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r/DadJokes - the best (and worst) Dad Jokes on reddit
2011.10.23 15:13 tali3sin r/DadJokes - the best (and worst) Dad Jokes on reddit
Welcome! This is a friendly place for those cringe-worthy and (maybe) funny attempts at humour that we call dad jokes. Often (but not always) a verbal or visual pun, if it elicited a snort or face palm then our community is ready to groan along with you. To be clear, dad status is not a requirement. We're all different and excellent. Some people are born with lame jokes in their heart and so here, everyone is a dad. Some dads are wholesome, some are not. It's about how the joke is delivered.
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2024.05.15 15:40 magicianowl Eczema moved to face - looking for advice while waiting for GP appointment
TL;DR face suddenly flaring up at age 40, already on strong antihistamines, need advice from ppl w similar experience
Hello! I had eczema all over my body all my life, it was really bad when I was in my twenties mainly due to scratching and breaking/infecting the skin - but everything got much better once I started getting acrylic nails preventing this, and kept on top of moisturising with 10% urea and sea salt baths. However in the past 2-3 years the itching has gotten out of control, I'm currently on 180mg Fexofenadine twice daily. But as if that's not enough, it seems to have moved to my face now - twice over the span of 2 weeks I woke up to my whole face burning, hot and itching, with bright red patches and the skin feeling too tight for my skull. The first time my GP prescribed prednisolone, which helped short term, but it almost immediately happened again after. This time I was given chlorphenamine and betnovate cream. It has calmed down now but skin is still very dry and flaking now. Nothing has changed in my diet (im plant-based) nor have I used new products. I have an appointment with my GP again in a week to see where I'm at. Has anyone had a similar development and maybe suggestions what the trigger could be, or what to do about it? I'm 40, so I'm wondering if this could have something to do with perimenopause? Sidenote - I'm in the UK, dupixent/dupilumab is not being used here as widely as in the US it seems
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Hello! I had eczema all over my body all my life, it was really bad when I was in my twenties mainly due to scratching and breaking/infecting the skin - but everything got much better once I started getting acrylic nails preventing this, and kept on top of moisturising with 10% urea and sea salt baths. However in the past 2-3 years the itching has gotten out of control, I'm currently on 180mg Fexofenadine twice daily. But as if that's not enough, it seems to have moved to my face now - twice over the span of 2 weeks I woke up to my whole face burning, hot and itching, with bright red patches and the skin feeling too tight for my skull. The first time my GP prescribed prednisolone, which helped short term, but it almost immediately happened again after. This time I was given chlorphenamine and betnovate cream. It has calmed down now but skin is still very dry and flaking now. Nothing has changed in my diet (im plant-based) nor have I used new products. I have an appointment with my GP again in a week to see where I'm at. Has anyone had a similar development and maybe suggestions what the trigger could be, or what to do about it? I'm 40, so I'm wondering if this could have something to do with perimenopause? Sidenote - I'm in the UK, dupixent/dupilumab is not being used here as widely as in the US it seems
2024.05.15 15:39 xfallenangelx95 [28/F] Seeking emotional support and highly empathetic people.I would love to find someone who doesn't judge others or make fun of them.It's very Important to have someone to rely on :) I'm here for conversations with emotionally mature people who don't have friends and need someone to talk to 🍀🌸
(Only Europe, Please) - short note - If you're not into reading or receiving long messages,don't read any further + Please If you don't want to read everything because of my post being too long for you & instead of reading It all - ..skip some parts - find another person to talk to.Let's respect each other and our free time. All people criticizing/making fun of me & other people - will be blocked.Pretty much as people questioning my post and giving me unsolicited advice.I'm not here for any conflicts and I know I can't please everyone - I know I never will.. However It's me who should feel comfortable in my new potential friendship & obviously someone who wants to be my friend - not the whole world.. which is why I don't need any advice from people who don't even want to be a part of my life. The amount of rude people on Reddit always criticizing others and making fun of them is unbelievably high but let me tell you something - NEVER let anyone make choices for you and criticize you only because you're different! Always fight for your dreams and never let anyone make you think you're worthless! It's your life and you're the one deciding what's best for you - If you want to judge me despite not even wanting to talk to me or give me advice better block me! I'm an adult woman and I make all decisions on my own.I'm not trying to "fit in" and be like everyone else - just to get more attention.Accept me for who I am or let go - is my motto.
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Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give them one word answer and ask them another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different 🙂
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What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me
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What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and partners.. Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them (which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Please send me a message only If you're not In a relationship and don't have friends for the same reasons I've already mentioned before
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Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .
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I also want to talk to others every day because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..some people ask me "Why do you want to talk to people from Europe?" Well..Because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough
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I'm by no means criticizing people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have unimportant conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason :) All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life. I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message . Don't let anyone lie to you.
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Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk every day? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionally.
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I'm not trying to sound rude but conversations once or twice a week wouldn't be enough for me and I don't need them... Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :) It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make more time for you.
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I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you.
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I'm not interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life
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• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk?” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on a random question or? When they start talking only about themselves and don't ever ask me anything. I love conversations with people referring to everything I say...I want everything I say and do - to be reciprocated
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• No NSFW profiles (checking mental health subreddits NOT included as I'm a huge empath and always try to understand others) - Please! I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. I always check people's profiles (even comment history) - To avoid guys, trying to get inappropriate pictures from adult women or? flirt with them + I don't want to see you with no clothes on so If you're on Reddit only because you want others to see what's underneath your clothes - I'm not for you! I just simply don't want to see any s e x related activity on your profile If you want to talk to me.
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• If both of us (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English - because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just don't want to talk to a person from the same country as mine - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to improve your language skills
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• Please only adult people 18-36 (age range) It doesn't matter to me If you're younger or older than me (as long as you're not underage) So.. don't worry! I just want to have discussions with emotionally mature people :)
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• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even If It's a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - Not responding to someone's first or second message Is completely OK! If people think they wouldn't get along with a stranger - is there a reason to start a conversation? I don't think so. I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversations and seeing people changing priorities over time.. but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real. If I'm really interested in someone's message it's impossible to hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I had no time for others - I wouldn't be here. I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike most people who don't want to talk to others)
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• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.
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• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - like me - to describe your emotions In text messages. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough! I just don't like emotionless conversations.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even in a text message - Emojis are very helpful to express your emotions.I don't want to meet people who say "crying Is a weakness" - It's OK to cry even If you're a guy!
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• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you) before moving to Discord or some other app
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• I would rather talk to a homebody - not another person who always has something to do as people who are very busy don't even have time for daily conversations
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• If you're another person interested only in "childish conversations" such as "HEYOOO! I'M BORED! Ya like Pizza or cheese? xDDDD 🤣" I'm begging you! Don't send me a message.I'm not a child anymore and such messages don't make me smile or laugh.I'm looking for someone interested In serious discussions - not another person just seeking some entertainment out of boredom . Conversations with sarcastic undertones (even when It comes to some emojis such as 🤣😂) are not for me. Your typing style matters to me! Why? when It comes to online conversations with someone new - It's not always possible to know If someone Is laughing at you.. or with you. Let me tell you something else! Jokes about cancer, disabilities and death are UNACCEPTABLE to me. If you find joy In someone else's misfortune you are not a person I want to know.
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• Time response matters to me a lot! I would never ask anyone to be online all day long and I'm NOT asking any of you for any instant messaging as I'm someone who would rather wait an hour or two to receive a proper response instead of some short and pointless messages but I'm interested only in daily conversations and I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to get a message from you.I don't need unbelievably long messages either! Messages as long as the second paragraph of my post - are completely enough. If you like longer messages? you can send me a longer message, but If you want to send me one word or one sentence as a response to my post - don't expect a reaction from me. I don't want to come across as rude - I just don't want to waste your time
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• I'm strongly AGAINST picking on people you don't even want to chat with - and making fun of them! I can't stand people who criticize others publicly or make fun of them! (only because they disagree with someone they don't even know) There's no place In my life for someone using Reddit, to hurt other people
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• I'm not into foul language and I definitely don't want to talk to people who swear a lot...
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• I want to meet assertive people who know what they want and always stand up for their friends
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• I want to meet someone willing to call me In the future, someone spontaneously sending me pictures of animals or food, et cetera. I want more than just text conversations.. 🌻
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Why can’t you see any of my hobbies listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest, talkative ,understanding, caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but from my point of view - people's hobbies are important - If you want to find a gaming buddy or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's passions – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life – way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you! I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced. I wouldn't get along with people who laugh at everything.. In my opinion most people are way too sarcastic.. It's quite sad... Sarcasm can also be another form of passive-aggressive behavior.
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People who want to be to friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I highly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk as often as possible in order to become friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations. If you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night) I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone important to me. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.
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If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new. You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance - but others? They would rather hear something different 🙁Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.
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You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're responsible only for ourselves - not others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on, forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because even the best therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you. Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out! Feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else - Is very important! "Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others. If after hearing a sad story all you want to say is "forget the past and move on" you're not for me. It's important to be a good listener and provide emotional support to others
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Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abbreviations,If you don't need a stable friendship, If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship to be natural which is why I want you to contact me only If your needs are the same - I don't want you to pretend someone you're not - only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I want to finally be happy again & find someone "always" wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals. What is the most important to me? I want to find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side
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I know It's possible to meet people with exactly the same expectations as mine but It's just not easy because most people are Interested In temporary and entertaining conversations. People like me are just "different" I really want to finally find someone who loves emojis as much as I do.. someone who loves sweet, warm and serious discussions at the same time. Emojis really do - change conversations 😊
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Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give them one word answer and ask them another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different 🙂
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What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me
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What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and partners.. Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them (which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Please send me a message only If you're not In a relationship and don't have friends for the same reasons I've already mentioned before
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Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .
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I also want to talk to others every day because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..some people ask me "Why do you want to talk to people from Europe?" Well..Because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough
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I'm by no means criticizing people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have unimportant conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason :) All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life. I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message . Don't let anyone lie to you.
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Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk every day? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionally.
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I'm not trying to sound rude but conversations once or twice a week wouldn't be enough for me and I don't need them... Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :) It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make more time for you.
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I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you.
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I'm not interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life
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• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk?” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on a random question or? When they start talking only about themselves and don't ever ask me anything. I love conversations with people referring to everything I say...I want everything I say and do - to be reciprocated
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• No NSFW profiles (checking mental health subreddits NOT included as I'm a huge empath and always try to understand others) - Please! I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. I always check people's profiles (even comment history) - To avoid guys, trying to get inappropriate pictures from adult women or? flirt with them + I don't want to see you with no clothes on so If you're on Reddit only because you want others to see what's underneath your clothes - I'm not for you! I just simply don't want to see any s e x related activity on your profile If you want to talk to me.
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• If both of us (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English - because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just don't want to talk to a person from the same country as mine - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to improve your language skills
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• Please only adult people 18-36 (age range) It doesn't matter to me If you're younger or older than me (as long as you're not underage) So.. don't worry! I just want to have discussions with emotionally mature people :)
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• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even If It's a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - Not responding to someone's first or second message Is completely OK! If people think they wouldn't get along with a stranger - is there a reason to start a conversation? I don't think so. I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversations and seeing people changing priorities over time.. but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real. If I'm really interested in someone's message it's impossible to hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I had no time for others - I wouldn't be here. I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike most people who don't want to talk to others)
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• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.
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• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - like me - to describe your emotions In text messages. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough! I just don't like emotionless conversations.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even in a text message - Emojis are very helpful to express your emotions.I don't want to meet people who say "crying Is a weakness" - It's OK to cry even If you're a guy!
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• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you) before moving to Discord or some other app
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• I would rather talk to a homebody - not another person who always has something to do as people who are very busy don't even have time for daily conversations
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• If you're another person interested only in "childish conversations" such as "HEYOOO! I'M BORED! Ya like Pizza or cheese? xDDDD 🤣" I'm begging you! Don't send me a message.I'm not a child anymore and such messages don't make me smile or laugh.I'm looking for someone interested In serious discussions - not another person just seeking some entertainment out of boredom . Conversations with sarcastic undertones (even when It comes to some emojis such as 🤣😂) are not for me. Your typing style matters to me! Why? when It comes to online conversations with someone new - It's not always possible to know If someone Is laughing at you.. or with you. Let me tell you something else! Jokes about cancer, disabilities and death are UNACCEPTABLE to me. If you find joy In someone else's misfortune you are not a person I want to know.
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• Time response matters to me a lot! I would never ask anyone to be online all day long and I'm NOT asking any of you for any instant messaging as I'm someone who would rather wait an hour or two to receive a proper response instead of some short and pointless messages but I'm interested only in daily conversations and I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to get a message from you.I don't need unbelievably long messages either! Messages as long as the second paragraph of my post - are completely enough. If you like longer messages? you can send me a longer message, but If you want to send me one word or one sentence as a response to my post - don't expect a reaction from me. I don't want to come across as rude - I just don't want to waste your time
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• I'm strongly AGAINST picking on people you don't even want to chat with - and making fun of them! I can't stand people who criticize others publicly or make fun of them! (only because they disagree with someone they don't even know) There's no place In my life for someone using Reddit, to hurt other people
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• I'm not into foul language and I definitely don't want to talk to people who swear a lot...
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• I want to meet assertive people who know what they want and always stand up for their friends
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• I want to meet someone willing to call me In the future, someone spontaneously sending me pictures of animals or food, et cetera. I want more than just text conversations.. 🌻
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Why can’t you see any of my hobbies listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest, talkative ,understanding, caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but from my point of view - people's hobbies are important - If you want to find a gaming buddy or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's passions – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life – way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you! I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced. I wouldn't get along with people who laugh at everything.. In my opinion most people are way too sarcastic.. It's quite sad... Sarcasm can also be another form of passive-aggressive behavior.
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People who want to be to friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I highly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk as often as possible in order to become friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations. If you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night) I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone important to me. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.
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If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new. You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance - but others? They would rather hear something different 🙁Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.
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You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're responsible only for ourselves - not others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on, forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because even the best therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you. Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out! Feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else - Is very important! "Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others. If after hearing a sad story all you want to say is "forget the past and move on" you're not for me. It's important to be a good listener and provide emotional support to others
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Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abbreviations,If you don't need a stable friendship, If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship to be natural which is why I want you to contact me only If your needs are the same - I don't want you to pretend someone you're not - only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I want to finally be happy again & find someone "always" wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals. What is the most important to me? I want to find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side
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No comments please.Only Private messages and chat requests 🌺
I know It's possible to meet people with exactly the same expectations as mine but It's just not easy because most people are Interested In temporary and entertaining conversations. People like me are just "different" I really want to finally find someone who loves emojis as much as I do.. someone who loves sweet, warm and serious discussions at the same time. Emojis really do - change conversations 😊
2024.05.15 15:34 lbabinz [PSN] Digital PlayStation Game Sale
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2024.05.15 15:33 GanacheFamous107 Should i let her go?
(This is the first time im going to post this on the internet and probably the last time since i cant really share stuff about myself because i think other people shouldnt care about my own problems but its really giving me a hard time at this moment..)
My ex and i part ways 4 years ago.. Well it did hurt at the time but i had a relationship after we split that ended too because i cant keep someone beside me while im still missing my ex
I dont know we were only together for a short time but she really means alot to me She was my life.. No one made me feel that way in any part of my life.. only her.. I have no friends to talk to i only have acquaintances or clients at my job that i talk to..
Im not trying to get back with her i miss her but i respect her decision to be with someone she likes
I just cant get her off my heart i know i love her but i dont really want her back i dont really know what to do
I tried focusing on myself and all but she just keep knocking on my head trying to get in again from time to time
We have talked about this too lately she was ok with it.. i didnt asked her back to me i just cant ask her to be with me again i dont know maybe i just dont want to be rejected.. We just spoke to each other about how things are going just casual talks..
There are some others that are asking me out i just dont feel attracted to anyone anymore..
I cant ask her to be with me again but if she really wants to then i cant say no to her..
If someone is feeling the same i wish the best for you..
I am 20 years of age if anyone is wondering..
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My ex and i part ways 4 years ago.. Well it did hurt at the time but i had a relationship after we split that ended too because i cant keep someone beside me while im still missing my ex
I dont know we were only together for a short time but she really means alot to me She was my life.. No one made me feel that way in any part of my life.. only her.. I have no friends to talk to i only have acquaintances or clients at my job that i talk to..
Im not trying to get back with her i miss her but i respect her decision to be with someone she likes
I just cant get her off my heart i know i love her but i dont really want her back i dont really know what to do
I tried focusing on myself and all but she just keep knocking on my head trying to get in again from time to time
We have talked about this too lately she was ok with it.. i didnt asked her back to me i just cant ask her to be with me again i dont know maybe i just dont want to be rejected.. We just spoke to each other about how things are going just casual talks..
There are some others that are asking me out i just dont feel attracted to anyone anymore..
I cant ask her to be with me again but if she really wants to then i cant say no to her..
If someone is feeling the same i wish the best for you..
I am 20 years of age if anyone is wondering..
2024.05.15 15:33 InvestigatorAble4942 This character Malty is amazing
After finshing the LN I completely have falln in love with this character.
She is actually much more than just a beautiful woman, her character is really good with her backstory she is a really good writern character even though the author try to say she is just evil for no reason they actually give her all the good reasons like Malty is literally writen better than all the main characters in the series.
It's completely wrong to compare her to amber heard, Malty have reasons for her actions (Actual good reasons).
It's such a short sight to see her just as nothing more than a beautiful sexy woman, or just evil for no reason.
she feel like the only character that is realistic or (human) she doesn't get her way always she faces consciousness for her actions, she is always put in a place where nobody help her she doesn't have plot armor she actually work hard for what she want not like every character on the MC side things comes for them without even trying, she could literally fit as a main character more than the main character himself at least she is relatble.
But unfortunately 90% of anime fans only think with their dick's not their mind.
Note: I don't say saying she is beautiful is bad because she is gorgeous but saying she is nothing more than beautiful is what piss me off.
You know Ironically Malty give me kinda of Motivation in real life she never give up no matter how fucked up things get she always have a pride and always Ambitions and never give up on her dream even if the world is against her.
And the thing that the author try to shame her for? Im talking about her beauty if you read the LN Im sure you noticed these creepy moments more than one time the characters speak about Malty body and beauty like it's a shame for some reason, literally her mother called her a slut because she have an attractive body? Or as mirellia said "A body made to manipulate men" WTF? What mother say this about her own daughter?!
Or rino saying "she is not a virgin" like it's a shame or some weird shit, but still Malty never give a fuck about what they say she is always proud of her beauty and never felt a "shamed" of the way she look, and even weared beautiful dresses that not everybody can pull off just to make her mother angry XD(I love her).
Even though she is a victm of her mother cruelty she never just sit down and cry, she always fight and give %100 of all what she got to survive.
Ironically the character that the author want me to hate just because she isn't a slave or a "good girl" the character that is made to show that all woman who have an opinion are evil.
This character is more close to my heart than any other character she actually always showed that things are not just happiness and sunshine life is cruel you win one day you lose the next but what is important is to always never give up even if the entire fucking world against you or even if your own family is against you. (I still have no idea why trash switched on her by the way XD)
The moment in volume 16 when she appear in front of her mother and the heroes was so badass even though she just went through a traumatized thing (the pig king shit) she is still hold herself together and don't show weakness a true Queen indeed.
Thank you aneko yusagi for making a character that is so relateble and gave me a Motivation in life to keep going and never give up.
Even though as far as I understand you did that unintentionally XD
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She is actually much more than just a beautiful woman, her character is really good with her backstory she is a really good writern character even though the author try to say she is just evil for no reason they actually give her all the good reasons like Malty is literally writen better than all the main characters in the series.
It's completely wrong to compare her to amber heard, Malty have reasons for her actions (Actual good reasons).
It's such a short sight to see her just as nothing more than a beautiful sexy woman, or just evil for no reason.
she feel like the only character that is realistic or (human) she doesn't get her way always she faces consciousness for her actions, she is always put in a place where nobody help her she doesn't have plot armor she actually work hard for what she want not like every character on the MC side things comes for them without even trying, she could literally fit as a main character more than the main character himself at least she is relatble.
But unfortunately 90% of anime fans only think with their dick's not their mind.
Note: I don't say saying she is beautiful is bad because she is gorgeous but saying she is nothing more than beautiful is what piss me off.
You know Ironically Malty give me kinda of Motivation in real life she never give up no matter how fucked up things get she always have a pride and always Ambitions and never give up on her dream even if the world is against her.
And the thing that the author try to shame her for? Im talking about her beauty if you read the LN Im sure you noticed these creepy moments more than one time the characters speak about Malty body and beauty like it's a shame for some reason, literally her mother called her a slut because she have an attractive body? Or as mirellia said "A body made to manipulate men" WTF? What mother say this about her own daughter?!
Or rino saying "she is not a virgin" like it's a shame or some weird shit, but still Malty never give a fuck about what they say she is always proud of her beauty and never felt a "shamed" of the way she look, and even weared beautiful dresses that not everybody can pull off just to make her mother angry XD(I love her).
Even though she is a victm of her mother cruelty she never just sit down and cry, she always fight and give %100 of all what she got to survive.
Ironically the character that the author want me to hate just because she isn't a slave or a "good girl" the character that is made to show that all woman who have an opinion are evil.
This character is more close to my heart than any other character she actually always showed that things are not just happiness and sunshine life is cruel you win one day you lose the next but what is important is to always never give up even if the entire fucking world against you or even if your own family is against you. (I still have no idea why trash switched on her by the way XD)
The moment in volume 16 when she appear in front of her mother and the heroes was so badass even though she just went through a traumatized thing (the pig king shit) she is still hold herself together and don't show weakness a true Queen indeed.
Thank you aneko yusagi for making a character that is so relateble and gave me a Motivation in life to keep going and never give up.
Even though as far as I understand you did that unintentionally XD
2024.05.15 15:32 pleasuresofprozac How old were you when you started antidepressants? Are you still medicated with them now?
I was diagnosed with OCD/GAD when I was 4 years old and first medicated with Prozac shortly thereafter at age 6. I've been on them ever since, which is now 30+ years.
I've had a mixed but relatively positive experience. Although my memory of life before medication is vague, I recall that I was highly anxious, controlled by compulsions, at risk of having breakdowns and generally not doing well. Prozac was highly efficacious in treating the symptoms and it made me feel in much better control of my emotions. I was largely led to believe it was necessary so I remained on it more or less indefinitely and never questioned it much growing up.
I have tried to wean off the medication several times, but each time had some pretty bad issues. It's hard to know whether this was withdrawal from being on the SSRIs for so long or if it was a relapse of underlying mental health issues. In any case, the conclusion has been that I am somewhat dependent on them to function.
As an adult, I've certainly grappled with some existential questions - how has the medication has impacted me? Who am I without the meds? Can I live without Prozac?
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I've had a mixed but relatively positive experience. Although my memory of life before medication is vague, I recall that I was highly anxious, controlled by compulsions, at risk of having breakdowns and generally not doing well. Prozac was highly efficacious in treating the symptoms and it made me feel in much better control of my emotions. I was largely led to believe it was necessary so I remained on it more or less indefinitely and never questioned it much growing up.
I have tried to wean off the medication several times, but each time had some pretty bad issues. It's hard to know whether this was withdrawal from being on the SSRIs for so long or if it was a relapse of underlying mental health issues. In any case, the conclusion has been that I am somewhat dependent on them to function.
As an adult, I've certainly grappled with some existential questions - how has the medication has impacted me? Who am I without the meds? Can I live without Prozac?
2024.05.15 15:31 Monoheinztoo For the Humans that help me : The Angel in Whiterobe
The idea : Make a HFY stories without other species and take place on modern day earth, the goal highlight the most important component of humans, Humanity
“I don’t want to talk with you, I just want to be gone from this world”, followed by shrieks from the patient. “I don’t have any reason to live, please let me goo”, *useless me can’t even finish the job*. The sentence is followed by a loud growl from Rudy as he tries to escape the bed restraints put on him.
The doctor was taken aback by such a strong reaction, Rudy can see that doctor James' face changes from a slight smile to what he assumes is the doctor's thinking face. “Aah I know !! Jamal, can you watch Mr Rudy for me? I have to take something from the outside” as James voice breaks the awkward silence that hangs in the room. Rudy is confused by the doctor's reaction.
Doctor James leaves the room as is, *no one wants to help me anyway*. Rudy could not help but to feel disappointment at the doctor as he went out, doesn’t matter my time here is short anyway. The room is filled again with silent awkwardness as the black nurse just stood in the door watching Rudy every moment. His brilliant brown eyes looking sharply at him, he felt nervous, *please let me go* .
After what felt like eternity the doctor came back to the room with one bag in his hand and laptop in another, *looks like a new model from zeon*. “Is that zeon zenith 12? “ his mouth bluntly said, *wait, noo?!!*. Dr James stopped by his bedside, looking a little bit surprised and quickly nodded “Yes, this is zeon zenith 12, are you a tech enthusiast ?”. Rudy did not answer, he gazed away from the doctor. “Well, looks like you know some tech update for the very least”.
Scrieeek……….. . “Ach…!!” Rudy covered his ear as the sound of metal chair scraping the floor ring aloud. “Ooh sorry Rudy, I did not know you’re sensitive to loud noises, i’ll be careful next time ” as doctor James stops the chair movement. Rudy stays silent, as Dr James takes a seat on a chair beside his bed. “So I know you don’t want to talk to me about your problem right now” James then grabbed the food table, “So instead why don’t we just watch some cute cat video i curated for this”.
Rudy turn his head back to James again this time confused looks clearly drawn in his face, is*n’t his job try to talk me out of suicide?*. “You want to talk about your problem now?” Rudy then looks away again from the doctor “Yeah I thought so. So why don’t we just watch this video and for a moment forget everything about the problem and just watch the video ?” Rudy did not turn his gazes, *how could i forget it if only bad things happened to my life?.*
His face began to puff up as he held back tears, “Alright if you don’t want to, I’ll watch it myself”. Meowing can be heard from his back, wait he seriously does it ?!. Rudy turn back his gaze toward the doctors with a slightly furious face, he looks focused on the video that played from his laptop. As doctor James looks back at him “want to watch ?” Rudy once again threw his gazes away. “Alright ” bruk.., the sound of the heavy laptop being placed in the food table and the sound of meowing continue. Rudy tried to look away still, but the cute voice made him curious, and feel awed. He finally looks at the video playing, he looks at the laptop intentley, almost like a child watching their favorite cartoons.
Rudy for this moment in time and space, he forget his problems, his shitty work at john’s pizza, his loud and inconsiderate upstair neighbor, his neighborhood that is brimming with trash and the gunshot he hears every night, his nonexistent love life, his friend who left him after uni, his grade from uni and highschool, his parents, and his past. For this moment he lives in the present, not overthinking about the past or the future.
They watch the video, both attentive in their own way, transfixed to the screen like a moth to a lamp. Through dozens of cute cat compilation videos they watch together, his face begins to relax from constant fury and agony to a more neutral tone. Then finally without realizing it he, smiled a little.
Chee-klick, a bright flash hit him. His arms reflectively move to cover his face but can’t because of the arm restrained to his bed. “Hey, why are you take a photo of me without **my permission !!!**”. “Oh I’m sorry for that, I just saw you smiling while watching the video so I need to take that” James explained. “I smile ??” Rudy asked as he felt dumbfounded by the word. “Mhemmm, here’s take a look “ Dr james then flip his phone and let Rudy take a look at his screen.
*I smile, does that mean i don’t want to die, no no no that can’t be right i want to die i can’t feel happiness anymore, if life is not happy then, then…..* . “Ah you know looking at it again you smile looks beautiful so I hope i can see more of your smile” Dr James said with a big smile on his face.
Now that Rudy takes a look at his face, he sees it now, his face. His bright eyes that are colored like sapphire, his blonde hair looks like it was made from gold, his face is soft but unmistakable masculine quality, his dark green shirt underneath his white robe. From his broken mind he sees a hope in the form of what seems like an angel to him. *He is… handsome*. His tan cheek is now adorned with light pink.
“Well that is one of the reasons, the other one is I need to make a report to Stephen charities that finance your stay in here”, *ah well that makes more sense*. His face gets back to a neutral tone. “Well, if you want to remove the photo, I can make an ex…”, “No, just give them the photo I can’t pay with my saving, and my insurance will probably not give the money” Rudy said with a stern voice, his face followed similarly but James can notice a hint of Sadness in there.
“With your consent, oh and also our session must end here i’m afraid, i have another appointment scheduled ” As dr James looked at his tablet that he brought from the beginning. “Don’t worry we have another session tomorrow” dr james put the tablet in the bag and shutting down his laptop. “Tomorrow our session will start at 8.30 am and end at 10.30 am so about 30 minutes off from today”. Dr James, who has already finished picking up his stuff then looks at Rudy, “So I hope you look forward to our session tomorrow”.
“Wait doctor James”James stops on his way to the door as he hears his patient call. ” I look forward to it too, and and thank you for today!” Rudy said as he shut his eyes out of embarrassment. “Yeah, your welcome, see you tomorrow Mr Rudy” unbeknownst to Rudy who still closed his eyes, James is smiling now just a little and more genuine.
“Come on Jamal , let’s go” creek.. The sound of the closing door allows Rudy to open his eyes again. Rudy began to process what just happened in his first season, “Is it that easy to actually made me not commit?, do I still have the will to live or does he give it to me?,”, and the last thought made him flustered “did i get charmed by him ?”.
As he overthink his head began to hurt “Stupid Rudy, very stupid"he muttered to himselt. "Well, if I survive and become a burden, I will make sure he take for his responsibility in this”
Hello everyone, i hope you enjoy this short story. The idea come to me after reading a lot of HFY that put emphasis on human physical traits. I feel like there is a need of hfy stories that focused on what i think the most impressive part of human Humanity and our bonds. I'm also intrigued by the idea of HFY story that is based on modern 21st century without no magic or alien, i feel like we human are already impressive now without any exageration of circumtances or another species to be compared too.
I'm gonna remind you all that our path to get here is literally unique and very impressive, and even without sci-fi tech we already have control of this earth akin to God. And even though our future is fraught with uncertainty, the odds are with us. Our form maybe flawed, but so does this universe so let us reach the infinite together !!.
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Trigger warning : Heavy Suicide ThemeAs Dr James walks to the rooms, he takes one deep breath. “Good morning Rudy, how was your sleep last night ?” he said from near the opened door. Rudy sight is now directed toward the incoming voice from the door. He sees one man in white robe holding a tablet accompanied by male nurse in his back*. Ah, here come the doctor’s.*
“I don’t want to talk with you, I just want to be gone from this world”, followed by shrieks from the patient. “I don’t have any reason to live, please let me goo”, *useless me can’t even finish the job*. The sentence is followed by a loud growl from Rudy as he tries to escape the bed restraints put on him.
The doctor was taken aback by such a strong reaction, Rudy can see that doctor James' face changes from a slight smile to what he assumes is the doctor's thinking face. “Aah I know !! Jamal, can you watch Mr Rudy for me? I have to take something from the outside” as James voice breaks the awkward silence that hangs in the room. Rudy is confused by the doctor's reaction.
Doctor James leaves the room as is, *no one wants to help me anyway*. Rudy could not help but to feel disappointment at the doctor as he went out, doesn’t matter my time here is short anyway. The room is filled again with silent awkwardness as the black nurse just stood in the door watching Rudy every moment. His brilliant brown eyes looking sharply at him, he felt nervous, *please let me go* .
After what felt like eternity the doctor came back to the room with one bag in his hand and laptop in another, *looks like a new model from zeon*. “Is that zeon zenith 12? “ his mouth bluntly said, *wait, noo?!!*. Dr James stopped by his bedside, looking a little bit surprised and quickly nodded “Yes, this is zeon zenith 12, are you a tech enthusiast ?”. Rudy did not answer, he gazed away from the doctor. “Well, looks like you know some tech update for the very least”.
Scrieeek……….. . “Ach…!!” Rudy covered his ear as the sound of metal chair scraping the floor ring aloud. “Ooh sorry Rudy, I did not know you’re sensitive to loud noises, i’ll be careful next time ” as doctor James stops the chair movement. Rudy stays silent, as Dr James takes a seat on a chair beside his bed. “So I know you don’t want to talk to me about your problem right now” James then grabbed the food table, “So instead why don’t we just watch some cute cat video i curated for this”.
Rudy turn his head back to James again this time confused looks clearly drawn in his face, is*n’t his job try to talk me out of suicide?*. “You want to talk about your problem now?” Rudy then looks away again from the doctor “Yeah I thought so. So why don’t we just watch this video and for a moment forget everything about the problem and just watch the video ?” Rudy did not turn his gazes, *how could i forget it if only bad things happened to my life?.*
His face began to puff up as he held back tears, “Alright if you don’t want to, I’ll watch it myself”. Meowing can be heard from his back, wait he seriously does it ?!. Rudy turn back his gaze toward the doctors with a slightly furious face, he looks focused on the video that played from his laptop. As doctor James looks back at him “want to watch ?” Rudy once again threw his gazes away. “Alright ” bruk.., the sound of the heavy laptop being placed in the food table and the sound of meowing continue. Rudy tried to look away still, but the cute voice made him curious, and feel awed. He finally looks at the video playing, he looks at the laptop intentley, almost like a child watching their favorite cartoons.
Rudy for this moment in time and space, he forget his problems, his shitty work at john’s pizza, his loud and inconsiderate upstair neighbor, his neighborhood that is brimming with trash and the gunshot he hears every night, his nonexistent love life, his friend who left him after uni, his grade from uni and highschool, his parents, and his past. For this moment he lives in the present, not overthinking about the past or the future.
They watch the video, both attentive in their own way, transfixed to the screen like a moth to a lamp. Through dozens of cute cat compilation videos they watch together, his face begins to relax from constant fury and agony to a more neutral tone. Then finally without realizing it he, smiled a little.
Chee-klick, a bright flash hit him. His arms reflectively move to cover his face but can’t because of the arm restrained to his bed. “Hey, why are you take a photo of me without **my permission !!!**”. “Oh I’m sorry for that, I just saw you smiling while watching the video so I need to take that” James explained. “I smile ??” Rudy asked as he felt dumbfounded by the word. “Mhemmm, here’s take a look “ Dr james then flip his phone and let Rudy take a look at his screen.
*I smile, does that mean i don’t want to die, no no no that can’t be right i want to die i can’t feel happiness anymore, if life is not happy then, then…..* . “Ah you know looking at it again you smile looks beautiful so I hope i can see more of your smile” Dr James said with a big smile on his face.
Now that Rudy takes a look at his face, he sees it now, his face. His bright eyes that are colored like sapphire, his blonde hair looks like it was made from gold, his face is soft but unmistakable masculine quality, his dark green shirt underneath his white robe. From his broken mind he sees a hope in the form of what seems like an angel to him. *He is… handsome*. His tan cheek is now adorned with light pink.
“Well that is one of the reasons, the other one is I need to make a report to Stephen charities that finance your stay in here”, *ah well that makes more sense*. His face gets back to a neutral tone. “Well, if you want to remove the photo, I can make an ex…”, “No, just give them the photo I can’t pay with my saving, and my insurance will probably not give the money” Rudy said with a stern voice, his face followed similarly but James can notice a hint of Sadness in there.
“With your consent, oh and also our session must end here i’m afraid, i have another appointment scheduled ” As dr James looked at his tablet that he brought from the beginning. “Don’t worry we have another session tomorrow” dr james put the tablet in the bag and shutting down his laptop. “Tomorrow our session will start at 8.30 am and end at 10.30 am so about 30 minutes off from today”. Dr James, who has already finished picking up his stuff then looks at Rudy, “So I hope you look forward to our session tomorrow”.
“Wait doctor James”James stops on his way to the door as he hears his patient call. ” I look forward to it too, and and thank you for today!” Rudy said as he shut his eyes out of embarrassment. “Yeah, your welcome, see you tomorrow Mr Rudy” unbeknownst to Rudy who still closed his eyes, James is smiling now just a little and more genuine.
“Come on Jamal , let’s go” creek.. The sound of the closing door allows Rudy to open his eyes again. Rudy began to process what just happened in his first season, “Is it that easy to actually made me not commit?, do I still have the will to live or does he give it to me?,”, and the last thought made him flustered “did i get charmed by him ?”.
As he overthink his head began to hurt “Stupid Rudy, very stupid"he muttered to himselt. "Well, if I survive and become a burden, I will make sure he take for his responsibility in this”
I'm gonna remind you all that our path to get here is literally unique and very impressive, and even without sci-fi tech we already have control of this earth akin to God. And even though our future is fraught with uncertainty, the odds are with us. Our form maybe flawed, but so does this universe so let us reach the infinite together !!.
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2024.05.15 15:29 Expert-Berry-9079 Would I be the bridezilla for telling my bridesmaids they need to step it up and be more involved and communicate better or they would not be a bridesmaid anymore and I would be replacing them with someone else?
This is my first ever post and want to know if I'm being irrational or not, so thought why not ask reddit. Also dont know if this is in the correct subreddit? If its not meant to be in this one please point me to where I should post, and it is a long one and kinda involves two stories. One bridesmaid I want to send a text to give a kick up the bum and the other I want to move down to a guest.
People in the story
Myself L - F28
Bridesmaid A - Alex (friends for 12 years) - Thinking of moving down to a guest.
Bridesmaid B -Beth (friends for 7 years) - Want to give a kick up the bum.
Both bridesmaids are separate friends from different times of my life.
H - (Friend 4 years) Not a bridesmaid.
Story-
I got engaged to my fiancé in June 2022, and asked Alex and Beth to be my bridesmaids straight away as always knew I wanted them involved in our day. In November 2022 we booked our venue for November 2024. Since June 2022, we didn't do anything together for the wedding as everything was so far away, I booked a dress experience with Alex, Beth, My mum, nan and sister in November 2023. I didn't find my dress but we had a lovely day, I booked more appointments at other shops, neither of my bridesmaids could come to the other appointments due to it being close to festivities and having other plans, which was fine and said not to worry if I found the dress we would arrange in the new year to all go together and have lunch after to talk wedding bits and pieces.
I did find the dress so sent photos in our group chat, and said would arrange a date in the new year to take them to see it and have lunch as previously spoke about.
So in mid Jan, I sent a message to arrange a weekend day when we could all do this, I did have to ask a few times for dates that could be done as neither of them responded, but we got a date booked in and I phoned the shop to say that I would be bringing my two bridesmaids to see the dress, so they were lovely and said they would have the dress up out the way so it can be a surprise for them.
During this time the bridesmaid dresses had arrived, and I was unsure on them so asked if they would mind coming over to try them on so I would know to send them back or not, Beth and my sister came about 2/3 days later to try them on and we spoke about my hen and asked if I should set up a group chat so they can start planning it as it was now Feb 2024, and didn't want it to leave it late to plan and arrange it. Which they agreed to so the next day I set up the group and then left it.
Alex couldn't come to the dress try on as she doesn't drive, so arranged for me to take it to her when I had time or for me to take it to the wedding dress show day and she could take it then.
The day we had prearranged rolled around and Beth text me about 2 hours before due to to leave to say she unfortunately couldn't make it due to having a stomach bug and not being able to hold anything down and apologised, I was disappointed but understood it is not something that can be helped and definitely don't want to go into a shop full of white dresses if not feeling great. So said that was fine and I hoped she got better. Then about 20 minutes before we were due to leave to pick up Alex from where she was due to meet us after dropping her son to her mums, I get a text to say she had been up early with her son and forgot what time it was and then realised she had left it too late to come and meet us, so she would no longer be coming she did also say maybe we had to have a talk about her being a bridesmaid as she had a lot going on. This I was angry at, and I did have a cry before I left for the shop as I had looked forward to this day for a while and on the day both had cancelled, and when I got to the shop the ladies were so lovely but also hurt for me that both had cancelled on the day of as they were expecting myself, sister and my two bridesmaids. Me and my sister had a great day and I asked how my hen planning was going. She said not well and that both Alex and Beth had been very quiet and not helpful. It was also Alexs birthday soon after this appointment so I had bought her gifts to the day to give to her, just small gifts that were to make her smile. On her birthday I sent a text and got no response which is unlike her to not even respond thank you as she has done in previous years, but shrugged it off as being busy. She made a post on facebook saying how she was thankful for all of her friends for getting her wonderful gifts on her day etc. I text her the next day to say I had her gift with me and that I had planned on giving it to her on the appointment day, but she could come and get it or I could drop it off when I was next free to which I then got a reply.
I sent a text the next day after this into our group chat, to say that as both me and my sister are the most flexible with our time, we would be leaving it up to them to if they want to plan a date to go and do this again, and that i would like us to get together still to plan some bits out and we were both more than happy to go to their houses if that made it easier for them. ( this was sent in Feb, nothing has happened since on this front)
I then didn't hear from either of them properly until end of Feb, I had tried to reach out to both about things that weren't the wedding as I normally would anyway however I either got short responses or nothing. Around march time things seemed to go back to normal with both Alex and Beth responding fairly normal for our friendship.
I then spoke to my sister around mid March, again asking how the hen planning was going, and she was getting quite stressed with it as neither bridesmaids were responding in the chat along with everyone else, and if Alex did respond it was also a no to her ideas without giving another idea in its place. I told her that if i needed to be added back in to help then I would, however I did have someone who maybe able to help. By this point
This is where my friend H comes in, she and I have been friends for a 4 years but she lives around 4 hours away from me, and wanted my two oldest friends as my bridesmaids. We dont get to see each other often however we try to ring each other once every month and have a 2/3 hour long catch up on our lives, and it was around this time we had our call so I spoke to her about everything that has been happening, and she said she would be happy to help my sister plan the hen. Which she did and Beth stepped us also after not being too active. Alex however did not and she is also unsure on whether she can come to the hen in itself due to childcare. Which is fine and I plan on doing a afternoon brunch thing for those who wanted to come but couldn't.
We are now in May with 6 months to go, neither have given RSVPs to the wedding and I havent seen either of them since November 2023. I want to get together to talk things like makeup artist, hair things i want to buy them as gifts etc but i dont seem to be getting anywhere.
Whilst going on through all of this I have tried multiple times to get Alex on the phone as we normally would when we hadn't seen each other for a long time, one night i waited 3 hours for her to call as she said she could but then kept moving the time back and back, by 3 hours of waiting I had enough and said would try again tomorrow to which again she just didn't pick up and text to say she would call later, she didn't. By this point Id had enough and spoke to my partner about it all and relooked back on our friendship. I had been there at her lowest moment taking time off work to help and support her as her family who she lived with didn't step up to help, over the last 2 years it had always been me asking her for a call or texting her first or to go over and see her, with her only initiating to go to hers to see her once. When she got married I wasnt a bridesmaid but still did bridesmaid things like get ready with her on the day and spend the night with her the night before as her bridesmaids didnt do any of that so she would have been getting ready alone etc. She has been there for me in the past when I needed it however in the last few years its been a lot more one sided. We hadn't seen each other in months so I went to hers to catch up and have dinner whilst I was there she got a phone call from another friend and she answered and had a 20/30 minute conversation with them, whilst I sat there so i was worried it was an emergency once she got off the phone I did ask if everything was okay and did i need to go etc and she said no it was just a catch up, we call each other nearly everyday. Which I did get mad at as when I go to hers I barely even speak to my fiancé as want to give her all my attention and found it rude she didn't give me the same courtesy if it had been an emergency then that is not an issue.
So I am asking am I being a bridezilla for wanting to give them a kick up the ass or moving them down to a guest for the day? And asking my friend H to see if shed like to be a bridesmaid instead?
Ive tried to include as much info as possible and give the main bits.
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People in the story
Myself L - F28
Bridesmaid A - Alex (friends for 12 years) - Thinking of moving down to a guest.
Bridesmaid B -Beth (friends for 7 years) - Want to give a kick up the bum.
Both bridesmaids are separate friends from different times of my life.
H - (Friend 4 years) Not a bridesmaid.
Story-
I got engaged to my fiancé in June 2022, and asked Alex and Beth to be my bridesmaids straight away as always knew I wanted them involved in our day. In November 2022 we booked our venue for November 2024. Since June 2022, we didn't do anything together for the wedding as everything was so far away, I booked a dress experience with Alex, Beth, My mum, nan and sister in November 2023. I didn't find my dress but we had a lovely day, I booked more appointments at other shops, neither of my bridesmaids could come to the other appointments due to it being close to festivities and having other plans, which was fine and said not to worry if I found the dress we would arrange in the new year to all go together and have lunch after to talk wedding bits and pieces.
I did find the dress so sent photos in our group chat, and said would arrange a date in the new year to take them to see it and have lunch as previously spoke about.
So in mid Jan, I sent a message to arrange a weekend day when we could all do this, I did have to ask a few times for dates that could be done as neither of them responded, but we got a date booked in and I phoned the shop to say that I would be bringing my two bridesmaids to see the dress, so they were lovely and said they would have the dress up out the way so it can be a surprise for them.
During this time the bridesmaid dresses had arrived, and I was unsure on them so asked if they would mind coming over to try them on so I would know to send them back or not, Beth and my sister came about 2/3 days later to try them on and we spoke about my hen and asked if I should set up a group chat so they can start planning it as it was now Feb 2024, and didn't want it to leave it late to plan and arrange it. Which they agreed to so the next day I set up the group and then left it.
Alex couldn't come to the dress try on as she doesn't drive, so arranged for me to take it to her when I had time or for me to take it to the wedding dress show day and she could take it then.
The day we had prearranged rolled around and Beth text me about 2 hours before due to to leave to say she unfortunately couldn't make it due to having a stomach bug and not being able to hold anything down and apologised, I was disappointed but understood it is not something that can be helped and definitely don't want to go into a shop full of white dresses if not feeling great. So said that was fine and I hoped she got better. Then about 20 minutes before we were due to leave to pick up Alex from where she was due to meet us after dropping her son to her mums, I get a text to say she had been up early with her son and forgot what time it was and then realised she had left it too late to come and meet us, so she would no longer be coming she did also say maybe we had to have a talk about her being a bridesmaid as she had a lot going on. This I was angry at, and I did have a cry before I left for the shop as I had looked forward to this day for a while and on the day both had cancelled, and when I got to the shop the ladies were so lovely but also hurt for me that both had cancelled on the day of as they were expecting myself, sister and my two bridesmaids. Me and my sister had a great day and I asked how my hen planning was going. She said not well and that both Alex and Beth had been very quiet and not helpful. It was also Alexs birthday soon after this appointment so I had bought her gifts to the day to give to her, just small gifts that were to make her smile. On her birthday I sent a text and got no response which is unlike her to not even respond thank you as she has done in previous years, but shrugged it off as being busy. She made a post on facebook saying how she was thankful for all of her friends for getting her wonderful gifts on her day etc. I text her the next day to say I had her gift with me and that I had planned on giving it to her on the appointment day, but she could come and get it or I could drop it off when I was next free to which I then got a reply.
I sent a text the next day after this into our group chat, to say that as both me and my sister are the most flexible with our time, we would be leaving it up to them to if they want to plan a date to go and do this again, and that i would like us to get together still to plan some bits out and we were both more than happy to go to their houses if that made it easier for them. ( this was sent in Feb, nothing has happened since on this front)
I then didn't hear from either of them properly until end of Feb, I had tried to reach out to both about things that weren't the wedding as I normally would anyway however I either got short responses or nothing. Around march time things seemed to go back to normal with both Alex and Beth responding fairly normal for our friendship.
I then spoke to my sister around mid March, again asking how the hen planning was going, and she was getting quite stressed with it as neither bridesmaids were responding in the chat along with everyone else, and if Alex did respond it was also a no to her ideas without giving another idea in its place. I told her that if i needed to be added back in to help then I would, however I did have someone who maybe able to help. By this point
This is where my friend H comes in, she and I have been friends for a 4 years but she lives around 4 hours away from me, and wanted my two oldest friends as my bridesmaids. We dont get to see each other often however we try to ring each other once every month and have a 2/3 hour long catch up on our lives, and it was around this time we had our call so I spoke to her about everything that has been happening, and she said she would be happy to help my sister plan the hen. Which she did and Beth stepped us also after not being too active. Alex however did not and she is also unsure on whether she can come to the hen in itself due to childcare. Which is fine and I plan on doing a afternoon brunch thing for those who wanted to come but couldn't.
We are now in May with 6 months to go, neither have given RSVPs to the wedding and I havent seen either of them since November 2023. I want to get together to talk things like makeup artist, hair things i want to buy them as gifts etc but i dont seem to be getting anywhere.
Whilst going on through all of this I have tried multiple times to get Alex on the phone as we normally would when we hadn't seen each other for a long time, one night i waited 3 hours for her to call as she said she could but then kept moving the time back and back, by 3 hours of waiting I had enough and said would try again tomorrow to which again she just didn't pick up and text to say she would call later, she didn't. By this point Id had enough and spoke to my partner about it all and relooked back on our friendship. I had been there at her lowest moment taking time off work to help and support her as her family who she lived with didn't step up to help, over the last 2 years it had always been me asking her for a call or texting her first or to go over and see her, with her only initiating to go to hers to see her once. When she got married I wasnt a bridesmaid but still did bridesmaid things like get ready with her on the day and spend the night with her the night before as her bridesmaids didnt do any of that so she would have been getting ready alone etc. She has been there for me in the past when I needed it however in the last few years its been a lot more one sided. We hadn't seen each other in months so I went to hers to catch up and have dinner whilst I was there she got a phone call from another friend and she answered and had a 20/30 minute conversation with them, whilst I sat there so i was worried it was an emergency once she got off the phone I did ask if everything was okay and did i need to go etc and she said no it was just a catch up, we call each other nearly everyday. Which I did get mad at as when I go to hers I barely even speak to my fiancé as want to give her all my attention and found it rude she didn't give me the same courtesy if it had been an emergency then that is not an issue.
So I am asking am I being a bridezilla for wanting to give them a kick up the ass or moving them down to a guest for the day? And asking my friend H to see if shed like to be a bridesmaid instead?
Ive tried to include as much info as possible and give the main bits.
2024.05.15 15:28 xfallenangelx95 [28/F] Seeking emotional support and highly empathetic people.I would love to find someone who doesn't judge others or make fun of them.It's very Important to have someone to rely on :) I'm here for conversations with emotionally mature people who don't have friends and need someone to talk to 🍀🌸
(Only Europe, Please) - short note - If you're not into reading or receiving long messages,don't read any further + Please If you don't want to read everything because of my post being too long for you & instead of reading It all - ..skip some parts - find another person to talk to.Let's respect each other and our free time. All people criticizing/making fun of me & other people - will be blocked.Pretty much as people questioning my post and giving me unsolicited advice.I'm not here for any conflicts and I know I can't please everyone - I know I never will.. However It's me who should feel comfortable in my new potential friendship & obviously someone who wants to be my friend - not the whole world.. which is why I don't need any advice from people who don't even want to be a part of my life. The amount of rude people on Reddit always criticizing others and making fun of them is unbelievably high but let me tell you something - NEVER let anyone make choices for you and criticize you only because you're different! Always fight for your dreams and never let anyone make you think you're worthless! It's your life and you're the one deciding what's best for you - If you want to judge me despite not even wanting to talk to me or give me advice better block me! I'm an adult woman and I make all decisions on my own.I'm not trying to "fit in" and be like everyone else - just to get more attention.Accept me for who I am or let go - is my motto.
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Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give them one word answer and ask them another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different 🙂
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What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me
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What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and partners.. Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them (which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Please send me a message only If you're not In a relationship and don't have friends for the same reasons I've already mentioned before
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Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .
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I also want to talk to others every day because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..some people ask me "Why do you want to talk to people from Europe?" Well..Because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough
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I'm by no means criticizing people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have unimportant conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason :) All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life. I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message . Don't let anyone lie to you.
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Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk every day? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionally.
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I'm not trying to sound rude but conversations once or twice a week wouldn't be enough for me and I don't need them... Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :) It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make more time for you.
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I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you.
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I'm not interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life
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• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk?” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on a random question or? When they start talking only about themselves and don't ever ask me anything. I love conversations with people referring to everything I say...I want everything I say and do - to be reciprocated
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• No NSFW profiles (checking mental health subreddits NOT included as I'm a huge empath and always try to understand others) - Please! I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. I always check people's profiles (even comment history) - To avoid guys, trying to get inappropriate pictures from adult women or? flirt with them + I don't want to see you with no clothes on so If you're on Reddit only because you want others to see what's underneath your clothes - I'm not for you! I just simply don't want to see any s e x related activity on your profile If you want to talk to me.
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• If both of us (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English - because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just don't want to talk to a person from the same country as mine - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to improve your language skills
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• Please only adult people 18-36 (age range) It doesn't matter to me If you're younger or older than me (as long as you're not underage) So.. don't worry! I just want to have discussions with emotionally mature people :)
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• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even If It's a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - Not responding to someone's first or second message Is completely OK! If people think they wouldn't get along with a stranger - is there a reason to start a conversation? I don't think so. I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversations and seeing people changing priorities over time.. but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real. If I'm really interested in someone's message it's impossible to hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I had no time for others - I wouldn't be here. I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike most people who don't want to talk to others)
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• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.
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• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - like me - to describe your emotions In text messages. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough! I just don't like emotionless conversations.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even in a text message - Emojis are very helpful to express your emotions.I don't want to meet people who say "crying Is a weakness" - It's OK to cry even If you're a guy!
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• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you) before moving to Discord or some other app
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• I would rather talk to a homebody - not another person who always has something to do as people who are very busy don't even have time for daily conversations
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• If you're another person interested only in "childish conversations" such as "HEYOOO! I'M BORED! Ya like Pizza or cheese? xDDDD 🤣" I'm begging you! Don't send me a message.I'm not a child anymore and such messages don't make me smile or laugh.I'm looking for someone interested In serious discussions - not another person just seeking some entertainment out of boredom . Conversations with sarcastic undertones (even when It comes to some emojis such as 🤣😂) are not for me. Your typing style matters to me! Why? when It comes to online conversations with someone new - It's not always possible to know If someone Is laughing at you.. or with you. Let me tell you something else! Jokes about cancer, disabilities and death are UNACCEPTABLE to me. If you find joy In someone else's misfortune you are not a person I want to know.
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• Time response matters to me a lot! I would never ask anyone to be online all day long and I'm NOT asking any of you for any instant messaging as I'm someone who would rather wait an hour or two to receive a proper response instead of some short and pointless messages but I'm interested only in daily conversations and I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to get a message from you.I don't need unbelievably long messages either! Messages as long as the second paragraph of my post - are completely enough. If you like longer messages? you can send me a longer message, but If you want to send me one word or one sentence as a response to my post - don't expect a reaction from me. I don't want to come across as rude - I just don't want to waste your time
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• I'm strongly AGAINST picking on people you don't even want to chat with - and making fun of them! I can't stand people who criticize others publicly or make fun of them! (only because they disagree with someone they don't even know) There's no place In my life for someone using Reddit, to hurt other people
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• I'm not into foul language and I definitely don't want to talk to people who swear a lot...
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• I want to meet assertive people who know what they want and always stand up for their friends
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• I want to meet someone willing to call me In the future, someone spontaneously sending me pictures of animals or food, et cetera. I want more than just text conversations.. 🌻
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Why can’t you see any of my hobbies listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest, talkative ,understanding, caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but from my point of view - people's hobbies are important - If you want to find a gaming buddy or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's passions – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life – way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you! I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced. I wouldn't get along with people who laugh at everything.. In my opinion most people are way too sarcastic.. It's quite sad... Sarcasm can also be another form of passive-aggressive behavior.
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People who want to be to friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I highly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk as often as possible in order to become friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations. If you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night) I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone important to me. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.
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If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new. You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance - but others? They would rather hear something different 🙁Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.
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You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're responsible only for ourselves - not others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on, forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because even the best therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you. Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out! Feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else - Is very important! "Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others. If after hearing a sad story all you want to say is "forget the past and move on" you're not for me. It's important to be a good listener and provide emotional support to others
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Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abbreviations,If you don't need a stable friendship, If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship to be natural which is why I want you to contact me only If your needs are the same - I don't want you to pretend someone you're not - only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I want to finally be happy again & find someone "always" wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals. What is the most important to me? I want to find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side
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I know It's possible to meet people with exactly the same expectations as mine but It's just not easy because most people are Interested In temporary and entertaining conversations. People like me are just "different" I really want to finally find someone who loves emojis as much as I do.. someone who loves sweet, warm and serious discussions at the same time. Emojis really do - change conversations 😊
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Hello guys! 🙂 (read everything before you decide to send me a message) Please send me a message ONLY If you're in the same situation and If your expectations are the same as mine.I want to find like minded people from Europe (Why Europe? Read my post to find out) I'm looking for something permanent (remember - you can feel lonely even If you're surrounded by others - If there's no emotional bond) I'm fed up of meeting people who never make time for me & only text me once or twice a week to ask me "what are you up to?" Out of boredom.I don't want to meet people asking others a million of questions like "what's your favorite movie?" Just to give them one word answer and ask them another question "and music? Your favorite song?" I'm looking for something "deeper" & different 🙂
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What kind of friend would I like to find? Someone to talk to on a daily basis - Someone who needs It & wants It just as much as me
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What are my expectations? I would like to meet someone in a similar situation – why? Because I honestly feel like only a person with the same expectations and a similar outlook on life would get along with me & because I feel more comfortable talking to people like me..Friendless people who need a strong bond - people without friends and partners.. Don't get me wrong…Most people deserve to be happy and It's good to have friends but people who have friends or families in real life are usually more focused on them (which is completely understandable) & have less time for others + I simply don't want to be replaced by anyone..I kind of envy people who can call others , true friends given I don't have an emotional bond with any of my acquaintances. Please send me a message only If you're not In a relationship and don't have friends for the same reasons I've already mentioned before
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Whenever I hear that others have friends I simply get sad because (believe it or not) If I had to choose between 20 people to talk to (acquaintances) and one special person - I'd choose that one special person without any hesitation .
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I also want to talk to others every day because..I want to see someone’s effort & be someone's first choice - not another person to have random conversations with..some people ask me "Why do you want to talk to people from Europe?" Well..Because I would like to see someone I'd get along with - In the far future - face to face :) + I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to receive a message - waiting 6 hours to receive a message is more than enough
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I'm by no means criticizing people who don't want to talk to others often / People who really are super busy & People who want to find someone to have unimportant conversations with - I'm aware that not everyone has the same expectations which is why everything you're reading now - is here for a reason :) All I'm suggesting is - I don't want anything temporary and I don't want to be the one always giving more than receiving.Listen people - I used to ignore being..ignored by others..always being just an option to talk to during tough times or moments of boredom.I was too young to realize that I was never important enough for most people that were a part of my life. I don't know who needs to hear this but..No one is too busy to make time for you! People make excuses to avoid others because they prioritize everything and (maybe) everyone..over them. It's true that most people are busy - but It takes only a few seconds to start a conversation (If you're into short messages) and a few minutes (1-10/15) to type a long message . Don't let anyone lie to you.
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Truth is that most people either don't like you enough to make time for you or just simply - feel no need to talk to others often but are they too busy? No..You don't need to send me a message just to ask me and tell me "Do you really want to talk every day? I like long messages but I can't promise to contact you often" If you really are unsure please don't send me a message.I don't need more acquaintances aka people to talk to - occasionally.
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I'm not trying to sound rude but conversations once or twice a week wouldn't be enough for me and I don't need them... Let me tell you one thing – A true friend would never just give up on you for no reason :) It’s always possible to find someone to have a random conversation with – someone willing to send you one message once or twice a week..but..It’s almost impossible to find people willing to make more time for you.
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I’m not asking a busy person to make time for me by changing some plans! Absolutely not! I’m here to find someone who wants to talk daily (throughout the day or maybe even night) of one’s own will.Someone looking for the same kind of connection.Strong friendships are based on mutual support. One of the best things you can do for a friend in need, is just to be there for them when they want to talk.I often see posts from people who always say how friendless they are because they don't feel loved or appreciated by their "friends" remember! A true friend - someone who truly likes you or someone who wants to get to know you - will always find time for you.
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I'm not interested in small talk/short messages - I love long and meaningful conversations. It's so easy to find someone who loves abbreviations and questions like "How are you?" How was your day? Or what are you interested in? But so hard/almost impossible to find a person who knows how to keep a conversation going & show others some effort.Building and maintaining friendships takes time and effort.Never allow pursuits or possessions to become bigger priorities than your relations with other people.Close friendships are so important to us because they are so difficult to form + Having friends can help you feel as if you belong to something that brings purpose and connection to your life
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• I do NOT respond to any „Hey,hmu” or „u want to talk?” type of messages (super short messages or messages full of abbreviations – I literally can’t stand abbreviations and acronyms in text messages) ALL messages full of abbreviations will immediately be ignored.I also don't like it when people ignore everything I say in private messages just to focus on a random question or? When they start talking only about themselves and don't ever ask me anything. I love conversations with people referring to everything I say...I want everything I say and do - to be reciprocated
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• No NSFW profiles (checking mental health subreddits NOT included as I'm a huge empath and always try to understand others) - Please! I'm not looking for anyone to flirt with and I'm not looking for a partner either. I always check people's profiles (even comment history) - To avoid guys, trying to get inappropriate pictures from adult women or? flirt with them + I don't want to see you with no clothes on so If you're on Reddit only because you want others to see what's underneath your clothes - I'm not for you! I just simply don't want to see any s e x related activity on your profile If you want to talk to me.
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• If both of us (you and I) are from the same country (I live in a non-English speaking country) - I want to communicate with you in our first language! No - Not because I don't understand English - because as you see - I do. Why then? English is simply overrated and people don't appreciate other languages as much as they should. So.. If we're from the same country and you want to talk only in English (which is quite common on reddit) - Talk to someone else. I just don't want to talk to a person from the same country as mine - in a foreign language as It's just something I don't understand even If all you want is to improve your language skills
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• Please only adult people 18-36 (age range) It doesn't matter to me If you're younger or older than me (as long as you're not underage) So.. don't worry! I just want to have discussions with emotionally mature people :)
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• I don’t respond to messages I don’t find interesting even If they're long - If after receiving and reading your message I don't feel comfortable or think "I wouldn't get along with him/her" I simply do not respond (what I’m suggesting is that I don’t always respond to someone’s first or second message because..sometimes you just know If you’d get along with someone or not- I’d never ignore anyone after days or weeks of daily conversations though) just because I don’t want to do anything forcefully & because I don’t want to lead anyone on. I read all messages but I definitely don't respond to all of them! I want to make it clear because I don't want to be accused of not responding and not reading people's messages! - Some people don't message me back as well and even If It's a bit disappointing I'm ok with that! - as long as there's no emotional bond - Not responding to someone's first or second message Is completely OK! If people think they wouldn't get along with a stranger - is there a reason to start a conversation? I don't think so. I can't stand being ignored after days or weeks of daily conversations and seeing people changing priorities over time.. but that's something different - something I don't want to go through ever again for real. If I'm really interested in someone's message it's impossible to hear from me "I'm too busy" because I know myself and If I had no time for others - I wouldn't be here. I don't want to pretend someone I'm not and always try to find some cheap excuses to avoid others. (unlike most people who don't want to talk to others)
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• Don’t ask me “Can you tell me something about yourself?” If you really want to get to know me - you can ask me questions :) I'm an open book.
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• It would be better If you guys were into emojis - like me - to describe your emotions In text messages. Two emojis - 🙂 and 🙁 are completely enough! I just don't like emotionless conversations.I also don't like it when people say "yeah" or yea"as it sounds dismissively. First impression Is everything to me! I want to see your kindness even in a text message - Emojis are very helpful to express your emotions.I don't want to meet people who say "crying Is a weakness" - It's OK to cry even If you're a guy!
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• I want to talk on reddit first (just to make sure If I'd get along with you) before moving to Discord or some other app
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• I would rather talk to a homebody - not another person who always has something to do as people who are very busy don't even have time for daily conversations
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• If you're another person interested only in "childish conversations" such as "HEYOOO! I'M BORED! Ya like Pizza or cheese? xDDDD 🤣" I'm begging you! Don't send me a message.I'm not a child anymore and such messages don't make me smile or laugh.I'm looking for someone interested In serious discussions - not another person just seeking some entertainment out of boredom . Conversations with sarcastic undertones (even when It comes to some emojis such as 🤣😂) are not for me. Your typing style matters to me! Why? when It comes to online conversations with someone new - It's not always possible to know If someone Is laughing at you.. or with you. Let me tell you something else! Jokes about cancer, disabilities and death are UNACCEPTABLE to me. If you find joy In someone else's misfortune you are not a person I want to know.
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• Time response matters to me a lot! I would never ask anyone to be online all day long and I'm NOT asking any of you for any instant messaging as I'm someone who would rather wait an hour or two to receive a proper response instead of some short and pointless messages but I'm interested only in daily conversations and I don't want to wait any longer than 6 hours to get a message from you.I don't need unbelievably long messages either! Messages as long as the second paragraph of my post - are completely enough. If you like longer messages? you can send me a longer message, but If you want to send me one word or one sentence as a response to my post - don't expect a reaction from me. I don't want to come across as rude - I just don't want to waste your time
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• I'm strongly AGAINST picking on people you don't even want to chat with - and making fun of them! I can't stand people who criticize others publicly or make fun of them! (only because they disagree with someone they don't even know) There's no place In my life for someone using Reddit, to hurt other people
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• I'm not into foul language and I definitely don't want to talk to people who swear a lot...
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• I want to meet assertive people who know what they want and always stand up for their friends
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• I want to meet someone willing to call me In the future, someone spontaneously sending me pictures of animals or food, et cetera. I want more than just text conversations.. 🌻
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Why can’t you see any of my hobbies listed down below? Because what really matters to me is..who you are (If you’re honest, talkative ,understanding, caring and trustworthy – for example) just simply – It matters to me what you’re like! not what you like.Don’t get me wrong – you can tell me what your hobbies are but from my point of view - people's hobbies are important - If you want to find a gaming buddy or If you want to meet someone to hang out with in real life and..go bowling for example.What most people seem to care about are other people's passions – I don’t. I get along with other people despite having completely different hobbies but I absolutely don’t get along with people way different than me (different expectations and outlook on life – way different sense of humor or personality traits – It’s just an example) It doesn't make ANY DIFFERENCE to me If you're a gamer or? Someone interested in photography! It doesn't make any difference - > as long as you're talkative and kind and If you also want to find someone willing to stay in your life..for good - But If you're into small talk and all you want is to...type and receive super short messages or If you're here only because you're bored and don't know what to do + If you're a very sarcastic person - I'm definitely not for you! I don't get along with overly sarcastic people turning everything into a joke. Friendships should be natural – not forced. I wouldn't get along with people who laugh at everything.. In my opinion most people are way too sarcastic.. It's quite sad... Sarcasm can also be another form of passive-aggressive behavior.
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People who want to be to friends should feel comfortable and have something in common. No - not necessarily a similar taste in music or movies but something else..Most friendships don't fizzle out because of people not having the same hobbies but..because they just simply have different expectations when It comes to something important.I'm not here out of boredom and trust me - I'm not here to meet as many people as possible.I choose quality over quantity.I highly value myself and my time & Sometimes one person but a person who makes you feel comfortable and understood - is more than enough :) We ALL can choose what kind of people we’d like to talk to and maybe even become really good friends with and I? I don’t want anyone to be disappointed.We all have some expectations after all.I know that people don't have to talk as often as possible in order to become friends but I'm interested only in daily conversations. If you really need someone to talk to due to loneliness and If you have time to talk to me daily (throughout the day and maybe even night) I always make time for others.I'm literally always available.I could even stay up all night long only to talk to someone important to me. I’m ready to commit but only If there’s some chemistry between me and someone else.I don’t do anything forcefully.
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If you want to talk to me tell me your story - tell me why you're here, what kind of friend would you like to meet :) Et cetera.Such messages are way more interesting to me than...someone's long list of hobbies. I know! It's unusual on reddit but I don't make friends based on hobbies..I want to meet someone with the same mindset as mine to finally feel understood and get close to someone new. You can share your problems with me - I absolutely don't mind "complaining" as I've been through a lot in my life.What do people usually tell you when you tell them that something's wrong? "Don't complain" or "Life's not over yet - one day you'll be happy" or "There are worse situations than yours" and..obviously "Find a therapist" Life's not a fairytale and sometimes things don't go as planned.Emotions shouldn't be bottled up.I'm sick of people always telling others "everything's gonna be ok" move on " & more..Trust me people - not everyone wants to hear "Just believe in yourself and everything's gonna be ok" Some people take it as reassurance - but others? They would rather hear something different 🙁Imagine being told that things will be okay, only for them to get worse..Do you guys know why telling someone "everything's gonna be ok" Is wrong? Because you can't see the future.
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You can't guarantee others that one day they'll finally be happy + when It comes to social interactions - We're responsible only for ourselves - not others & as you guys know people let us down quite often (sometimes even when there's no reason) so instead of telling people how they should move on, forget everything and be happy or asking them to find a therapist - be there for them! Always be willing to listen to them If you really like them or want to get to know them & don't suggest everyone in a tough situation to find a therapist because even the best therapist won't ever replace a true friend + It's quite normal to be disappointed If people always do something to hurt you. Sharing your hardships with other people in a very similar situation or exactly the same one - is VERY helpful If the other person understands you & wants to start all over by just letting it all out! Feeling emotional support instead of always hearing some "positive quotes" or someone saying "Stop complaining let's talk about something else - Is very important! "Everyone needs a shoulder to cry on. I appreciate sensitive people who always try to understand others. If after hearing a sad story all you want to say is "forget the past and move on" you're not for me. It's important to be a good listener and provide emotional support to others
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Please - If you're a completely different person than the described type of person I'm looking for (If you love abbreviations,If you don't need a stable friendship, If you're sarcastic and quiet) or If you simply disagree with my post - don't force yourself to send me a message.I want my new potential friendship to be natural which is why I want you to contact me only If your needs are the same - I don't want you to pretend someone you're not - only to please me - Pretending to be someone you're not - is the worst.I want to finally be happy again & find someone "always" wanting to talk - sending me random pictures throughout the day - food pictures or pictures of some animals. What is the most important to me? I want to find people who value online friendships as much as they would value real life ones as there's another human being on the other side
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I know It's possible to meet people with exactly the same expectations as mine but It's just not easy because most people are Interested In temporary and entertaining conversations. People like me are just "different" I really want to finally find someone who loves emojis as much as I do.. someone who loves sweet, warm and serious discussions at the same time. Emojis really do - change conversations 😊
2024.05.15 15:27 No_Safe_3611 Should I (22F) be concerned, my partner (23M) & I are having less sex?
Hello,
I feel a little odd posting this but I really don’t know how to feel and would appreciate the help of some kind strangers on the internet to give me their advice and wisdom.
I (22F) and my partner (23M) have been together for a year now. To provide some background information, I would describe our relationship as pretty perfect. Yes we have little arguments but we always resolve things and have never really had a major fights or big issues within the relationship. I feel really lucky to be with him, to even know him. He’s very sweet, sensitive, honest, kind and thoughtful. He’s the type of guy that makes sure the table is clean and neat when we finish up at a restaurant so that the waiter has less work. Anyway;
For the year we’ve been together, we’ve had a pretty amazing sex life. Generally, if we’re home together (we both still live at home) we’d be having sex sometimes up to 3 times a day. I have uni and he works a lot so we don’t always get to spend too much time together (maybe seeing each other twice a week) but that doesn’t affect us to be honest.
Over the past four weeks, I’ve noticed that he’s been initiating less, and even times when we are beginning to have sex he will get soft like 10 minutes into foreplay. However other times it’s fine, but the sex just isn’t like what it used to be. It’s not as passionate, there’s just something missing. And we’re both aware of it. It’s been brought up but always brushed off as nothing, or us rushing because we’re so eager. We have only really had sex 3-5 times in the past 4 weeks compared to what would have typically been upwards of 15.
I’ve brought up my concerns with him previously but he swears that it is nothing conscious that’s affecting us/him but rather unconscious thoughts. He’s recently graduated from uni and is struggling to finding a graduate role. He’s been looking for the past 6 months and I can see it’s affecting his confidence continuously getting rejected but honestly he seriously has the most amazing outlook on life and still pushes forward. Yes it gets him down, but he still remains positive.
What has caused my concern though, and my reason for writing this, seeking help, is because last night we started to have sex and it started off amazing, like how it used to be, and then out of nowhere he was completely soft within 3 minutes. I could see in his face how ashamed he was so I tried to comfort him as best as I could. Long story short, we spoke and he has put it down again to the stress of not being able to find a job. But why don’t I believe him? A part of me thinks there’s something else going on. I don’t know if this is naive or selfish of me to even think, I don’t know what to think to be honest. Other than this, our relationship hasn’t changed, he still takes me on beautiful dates and tells me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am.
So essentially, my question is, do I have a cause for concern? Should I be focusing more on him and the fact that this could be something that he’s actually really struggling with rather than being (lack of a better word) selfish? My priority is making sure he’s ok but I can’t help but wonder if there is something other than stress, something that involves me.
Thankyou, and I will appreciate anything advice at all.
TL;DR - my boyfriend and I have been having considerably less sex. He says it’s because of stress from having to look for a job, but I don’t believe him. Am I wrong to think he’s hiding something?
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I feel a little odd posting this but I really don’t know how to feel and would appreciate the help of some kind strangers on the internet to give me their advice and wisdom.
I (22F) and my partner (23M) have been together for a year now. To provide some background information, I would describe our relationship as pretty perfect. Yes we have little arguments but we always resolve things and have never really had a major fights or big issues within the relationship. I feel really lucky to be with him, to even know him. He’s very sweet, sensitive, honest, kind and thoughtful. He’s the type of guy that makes sure the table is clean and neat when we finish up at a restaurant so that the waiter has less work. Anyway;
For the year we’ve been together, we’ve had a pretty amazing sex life. Generally, if we’re home together (we both still live at home) we’d be having sex sometimes up to 3 times a day. I have uni and he works a lot so we don’t always get to spend too much time together (maybe seeing each other twice a week) but that doesn’t affect us to be honest.
Over the past four weeks, I’ve noticed that he’s been initiating less, and even times when we are beginning to have sex he will get soft like 10 minutes into foreplay. However other times it’s fine, but the sex just isn’t like what it used to be. It’s not as passionate, there’s just something missing. And we’re both aware of it. It’s been brought up but always brushed off as nothing, or us rushing because we’re so eager. We have only really had sex 3-5 times in the past 4 weeks compared to what would have typically been upwards of 15.
I’ve brought up my concerns with him previously but he swears that it is nothing conscious that’s affecting us/him but rather unconscious thoughts. He’s recently graduated from uni and is struggling to finding a graduate role. He’s been looking for the past 6 months and I can see it’s affecting his confidence continuously getting rejected but honestly he seriously has the most amazing outlook on life and still pushes forward. Yes it gets him down, but he still remains positive.
What has caused my concern though, and my reason for writing this, seeking help, is because last night we started to have sex and it started off amazing, like how it used to be, and then out of nowhere he was completely soft within 3 minutes. I could see in his face how ashamed he was so I tried to comfort him as best as I could. Long story short, we spoke and he has put it down again to the stress of not being able to find a job. But why don’t I believe him? A part of me thinks there’s something else going on. I don’t know if this is naive or selfish of me to even think, I don’t know what to think to be honest. Other than this, our relationship hasn’t changed, he still takes me on beautiful dates and tells me how much he loves me and how beautiful I am.
So essentially, my question is, do I have a cause for concern? Should I be focusing more on him and the fact that this could be something that he’s actually really struggling with rather than being (lack of a better word) selfish? My priority is making sure he’s ok but I can’t help but wonder if there is something other than stress, something that involves me.
Thankyou, and I will appreciate anything advice at all.
TL;DR - my boyfriend and I have been having considerably less sex. He says it’s because of stress from having to look for a job, but I don’t believe him. Am I wrong to think he’s hiding something?
2024.05.15 15:23 MellBell24 Let's see if we both can find something lasting (31 F Gamer)
((TLDR: I'm looking for pretty much one or two people to connect with. We'll probably either play video games alot of just have long voice chats. If you don't voice chat please at least be willing to msg alot. I'm super friendly but also have been through a lot so to the people who are struggling please don't be afraid to msg and be sad just be willing to try with me to be happy. If ur looking for JUST flirting please go somewhere else. A little flirting isn't harmful but I like genuine connections and flirting with me just because I'm a female and not because you actually like my personality honestly hurts my feelings. Genuine authentic is my turn on lol.))
Let me start by saying Im open to befriending other women, but I don't have many good experiences with them so I would rather not advertise for them.
Seven or eight years ago I made a post on a subreddit looking for a friend. Long story short I found a nice Canadian guy we voice chatted frequently and messaged each other nearly everyday. Unfortunately through the years feelings developed on his side and it was "date me or say goodbye to me" ultimatum randomly one day. Though there is a danger in getting close to someone like that again, I really miss having a close friendship. We all grew up, got married or are in a relationship, perhaps had kids, ect. But I'd like to have a close friendship like that again that has a successful ending. For me personally regardless I didn't regret it and if you are willing to risk such as well let's try to be friends.
I'm a huge gamer. Animal lover. Amazon Prime lover. And most of all a bonefied goofball. I'm a bit strange, but I'm super nice. I also enjoy talking about complicated subjects. The universe. Meaning of life. Purpose. Or just about your day. I could write a bunch of stuff about me but why don't we start with an interest or subject you would like to talk about or perhaps are passionate of.
Current Multiplayer games I play: Sons of the forest, Ark, Final Fantasy 14, Phas, Palworld, Helldivers 2
Psa. If you want casual friends please don't message. Would prefer 25+ but if u don't mind my confusion in your generational conversations then I don't mind a 20+. Let's be random together.
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Let me start by saying Im open to befriending other women, but I don't have many good experiences with them so I would rather not advertise for them.
Seven or eight years ago I made a post on a subreddit looking for a friend. Long story short I found a nice Canadian guy we voice chatted frequently and messaged each other nearly everyday. Unfortunately through the years feelings developed on his side and it was "date me or say goodbye to me" ultimatum randomly one day. Though there is a danger in getting close to someone like that again, I really miss having a close friendship. We all grew up, got married or are in a relationship, perhaps had kids, ect. But I'd like to have a close friendship like that again that has a successful ending. For me personally regardless I didn't regret it and if you are willing to risk such as well let's try to be friends.
I'm a huge gamer. Animal lover. Amazon Prime lover. And most of all a bonefied goofball. I'm a bit strange, but I'm super nice. I also enjoy talking about complicated subjects. The universe. Meaning of life. Purpose. Or just about your day. I could write a bunch of stuff about me but why don't we start with an interest or subject you would like to talk about or perhaps are passionate of.
Current Multiplayer games I play: Sons of the forest, Ark, Final Fantasy 14, Phas, Palworld, Helldivers 2
Psa. If you want casual friends please don't message. Would prefer 25+ but if u don't mind my confusion in your generational conversations then I don't mind a 20+. Let's be random together.
2024.05.15 15:23 CalicoLime Featuring Bobobo-bo Bo-bobo! (Bobobo-bo Bo-bobo)
"Whenever there's a head of hair being threatened by a criminal clipper, I'll be there."
Bobobo-bo Bo-bobo
♫ B-A-K-A S-U-R-V-I-V-O-R ♫Bobobo-bo Bo-bobo is the cool and incomprehensible hero, swarthy and musclebound, sporting sunglasses and a large golden afro. He is called "Bo-bobo" for short, as he refuses to let people call him "Bo".
A link to the ridiculously big Respect Thread and the somehow even larger Mega RT that has every feat in the series.
Hanage Shinken
It is powered by Taiyaki.
BoBo-BoBoBoBoBoBo-BoBoBoBo-BoBo
Bo-Bobo defeats his brother by giving a recap of the series.
Himeji Castle! Himeji Slice!
Bo-Bobo summons a large Himeji castle wielding a sword.
Bo-Bobo Armor
Bo-Bobo dons a powerful suit of armor.
Bo-Bobo Omikuji
Bo-Bobo defends himself from being pecked to death by detonating a bomb inside his body.
Bo-Bobo World
Upon first glance, Bo-bobo World appears to be just a small clearing in the center of a forest, but it is here that Bo-bobo is completely in control of almost everything around him. According to Bo-bobo, those who enter this dimension can release their soul, allowing them to use the power deep within. However, if they don't release their soul, their minds will break and apparently die as a result.
Fidgeting Typhoon
Bo-Bobo summons a massive tornado by fidgeting slightly.
Hajike
- Wins a Hajike duel with the Dynomite Brothers by haphazardly spending 5 hundred million Yen in random stocks.
- Commands a fire to go out by shouting.
- Can turn his sunglasses upside down to enter Ganeme Time, a powerful transformation that allows him to create large pairs of sunglasses and alter peoples memories
- Revived after being killed by his eldest brother Bi-Bibi with the spirit of Torpedo Girl's father, Landmine Dandy, serving as his Stand which allows him to overwhelm and defeat Bi-Bibi.
Durability
- Charged into by Torpedo Girl, a legendary idiot killer who is capable of destroying multiple buildings with her attacks
- Fought Gunkan for a consecutive three days and nights. Gunkan was strong enough to destroy an entire base by himself and impale several people on his duckbill and fast enough to casually catch multiple arrows in one hand.
- Pressed through the top of a tunnel while riding on a train.
- Resist a descendant of Medusa's stare without turning into stone though he is turned into a carrot, a cabbage, and an eggplant
- When his Afro is damaged, he can summon three men who love bonsai. They are fairly powerful fighters, able to keep up with Bo-Bobo and Bi-Bibi's strikes.
- Tanks Heppokomaru's Black Leap Year to the face. In a flashback, Heppokomaru's powered up Onara Shinken was shown to be able to cut the moon in half.
Strength
- Slams the Sun down onto Giga and punches through it.
- Cuts a futuristic building in half with an axe.
- Stops and flings an oncoming train.
Speed
- Runs past speeding future cars.
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2024.05.15 15:21 betwixt616 My dad is going to die and there's nothing I can do about it
This all just sucks so bad. It's really hitting me hard today because of some hard conversations I had recently with a relative about getting a will put together before his cognitive decline gets worse. I was so ok with it for the months since he was in the hospital in December of last year but that conversation really just. stripped me bare of all the walls I had put up about it.
Im just so scared. I don't know how I'm going to handle my dad getting worse and worse and worse. He has stage 4 cancer and we don't have a time frame, we didn't ask for one. He is getting immunotherapy and I was happy since it's been keeping the cancer at bay. His mental decline is the scariest thing though. He remembers so much still but he has a hard time with short term stuff. Today he knocked on my bedroom door to ask me where my mom was and I ended up staying with him until my mom came back from dropping off my sibling at school so he wouldnt be alone. He was also confused about the time because it was 7am but he thought it was evening.
I hate being pitied about it. Every day I'm brutally aware of my situation and I wake up and do my best to help my family with everything. I hate it when people say they're sorry for me. Every single day of my life since he was in the hospital I have been viscerally aware of that fact that I'm only 22 and my dad is very sick and will die soon. I'm brutally aware of how lucky people must feel that they're not in my situation. Please don't say you feel sorry for me. It really doesn't help at all.
I'm rambling at this point. I'm just so scared and angry and raw. That conversation with my relative really just destroyed me and I'm upset about it too because I had even asked her about it months ago and she had brushed me off. She says apparently she didn't realize my dad was stage 4. It's pointless to be upset about I feel because at least now she's helping me with it.
I just want to feel ok again. I had all my feelings about this neatly organized and stacked and that conversation and her looks of pity just stripped me down and scattered them all.
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Im just so scared. I don't know how I'm going to handle my dad getting worse and worse and worse. He has stage 4 cancer and we don't have a time frame, we didn't ask for one. He is getting immunotherapy and I was happy since it's been keeping the cancer at bay. His mental decline is the scariest thing though. He remembers so much still but he has a hard time with short term stuff. Today he knocked on my bedroom door to ask me where my mom was and I ended up staying with him until my mom came back from dropping off my sibling at school so he wouldnt be alone. He was also confused about the time because it was 7am but he thought it was evening.
I hate being pitied about it. Every day I'm brutally aware of my situation and I wake up and do my best to help my family with everything. I hate it when people say they're sorry for me. Every single day of my life since he was in the hospital I have been viscerally aware of that fact that I'm only 22 and my dad is very sick and will die soon. I'm brutally aware of how lucky people must feel that they're not in my situation. Please don't say you feel sorry for me. It really doesn't help at all.
I'm rambling at this point. I'm just so scared and angry and raw. That conversation with my relative really just destroyed me and I'm upset about it too because I had even asked her about it months ago and she had brushed me off. She says apparently she didn't realize my dad was stage 4. It's pointless to be upset about I feel because at least now she's helping me with it.
I just want to feel ok again. I had all my feelings about this neatly organized and stacked and that conversation and her looks of pity just stripped me down and scattered them all.
2024.05.15 15:18 slow-bell Seems a bit short for the oil life....
 | Truck has 210 miles and the oil needs to be changed? Anyone had anything similar? Maybe Ford Pass just needs to be restarted or something? submitted by slow-bell to FordMaverickTruck [link] [comments] |
2024.05.15 15:14 LoneWolfIndia Vamsy - A true maverick
 | submitted by LoneWolfIndia to tollywood [link] [comments] https://preview.redd.it/1955409jzk0d1.png?width=500&format=png&auto=webp&s=2fb405c24b6bca840fc355d86850257c83685fa3 It's actually hard to classify Vamsy as a director, while his movies have a very aesthetic feel, he combines it with a fast paced style of narration, rapid fire dialog and a very unconventional style of movie making. That is the reason why his style of movie making was not universally liked, much before Ram Gopal Varma or Sandeep Vanga, he was the true cult director. Or one should say an auteur. His movies had his own distinctive style. good or bad, that was his trademark. And he covered different genres, from artistic( Sitara) to murder mysteries( Anveshana) to comedies( Ladies Tailor, April 1 Vidudala) to family dramas( Preminchu Pelladu). 4 His real name was Nallamilli Bavireddy and Vamsy was his pen name, that he choose for the screen too. His first movie Manchu Pallaki(1982) itself gave an indication of his talent. https://preview.redd.it/9212af7o0l0d1.png?width=736&format=png&auto=webp&s=bd3bb778eab31b04ed1018f4439a3ef7307394bd A story of 5 friends played by Chiru( in his early days), Rajendra Prasad, Saichand, Narayana Rao, Saichand and Girish( of Saptapadi) fame, whose life changes after they come in contact with Suhasini. It was a remake of the 1981 Tamizh movie Palaivana Solai, and though not a very big success, the movie gained lot of appreciation from the family audiences for it's very sensitive storytelling. It came as a breath of fresh air in Telugu cinema, that was getting saturated with routine movies. https://preview.redd.it/7nbdxyri1l0d1.png?width=220&format=png&auto=webp&s=aff15a2e23dde274ae98e624b9533d647dfc415c It was Sitara in 1984 that made everyone take notice of Vamsy, based on his own novel Mahal lo Kokila. The movie also marked Bhanu Priya's debut, as Sitara, a women on the move, who is helped by a kind hearted photographer Devadas( Subhalekha Sudhakar), and helps her to become a movie star later. However when she refuses to go to a particular village for a shooting, Devadas demands an explanation, and she recounts her rather painful past. The movie straddles two different worlds that of the Zamindaris, and their false prestige, that makes them show off as wealthy, when in reality most of them are actually paupers, and that of the movie stars, and paparazzi. There is a lot to write about this movie, but couple of things, it has the very distinctive style of K.Viswanath in many scenes, under whom Vamsy worked as an assistant director. And it began Vamsy's collaboration with Illayaraja, who would go on to compose some memorable songs for his movies later. As also the Godavari backdrop, being a native of that place, not many movie directors captured the region as well as Vamsy did, be it the natural beauty or the dialect or the traditions. It also marked a very visual style of storytelling that would be a feature of most Vamsy movies going ahead. Also the beautiful sunrise and sunset shots, along the Godavari river, contrasting it with the rather claustrophobic atmosphere of the Zamindar Chander( Sarathbabu) mahal. Sitara went on to become one of the biggest hits of that year, as Bhanupriya became a star. https://preview.redd.it/9nmnwmcd4l0d1.png?width=1920&format=png&auto=webp&s=696fd262a3a8d580539c59784d23cb7ee10c8b01 It was with Anveshana that Vamsy came into his own, developing his very distinctive style of movie making. I had already written about it here in detail, but would like to point out that much before RGV in Shiva, Vamsy used the tracking shots to very good effect here, especially in the forest scenes. https://preview.redd.it/tbj7egrt4l0d1.png?width=500&format=png&auto=webp&s=6d2230564e08a810f894758c1682812e8ab7eb96 Preminchu Pelladu Rajendra Prasad's first movie as a leading hero, dealt with the clash between old and new. Satyanarayana plays Kurmavataram, a conservative, orthodox Brahmin, who is taught a lesson in humanist values by his grandson Rajendra Prasad, and his estranged grand daughter Bhanupriya. Quite a good movie, had a memorable soundtrack by Illayaraja with songs like "Vayyari Godaramma", "Gopemmma Chethilo", "Nirantharam Vasanthamu", "Nee Chaitra Veena" remaining memorable today. His next movie Aalapana was not that great with a very disjointed narration, and trying to be a cross between an artistic movie and a thriller, fell in between. However Illayaraja's score was usual great in this movie. https://preview.redd.it/irmgr9rn5l0d1.png?width=1280&format=png&auto=webp&s=208996a17ba7472498124ade440a03b5b540a7c9 It was Ladies Tailor, that would turn out to be a true cult movie. The story of a tailor Sundaram( Rajendra Prasad) who wants to get rich quick, and follows the advice of an astrologer who predicts that a lady with a mole on her thigh would be fortunate for him. While set in the Godavari region, the narration was totally different, with more risque double meaning dialog, the typical Godavari Yaasa spoken among the working class. And characters like Battala Satyam( Mallikarjuna Rao), Sitaramudu( Subhalekha Sudhakar), the hero's sidekicks, the school teacher Sujatha( Archana), the 3 women Nagamani( Y Vijaya), Neelaveni( Sandhya), Daiya( Deepa) whom the hero chases around, the village head Venkataratnam( Pradeep Sakthi) who hates lovers after a guy duped his sister. The movie was a true cult flick, that polarized audiences, the college students, youth loved it, while the family audiences hated it. But over the years it has become a cult classic of sorts, and once again a memorable score from Illayaraja with a series of superhit songs "Gopilola", "Porabatidi", "Ekkada Ekkada", "Hayamma Hayamma". https://preview.redd.it/3s3ikjq97l0d1.png?width=220&format=png&auto=webp&s=7526167ee734cec685369b01bfe88c686a86f350 His next movie Lawyer Suhasini was a disappointment in many ways, again Maharshi was one of those "You hate it or love it" kind of movies. The story of unrequited one sided love, of the title character who pursues the woman he loves Suchitra( Shantipriya). It was the Arjun Reddy of those times, and most audiences did not like the style of narration or the rather down beat ending, as the movie flopped. It however had a great score again by Illayaraja with songs like "Sumam Prati Sumam", "Maata Raani Mounam". https://preview.redd.it/vxxwcf3z7l0d1.png?width=304&format=png&auto=webp&s=eb207b04203df4e501767e190907dfc01e2835e9 Sri Kanaka Mahalakshmi Recording Dance Troupe to me again one of his best movies ever, set against the backdrop of the recording dance troupes, with a love story thrown in between. The movie was a complete fun ride, with dialogues set in typical Godavari Yaasa, and memorable performances by Naresh, Kota, Mallikarjuna Rao, Ralapalli, Thanikella Bharani, Y.Vijaya. Great soundtrack again by Illayaraja where he also uses old songs of NTR, ANR, Krishna to good effect. https://preview.redd.it/vl0ja77k8l0d1.png?width=1242&format=png&auto=webp&s=8f976ceb266cc8734bbecc06e4261222dfa3b9b7 Chettu Kinda Pleader was another superb comic thriller, and for a change Vamsy sets the movie in Tirupathi. Remake of the Malayalam movie Thanthram, the movie has Rajendraprasad as Balaraju, a down and out lawyer, who gets to fight the case of a rich widow Sujatha( Urvasi), when her father in law Sarabayya( Gollapudi) files a suit claiming the property is his legally. Vamsy wonderfully combines comedy with drama and thriller, creating a really entertaining movie. Somehow it was not much of a success when released, but in later years has become a favorite on video, DVD. Again a superb musical score by Illayaraja with songs like "Jigijigaa", "Allibili Kalala", "Neeru gaari paari poku", "Chalti ka Naam Gaadi". https://preview.redd.it/84okdbaa9l0d1.png?width=220&format=png&auto=webp&s=5ff09b1aa067cb05ed88cb7e0affd1b9c50179e3 April 1 Vidudula would be Vamsy's last really great movie starring Rajendra Prasad as a smooth talking videographer Diwakaram, who lies, cheats his way to success. His life takes a turn when the woman he loves Bhuvaneshwari( Shobana) puts a condition that he should not tell any lies for one month, and should speak only truth, throwing everything into turmoil. Setting against backdrop of Rajahmundry Railway Quarters, the movie combines comedy and drama effectively, and went on to become one of the biggest hits in his career. Again a superb score by Illayaraja with songs like "Vompula Vaikhiri", " Nijamante", "Chukkalu Temanna", "Okate Aasa". https://preview.redd.it/dbq554xfal0d1.png?width=220&format=png&auto=webp&s=ef54473e2c9f33d2a829c57af2aaded54a2f7bc5 However Detective Narada with Mohan Babu turned out to be a huge disappointment, as the movie bombed badly. And with Joker, he stopped his collaboration with Ilayaraja and composed the music himself, which in a way started his decline. Vamsy's movies were not the same without Illayaraja, and a series of very disappointing movies followed. Even though he did make a comeback in 2002 with Avunu Vallidaru Ishtapaddaru, it was nowhere close to his earlier classics. Apart from being a director, Vamsy is also a great writer, he wrote 5 novels, and around 360 short stories in Telugu. His series of stories Maa Pasarlapudi Kathalu, Maa Diguva Godavari Kathalu are a wonderful depiction of life in rural Godavari districts, on par with RK Narayan's Malgudi Days. Not many explored Godavari districts as intimately as he did covering the world of recording dance troupe artists, railway quarters, villages, creating characters with all the quirks, eccentricities, faults who remain memorable to date. |
2024.05.15 15:12 ThrowRAdiscoball my (21f) bf (24m) is pissed because the guy i'm getting a job referral from is trying to flirt with me. how to approach the situation?
I (21F) and him (24M) are in a relationship for 9 months now. So I was recently laid off 2 weeks before and the title says it all. The company I'm considering joining right now in 1 week (interviews are over), i was referred by a guy on LinkedIn who's an ex-employee of the same. so i don't text him myself but he calls and texts me a lot asking my progress and how my interviews went. so regardless, i was planning to cut him off once i started the job because he asked to meet and treat him with food because he got me the reference but that is a bit too much outside my boundary. i wanted to keep things professional so I never mentioned my personal life to him hence the topic of me having a bf never came up. so the issue starts here - i got a call from him yesterday and he was telling perks and offsite my company hosts and how's he invited in all of them, i kept diverging the topic to health insurance etc and then the call ended shortly, immediately i called my bf who was in office that time to tell all this happened. later in the evening he told me he wanted to say it then only but he didn't. he said - I'm talking to him more when i have other relatives to ask. he told me this after i had to bug him a lot to take this out of him since he was seeming a bit off. he is pissed because i am talking to him but i am pissed because of two reasons: a. I'm more than happy to help him get out of his jealousy by whatever means possible, i even put a dp of me and him together so that the reference guy gets the hint. still, he had a sad face, and told i would also talk with a girl like this i had this anxious reaction which i didn't like. when I'm telling him to his face this is bothering me pls solve it, why can't he? and playing these mind games when i am literally jobless and sad? why couldn't he wait till i got the job to see if i still am in touch with him? [and if he was so worried about me talking and another guy trying to flirt with me, why didn't he ask his other friends/colleagues so i don't meet guys like this? ik for a fact that if he asks a girl for a referral no girl would go to the extent this guy is going for me.] b. him not coming back to normal after i ordered his fav food and tried to cuddle him so i started crying due to all the emotional build up which he said that he didn't notice. his friend had called him at 12 am to come diff apartment in the same building (where they live) to celebrate his gf's bday. then suddenly my bf's whole demeanour changed into loving 'let's go together'. is the facade really that imp for him? i denied overthinking about this and then he left me alone and went there. i had a panic attack then i called my mom to help me out with this at 1 am. he doesn't know about it. how should i approach? any advice would be appreciated! TL;DR: Been with my bf for 9 months, got laid off, and got a job referral from a guy on LinkedIn. He's been overly attentive, even asking to meet up to treat him for the reference. I planned to cut him off once I started. Then, he dropped hints about company perks and his involvement, making my bf jealous. When I confronted my bf, he acted distant, triggering a meltdown. Now, he's all excited for a friend's event. Feeling hurt and unsure how to address this mess.
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2024.05.15 15:10 ThrowRAdiscoball my (21f) bf (24m) is pissed because the guy i'm getting a job referral from is trying to flirt with me. how to approach the situation?
I (21F) and him (24M) are in a relationship for 9 months now. So I was recently laid off 2 weeks before and the title says it all. The company I'm considering joining right now in 1 week (interviews are over), i was referred by a guy on LinkedIn who's an ex-employee of the same. so i don't text him myself but he calls and texts me a lot asking my progress and how my interviews went. so regardless, i was planning to cut him off once i started the job because he asked to meet and treat him with food because he got me the reference but that is a bit too much outside my boundary. i wanted to keep things professional so I never mentioned my personal life to him hence the topic of me having a bf never came up. so the issue starts here - i got a call from him yesterday and he was telling perks and offsite my company hosts and how's he invited in all of them, i kept diverging the topic to health insurance etc and then the call ended shortly, immediately i called my bf who was in office that time to tell all this happened. later in the evening he told me he wanted to say it then only but he didn't. he said - I'm talking to him more when i have other relatives to ask. he told me this after i had to bug him a lot to take this out of him since he was seeming a bit off. he is pissed because i am talking to him but i am pissed because of two reasons: a. I'm more than happy to help him get out of his jealousy by whatever means possible, i even put a dp of me and him together so that the reference guy gets the hint. still, he had a sad face, and told i would also talk with a girl like this i had this anxious reaction which i didn't like. when I'm telling him to his face this is bothering me pls solve it, why can't he? and playing these mind games when i am literally jobless and sad? why couldn't he wait till i got the job to see if i still am in touch with him? [and if he was so worried about me talking and another guy trying to flirt with me, why didn't he ask his other friends/colleagues so i don't meet guys like this? ik for a fact that if he asks a girl for a referral no girl would go to the extent this guy is going for me.] b. him not coming back to normal after i ordered his fav food and tried to cuddle him so i started crying due to all the emotional build up which he said that he didn't notice. his friend had called him at 12 am to come diff apartment in the same building (where they live) to celebrate his gf's bday. then suddenly my bf's whole demeanour changed into loving 'let's go together'. is the facade really that imp for him? i denied overthinking about this and then he left me alone and went there. i had a panic attack then i called my mom to help me out with this at 1 am. he doesn't know about it. how should i approach? any advice would be appreciated! TL;DR: Been with my bf for 9 months, got laid off, and got a job referral from a guy on LinkedIn. He's been overly attentive, even asking to meet up to treat him for the reference. I planned to cut him off once I started. Then, he dropped hints about company perks and his involvement, making my bf jealous. When I confronted my bf, he acted distant, triggering a meltdown. Now, he's all excited for a friend's event. Feeling hurt and unsure how to address this mess.
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2024.05.15 15:09 srikobatteries DALY Smart BMS 4S 12V 200A Lithium ion Battery Protection Module
 | https://preview.redd.it/3a2wkijlal0d1.jpg?width=940&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=e0055a11628eb54b0fef7bc8da4ff81449673388 submitted by srikobatteries to u/srikobatteries [link] [comments] In the world of energy storage, lithium-ion batteries have become a cornerstone for various applications, from electric vehicles to renewable energy systems. However, to ensure these batteries operate safely and efficiently, a reliable Battery Management System (BMS) is essential. Enter the DALY Smart BMS 4S 12V 200A – a game-changer in lithium-ion battery protection and management. What is the DALY Smart BMS 4S 12V 200A? The DALY Smart BMS (Battery Management System) 4S 12V 200A is designed to manage and protect lithium-ion batteries, particularly those configured in a 4-series (4S) arrangement, which typically provides a nominal voltage of 12V. This BMS is engineered to handle a continuous current of up to 200A, making it suitable for high-power applications. Key Features and Benefits 1. Comprehensive Battery Protection The primary function of any BMS is to protect the battery pack from various potential issues. The DALY Smart BMS excels in this regard with multiple layers of protection, including: Overcharge Protection: Prevents the battery cells from being overcharged, which can lead to overheating and potential damage. Over-discharge Protection: Ensures that the cells are not discharged below a safe voltage, extending their lifespan. Overcurrent Protection: Safeguards the battery from excessive current draw, which can cause overheating and damage. Short Circuit Protection: Instantly cuts off power in the event of a short circuit to prevent damage to the battery and connected devices. Temperature Protection: Monitors the battery temperature and disconnects the power if the temperature exceeds safe limits. 2. High Current Handling Capability With a 200A continuous current rating, the DALY Smart BMS is ideal for applications requiring significant power delivery, such as electric vehicles, solar energy storage systems, and high-performance power tools. This capability ensures your battery pack can deliver the necessary power without compromising safety or efficiency. 3. Smart Monitoring and Control The DALY Smart BMS offers intelligent monitoring and control features that provide real-time data on the battery’s status. This includes: Cell Voltage Monitoring: Tracks the voltage of each cell to ensure balanced charging and discharging. Current Monitoring: Measures the current flow to and from the battery pack. Temperature Monitoring: Keeps an eye on the battery’s temperature to prevent overheating. These features are accessible through a user-friendly interface, allowing for easy monitoring and diagnostics. 4. Enhanced Battery Life By maintaining optimal charging and discharging conditions, the DALY Smart BMS significantly extends the lifespan of your lithium-ion batteries. Balanced charging ensures that all cells are evenly charged, preventing the degradation that occurs when cells are imbalanced. 5. Ease of Installation and Integration The DALY Smart BMS is designed for easy installation and integration into existing battery systems. Its compact design and clear labeling simplify the setup process, whether you are an individual hobbyist or a professional installer. Applications of the DALY Smart BMS 4S 12V 200A The versatility of the DALY Smart BMS makes it suitable for a wide range of applications: Electric Vehicles (EVs): Ensures the battery pack delivers consistent power and remains protected under high load conditions. Solar Energy Storage: Manages home solar battery systems, optimizing energy storage and usage. Marine Applications: Provides reliable power management for electric boats and marine equipment. Uninterruptible Power Supplies (UPS): Ensures backup power systems are reliable and ready when needed. Portable Power Stations: Ideal for high-capacity power banks and mobile energy solutions. Investing in a high-quality Battery Management System like the DALY Smart BMS 4S 12V 200A is crucial for anyone relying on lithium-ion batteries. Its comprehensive protection features, high current handling capability, smart monitoring, and ease of integration make it the perfect choice for enhancing the performance and longevity of your battery systems. Whether you’re powering an electric vehicle, storing solar energy, or running high-demand electronics, the DALY Smart BMS ensures your batteries operate safely and efficiently. Contact 📞+𝟭 𝟳𝟳𝟵-𝟳𝟳𝟬-𝟯𝟭𝟬𝟵 🌐 www.srikobatteries.com 📧kruthala@srikobatteries.com 🌍1585 Beverly CT, Unit 121, Auror |
2024.05.15 15:09 Joleleyin Hereditary diseases in human
 | https://preview.redd.it/t1mrip0nal0d1.jpg?width=5000&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=c653c7dc902358ccb79666541a43a82922dac170 submitted by Joleleyin to RXPRBLOG [link] [comments] Many human diseases are caused by microorganisms — bacteria, viruses and fungi, which, penetrating into our body, break its normal functioning. However, some diseases affect their victim already at the moment of the merger of the sperm with the egg, when a new life only emerges. These are hereditary diseases. They got their name because they are transmitted to children from their parents along with chromosomes — blocks of genetic information stored in cells. These include blood diseases such as hemophilia, Down syndrome, cystic fibrosis and color blindness. Unfortunately, the list of hereditary diseases is very big. Inherited diseases are congenital defects, but they should not be confused with non-hereditary illnesses such as heart disease or deformation of the limbs that are caused by disorders during the period of prenatal development. All hereditary features of a person — the color of hair and eyes, the blood type, the shape of the nose and teeth, the drawing of papillary lines on the fingers and to some extent the growth, intelligence and temperament — are determined by a set of chromosomes in the fertilized egg, which consists of 46 chromosomes grouped in 23 pairs. Each pair is unique in shape and size and visible only under a powerful microscope. Sex cells — male sperm and female ovum — have only 23 chromosomes, that is, half the set. At the moment of fertilization, the chromosomes of the future dad merge in pairs with the ones that belong to the mom. In the process of the formation of germ cells, the genetic information of the chromosomes of each pair is mixed. As a result, from each sperm and egg, unique chromosome sets are formed, the variety of which is infinite. That is why every person in his or her own way is unique, and, say, the older sister inherits from the father the shape of the nose and the color of hair, and the younger looks more like the mother. Only in exactly identical twins genetic information is identical. However, even in this case, there are minimal differences between them, for example, different fingerprints. Each chromosome contains many thousands of genes, or miniature blocks of genetic information that determine one or another characteristic. For example, the gene that defines the color of the eyes carries one of two pieces of information — either blue eyes or brown. When two different genes meet, one of them usually becomes the main one. The gene that “won” is called dominant, and the one that “lost” is recessive. The gene responsible for the brown eyes dominates the one that is responsible for the blue. A child, who inherits a brown-and-blue pair of genes, will have brown eyes. The pair "brown-brown" gives brown eyes, and the pair "blue-blue" — blue. If the color of the eyes is determined by one pair of genes, then characteristics such as growth are controlled by many genes, although other factors, including nutrition or exercise, also strongly affect our growth. Most common hereditary diseases are associated with only one pair of genes. The emergence of hereditary diseases is due to two main causes. The first and most common — absent or abnormal gene. The other cause of hereditary diseases is the presence of the wrong amount of the chromosomes in the gene. Since the carriers of the genes — the chromosomes — are coupled in pairs, the absence of one or another gene means that another gene from the incomplete pair starts acting. This fact may or may not be the cause of the diseases, depending on what task this gene performs. So, the lack of a gene responsible for the color of the hair will not cause serious consequences. Inheriting an abnormal gene from one parent is dangerous only if it dominates the healthy. The cause for one of the most famous hereditary diseases — Down syndrome — is the wrong amount of chromosomes in the cells. Patients with this disease are characterized by their appearance: a round face, wide nose bridge and slant upwards eyes, short fingers and muscle weakness. They often suffer from mental impairment and have difficulty in learning. In each cell of the body of these patients 47 chromosomes instead of 46. In addition to chromosomal anomalies, the cells can also affect mutations of genes. They often lead to the formation of enzymes that produce genes, and as a consequence, to the abnormalities in the functioning of cells. The end result of such a mutation depends on the normal role of this enzyme — for example, pigmentation or growth. But since almost all genes form pairs, a normal twin gene can mask the development of an abnormal gene for defective enzymes. Such genes are called recessive. To produce a noticeable effect, they must be present in double amount. There is another, much more rare hereditary diseases cause — the presence of an abnormal gene. Not being part of a chromosomal set of parents, it is still present in their sperm or egg cells. Achondroplasia — a kind of dwarfism — is due to the presence of a dominant gene in one of the chromosomes, which controls the growth of bones. Sex-linked hereditary diseases One of 23 pairs of chromosomes contains genes that are responsible for sexual characteristics. Women have two X chromosomes, and men have X and Y chromosomes, of which Y is slightly smaller than X. Some hereditary disorders are due to the presence of a wrong amount of sex chromosomes — in some cells, the combination of XXY or XYY may be present. Carriers of the XXY combination often suffer from underdevelopment of reproductive organs and infertility. The combination of XYY leads to less severe anomalies. The carriers can have children and vary in height, but they still lag behind in mental development. The cause of hemophilia and color blindness is a defective recessive gene bound to X chromosome. Therefore, these hereditary diseases are commonly found in men. Y chromosome does not have a normal dominant gene capable of suppressing the effect of a defective gene, and women suffer from these diseases only if they inherit the defective X chromosome from both parents. Diseases, such as hemophilia, are transmitted from generation to generation, and physicians have learned to determine which parents can give birth to children with hereditary illness. Genetic abnormalities affect about 1% of all newborns. But if a couple already has a child with a genetic defect, the risk of predisposition to hereditary diseases in the second child is much higher than in other kids. Scientists are constantly looking for ways to replace or correct abnormal chromosomes, and in the future hopefully we will learn to prevent many hereditary diseases by changing the genetic information contained in the sperm and female egg. |
2024.05.15 15:06 AblePost7537 What is an Kentucky FHA Loan?
FHA Loan?
The FHA collects a one-time upfront mortgage insurance premium (UFMIP). This premium needs to be entirely financed into the mortgage or paid in full at closing. Additionally, there is an annual mortgage insurance premium, also called monthly MIP, which is collected in monthly installments.
The annual mortgage insurance amount depends on factors such as the loan-to-value ratio (LTV), down payment size, and mortgage term length. Lenders calculate the annual payment as a percentage of the base loan value.
On the other hand, the annual premium is a recurring cost that you need to pay as a part of your monthly mortgage payment. The amount of the annual premium may vary depending on factors such as the loan term, loan amount, and loan-to-value ratio (LTV).
Oftentimes, with credit improvement and an increase in home equity (at least 80% loan-to-value), borrowers with FHA loans opt to refinance to a conventional loan program. This helps eliminate the monthly mortgage insurance premium portion of the monthly mortgage payment.
The FHA collects a one-time upfront mortgage insurance premium (UFMIP). This premium needs to be entirely financed into the mortgage or paid in full at closing. Additionally, there is an annual mortgage insurance premium, also called monthly MIP, which is collected in monthly installments.
The annual mortgage insurance amount depends on factors such as the loan-to-value ratio (LTV), down payment size, and mortgage term length. Lenders calculate the annual payment as a percentage of the base loan value.
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Are you considering a home purchase in Kentucky ? If so, then a Kentucky FHA loan might be for you. This Kentucky FHA Mortgage guide will provide you with all the FHA loan information you need to buy a home in Kentucky using the FHA loan program
What Is A Kentucky FHA Loan?
If you’re looking to buy a home but have limited funds for a down payment or a lower credit score, then an Kentucky FHA loan might be a good option for you. This is a type of a Kentucky mortgage insured by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA), which allows Kentucky FHA lenders to be more flexible with their requirements for borrowers who may not meet traditional criteria.How do Kentucky FHA loans work?
KEntucky FHA loans are a government-backed program which makes homeownership more accessible through more lenient lending requirements. With an FHA loan, a borrower could put down as little as 3.5% if their credit score is at least 580, or 10% if their credit score is at least 500. Nevertheless, there is a trade-off; regardless of the amount you put down, there is a requirement to pay for mortgage insurance upfront and monthly premiums and it is for life of loanThe FHA collects a one-time upfront mortgage insurance premium (UFMIP). This premium needs to be entirely financed into the mortgage or paid in full at closing. Additionally, there is an annual mortgage insurance premium, also called monthly MIP, which is collected in monthly installments.
The annual mortgage insurance amount depends on factors such as the loan-to-value ratio (LTV), down payment size, and mortgage term length. Lenders calculate the annual payment as a percentage of the base loan value.
Benefits Of Kentucky FHA Loan
There are several key benefits that make Kentucky FHA loans an attractive option. Here are a few of the benefits:- Low to zero down Down Payments: FHA loans are designed to help borrowers with limited funds for down payments. Specifically, if your credit score is above 580, you could qualify for a down payment of 3.5%.
- Flexible Credit Requirements: FHA loans have lower credit score requirements compared to conventional loans. Even with a credit score as low as 500, you may qualify with a 10% down payment.
- Lower Debt-to-Income Ratio (DTI): Compared to conventional loans, FHA loans typically allow borrowers with higher levels of debt to still qualify by allowing a higher Debt-to-Income Ratio (DTI).
- Gift Funds and Grants: You could leverage gift funds and grants from family or approved organizations to contribute towards your down payment.
Kentucky FHA Loan Requirements
To be eligible for an Kentucky FHA loan there are some specific requirements you must meet. Here is an overview of these requirements:FHA Loan Down Payment
The amount you’ll need to pay as a down payment on an FHA loan depends on your credit score. If your credit score is 580 or higher, then you could pay as little as 3.5% of the loan amount. However, if your credit score falls between 500 and 579, you’ll need to pay a larger down payment of 10%. If you’re short on funds, there are several DPA programs available which could help for Kentucky Homebuyers with zero down payments to get into a house.!Kentucky FHA Mortgage Insurance Premiums
All FHA borrowers, no matter how much of a down payment they make, must purchase both upfront and annual mortgage insurance.WHAT DOES KENTUCKY FHA MORTGAGE INSURANCE COVER ON YOUR HOME LOAN?
Kentucky FHA mortgage insurance protects lenders in case you, the borrower, default on your mortgage. This allows lenders to offer FHA loans with lower down payments and potentially less strict credit score requirements. Essentially, it mitigates the lender’s risk, making Kentucky FHA loans more accessible to first-time homebuyers or those with limited savings.HOW MUCH IS FHA MORTGAGE INSURANCE?
FHA mortgage insurance has two components – an upfront premium and an annual premium. The upfront premium is a one-time payment that you need to make at the time of loan closing, and it amounts to 1.75% of the loan amount.On the other hand, the annual premium is a recurring cost that you need to pay as a part of your monthly mortgage payment. The amount of the annual premium may vary depending on factors such as the loan term, loan amount, and loan-to-value ratio (LTV).
Oftentimes, with credit improvement and an increase in home equity (at least 80% loan-to-value), borrowers with FHA loans opt to refinance to a conventional loan program. This helps eliminate the monthly mortgage insurance premium portion of the monthly mortgage payment.
HOW TO CALCULATE KENTUCKY FHA MORTGAGE INSURANCE
To calculate your Kentucky FHA Mortgage Insurance, you can either use the HUD Calculator or follow these simple steps using your specific information:- Determine the amount of your loan.
- Calculate your loan-to-value (LTV) ratio by dividing the loan amount by the appraised value of the home.
- Find the annual MIP rate based on your LTV ratio and loan term. You can find this information on the HUD website
- Multiply the loan amount by the annual MIP rate to get the annual MIP amount.
- FHA Loan?
Are you considering a home purchase in Kentucky ? If so, then a Kentucky FHA loan might be for you. This Kentucky FHA Mortgage guide will provide you with all the FHA loan information you need to buy a home in Kentucky using the FHA loan program
What Is A Kentucky FHA Loan?
If you’re looking to buy a home but have limited funds for a down payment or a lower credit score, then an Kentucky FHA loan might be a good option for you. This is a type of a Kentucky mortgage insured by the Federal Housing Administration (FHA), which allows Kentucky FHA lenders to be more flexible with their requirements for borrowers who may not meet traditional criteria.How do Kentucky FHA loans work?
KEntucky FHA loans are a government-backed program which makes homeownership more accessible through more lenient lending requirements. With an FHA loan, a borrower could put down as little as 3.5% if their credit score is at least 580, or 10% if their credit score is at least 500. Nevertheless, there is a trade-off; regardless of the amount you put down, there is a requirement to pay for mortgage insurance upfront and monthly premiums and it is for life of loanThe FHA collects a one-time upfront mortgage insurance premium (UFMIP). This premium needs to be entirely financed into the mortgage or paid in full at closing. Additionally, there is an annual mortgage insurance premium, also called monthly MIP, which is collected in monthly installments.
The annual mortgage insurance amount depends on factors such as the loan-to-value ratio (LTV), down payment size, and mortgage term length. Lenders calculate the annual payment as a percentage of the base loan value.
2024.05.15 15:06 desertgodfather Hello
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