this letter, it makes three and the letter C the most significant energy. This shows how Chrisean and anyone else who has a name that starts with this letter approaches the world and people around them in a very curious manner. These people wake up every day waiting to explore and seeing what they can learn or find out for that day.
H - H is connected to energy that has pressure but this is also connected to ambition as well. This could be why Chrisean has a lot of ambition and the capability of mastering something in her lifetime which also fits well with the number 9 which is connected to her R and I letters.
R - This letter vibrates at the number 9 even though it is the 18th letter and this gives someone the capability of mastering themselves or mastering something physical or amazing. This also gives them strong, ambitious energy as well and we can see that she has a very fit body and into sports, plus she has an Aries Mars.
I - This is the 9th letter of the alphabet which makes someone very adventurous by nature and they have the capability of being quick to take action. This is very spontaneous energy so when people have this letter in their name, they can definitely shock people a lot. This also contributes to someone being a traveler of some sort so people with this letter in their name, especially more than once can indicate someone that is likely going to be taking trips or flying planes. They basically will get out of their hometown even if they return to it, but they will know what another country and city looks like for sure.
S - Being the 19th letter of the alphabet gives this letter the energy of one, but it is the energy of empowerment right from within and this could be someone that wants to do their own thing as well. These people could be impulsive or they know how to take initiative, especially when something has really motivated them or sparked their interests.
E - This is the 5th letter of the alphabet which gives someone the energy of creativity and this can also make someone visually appealing or they could have some type of creative skill. This also contributes to the energy of complexity, but she only has this once so it's not too complex, at least not from this letter. This letter gives her a fighting power or a fighting spirit so she is capable of utilizing her natural strength to overcome difficulty.
A - This is the first letter of the alphabet which contributes to independence and action.
N - This is the 14th letter of the alphabet which vibrates at the energy 5 just like E, but a matured version. This adds onto her capability of overcoming difficulty and also being creative or making something tangible from her creativity.
Looking into her full name, she has a Destiny Number 1, soul urge 5, and personality #5.
5 is the number connected to romance, children, war, and unpredictability which is definitely fitting as she always shocked people with her actions and how combative she is, but she is pretty aware as well.
Based on her #1 Destiny number, She is meant to come into her personal power and experience some ease, but this 1 energy may also contribute to her child-like actions as well. She is wise, although the 1 energy is connected to new spirit type of energy. The fact that she has this matches with her strong Aries Mars influence. The 1 destiny number also is why she takes things personal to a fault.
Her having a 5 soul urge gives her natural fighting powespirit. This also connects to her romantic nature and how she always wanted Blueface to please her or she put their romantic life on blast, but not for attention, just from a natural place.
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2024.05.11 03:11 flippenphil (Offer) 50 rare & uncommon additions (Request) Bodies Bodies Bodies, the Marvels 4K, Poor Things, Priscilla, Sound of Freedom, the Untouchables, the whale, wish 4k, Devotion, Easter Sunday, the machine, redeeming love, Tin Cup, Trick r' Treat xml, Young Sherlock Holmes, New Releases & OFFERS
Updated: 05/11/2024
All Codes Traded for personal use only, rewards used & Codes are split
COMBO Films
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All Codes Traded for personal use only, rewards used & Codes are split
COMBO Films
- 2: My Girl 1 & 2 SD MA
- 2: John Wick 1 & chapter 2 HD (FN or GP)
- 2: Elysium / District 9 HD MA
- 3: Expendables Trilogy HD FN
- 3: Mall Cop / Zookeeper / Boom SD MA
- 3: Night at the Museum: Trilogy SD MA
- 3: Predator Trilogy HD MA
- 3: The Other Guys, Step Brothers, Talladega Nights SD MA
- 4: The Magnificent Seven Collection HD FN
- 4: Me Myself and Irene, Super Troopers, the Sitter, Lets Be Cops HD MA
- 6: Joe Dirt, Benchwarmers, House Bunny, The Animal, Deuce Bigalow, Master Of Disguise SD MA
- 9: Saw 9 film Collection HD FN
- 10 Clover Field Lane HD FN only
- 101 Dalmatians HD MA
- 101 Dalmatians (GP) HD MA
- 101 Dalmatians 2: Patch's London adventure* HD MA
- 12 Rounds 2 Reload HD MA
- 12 Years A Slave HD MA
- 127 Hours (iTune) SD MA
- 13 Hours: The Secret Soldiers of Benghazi HD FN or 4k iTune (split)
- 1917 HD MA
- 2 Guns HD MA
- 2 Guns 4K MA (iTune Portion)
- 21st Jump Street SDHD MA
- 22nd Jump Street SD MA
- 3 From Hell 4K (FN Or iTune)
- 3:10 to Yuma SD FN
- the 300 Spartans HD MA
- 47 Ronin HD MA (MA Redeem, FN Kills Code)
- 47 Ronin MA 4K (iTune Portion)
- the 5th Wave SDHD MA
- A.C.O.D. HD FN or iTune (split)
- the A-Team (iTune) SD MA
- About Last Night HD MA
- Abraham Lincoln Vampire Hunter HD MA
- Ad Astro HD MA
- Addicted SD FN
- Admission (iTune redeem) HD MA
- the Adventures Of Tintin SD (FN Or iTune)
- After Earth SD MA
- the Age Of Adaline HD FN
- Aladdin [live action] HD MA
- Aladdin (diamond) [animated] HD MA
- Aladdin (diamond) [animated] (GP) HD MA
- Aladdin (signature) [animated] (GP) HD MA
- Aladdin and the King of Thieves HD MA
- Aladdin: the return of Jafar HD MA
- Aladdin: the return of Jafar (GP) HD MA
- Alex Cross HD FN
- Alice Through The Looking Glass HD MA
- Alien Covenant HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Aliens In The Attic (iTune) SD MA
- All Is Lost HD FN
- Aloha SD MA
- Alpha SD MA
- Alpha and Omega HD FN
- Alpha and Omega 3: Great Wolf Games HD FN
- Alvin And The Chipmunks: the Road Chip HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Amazing Spiderman SDHD MA
- the Amazing Spiderman 2 SDHD MA
- Amelia (iTune) SD MA
- America: Imagine a World Without Her HD FN
- American Assassin HD FN/GP/iTune
- American Made HD MA
- American Girl: Mckenna Shoots For The Stars HD MA
- American Girl: Mckenna Shoots For The Stars (iTune redeem) HD MA
- American Hustle SDHD MA
- American Reunion [Unrated] HD MA
- American Reunion [Unrated] (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Anchorman 2 HD (FN Or iTune)
- And So It Goes HD MA
- the Angry Birds Movie HD MA
- Annie (2014) SDHD MA
- Annihilation HD (FN Or iTune) Split
- Anyone But You SD MA
- Apollo 13 4K MA
- the Aristocats HD MA
- the Arrival HD (FN Or 4k iTune) Split
- the Art of Self Defense HD MA
- Arthur (iTune) SD MA
- Arthur Christmas SD MA
- the Artist SD MA
- Assassin's Creed HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Atlantis: Milo's Return HD MA
- Atomic Blonde HD MA
- Atomic Blonde (iTune Portion) 4K MA
- August Osage County HD FN
- the Avengers HD MA
- the Avengers HD (GP) MA
- Avengers: Age of Ultron HD MA
- Avengers: Age of Ultron HD (GP) MA
- Avengers: End Game HD (GP) MA
- Avengers: Infinity War 4KHD MA
- Avengers: Infinity War (GP) HD MA
- Babylon A.D. (iTune) SD MA
- Bad Boys For Life SD MA
- Bad Grandpa HD FN Or iTune (split)
- Bad Moms (iTune) HD MA
- Bad Moms HD MA
- Bad Words HD MA
- Bad Words (iTune) HD MA
- the Bank Job HD FN
- Barbie & Her Sisters In A Puppy Chase HD MA
- Barbie Mariposa & the Fairy Princes (iTune) HD MA
- Barbie Star Light Adventure (iTune) HD MA
- Batman: Year One (iTune) SD MA
- Battle Of The Year HD MA
- Battleship 4K (iTune Portion) MA
- Battleship HD MA
- Baywatch (FN-HD Or iTune-4K)
- Beauty And The Beast (signature) [Animated] HD MA
- Beauty And The Beast [Animated] (GP) HD MA
- Beethoven Treasure Tail (iTune Portion) HD MA
- Beethoven Treasure Tail HD MA
- Before I Fall HD MA
- Before I Fall (iTune Portion) HD MA
- Begin Again HD FN
- Beirut HD MA
- Ben-Hur [2016] FN HD or 4k iTune (split)
- Big Hero HD (GP) MA
- the Best Man Holiday HD MA
- the Best Man Holiday (iTune) HD MA
- Big Miracle (iTune) HD MA
- Big Mommas: Like Father, Like Son (iTune) SD MA
- the Big Short HD FN Or iTune (split)
- the Big Sick FN/Gp Or iTune (split)
- the Big Wedding HD FN Or iTune
- the Big Wedding SD FN
- Billy Elliot [the movie] HD MA
- Black Nativity [Extended] HD MA
- Black Panther (GP) HD MA
- Black Panther: Wakanda Forever HD MA
- Black Panther: Wakanda Forever (GP) HD MA
- Black Swan (iTune) SD MA
- Blackhat HD MA (iTune Portion)
- Blood Father SD FN
- Bloodshot SD MA
- Blue Jasmine HD MA
- Body Cam HD FN or iTune 4k
- Bohemian Rhapsody HD MA
- Boo! A Madea Halloween HD V/I/GP
- Book Club HD FN (iTune split)
- the Book Of Life HD MA
- the Boss (from theatrical) [iTune redeem] HD MA
- Boss Baby HD MA
- the Bourne: Identity HD MA
- the Bourne: Identity (iTune) 4K MA
- the Bourne: Legacy HD MA
- the Bourne: Legacy (iTune) 4K MA
- the Bourne: Supremacy HD MA
- the Bourne: Supremacy (iTune) 4K MA
- the Boy [unrated] HD MA
- the Boy [unrated] HD MA (iTune portion)
- the Boy Next Door HD FN Or iTune (split)
- Boyhood HD FN Or iTune (split)
- Brave [Disney] (iTune) SD MA
- the Breakfast Club HD MA
- the Breakfast Club (iTune) HD MA
- Breakthrough HD MA
- Brian Banks HD MA
- Bride Wars (iTune) SD MA
- Brides Maids (iTune) HD MA
- Bring It On: Cheersmack HD MA
- Broken City HD FN
- Brother Bear HD MA
- Brother Bear 2 HD MA
- BumbleBee HD FN or 4k iTune
- the Butler HD FN
- the Bye Bye Man HD MA (iTune Portion)
- the Cabin In The Woods SD FN Or iTune (split)
- the Cabin In The Woods HD FN Or GP
- the Call SD MA
- the Call Of The Wild (GP) HD MA
- the Call Of The Wild HD MA
- Captain America: Civil War HD (GP) MA
- Captain America: the First Avenger HD MA
- Captain America: the First Avenger HD (GP) MA
- Captain America: Winter Soldier HD (GP) MA
- Captain Marvel HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Captain Marvel HD (GP) MA
- Captain Phillips SDHD MA
- Captain Under Pants: The First Epic Movie HD MA
- the Captive HD FN
- Carrie [2013] (FN or GP) HD
- Cars HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Cars 2 [from 3D] (iTune) SD MA
- Cars 3 (GP) HD MA
- the Case For Christ (iTune) HD MA
- the Case For Christ HD MA
- Cedar Rapids (iTune) SD MA
- the Change Up (iTune) HD MA
- the Change Up Unrated (iTune) HD MA
- Chappie SD MA
- Charlies Angels [2019] SD MA
- Chasing Mavericks [2012] HD MA
- Chef (iTune) HD MA
- the Choice HD (FN Only)
- Chronicle (iTune) SD MA
- the Chronicles of Narnia: The Voyage Of The Dawn Treader (iTune) SD MA
- Clash of the Titans (iTune) SD MA
- Cloudy With A Chance Of Meatballs 2 SDHD MA
- Coal Miner's Daughter HD MA
- Coal Miner's Daughter HD MA (iTune portion)
- Cold Pursuit HD FN Or GP (Or iTune 4K)
- Colombiana (unrated) HD MA
- the Commuter HD V/i/GP
- Concussion (Smitch) SD MA
- the Condemned 2 HD FN
- Contraband (iTune) HD MA
- the Corrupted HD FN or iTune (split)
- the Counselor HD MA
- Cowboys And Aliens (iTune) HD MA
- Criminal SD FN
- the Croods HD MA
- the Croods (iTune) SD MA
- Cruella HD MA
- Cruella (GP) HD MA
- Cult Of Chucky [unrated] HD MA
- Cult Of Chucky [unrated] HD MA (iTune)
- Curse Chucky (iTune) HD MA
- Curse Of Chucky HD MA
- Daddy's Home HD FN (Or 4K iTune) Split
- Dallas Buyers Club HD (iTune) MA
- Dark Crimes HD FN Or GP (Or iTune 4K)
- the Dark Tower HD MA
- Date Night (iTune) SD MA
- Dawn Of The Planet Of The Apes HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Day The Earth Stood Still (iTune) SD MA
- Dead In Tombstone [unrated] HD MA
- Dead Man Down SD MA
- Deadpool HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Deadpool 2 [super dooper cut] HD MA
- Death On The Nile HD MA
- Death Race 3 [unrated] HD MA
- Death Race 3 [unrated] (iTune portion) HD MA
- Death Wish (2018) HD FN or GP
- the Descendants (iTune) SD MA
- Deliver Us From Evil SD MA
- Despicable Me (iTune) SD MA
- Despicable Me 2 (4K iTune) MA
- Despicable Me 2 HD MA
- the Devil Inside SD FN
- Diary Of A Wimpy Kid (iTune) SD MA
- the Dictator SD FN
- Die Hard: A Good Day To Die (iTune) SD MA
- the Dilemma HD MA
- Dirty Dancing SD FN/iTune/GP
- Dirty Grandpa SD FN
- Disney Nature: Bears HD MA
- Disney Nature: Born in China HD MA
- Disney Nature: Monkey Kingdom HD MA
- Divergent HD FN
- Divergent Series: Allegiant SDHD FN
- Divergent Series: Insurgent HD FN/GP (iTune Split)
- Divergent Series: Insurgent SD FN
- Django Unchained HD FN
- Doctor Strange [Marvel] (GP) HD MA
- Doctor Strange: Multiverse of Madness HD MA
- Doctor Strange: Multiverse of Madness (GP) HD MA
- A Dogs Way Home HD MA
- Dolittle HD MA
- Don't Breathe SD MA
- Downsizing HD FN & iTune 4K
- Downton Abbey The Movie HD MA
- Dracula Untold (iTune) 4K MA
- Dracula Untold HD MA
- Draft Day SD FN
- Dragon Heart 3 (iTune) HD MA
- Dragon Heart 3 HD MA
- Dreamhouse (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Dredd HD FN Or iTune (split)
- Dredd 4K FN Or iTune (Or GP HD)
- Due Date (iTune) SD MA
- the Duel SD FN
- the Duff HD FN
- Dumb and Dumber To (iTune) HD MA
- Dumbo [animated] HD MA
- Dying Of The Light HD FN
- Eddie The Eagle HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Edward Scissorshands HD MA
- Elysium SD MA
- the Emoji Movie HD MA
- Empire State HD FN
- End Of Watch (iTune) HD MA
- Ender's Game 4K FN/iTune Split
- Ender's Game HD FN/iTune/GP
- Enemies Closer HD FN
- Enough Said HD MA
- Epic (iTune) SD MA
- Epic HD MA
- Escape Plan HD FN*
- ET (iTune) SD MA (from bluray)
- ET SDHD MA
- the Equalizer SDHD MA
- the Equalizer 2 SD MA
- Ex Machina HD FN
- Exodus: Gods And Kings HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Expendables 2 HD FN/iTune/GP
- the Expendables 3 4K FN
- the Expendables 3 [unrated] HD
- the Expendables 3 HD FN Or iTune (split)
- Extraction HD FN
- Fantastic Four [2015] HD (4k iTune Redeem) MA
- Fast & Furious 1 (iTune) HD MA
- Fast & Furious 1 HD MA
- Fast & Furious 2 (4K iTune) MA
- Fast & Furious 3 HD MA
- Fast & Furious 4 HD MA
- Fast & Furious 4 (iTune) SD MA
- Fast & Furious 5 Extended (iTune) HD MA
- Fast & Furious 5 Extended HD MA
- Fast & Furious 6 Extended (4K iTune) MA
- Fast & Furious 6 Extended HD MA
- Fast & Furious 7 Extended HD MA
- Fast & Furious 7 Extended (4K iTune) MA
- Fast Furious 8 Extended 4K MA
- Fast Furious 8 Extended HD MA
- Fast Furious 8 Theatrical 4K MA
- Fast Furious 8 Theatrical HD MA
- Father And Daughters SD FN
- the Fault In Our Stars HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Fault In Our Stars HD MA (no Upgrade)
- Fences HD FN or iTune 4K (split)
- Ferdinand HD MA
- Ferris Bueller's Day Off (FN Only) HD
- Fifty Shades Darker [unrated] (iTune) HD MA
- Fifty Shades Darker [unrated] HD MA
- Fifty Shades Of Grey [unrated] HD MA
- Fifty Shades Of Grey [standard] 4K (iTune) MA
- the Fighter HD (FN / iTune) Split
- Finding Dory (GP) HD MA
- Finding Dory HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Finding Nemo (GP) HD MA
- Five Feet Apart HD (FN / GP / iTune)
- the Five Year Engagement (iTune) HD MA
- Flight HD (FN / iTune ) Split
- Footloose (2011) SD (FN Or iTune)
- Forest Gump HD FN only
- Fox and the Hound HD MA
- Fox and the Hound 2 HD MA
- Free Guy HD MA
- Free Guy (GP) HD MA
- Fright Night 2 UR HD MA
- the Front Runner SD +MA
- Frozen HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Frozen (GP) HD MA
- Frozen -Sing Along Edition HD MA
- Frozen -Sing-Along Edition (GP) HD MA
- Frozen Ground HD FN
- Fury SDHD MA
- G.I. Joe Retaliation HD FN Or iTune 4K (split)
- the Gambler HD (FN / iTune Split)
- Gemini Man HD FN or iTune
- Get The Gringo (iTune) SD MA
- Ghost In The Shell [2017] HD FN Only
- Ghost Rider Spirit Of Vengeance SD MA
- Ghost Team One HD FN or iTune (split)
- Ghostbusters: Afterlife SD MA
- Ghostbusters: Answer The Call & Extended SD MA
- the Gift HD MA (iTune)
- Gifted HD MA
- the Girl In The Spidersweb SD MA
- the Girl On The Train MA 4K (iTune)
- the Girl On The Train MA HD
- the Giver HD FN
- Glass HD MA
- Glee The Concert (iTune) SD MA
- God's Not Dead 3: A Light In Darkness HD MA
- the Godfather HD FN or 4k iTune
- Gods Of Egypt HD FN (and iTune 4K split)
- Gods Of Egypt SD FN
- A Good Day To Die Hard HD MA
- A Good Day To Die Hard (iTune) SD MA
- the Good Dinosaur HD [4K iTune Redeemed] MA
- the Good Dinosaur (GP) HD MA
- A Good Man SD FN
- Goosebumps 2 SD MA
- Grace Unplugged HD FN
- Gran Turismo SD MA
- the Great Wall (iTune Portion) 4K MA
- the Great Wall HD MA
- the Greatest Showman HD MA
- Green Room HD FN
- the Grey (iTune) HD MA
- Grown Ups 2 SD MA
- Guardians Of The Galaxy HD MA (4k if redeemed in iTune)
- Guardians Of The Galaxy HD MA (no 4K Upgrade)
- Guardians Of The Galaxy (GP) HD MA
- Guardians Of The Galaxy Vol. 2.0 HD MA
- Guardians Of The Galaxy Vol. 2.0 (GP) HD MA
- the Gunman HD MA
- the Gunman (iTune) HD MA
- Guns Akimbo HD (FN/iTune/GP)
- Gutshot SD FN
- Hacksaw Ridge 4K FN/GP
- Hacksaw Ridge HD FN Or GP (Or iTune 4K)
- Hail, Caesar! HD MA
- Hail, Caesar! (iTune) HD MA
- Hammer Of The Gods SDHD FN
- Hansel & Gretel [unrated] HD FN / HD iTune (split)
- Hands of Stone HD FN
- the Hangover (iTune) SD MA
- Hardcore Henry HD MA (iTune)
- the Hateful Eight HD FN Or GP
- Haunted House 2 (iTune) HD MA
- the Haunting In Connecticut 2 Ghosts Of Georgia HD FN
- the Haves and the Have Nots SD FN
- the Heat HD MA
- the Heat (iTune) SD MA (will Send First)
- Heaven Is For Real SDHD MA
- Hell Or High Water SD FN
- Hercules HD FN / 4k iTune (split)
- Here Comes The Boom SD MA
- the Hero of Big City (FN Promo) SD
- Hidden Figures HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Hillsong: Let Hope Rise HD MA
- Hitman [unrated] SD MA
- fast & furious: Hobbs & Shaw HD MA
- Hocus Pocus HD MA
- Hocus Pocus (GP) HD MA
- Hologram For A King SD FN
- Home HD MA
- Home Again HD MA
- Home Alone 4KHD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Home Alone 2: Lost In New York HD MA
- Homefront (iTune) HD MA
- Homefront HD MA
- the Homesman HD FN
- Honey 2 (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Honey 2 HD MA
- Honey: Rise Up and Dance HD MA
- Hop (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Hop HD MA
- Hope Springs SDHD MA
- Horton Hears A Who (iTune) SD MA
- the Host (iTune) HD MA
- Hostiles 4K FN/iTune/(GP HD)
- Hotel Transylvania SD MA
- Hotel Transylvania 2 SD MA
- Hotel Transylvania 3 SD MA
- Hottub Time Machine 2 HD FN or iTune (split)
- Hours SD FN
- House With A Clock In Its Walls HD MA
- Dr. Suess: How the Ginch Stole Christmas HD MA
- How To Train A Dragon 2 HD MA
- Hugo SD (FN Or iTune)
- the Hunger Games HD FN
- the Hunger Games: Catching Fire HD FN
- the Hunger Games: Mocking Jay Part 1 HD FN
- the Hunger Games: Mocking Jay Part 2 HD FN
- the Hunt (2020) HD MA
- I Can Only Imagine HD FN/iTune/GP
- I See You HD FN (no iTune)
- I, Frankenstein HD FN/iTune/GP
- Ice Age HD MA
- Ice Age: A Mammoth Christmas HD MA
- Ice Age: A Mammoth Christmas (iTune) SD MA
- Ice Age: Collision Course HD [4K if iTune Redeemed] MA
- Ice Age: Dawn Of Dinosaurs (iTune) SD MA
- Ice Age: the Great Egg-Scapade HD MA
- the Ides Of March HD MA
- if There Be Thorns SD FN
- the Imitation Game HD FN
- In Time (iTune) SD MA
- Incarnate (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Independence Day Resurgence HD MA (no Upgrade)
- Independence Day Resurgence HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Inferno HD MA
- Inglorious Bastards (iTune) SD MA
- Inside Man HD MA
- Inside Out HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Inside Out (google Redeem) HD MA
- Insidious Chapter 2 SD MA
- Insidious Chapter 3 SD MA
- Insidious: the last key SDHD MA
- Instructions Not Included HD FN
- Internship HD MA
- Internship (iTune) SD MA
- Interstellar HD (FN Or 4K iTune) Split
- the Interview SDHD MA
- Into The Spider-verse SD MA
- Iron Man 3 (GP) HD MA
- Iron Man 3 HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Jack & Jill HD MA
- Jack Reacher SD FN
- Jack Reacher HD FN /4K iTune (split)
- Jack Reacher: Never Go Back HD FN /4K iTune (split)
- Jack Ryan: Shadow Recruit HD FN Or iTune
- Jackass 3 HD FN
- Jarhead 2 [unrated] HD MA
- Jarhead 2 [unrated] HD MA (iTune portion)
- Jarhead Law Of Return HD MA
- Jason Bourne HD MA
- Jason Bourne 4K MA (iTune portion)
- Jaws HD MA
- Jobs HD MA
- Joe SD FN
- John Wick SD4K (FN, iTune Or SDHD-GP)
- John Wick 2 (Chapter 2) HD (FN, iTune Or HD-GP)
- John Wick 3 4K (FN, iTune Or HD-GP)
- John Wick 4 4K (FN Or iTune)
- Joy HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Joy HD MA
- Jumanji: the Next Level SD MA
- Jumanji: Welcome To The Jungle SD MA
- Jumper (iTune) SD MA
- the Jungle Book [2016] (preorder) HD MA
- Jungle Book [animated] HD MA
- Jungle Cruise (GP) HD MA
- Juno (iTune) SD MA
- Jurassic Park (4K iTune) MA
- Jurassic Park HD MA
- Jurassic Park 2: Lost World (4K iTune) MA
- Jurassic Park 2: Lost World HD MA
- Jurassic Park 3 (4K iTune) MA
- Jurassic World (4K iTune) MA
- Jurassic World HD MA
- Jurassic World: Fallen Kingdom HD MA
- Just Wright (iTune) SD MA
- Justin Bieber: Never Say Never HD FN / iTune (split)
- Katy Perry: Part of Me SDHD FN / SDHD iTune (Split)
- Keeping Up with the Jones (4K iTune Redeem) +MA
- Kevin Heart: Let Me Explain HD
- Kickass HD FN
- Kickass 2 HD MA
- Kidnap HD MA
- Kidnap (iTune) HD MA
- Killer Elite (iTune) HD MA
- Killing Them Softly HD FN
- Kin HD FN/iTune/GP
- the Kingsman: The Golden Circle HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Kingsman: The Secret Service HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Kingsman: The Secret Service SD (FN) MA
- Knight And Day (iTune) SD MA
- Knives Out 4K (FN, iTune or GP)
- Kung Fu Panda 3 HD MA
- La La Land HD FN or GP or 4k iTune
- Labor Day HD FN Only
- the Last Exorcism Past2 (unrated) SD MA
- Last Knights HD FN
- the Last Stand HD
- Last Vegas SD MA
- the Last Witch Hunter SD FN
- the Legend Of Hercules HD FN
- Legends of OZ: Dorothy's Return HD MA
- Les Miserables [2012] (iTune redeem) 4K MA
- Les Miserables [2012] HD MA
- Let's Be Cops HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Life HD MA
- Life As We Know It (iTune) SD MA
- Life Of Pi HD (4K iTune Through Foxredeem) MA
- the Lion King [animated] HD MA
- the Lion King [animated] (GP) HD MA
- the Lion King 1 1/2 HD MA
- the Lion King 1 1/2 (GP) HD MA
- the Lion King 2 Simba's Pride HD MA
- the Little Mermaid HD MA
- the Little Mermaid (GP) HD MA
- Little Women (2019) SDHD MA
- Lockout (unrated) SD MA
- Logan HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Logan Lucky 4K (iTune) MA
- the Lone Ranger (GP) HD MA
- the Lone Ranger HD MA
- Lone Survivor HD MA
- Lone Survivor 4K (iTune) MA
- the Longest Ride HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Longest Week HD FN
- Looper SD MA
- the Lorax (iTune) HD MA
- the Lorax HD MA
- the Lords Of Salem HD FN
- Love Actually (iTune) SD MA
- Love Actually SD MA
- Love & Mercy HD FN
- Love & Other Drugs (iTune) SD MA
- Love the Coopers HD FN
- Lucy HD MA
- Lucy 4k MA (iTune redeem)
- Machete (iTune) SD MA
- Madagascar 3: Europe's Most Wanted HD MA
- A Madea Christmas HD FN
- A Madea Family Funeral HD (FN / iTune OR GP)
- Madea's Neighbors From Hell The Play SD FN
- Madea's Witness Protection HD FN Or iTune
- Madea's Witness Protection SD FN
- the Magnificent Seven [2016] SDHD FN
- Maggie HD FN Only
- Maleficent (GP) HD MA
- Maleficent HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Maleficent: mistress of evil (GP) HD MA
- Mall Cop 2 SD MA
- Mallrats HD MA
- Mamma Mia! (iTune) SD MA
- Mamma Mia! Here We Go Again HD MA
- the Man With The Iron Fists (iTune) HD MA
- Mandela Long Walk To Freedom HD FN
- Marauders HD FN
- the Marine 4 HD FN
- the Marine 6: close quarters SD MA
- Marley & Me (iTune) SD MA
- the Martian SD MA
- the Martian HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Marry Me HD MA
- Mary Poppins HD MA
- Mary Poppins (GP) HD MA
- Mary Poppins: Returns HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Mary Poppins: Returns (GP) HD MA
- Max Payne SD (iTune) MA
- Max Steel (iTune) HD MA
- the Maze Runner HD (no Upgrade)
- McFarland USA HD MA
- the Mechanic: Resurrection HD (FN or GP, iTune)
- the Mechanic: Resurrection SD FN
- Megan Leavey (iTune) HD MA
- Megan Leavey HD MA
- Men In Black 3 SDHD MA
- Men In Black: International HD MA
- Midway 4K FN/iTune or GP
- Mike & Dave Need A Wedding Date HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Minions (4K iTune) MA
- Minions HD MA
- Miss Bala SD MA
- Miss Peregrine's Home For Peculiar Children HD (4K iTune redeem) MA
- Miss Peregrine's Home For Peculiar Children HD MA (FN Redeem)
- Mission Impossible: Fallout HD (FN or iTune)
- Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocal HD FN / 4K iTune (Split)
- Mission Impossible: Ghost Protocal Dvd (FN)
- Mission Impossible: Rogue Nation (HD FN Or iTune 4K)
- Moana HD (GP) MA
- Mom's Night Out SD MA
- Moneyball HD MA
- Monster High: Electrified HD MA
- Monster Hunter HD MA
- Monte Carlo (iTune) SD MA
- the Monuments Men SDHD MA
- Moonlight HD FN
- Monster High: Freaky Fusion HD MA
- Monster High: Freaky Fusion [iTune redeem] HD MA
- Monster Trucks HD FN or 4k iTune (split)
- A Monster's Call HD MA
- A Monster's Call (iTune) HD MA
- Mortal Instruments SD MA
- A Most Wanted Man HD FN
- the Mountain Between Us HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Mr. Holmes HD FN
- Mr. Popper's Penguins (iTune) SD MA
- Mud HD FN
- the Mummy: Tomb Of The Dragon Emperor (iTune) SD MA
- Mummy [2017] HD MA
- Mummy [2017] (iTune portion) 4K MA
- Murder on the Oriental Express HD MA
- My Big Fat Greek Wedding 2 (iTune redeem) HD MA
- My Life As A Zucchini (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Nebraska HD FN
- Neighbors (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Neighbors 2 (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Nerve SD FN
- News of the World HD MA
- Night At The Museum HD MA
- Night At The Museum 2: Battle Of The Smithsonian HD MA
- Night At The Museum 2: Battle Of The Smithsonian (iTune) SD MA
- Night At The Museum 3: Secret Of The Tomb HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Nightmare Before Christmas (GP) HD MA
- No Country For Old Men HD FN Or GP
- No Escape HD FN
- No Good Deed SDHD MA
- No Hard Feelings SDHD MA
- No Strings Attached HD FN Or iTune (split)
- Noah HD FN Or iTune (split)
- Non-stop (iTune) HD MA
- Non-stop HD MA
- Norm Of The North HD FN Only
- Now You See Me 4K FN/iTune/GP
- Now You See Me HD FN
- Now You See Me HD FN/iTune/GP
- Now You See Me 2 SD FN
- the Nut Job 2 HD MA
- the Nut Job 2 (iTune) HD MA
- Oblivion (iTune portion) 4K MA
- Oblivion HD MA
- Office Party HD FN or iTune (split)
- Olaf's Frozen Adventure HD MA
- Olaf's Frozen Adventure (GP) HD MA
- Olympus Has Fallen SD MA
- the Oranges (iTune) SD MA
- the Other Woman HD MA
- Our Family Wedding (iTune) SD MA
- Overcomer SD MA
- Overlord HD (FN or 4K iTune) Split
- Oz The Great And Powerful (GP) HD MA
- Oz The Great And Powerful HD MA
- Pacific Rim: Uprising 4KHD MA
- Paddington HD FN
- Pain & Gain HD FN Only
- Paranormal Activity 2 HD (FN Or iTune)
- Paranormal Activity 3 SD FN (try iTune at your own risk)
- Paranormal Activity 4 HD (FN Or iTune)
- Paranormal Activity Ghost Dimension HD (FN or iTune)
- Parental Guidance HD MA
- Parental Guidance (iTune) SD MA
- Parker SD MA
- Passengers HD MA
- Patriots Day HD FN (or 4K iTune)
- Paul [unrated] HD (iTune) MA
- Paul: Apostle of Christ SD +MA
- Peanuts Movies HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- we the 'Peeples' SDHD FN
- Penguins Of Madagascar HD MA
- Percy Jackson: Lightning Thief (iTune) SD MA
- Percy Jackson: Sea Of Monsters HD MA
- the Perfect Guy HD MA
- Perks Of Being A Wallflower HD FN Or iTune SD (split)
- Pete's Dragon [2016] HD MA
- Pete's Dragon [2016] (GP) HD MA
- Peter Rabbit SDHD MA
- Philomena HD FN
- Pirates Of The Caribbean: Dead Men Tell No Tales (GP) HD MA
- Pirates Of The Caribbean: Dead Men Tell No Tales HD MA (iTune kills code)
- Pirates! Band Of Misfits SD MA
- Pitch Black [unrated] (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Pitch Perfect HD MA
- Pitch Perfect [iTune redeem 4K] MA
- Pitch Perfect 2 HD MA
- Pitch Perfect 2 HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Pixels SD MA
- the Place Beyond the Pines (iTune) HD MA
- Planes (GP) HD MA
- Planes HD MA
- Planes Fire And Rescue HD MA
- Planes, Trains & Automobiles HD (FN or iTune)
- Playing For Keeps SD MA
- Pocahontas HD MA
- Pocahontas 2: Journey to the New World HD MA
- Pocahontas 2: Journey to the New World (GP) HD MA
- Pompeii SDHD MA
- Possession HD FN (SD iTune)
- the Possession of Hannah Grace SD MA
- Precious Cargo SD FN
- Predators (iTune) SD MA
- Premium Rush SD MA
- the Prince HD FN
- Prometheus HD MA
- Prometheus [iTune redeem] [?] MA
- the Protector 2 SD FN
- Public Enemies (iTune) SD MA
- the Purge (2013) 4K (iTune portion) MA
- the Purge (2013) HD MA
- the Purge: Election Year (2016) HD MA
- the purge: the Forever Purge (2021) HD MA
- Queen Of Katwe (GP) HD MA
- Queen Of Katwe HD MA
- a Quiet Place HD FN (Or iTune 4K)
- R.I.P.D. (iTune redeem) 4K MA
- R.I.P.D. HD MA
- Ralph Breaks The Internet (GP) HD MA
- Rambo HD FN Or GP (Or iTune 4K)
- Rambo: Last Blood 4K (FN,iTune Or HD-GP)
- Ramona And Beezus (iTune) SD MA
- Rango HD FN Or 4K iTune (split)
- Ray HD MA
- Rear Window HD MA
- Reasonable Doubt HD MA
- Red 2 HD FN
- Red Sparrow HD MA
- Redemption HD FN
- Reprisal HD FN
- Return To Never Land HD MA
- Return To Never Land (GP) HD MA
- Resident Evil: Final Chapter SD MA
- Resident Evil: Retribution SDHD MA
- the Revenant HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Rhythm Section HD FN or 4K iTune
- Ricki And The Flash SD MA
- Riddick [unrated] HD MA
- Riddick [unrated] (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Ride Along (iTune) HD MA
- Ride Along HD MA
- Ride Along 2 (iTune) HD MA
- Rio HD MA
- Rio (iTune) SD MA
- Rio 2 HD MA
- Rise Of The Guardians HD MA
- Rise Of The Planet Of Apes HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Rise Of The Planet Of Apes (iTune) SD MA
- Risen SDHD MA
- Robin Hood (1973) [Disney] (GP) HD MA
- Robin Hood (2010) [unrated] (iTune) SD MA
- Robin Hood (2018) FN/GP HD or iTune 4K
- Robocop 2014 HD FN Or GP
- the Rocker (iTune) SD MA
- the Rocky Horror Picture Show HD MA
- Rogue Warefare: the hunt HD FN or iTune
- Room HD FN
- Runner Runner HD MA
- Rush (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Russell Madness HD MA
- Saban's: Power Rangers HD FN Or iTune (split)
- Safe HD FN Only
- Safe House (iTune) HD MA
- Safe House HD MA
- Samson HD MA
- the Santa Clause HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- the Santa Clause HD (GP) MA
- Santa's Little Helper HD MA
- Sausage Party SD MA
- Savages (iTune) HD MA (theatrical)
- Saving Mr. Banks HD MA
- Saving Mr. Banks (GP) HD MA
- Scarface 4K (iTune) MA
- Scarface HD MA
- Scary Stories To Tell In the Dark 4K (FN/iTune or GP)
- Schindler's List SD MA
- Schindler's List [iTune redeem] [?] MA
- the Scorpion King 3: Battle For Redemption (iTune) HD MA
- the Scorpion King 3: Battle For Redemption HD MA
- the Scorpion King 4: Quest For Power (iTune) HD MA
- the Scorpion King 4: Quest For Power HD MA
- Seal Team 8: Behind Enemy Lines HD (FN Or GP)
- the Secret Life Of Pets HD MA
- the Secret Life Of Pets (4K iTune) MA
- the Secret Life Of Walter Mitty HD MA
- See No Evil 2 HD FN
- Seeds of Yesterday SD FN
- Selma HD (iTune redeem) HD MA
- Serena SD FN
- Seventh Son (iTune) HD MA
- Seventh Son HD MA (iTune Portion)
- Sex Tape SD MA
- the Shack HD FN/GP Or iTune (split)
- Shang-Chi: and the Legend of the Ten Rings HD MA
- Shang-Chi: and the Legend of the Ten Rings (GP) HD MA
- Shrek the Third HD MA
- Shutter Island 4K FN or Itune
- Sicario 4K FN or iTune
- Silver Linings Playbook HD (FN Or GP)
- A Simple Favor HD FN/iTune/GP
- Single Mom's Club HD
- Sin City: a Dame to Kill For HD FN
- Sinister HD FN or (SD iTune)
- Sinister 2 (iTune) HD MA
- Sisters [unrated] (iTune) HD MA
- Sisters [unrated] HD MA
- the Skeleton Twins HD FN
- Skin Trade HD FN Redeem
- Skiptrace SD FN
- Skyfall HD (FN Or GP)
- Skyscraper HD MA
- Sleepless (iTune) HD MA
- Slumdog Millionaire (iTune) SD MA
- the Smurfs 2 SDHD MA
- **Snake Eyes: G.I. Joe Origins HD FN or 4k iTune (split)
- Snatched HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Snitch HD FN only
- Snow White & The Huntsman (4K iTune) MA
- Snow White & The Huntsman HD MA
- Snowden HD MA
- Snowden (iTune) HD MA
- Solo: A Star Wars Story HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Son Of God HD MA
- Sonic The Hedge hog 2 4K (FN or iTune)
- Southpaw HD FN
- Sparkle SD MA
- the Spectacular Now SD FN
- Spectre 007 HD FN/GP/iTune
- Spider-man: Far From Home SDHD MA
- Spider-man: Homecoming HD MA
- Spider-man: No-way Home SDHD MA
- Split HD MA
- Split [iTune redeem] 4K MA
- the Sponge Bob Movie: Sponge Out Of Water HD FN / iTune (split)
- Spring Breakers HD FN
- Spy [unrated] HD MA
- the Spy Who Dumped Me HD V/I/GP
- Stand Up Guys HD FN
- the Star SD MA
- Starship Troopers: Invasion SD MA
- Star Trek [1] HD FN (Or 4K iTune) Split
- Star Trek [2] Into Darkness HD FN (Or 4K iTune) Split
- Star Trek [3] Beyond HD FN (Or 4K iTune) Split
- Star Trek: the motion picture HD FN or 4K iTune
- Star Trek: the Wrath of Khan HD FN or 4K iTune
- Star Trek: First Contact HD FN or iTune
- Star Trek: Insurrection HD FN or iTune
- Star Trek: Nemesis HD FN or iTune
- Star Wars: Force Awakens HD MA (No Upgrade)
- Star Wars: Force Awakens HD MA (4K iTune Redeem)
- Star Wars: Force Awakens (GP) HD MA
- Star Wars: the Last Jedi HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Star Wars: the Last Jedi (GP) HD MA
- Star Wars: Rise Of Skywalker 4K MA
- Star Wars: Rise Of Skywalker (GP) HD MA
- Step Up: All In HD FN
- Step Up: Revolution HD FN Or (iTune Quality Unknown)
- Still Alice SD MA
- Straight Out Of Compton (iTune) 4K MA
- Straight Out Of Compton [unrated] HD MA
- Street Kings (iTune) SD MA
- Sucker Punch (iTune) SD MA
- Sundown: the Vampire in Retreat HD FN or GP
- Super 8 HD FN only
- Super Buddies HD MA
- Super Buddies (GP) HD MA
- Super Troopers (iTune) SD MA
- Super Troopers HD MA
- Super Troopers 2 HD MA
- Tad: the Lost Explorer - and the secret of king midas HD FN / iTune (split)
- Taken (theatrical) SD MA
- Taken (Extended) SD MA
- Taken 2 HD MA
- Taken 3 (extended) HD MA
- Tarzan HD FN
- Ted (iTune) HD MA
- Ted [unrated] HD MA
- Ted [unrated] (iTune) HD MA
- Ted 2 (iTune) HD MA
- Ted 2 [unrated] HD MA
- Ted 2 [unrated] (iTune) HD MA
- Teen Spirit HD MA
- Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles HD FN/iTune split
- Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles: Out Of The Shadows HD FN/iTune split
- Temptation HD FN
- Texas Chainsaw HD (FN/iTune/GP) iTune Split
- Thanks For Sharing HD FN
- That Awkward Moment SD MA
- That's My Boy SDHD MA
- the Theory Of Everything (iTune) HD MA
- Think Like A Man SD MA
- Think Like A Man Too SDHD MA
- This Is 40 (iTune Portion) HD MA
- This Is 40 HD MA
- This Is The End SDHD MA
- Thor Love And Thunder 4K\HD MA
- Thor Love And Thunder (GP) HD MA
- Thor Ragnarok (GP) HD MA
- Thor Ragnarok HD MA
- A Thousand Words SD FN
- Three Billboards Outside Ebbing, Missouri HD MA
- the Three Stooges [the movie] (iTune) SD MA
- tinker tailor soldier (iTune) hd ma
- Tinkerbell And The Legend Of The NeverBeast HD MA
- Titanic HD FN (SD4K iTune)
- Tooth Fairy (itune) SD MA
- Top Gun HD FN & iTune (split)
- Top Gun Maverick 4K FN or iTune
- Total Recall (1990) HD FN
- Total Recall (2012) [theater & Extended] HD MA
- Total Recall (2012) SD MA
- Tower Heist (iTune) HD MA
- Toy Story 4 (GP) HD MA
- Trainwreck (iTune) HD MA
- Transformers: Age Of Extinction SDHD FN
- Transformers: Dark Of The Moon SDHD FN
- Transformers: The Last Knight (digital Cut) HD FN Or iTune 4K Split
- the Transporter HD MA
- the Transporter (iTune) SD MA
- Tremors 5: Bloodlines HD MA
- Tremors 5: Bloodlines (iTune) HD MA
- Tremors 6: A Cold Day In Hell HD MA
- Trolls HD MA
- True Grit HD FN (iTune Split)
- the Trust SD FN
- Turbo (iTune) SD MA
- Turbo HD MA
- Twilight: Breaking Dawn Pt 1 HD FN (SD iTune) split
- Twilight: Breaking Dawn Pt 2 HD FN (SD iTune) split
- Unbroken (iTune) HD MA
- Unbroken HD MA
- Under The Skin HD FN
- Underworld: Awakening SDHD MA
- Underworld: Bloodwars HD MA
- Unknown (iTune) SD MA
- Unstoppable (iTune) SD MA
- Vampires Suck (iTune) SD MA
- Valerian And The City Of A Thousand Planets HD FN
- the Vatican Tapes HD FN
- Vendetta (wwe) SD FN
- Venom SDHD MA
- Vertigo HD MA
- Vice (lionsgate) HD FN
- the Vow SDHD MA
- A Walk Among Tombstones (iTune) HD MA
- Walking With Dinosaurs HD MA
- Wall-E HD MA
- Wallstreet 2: Never Sleeps (iTune) SD MA
- Wanted (iTune) SD MA
- War Of The Planet Of The Apes HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- War Room SDHD MA
- Warcraft (4K iTune) MA
- Warcraft HD MA
- Warm Bodies HD FN
- Warm Bodies HD FN/GP/ iTune (4K iTune Split)
- the Watch HD MA
- Water For Elephants (iTune) SD MA
- We Bought A Zoo (iTune) SD MA
- the Wedding Ringer SD MA
- Werewolf: the Beast Among Us UR HD MA
- Werewolf: the Beast Among Us UR (iTune Portion) HD MA
- What Happens In Vegas (iTune) SD MA
- What To Expect When You're Expecting HD FN
- What's Your Number (iTune) SD MA
- When the Bough Breaks SD MA
- When The Game Stands Tall SDHD MA
- Where Hope Grows HD FN
- Whiplash HD MA
- White House Down SD MA
- Wild Card HD FN
- Winchester HD FN/GP/iTune
- the Witch SD FN
- the Wolf Of Wall Street HD FN (and 4K iTune Split)
- the Wolfman (iTune) SD MA
- the Wolverine (iTune) [SD?] MA
- the Wolverine [unrated] HD MA (must redeem on MA)
- the Wolverine [theatrical] (GP) HD MA
- the Woman In Black SD MA
- Woman In Gold HD FN
- Won't Back Down HD MA
- Wonder HD (iTune, FN Or GP)
- Wonder Park (FN HD or iTune 4k)
- Woodlawn HD MA
- Woodlawn (iTune) HD MA
- the Words (+ extended) hd ma
- Words and Pictures HD FN
- World War Z HD (FN Or iTune)
- the X-files: I Want To Believe (iTune) SD MA
- X2: X Men United SD (iTune) SD MA
- X Men Apocalypse HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- X Men Days Of Future Past HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- X Men Days Of Future Past HD MA
- X Men First Class (iTune) SD MA
- X Men Last Stand (iTune) SD MA
- X Men Origins Wolverine (iTune) SD MA
- XXX: Return Of Xander Cage HD FN (or iTune Split)
- Yesterday HD MA
- You're Next HD FN
- the Young Messiah (iTune) HD MA
- Zero Dark Thirty SDHD MA
- Zootopia HD (4K iTune Redeem) MA
- Zootopia (GP) HD MA
- Abduction SD (iTune)
- the Act Of Valor SD (iTune)
- the Adventures of Tin Tin HD (iTune)
- Alex Cross SD (iTune)
- All Eyez On Me HD (iTune)
- Allied HD (iTune)
- Annihilation 4KHD (iTune)
- Arrival 4K (iTune)
- Bankok Dangerous SD (iTune)
- the Bank Job SD (iTune)
- the Big Wedding HD (iTune)
- Book Club 4K (iTune)
- Brooklyn's Finest SD (iTune)
- Star Wars: Clone Wars SD (iTune)
- Crank 2 SD (iTune)
- Criminal 4K (iTune)
- Danger Close HD (iTune)
- Daybreakers SD (iTune)
- the Dictator HD (iTune)
- Divergent 4K (iTune)
- Divergent Series: Allegiant 4K (iTune)
- Divergent Series: Insurgent 4K (iTune)
- Don Jon SD (iTune)
- Draft Day HD (iTune)
- the Expendables [first movie] SD (iTune)
- the Expendables 3 [unrated] HD (iTune)
- the Eye SD (iTune)
- the Family SD (iTune)
- Family Guy Its A Trap (iTune)
- Forbidden Kingdom (iTune)
- G.I. Joe the Rise of the Cobra SD (iTune)
- Gamer iTune SD (iTune)
- Gemini Man 4k (iTune)
- Ghost In The Shell 4K (iTune)
- Gods Of Egypt 4K (iTune)
- Hansel & Gretel [unrated] HD (iTune)
- the Happytime Murders (apple Tv)
- the Haunting In Connecticut (iTune)
- House At The End Of The Street SD (iTune)
- Hercules 4K (iTune)
- Hugo (4k iTune)
- the Hunger Games [4k iTune] or [GP-HD]
- the Hunger Games: Catching Fire [4k iTune] or [HD GP]
- the Hunger Games: Mocking Jay Part 1 [4k iTune] or [HD GP]
- Hustler's (apple Tv)
- I Feel Pretty (apple Tv)
- Immortals (iTune)
- Instant Family 4K (iTune)
- Jack Reacher 4K (iTune)
- Jack Reacher: Never Go Back 4K (iTune)
- Jackass 3 [from unrated] (iTune)
- Jake and the Neverland Pirates: Jake saves Bucky SD (iTune)
- John Wick 4K (iTune)
- Katy Perry: Part of Me HD (iTune)
- Immortals (iTune)
- Interstellar 4K (iTune)
- La La Land 4K (iTune)
- Labor Day HD (iTune)
- the Last Witch Hunter 4K (iTune)
- Limitless SD (iTune)
- the Lincoln Lawyer (iTune)
- Machine Gun Preacher SD (iTune)
- Middle School: the Worse Years of My Life HD (iTune)
- Mirror Mirror SD (iTune)
- Mission Impossible: Fallout HD (iTune)
- Monster Trucks HD (iTune)
- Noah HD (iTune)
- Office Christmas Party 4K (iTune)
- One For The Money [Bluray] (iTune)
- Pain & Gain HD (iTune)
- Paranoia SD (iTune)
- Paranormal Activity 2 HD (iTune)
- Paranormal Activity 3 HD (iTune)
- Paranormal Activity 4 HD (iTune)
- Paranormal Activity 5: The Marked Ones HD (iTune)
- Pet Sematary 2019 4K (iTune)
- Pink Panther 2 SD (iTune)
- the Raven SD (iTune)
- Red Dawn SD (iTune)
- Rock Dog HD (iTune)
- Rogue Warfare HD (iTune)
- Safehaven (iTune)
- Same Kind Of Different As Me HD (iTune)
- the Shack HD (iTune)
- Skyfall SD (iTune)
- the Spirit SD (iTune)
- SpongeBob Movie: Sponge Out of Water HD (iTune)
- Star Trek SD (iTune)
- Step Up Revolution (iTune)
- Take Me Home Tonight XML (iTune)
- Tad: the Lost Explorer - and the secret of king midas HD (iTune)
- Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles (tmnt1) 4K (iTune)
- Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles 2: Out Of The Shadows 4K (iTune)
- Terminator: Dark Fate 4K (iTune)
- Texas Chainsaw [2013] (iTune)
- Tim & Eric's Billion Dollar Movie SD (iTune)
- Titanic (iTune)
- Transformers: Age Of Extinction 4K (iTune)
- Transformers: Dark Of The Moon 4K (iTune)
- Transformers: the Last Knight 4K (iTune)
- Transporter 3 SD (iTune)
- the Vanishing on 7th Street SD (iTune)
- Warm Bodies SD (iTune)
- Warrior (iTune)
- What to Expect While Expecting SD (iTune)
- Wonder 4K (iTune)
- Xxx Return Of Xander Cage 4K (iTune)
- the Choice - iTune HD (or) GP HD
- Divergent - iTune[4K] (or) GP HD
- the Duff - iTune HD (or) GP HD
- Mud - iTune HD (or) GP HD
- Norm Of The North - iTune HD (or) GP HD
- Now You See Me - iTune HD (or) GP HD
- Sicario 4K w/ GP portion
- Snitch - iTune[4K] (or) GP HD
- Temptation - (GP) HD
- What To Expect When You're Expecting - (GP) HD
FN Only
- Grace & Frankie SD FN
- Little House on the Prairie: A Merry Ingalls Christmas SD FN
- Nurse Jackie Season 6 HD FN
- Orange Is The New Black Season 1 SD FN
- Texas Rising SD FN
- Game Of Thrones Season 2 HD iTune
- Game Of Thrones Season 3 HD iTune
- the Young Pope HD iTune
2024.05.10 15:43 boutell New US and Canadian CHAdeMO chargers in April 2024
Welcome to the March new chargers report, fellow Chadoomers!
Almost all of you are my fellow Leaf owners, hoping for just one new chargepoint on your favorite route, before the great dwarven CHAdeMO forges beneath the earth go cold for all time. Here's an update.
Here are all of the new US and Canadian CHAdeMO (Leaf fast-charging) stations that rolled out in April, according to the Alternative Fuels Data Center. You can fetch the data yourself here. Feel free to report inaccuracies to the AFDC.
For comparison's sake: in the US, there were 200 "new" (or updated) CHAdeMO stations added in March, with at least 200 chargepoints. To put it in perspective, there were 102 new or updated US stations in April of 2023. This month's report is surprisingly strong, given how late we are in CHAdeMO's lifecycle. It is unclear if this is due to a large number of refreshed stations, or a large rollout of new stations that happen to include at least one CHAdeMO chargepoint, but it may be the latter thanks to Inflation Reduction Act funding. In any case, it is good news for those of us with legacy vehicles.
Keep in mind that even EVGo has started to roll out stations where only some of the bays support CHAdeMO. This makes sense given that only Nissan still sells a CHAdeMO pure-battery-electric car in the US, and the newer Nissan Ariya model is CCS. The Mitsubishi Plug-In Hybrid Outlander PHEV also supports CHAdeMO.
Some of these chargepoints will be "refreshes," e.g. the provider replaced them with faster chargers etc. Some may be incorrect. This report is only as good as the Alternative Fuels Data Center data.
If you'd like to know about new chargers along your routes right away, or reading these monthly reports is just frustrating in your state, I've set up a free service that provides email notifications only when new stations actually open. You can sign up at evpov.com. I built it to help EV owners like myself (especially my fellow Leaf owners). You can pick other plug types as well.
To streamline this post, multi-chargepoint locations are listed with the number of chargepoints first. Some stations may actually have more CHAdeMO chargepoints than reported here, but most won't, because even EVGo has started to reduce the number of CHAdeMO chargepoints per station. So in the case of CHAdeMO I make a pessimistic assumption to avoid creating unrealistic expectations.
Even so, for actual trip planning I recommend using PlugShare. This report is mainly useful to understand trends.
If you get a chance, do check out reported new stations near you and add PlugShare reviews, which helps everyone.
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Almost all of you are my fellow Leaf owners, hoping for just one new chargepoint on your favorite route, before the great dwarven CHAdeMO forges beneath the earth go cold for all time. Here's an update.
Here are all of the new US and Canadian CHAdeMO (Leaf fast-charging) stations that rolled out in April, according to the Alternative Fuels Data Center. You can fetch the data yourself here. Feel free to report inaccuracies to the AFDC.
For comparison's sake: in the US, there were 200 "new" (or updated) CHAdeMO stations added in March, with at least 200 chargepoints. To put it in perspective, there were 102 new or updated US stations in April of 2023. This month's report is surprisingly strong, given how late we are in CHAdeMO's lifecycle. It is unclear if this is due to a large number of refreshed stations, or a large rollout of new stations that happen to include at least one CHAdeMO chargepoint, but it may be the latter thanks to Inflation Reduction Act funding. In any case, it is good news for those of us with legacy vehicles.
Keep in mind that even EVGo has started to roll out stations where only some of the bays support CHAdeMO. This makes sense given that only Nissan still sells a CHAdeMO pure-battery-electric car in the US, and the newer Nissan Ariya model is CCS. The Mitsubishi Plug-In Hybrid Outlander PHEV also supports CHAdeMO.
Some of these chargepoints will be "refreshes," e.g. the provider replaced them with faster chargers etc. Some may be incorrect. This report is only as good as the Alternative Fuels Data Center data.
If you'd like to know about new chargers along your routes right away, or reading these monthly reports is just frustrating in your state, I've set up a free service that provides email notifications only when new stations actually open. You can sign up at evpov.com. I built it to help EV owners like myself (especially my fellow Leaf owners). You can pick other plug types as well.
To streamline this post, multi-chargepoint locations are listed with the number of chargepoints first. Some stations may actually have more CHAdeMO chargepoints than reported here, but most won't, because even EVGo has started to reduce the number of CHAdeMO chargepoints per station. So in the case of CHAdeMO I make a pessimistic assumption to avoid creating unrealistic expectations.
Even so, for actual trip planning I recommend using PlugShare. This report is mainly useful to understand trends.
If you get a chance, do check out reported new stations near you and add PlugShare reviews, which helps everyone.
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Palmdale, CA 90245 (1) Foodsco Northgate #355 3625 Northgate Blvd Sacramento, CA 95834 (4) LOVES CA CA SALINAS DC 4 1264 De la Torre St Salinas, CA 93905 (1) Sunny Plaza 529 E Valley Blvd San Gabriel, CA 91776 (1) Seven Trees Shopping Center 4060 Monterey Hwy San Jose, CA 95111 (1) FREEWAY HONDA DC FAST 01 1505 Auto Mall Dr Santa Ana, CA 92705 (1) SJCHA Sierra Vista Phase 1 1520 Eleventh Street Stockton, CA 95206 (1) SJCHA Sierra Vista Phase 2 2439 Volney Street Stockton, CA 95206 (1) HACSJ Tracy Homes 340 W 4th St Tracy, CA 95376 (1) Sheraton Universal Hotel DC 333 Universal Hollywood Dr Universal City, CA 91608 (1) Brian Allen 128 E Chestnut Ct Visalia, CA 93277 (1) City of Los Angeles Lot 696 835 N Avalon Blvd Wilmington, CA 90744 ➡ CO (1) SCVHISTSOC PIONEER TOWN 1 388 S Grand Mesa Dr Cedaredge, CO 81413 ➡ CT (2) 365 E MAIN ST CPE250 2 365 East Main Street Branford, CT 06405 (1) GURUKRUPA GI LLC EV-1 85a Hemingway Ave East Haven, CT 06512 (1) Pomfret Town Hall - SmartDC 5 Haven Rd Pomfret Center, CT 06259 ➡ FL (1) Orange County Health Department 12050 E Colonial Dr Orlando, FL 32826 (1) Evermore Orlando Resort 1570 Evermore Way Orlando, FL 32836 (1) Evermore - EVA 3 2420 North Beach Lane/Flats Orlando, FL 32836 (2) BMW SARASOTA FAST CHARGE 2 5151 Clark rd Sarasota, FL 34233 (2) C-HYUNDAI CPE1 3810 W Hillsborough Ave Tampa, FL 33614 (1) Hammock Landing 4311 Norfolk Pkwy West Melbourne, FL 32904 ➡ GA (2) GEORGIA POWER AMERICUS DC1 202b U.S. Hwy 19 Americus, GA 31719 (1) ABM Electrification Center 2715 Ronald Reagan Blvd Cumming, GA 30041 (2) GENESIS CUMMING STE1 750 Peachtree Parkway Cumming, GA 30041 (2) GEORGIA POWER DONALSON DC2 209 Cherry St Donalsonville, GA 39845 (2) GEORGIA POWER GEORGE DC1 1 Main St Georgetown, GA 39854 (2) GEORGIA POWER RICHLAND DC 2 26 Stewart St Richland, GA 31825 ➡ HI (1) Kapolei Commons provided by Hawaiian Electric Company 4470 Kapolei Parkway Kapolei, HI 96707 ➡ IA (1) Indian Creek Nature Center 5300 Otis Rd SE Cedar Rapids, IA 52403 (1) Storm Lake 1250 N Lake Ave Ste 2 Storm Lake, IA 50588 ➡ ID (1) BRONCO HYUNDAI FV L3 #2 9250 Fairview Ave Boise, ID 83704 (1) BRONCO HYUNDAI FV L3 #1 9250 Fairview Avenue Boise, ID 83704 ➡ IL (1) Jo-Carroll Energy - Elizabeth 311 East Myrtle Street Elizabeth, IL 61028 ➡ IN (2) ANDY MOHR HYUND SERVICE 1441 Liberty Dr Bloomington, IN 47403 (1) Madison 590 Ivy Tech Dr Madison, IN 47250 (1) STOOPSEV 480V EV CHARGER 4055 W Clara Ln Muncie, IN 47304 ➡ KS (1) EVERGY @PRSONCITY-437A 1600 Main St Parsons, KS 67357 ➡ MA (1) 400 SUMMER ST 400 SUMMEP1-1 4 W Service Rd Boston, MA 02210 (6) 400 SUMMER ST 400 SUMMERP2-3 400 Summer St Boston, MA 02210 (1) 400 SUMMER ST 400 SUMMEP2-2 410 Summer St Boston, MA 02210 (2) CAPE_ASSOCIATES MONOMOY 782 Main Street Chatham, MA 02633 (1) ALDEN BUICK GMC ALDEN LV3 #1 6 Whalers Way Fairhaven, MA 02719 (1) WFSU SCIENCE STATION 577 Western Avenue Westfield, MA 01085 ➡ MD (1) BGE - CCBC Essex 7201 Rossville Blvd Baltimore, MD 21237 (1) Skipjack Art Studios 329 Cannon Street Chestertown, MD 21620 ➡ MN (1) Cannon Falls 650 Main Street West Cannon Falls, MN 55009 (1) Chisholm 201 West Lake Street Chisholm, MN 55719 (1) City Of Crosby Library 101 1st Street Southeast Crosby, MN 56441 (1) WASC 425 Winnebago Avenue Fairmont, MN 56031 (1) City of Faribault 17 3rd Street Northeast Faribault, MN 55021 (1) Service Foods 321 West Lincoln Avenue Fergus Falls, MN 56537 (1) City of Fosston 220 1st Street East Fosston, MN 56542 (1) Burger King 2200 10th Street East Glencoe, MN 55336 (1) Grand Marais Public Utilities City Hall Parking Lot - South Side 15 Broadway Grand Marais, MN 55604 (1) City Of Little Falls NaN null Dewey Parkway Little Falls, MN 56345 (1) Mankato Area Foundation 115 South 2nd Street Mankato, MN 56001 (1) Schmelz Countryside Volkswagen 1180 Minnesota 36 Maplewood, MN 55109 (1) 36Lyn Refuel Station 3551 Lyndale Avenue South Minneapolis, MN 55408 (2) Nelson Auto World 1625 Como Avenue Southeast Minneapolis, MN 55414 (1) Noodles & Company 922 Holiday Drive Moorhead, MN 56560 (1) Motley Motel 165 Riverfront Lane Motley, MN 56466 (1) City of New Ulm 541 2nd Street North New Ulm, MN 56073 (1) City Of Owatonna 215 Walnut Avenue South Owatonna, MN 55060 (1) Fresh Thyme Farmer's Market 1615 1st Street Southwest Rochester, MN 55901 (1) City Of Saint Peter 114 West Nassau Street Saint Peter, MN 56082 (1) Saint Peter Food Cooperative 228 West Mulberry Street Saint Peter, MN 56082 (1) City Of Springfield 601 East Rock Street Springfield, MN 56087 (1) City Of Saint Cloud 501 1st Street North St. Cloud, MN 56303 (1) Doc's Sports Bar and Grill 88801 Warbler Lane Sturgeon Lake, MN 55783 (1) Northern Lights Casino - Walker 6800 Y Frontage Road Northwest Walker, MN 56484 (1) Waseca Utilities NaN null 19th Avenue Northwest Waseca, MN 56093 (1) White Bear Lake Superstore 3880 U.S. 61 White Bear Lake, MN 55110 (1) WSU - Integrated Wellness Complex 118 West Mark Street Winona, MN 55987 ➡ MS (2) NECDC STATION 2 (R) 101 Dempsey Rd. Byhalia, MS 38611 (2) CLW 5TH ST 1 (L) 301 5th Street South Columbus, MS 39701 ➡ NB (1) St. Hubert Express 890 Saint Anne St Bathurst, NB E2A 6X2 (1) Irving 1735 Hanwell Rd Hanwell, NB E3C 2B8 (1) Tesla - 13995 - Miramichi 2485 King George Hwy Miramichi, NB E1V 6W7 (1) Gateway Plaza 2 Gateway Dr Oromocto, NB E2V 4S3 (1) Visitor Info Centre 34 Mallard Dr Sackville, NB E4L 4C3 ➡ NC (1) City of Asheboro Library 201 Worth St Ashboro, NC 27203 (1) Parkside Town Commons 7129 O’Kelly Chapel Road Cary, NC 27519 (1) Eastern Band of Cherokee Indians 946 Tsalagi Rd. Cherokee, NC 28719 (1) Town of Franklin 95 E Main 95 E Main St. Franklin, NC 28734 (1) DEP Pierce and Co 4229 Sam Potts Hwy Hallsboro, NC 28442 (1) Richmond Community College 1042 W Hamlet Ave Hamlet, NC 28345 (1) City of Hickory-DCFC 306 MAIN AV NW Hickory, NC 28601 (1) Pilot Travel Center 683 1800 Princeton-Kenly Road Kenly, NC 27542 (1) dba Piggly Wiggly 61 2715 Hwy 11/55 Kinston, NC 28504 (1) City of Lowell 519 Park Cir Lowell, NC 28098 (1) Catawba Vale Collaborative LLC 96 Commerce St. Old Fort, NC 28762 (1) Triangle Stop - Saluda 1484 Ozone Dr Saluda, NC 28773 (1) City of Sanford - 101 East Humber st 101 E Humber St. Sanford, NC 27330 (1) Haywood CC West Waynesville An 23 Hendrix St Waynesville, NC 28786 (1) 402 S Bridge St 402 S Bridge St Wilkesboro, NC 28697 (1) Blacks Tire Service 1407 Castle Hayne Rd A Wilmington, NC 28401 (1) Quality Oil Company 1980 Pecan Ln Winston Salem, NC 27284 (1) City of Clinton 110 Loop St clinton, NC 28328 (1) Quality Mart 62 - 1736 NC 67 1736 NC 67 jonesville, NC 28642 ➡ ND (1) Simonson Station Store Minot 1310 South Broadway Minot, ND 58701 ➡ NJ (2) LIBERTY TOYOTA STATION 2 4397 U.S. 130 Burlington, NJ 08016 (2) BOARDWALK HONDA CPE250 1 6807 Tilton Rd Egg Harbor Township, NJ 08234 (2) WALDWICK PUBLIC DCFC #2 15 E Prospect St Waldwick, NJ 07463 (1) QUICKCHEK CP- QC186-2 3483 U.S. 22 Whitehouse Station, NJ 08889 (1) QUICKCHEK CP-QC186-1 3483 U.S. 22 Whitehouse station, NJ 08889 ➡ NM (1) COLUMBUS EV PARK 1 216 Broadway Deming, NM 88030 (2) AVANYU AVANYU LEFT 618 N Riverside Dr Española, NM 87532 ➡ NY (1) NYC FLEET DPRWFMARNA_1_L3 1 Marina Road Queens, NY 11369 (4) KENNETH DR Q KENNETH DR 1 375 Kenneth Drive Rochester, NY 14623 ➡ ON (1) Crowe’s Car Wash 8461 County Road 45 Alderville, ON K0K 2X0 (1) CenterLine Corporate - DC 415 Morton Drive LaSalle, ON N9J 3T8 (1) OXFORD DODGE DODGE L3 S1 1249 Hyde Park Road London, ON N6H 5K6 (1) IDEAL HONDA FAST CHARGER 1700 Toyo Cir Mississauga, ON L4W 0E7 (1) Myers Barrhaven Subaru - Fast Charger 4151 Strandherd Drive Ottawa, ON 45.2653 (4) IKEA EV FLEET 2 1475 The Queensway Toronto, ON M8Z 1T3 (1) Winash Limited Partnership - SmartDC 5550 Baldwin Street South Whitby, ON L1M 0M5 ➡ OR (1) WCEH Banks 660 Main Street Banks, OR 97106 (1) WCEH Detroit 220 D St Detroit, OR 97342 (1) WCEH McMinnville 499 NE Davis St McMinnville, OR 97128 (1) ARCO - Market Street NE, Salem 2979 Market St NE Salem, OR 97301 (1) WCEH Woodburn 2900 Tom Tennant Dr Woodburn, OR 97071 ➡ PA (2) BENNETT HYUNDAI SALES 2101 Cumberland St Lebanon, PA 17042 ➡ QC (1) Canadian Tire - Jonquière 2290 Blvd René Lévesque Jonquière, QC G7S 5Y5 (1) DION CHEV EV CPE250C-625-CCS 2200 Rue Sherbrooke Magog, QC J1X 4Z6 (1) RECHARGECO ST-LEONARD 01 7150 Boul Langelier Montréal, QC H1S 2X6 (2) HARDY RINGUETTE #4 1842 3e Avenue Val-d'Or, QC J9P 7A9 ➡ SD (1) Northwestern 117 Mitchell Boulevard Mitchell, SD 57301 ➡ TN (2) SPRFLD ELECTRIC STATION 1 (L) 401 N Main St. Springfield, TN 37172 (2) MLEC STATION 2 (R) W 210 West Main St Waverly, TN 37185 ➡ TX (1) AZTEC EV AZTEC CHEVROLET 772 U.S. 181 Beeville, TX 78102 (1) GROUP1AUTO CPE250 2 10155 Southwest Fwy Houston, TX 77074 (1) GROUP1AUTO CPE250 ALONE-3 10455 Southwest Fwy Houston, TX 77074 (1) Gigahub - Katy Fwy, Westlake 14401 Katy Fwy Houston, TX 77079 (2) WHOUSTON 250 GENESIS 2 16803 Katy Fwy Houston, TX 77094 (1) KV MAIN CAMPUS KV RETAIL DC 2 145 Avery Rd Kerrville, TX 78028 (1) HONDAOFCLEARLAK EXPP PUBLIC 1 2205 Gulf Fwy S League City, TX 77573 (2) MESSER HYUNDAI CPE250-PAIR2 4025 West Loop 289 Access Road Lubbock, TX 79407 (1) WORLD AUTO CHEVYPECOS 181 South Interstate 20 Frontage Road Pecos, TX 79772 (1) Target San Antonio #T0771 2810 Southwest Military Drive San Antonio, TX 78224 ➡ UT (1) DAVIS COUNTY UT DCG EAST 61 South Main Street Farmington, UT 84025 ➡ VA (1) LYNX VENTURES STATION 14 DC 0 E 4th St Richmond, VA 23224 ➡ VT (1) Grace Cottage Hospital 185 Grafton Road Townsend, VT 05353 ➡ WA (1) KIA OF EVERETT KIA OF EVERETT 229 Southwest Everett Mall Way Everett, WA 98204 (1) WCEH City of Pateros 203 Pateros Mall Pateros, WA 98846 (1) ARCO 7091 - 104th Drive NW, Stanwood 26930 104th Drive NW Stanwood, WA 98292 (1) Sumner Cannery Way 13608 Cannery Wy Sumner, WA 98390 ➡ WI (1) TOB CHARGEPOINT SHOWROOM LOT 20655 W Capitol Dr Brookfield, WI 53045 (1) Cadott River Country Plaza 641 Wisconsin 27 Cadott, WI 54727 (1) City of Eau Claire 122 East Madison Street Eau Claire, WI 54703 (1) 29 Pines 5872 33rd Avenue Eau Claire, WI 54703 (1) Hampton Inn And Suites 2610 Pearson Drive Hudson, WI 54016 (1) HEISER TOYOTA 1 CPE250 11301 W Metro Auto Mall Milwaukee, WI 53224 (1) Prime Bar Family Dining null N7294 Service Road Trego, WI 54888 (1) Kwik Trip 1760 Temte Street Helmen, WI 54636
2024.05.10 15:33 boutell New US and Canadian CCS chargers in April 2024
Here are all (*) of the new US and Canadian CCS (Level 3 fast-charging) stations that rolled out in April 2024, according to the Department of Energy. You can get the data yourself here.
These chargers are suitable for most new EVs on the market, except for:
There were 330 CCS charging stations with a total of 682 chargepoints added or refreshed in April 2024, which is a major uptick in both stations and chargepoints. There were only 166 new CCS charging stations in April 2023, with only 267 chargepoints. Things are trending dramatically upwards.
Some part of this is due to Tesla Magic Dock stations. Previously Tesla didn't report these to the AFDC as CCS, but now they do. And that makes sense because all CCS drivers can use them.
NOTE: most Tesla Superchargers do NOT have magic dock as of this writing (all those shown in this report should have it). I recommend using PlugShare to locate compatible stations for your vehicle.
(*) "What about other Tesla Superchargers? Can't everybody charge with NACS now?"
It's coming for many makes and models, and for newer Ford models as well as a few other manufacturers charging at v3 and v4 Superchargers is already an option with a free adapter from the automakers. GM should release their adapter in the coming weeks. But since they are not open to all CCS vehicles, this report is not the place for them. Tesla's app provides the best guide to their locations, including locations that work with non-Tesla vehicles.
Other Notes
To streamline this post, multi-chargepoint locations are listed with the number of chargepoints first.
For serious trip planning, I recommend PlugShare. But by all means check out these reported new locations and submit reviews on PlugShare, which makes things better for everyone.
If you'd like to know about new chargers along your routes right away, or just prefer not to check this list monthly when new openings are rare in your area, I've set up a free service that provides email notifications as soon as they open. You can sign up at evpov.com. Or not! I don't really have a business plan here, I built it to help EV owners like myself. PlugShare has a similar feature.
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These chargers are suitable for most new EVs on the market, except for:
- Tesla drivers who haven't bought the official CCS adapter yet. Certain older Teslas need additional work done to accept the adapter.
- Leaf owners like me, owners of the Mitsubishi Outlander PHEV, and some owners of older cars that also use CHAdeMO. If you drive such a car, see my matching post in leaf.
There were 330 CCS charging stations with a total of 682 chargepoints added or refreshed in April 2024, which is a major uptick in both stations and chargepoints. There were only 166 new CCS charging stations in April 2023, with only 267 chargepoints. Things are trending dramatically upwards.
Some part of this is due to Tesla Magic Dock stations. Previously Tesla didn't report these to the AFDC as CCS, but now they do. And that makes sense because all CCS drivers can use them.
NOTE: most Tesla Superchargers do NOT have magic dock as of this writing (all those shown in this report should have it). I recommend using PlugShare to locate compatible stations for your vehicle.
(*) "What about other Tesla Superchargers? Can't everybody charge with NACS now?"
It's coming for many makes and models, and for newer Ford models as well as a few other manufacturers charging at v3 and v4 Superchargers is already an option with a free adapter from the automakers. GM should release their adapter in the coming weeks. But since they are not open to all CCS vehicles, this report is not the place for them. Tesla's app provides the best guide to their locations, including locations that work with non-Tesla vehicles.
Other Notes
To streamline this post, multi-chargepoint locations are listed with the number of chargepoints first.
For serious trip planning, I recommend PlugShare. But by all means check out these reported new locations and submit reviews on PlugShare, which makes things better for everyone.
If you'd like to know about new chargers along your routes right away, or just prefer not to check this list monthly when new openings are rare in your area, I've set up a free service that provides email notifications as soon as they open. You can sign up at evpov.com. Or not! I don't really have a business plan here, I built it to help EV owners like myself. PlugShare has a similar feature.
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